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RomanceShould I Propose On Valentine’s Day Or Wait A Little More? by Beke2020(op): 6:07pm On Feb 14, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Today was supposed to be the day I propose to my girlfriend of 19 months. I love Ada so much but she is very annoying sometimes. I do not know if it is the age difference (she is 29, I am 36). Being in a relationship with her has had its up and downs. Ada is fun and kind but she sometimes gets a loose mouth. What do I mean: she tends to say things that can be hurtful without realizing it. She makes bad jokes and I have cautioned her several times.

Ada blames her mouth to the way she was raised. She grew up in Warri amidst serious and tough life conditions. I can understand that the way she talks sometimes mean no harm but I find them not good especially for a woman. Ada has called me a goat before. I hear her call people things like :Idiot or even laugh and say someone is crazy.

Another thing is she likes to argue. Sometimes blindly. And that makes it .......



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RomanceRe: My Future Wife Has A Different Idea On Marital S*x by Beke2020(op): 6:09pm On Feb 12, 2019
Hmnnn
RomanceI Went Through A Horrible Marriage-how Do I Avoid Another Mistake? by Beke2020(op): 6:09pm On Feb 12, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my name when you post this. I am a divorcee. I did not plan to be one but here I am,at 34,I left my marriage because I was constantly being threatened by my ex husband and his mother. When I met him,he was sweet,I had just relocated from the UK. We met at a business meeting. We clicked,dated for two years and got married.

What I did not realize though was that his mother was against me because of where I come from. Even though we are Easterners but different states and to her,I was not good enough. It did not help that I am not a conventional Nigerian woman. I am educated and well traveled,the fact that I have an opinion in matters seemed to annoy her. She felt I was too opinionated.

So,even though,dating was sweet,marriage was not......



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RomanceMy Future Wife Has A Different Idea On Marital S*x by Beke2020(op): 10:00pm On Feb 11, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I need your help and that of well meaning members of LS to help me look into this matter. I am in love with a beautiful lady. We have been dating for almost a year and frankly speaking,I was sure I was ready to take it to the next level until a recent revelation. Before this lady agreed to date me,I finished all the saliva in my mouth,I ran out of words to say,I mean,she was tough,she really played hard to get but that was what intrigued me about her.

Barbie (not real name) is a smart and intelligent woman. We met at a church program. She came with a friend to our church and her friend introduced her to me. From then,I started to chase her. Barbie is a very strict and spiritual lady. She made it clear that she does not do casual dating. She wanted a commitment that would lead to marriage eventually. She made it clear that she was hesitant to date me cos .....



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RomanceRe: My Baby Mama Does Not Want Marriage To Tie Her Down by Beke2020(op): 8:39am On Feb 11, 2019
cool
RomanceRe: I Tried To Keep My Dream Job But I Made An Emotional Mistake by Beke2020: 8:36am On Feb 11, 2019
Hmnnn
RomanceMy Baby Mama Does Not Want Marriage To Tie Her Down by Beke2020(op): 10:42pm On Feb 10, 2019
Hello LivelyStones,

I started reading your blog and some other Nigerian blogs shortly before I became incarcerated. I have a Nigerian baby mama whom I have been with for over seven years. We have a daughter and I love them both so much. I made a huge mistake,that is why I am going to prison for three years.

Just before I went to jail,I asked my baby mama to marry me. I love her and I think it was the right thing to do cos I did not want to go to jail without making her my wife. But shockingly,she declined my proposal. She said she did not want to be tied down by marriage because she felt I should have proposed to her early on before the prison sentence. She did not think I proposed cos Iloved her but cos I was afraid …maybe she is right but…

Truth be told,I know that being with someone for 8 years is a long time but I was hoping for the right time to do it. I guess that right time will never be. But for her to reject my proposal was a total let down. I felt bad but she said she would wait for me and when I get back after three years,we can carry on from there.

Its been like five months since my incarceration. She has only.....



