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Dear Jzhane,

I need your help. Hide my details. I probably will get a lot of backlash for my story but I do need help as I am certain I have made a huge mistake by getting married to my husband. I was in a relationship with someone for six years. It was not perfect at all. There were a lot of issues. Cheating being the peak of it all. Several times we broke up and came back…I do not know why but I think I couldn’t find someone to love me as he did or maybe…I was just confused by love..

However,this circle was finally broken about four years ago. I mean,I broke up with him after catching him red handed. I was done. I left in tears and really heart broken. I am a sucker for love. I was too shaken by the breakup. Within a month,a friend introduced me to an army officer: a colonel who was looking for a wife. Because I was too heartbroken,I did not even bother to find out more about him. I just wanted to move on.

I agreed to.....


https://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-rushed-into-marriage-because-i-was-heartbroken/

A certain Nigerian couple with the nick names, ‘His Peace’ and ‘Her Rock’ are presently melting hearts online following their difference in body size

See their lovely photos:


https://livelystones.com.ng/plus-size-bride-trending-online-shows-off-wedding-photos/

Dear Jzhane,

Keep me anonymous please. I have been married for over seven years . I am married to a man that is always on the move. My husbands job as a Pilot seemed very exciting at first but I realized it meant he would be less and less at home.

I used to look forward to the time he was off duty so we can spend time together . That made up for the many weeks or even months of being away. I practically raised my kids by myself .It was hard but bearable because I loved my husband and I was ready to sacrifice for our family.

But something changed around the fifth year of our marriage. I noticed he was coming home less. He said his days off were even required by the airline because they were short of pilots. I didn’t like that but I still supported him .

Then, I noticed ....



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-need-deliverance-from-this-sad-and-lonely-prison-i-call-marriage/

Happy new friends, may this year 2019 be your best year ever in Jesus name amen

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But, is it advisable to buy fidelity at it current price?

Mcy56:
As @ now:
FBN btw 7.45 - 7.80 /Fidelity 2.01 /CON Oil 23.30 /FCMB 1.85 ......look before you leap.

God bless you abundantly. Happy new year in advance

Mcy56:
As @ now:
FBN btw 7.45 - 7.80 /Fidelity 2.01 /CON Oil 23.30 /FCMB 1.85 ......look before you leap.

Good day house and compliment of the period.

Pls what are the Price's of

FBN
Fidelity
CON Oil
FCMB

Thanks

Yet the govt will never do anything, you will even see more time bomb tankers on our roads. Only in this country such happens and everyone rant on social media and that all.what a pity.

RIP to those who lost their lives

Pls send your original one

ednut1:
Op dont carry ur fake stories into 2019 abeg

So inspiring!

Good day ma,
I have a male friend, we’ve been together for sometime now but he hasn’t defined the friendship. When we were trying to know each other one of the things he told me was that he likes someone that reads between the lines so I kept mute about him not defining the relationship.
However, he was so into me but I had a problem of concluding things fast,maybe seeing him with a lady and concluding he’s dating her but he’ll come back and say otherwise as I wasn’t able to change on that he started drifting away, this time I started going after him to tell him or make him know I’ll change… I concluded on letting him go but one thing led to the other we made love and is kinda hard to let go…
Recently he lost a huge amount of money…even though I want to leave him but I think he needs me now cos is telling so much on him.. I try helping him out on little things like monthly subscription and he always thinks I should know he’s broke,maybe telling him to call me,but he’ll be mute making me think I should know he has no money on him…

Yesterday I tried talking to him about him not loving me but he explained that he is not fashioned that way. He said he is sure that someone else would love me the way I want. This made me so sad. I love him so much and I did not want to loose him. So,I told him I was pregnant.

He came to see me later and asked me to have an abortion. I later revealed that I was not truly pregnant. I actually told him...more




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-tried-to-fix-him-cos-he-loves-me-but-he-is-emotionally-unavailable/

This morning,Popular blogger woke the internet with pictures of her baby and also revealed the identity of her baby’s father. See reveal and pictures below:

https://livelystones.com.ng/linda-ikeji-reveals-baby-daddy-and-baby-pictures-for-the-first-time/

Good day ma’am,
My name is Favor (Not real name). I have been in relationship for the past 4 years. I am Ifelodun by tribe from Kwara and the guy is Bogoro from Bauchi State. We met during my second year in the university in Bauchi State and we have been together since then.
The guy is good to me in every aspect of my life and he is always there for me when I needed him. A year after the relationship, I brought it to the notice of my parents and they didn’t object but my dad complained of distance which was later settled. The guy on the other hand did the same and with time we introduced ourselves to our parents.
I have been talking over the phone with his mum and sister (his dad is late) and he has been talking to my parents too but not to my brothers. Later on I got to meet his mum in person. We talked, she ask about me, my studies etc of which I told her and she didn’t show any expression of hate towards me but ever since then she seized from calling or picking my calls.
Ma,I told her son and he said its nothing. At times in the north parents don’t like to get so close to a lady they are yet to marry. I didn’t object but was still in touch with his sister. When I proceeded to my fourth year, he began to talk about marriage with me. Then I discussed with my parents about it.
From the part of the country I came from, parents likes to pray or ask about their parents success in all their endeavor and especially when taking a step ahead. So when they did that, they told me that ‘me getting married to the guy will bring nothing but bad omen because his mum don’t like me and will do what ever it takes her to prevent me from marrying his son or making his son divorce Me even after marriage because....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/help-me-my-family-seeing-visions-that-my-marriage-will-not-work/

Hmnn

Hmnnn

Dear Jzhane,

Please help me decide. I also want members of the house (whats app group)to help me look into this matter. I have been dating this lady for like four months now. But my mother does not like her because of something that happened like two months after we started dating.

Me and my younger brother are my mother’s only children from a polygamous home. We are quite close to my mum cos my dad did not treat her well and he passed on 12 years ago. So,we treat our mum not just like our mom but like she is our babe,you know.

On my phone,my mom has two nos…one is saved as my sweetheart..the other..my hot bae…this usually startles people when they see the calls from my mom. However,the first time my new girlfriend saw my mother’s call,she flipped and picked up the call and rained curses on her even before my mom could say hello…she said all kinds of horrible things…slut,boyfriend snatcher..etc

Eventually,when she realized her mistake,she was very apologetic. In fact....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-mother-thinks-my-girlfriend-is-not-wife-material/

Hmnnnn life!

Editor’s note:

A few days ago,we brought you a story about a woman who suspects her husband had s*xual affairs with her maid. Click here to read the story here if you missed it. Now,this lady has updates from the responses she got from you and us. Please read her update and share your thoughts in the comment section below.

Thank you,


Jzhane



Hello Ma,

So sorry to disturb you again. I am not feeling happy and I am truly confused on what to do. I did as you and your readers advised. I confronted my husband about what I read in the girl’s diary. He feigned innocence and said he wonders why she wrote that in her diary. I asked him if he actually had s*x or raped her and he said never.

He then said,he will talk to the girl. I asked him why talk to the girl when I am the one who should talk to the girl. Well,he went ahead and did talk to the girl. After,he said he has talked to the girl and that she said its not true. This made me call the girl and asked her to tell me in my husband’s presence and my presence..

To my surprise or not surprise..she.....more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-pray-for-himtake-care-of-himwhat-else-am-i-supposed-to-do-pt-2/

Good afternoon ma,

I just discovered something today and I have been crying ever since. I got a house help about eight months ago because I could not cope with the house chores when my third child was born. My husband was not ready to help me and I was at the point of breaking down.

In short,I actually broke down a few times before I finally made up my mind to get help. So,I got a woman’s daughter that lives not far from us….she is 18 years old. She was awaiting her JAMB results to come and so she decided to work as a house help while she was waiting to get admission to school.

This girl has been a huge blessing to me until recently. She works and helps clean everywhere clean. About two weeks ago,while in the kitchen with her,she said that she had a dream where my husband came and raped her. I was quite disturbed at this. So,I asked her if he has ever done anything s*xual with her. She said no. I tried to comfort her telling her that my husband will never do such a thing. I mean,my husband is a very godly man.

So,you can imagine my surprise this morning,my husband went out with her to go and get some groceries for the house from the supermarket. While at home,I do not know what pushed me but I went to this girl’s room and ......more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-pray-for-himtake-care-of-himwhat-else-am-i-supposed-to-do/

Good day ma,

Please I need your advice. I noticed something last week as we went for wedding of a mutual friend. AJ and I have been friends since Uni. She is married with kids to a cool guy. Though we live in different parts of town,we try to keep in touch once in a while. Ify’s wedding last Saturday was an opportunity for us to bond.

Myself and my husband were excited to see AJ and her husband. We sat at the same table during the church wedding and reception. At church,I sensed a tension between AJ and her husband. I tried to mind my business but at the reception,I noticed AJ was insulting her husband in public.

The man tried to keep a straight face when AJ called him a fool but my husband and I could not hide our shock. I asked AJ why she did that and she told me not to worry. I asked my friend to apologize to her husband and she said,over her dead body. It became awkward sitting with the man. He just faked a smile and said,its ok,that they have a small issue and that they will deal with it later.

After the wedding,I drew my friend aside and scolded her for the embarrassment she meted to her husband. It was at the point....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-insults-her-husband-in-public-does-he-deserve-it/

hmnnn

sanpipita:
Assuming the story is true, you can get a divorce let your husband go finish what he started

Christian maturity is in words. Mind your choice of word. No true Christian will attack his fellow Christian brother in public. Study your bible and ask the holy spirit for guidance

INDUSTRIALFAN:
epp us ask o... And the way all these guys are quick to insult if you question their pastors, you'll wonder if they take insult lessons in church and they just feel they will surely make heaven. I'm a Christian but one who thinks and not just follow some set of rules blindly.

Yes she apologies to calm every nerves. Am sure her husband is even wondering the way people are taking the matter just as i am

Friend01:
She has apologized.
And let bygones be bygones.
To err is human to forgive is divine.