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RomanceRe: Exhausted & Desperate Wife Plots To Stop Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 5:58pm On Feb 09, 2019
cool
RomanceRe: I Do Not See Any Future In My Relationship: Please Help! by Beke2020(op): 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2019
grin
dreamwords:
By the time you reach 37, you will be begging everything to come andarty u
RomanceRe: My Fiancee & I Do Not See Eye To Eye Anymore: Please Help! by Beke2020: 11:43pm On Feb 08, 2019
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RomanceRe: Exhausted & Desperate Wife Plots To Stop Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 11:40pm On Feb 08, 2019
LivelyStones Relationship & Emotional Support Group


Do you have a relationship story to share?
You can Call us on 08029870309 and someone will counsel with you for free*

Guided By Rules, Strictly For Relationship issues

Welcome to join the most amazing but unique WhatsApp group where we share true life stories and members contributes including *Jzhane* provides professional advise

LS borne out of tge need to provide emotional support without *Judging you*

Invite friends and like minds �

Group link. Share with friends

https:///D71sGamxetQ6VKkKbRHdbk
RomanceRe: I Do Not See Any Future In My Relationship: Please Help! by Beke2020(op): 11:39pm On Feb 08, 2019
*LivelyStones Relationship & Emotional Support Group*


Do you have a relationship story to share?
*You can Call us on 08029870309 and someone will counsel with you for free*

*Guided By Rules, Strictly For Relationship issues*

Welcome to join the most amazing but unique WhatsApp group where we share true life stories and members contributes including *Jzhane* provides professional advise

LS borne out of tge need to provide emotional support without *Judging you*

Invite friends and like minds �

*Group link. Share with friends*

https:///D71sGamxetQ6VKkKbRHdbk
RomanceI Do Not See Any Future In My Relationship: Please Help! by Beke2020(op): 5:58pm On Feb 08, 2019
Good day ma’am,

I am 27 years old . I am currently serving in one of the eastern states of Nigeria. I met a fine young man here and I fell in love with him. I have never been so in love with a person like this. He treats me very well,makes me laugh,good chemistry and he wants to marry me.

The only problem is,he does not have a job yet. He is 29,a graduate but no job. So,he drives a keke (tricycle) to sustain himself but he does not make so much money. He says his dream is to make music but its very hard to make it in the entertainment industry. The small money he makes,he puts into studio sessions to make music.

I really want to be with him but......


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RomanceRe: Exhausted & Desperate Wife Plots To Stop Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 5:54pm On Feb 08, 2019
Hmn
RomanceExhausted & Desperate Wife Plots To Stop Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 8:54pm On Feb 07, 2019
Hi Admin,

Dr. Alake (not real name) has been our family doctor for more than nine years. He is the one that usually administers various tests for any domestic staff coming to work for us. and usually,the tests are very comprehensive. They range from HIV,to Tuberculosis to Hepatitis,etc. This time around,he called me and informed me that the young lady that I was just about to employ as a caregiver was Hepatitis B positive!

I listened on the other end of the phone as he told me the risks of the disease and he advised me not to employ the girl. But my mind was thinking about something else and that is what I am about to share to you all this morning. Please admin,hide my name. I have been married for 9 years now. For the first four years,I tried to get pregnant in vain but....


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InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 10:03pm On Feb 05, 2019
God bless you, I got something from all of your contribution.
ihedioramma:
TRUTH. There is people who bought FBNH @ #35+ and never sell tham because they no what they have grin
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 10:02pm On Feb 05, 2019
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Agbalowomeri:
If I were in your shoes I would wait till they declare the dividend, conoil usually moves around mid-year I guess
No guaranty that the next coy you reinvest would make better returns, my humble opinion
Thanks so much
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 7:41pm On Feb 05, 2019
Good evening house, pls I need your advise.
I bought 20,600 units of Con Oil in 2017 at N49. However, the price has remained below N25 in the last few months.

It is advisable to sell at the current price at loss now and re-invest the proceed in other stock?

Thank you all
RomanceRe: She Is Demanding A Blood Covenant To Prove My Faithfulness by Beke2020(op): 4:00pm On Feb 02, 2019
cooldat is true
princfred:
Both of them will never have peace in the relationship nor enjoy another relationship if for a reason they eventually break up.
RomanceRe: To Err Is Human But This Betrayal Is Too Much For Me To Handle by Beke2020(op): 3:59pm On Feb 02, 2019
cool cool
RomanceRe: My Elder Sister Is Blaming Me For Her Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 3:59pm On Feb 02, 2019
Hmnnn
RomanceMy Elder Sister Is Blaming Me For Her Husband’s Infidelity by Beke2020(op): 9:42pm On Feb 01, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I am seriously furious and I need someone to talk to me and tell me what to do. My elder sister has been married for four years but she and her husband has been having issues from day one. Most of their issues is based on the fact that the husband is a serial cheater. I think she knew before she got married to him. She was actually pregnant so she had no choice but to get married.

However,what I did not envisage is that someone close to me will take advantage of their situation. Its painful enough to watch my sister live in this kind of marriage but for my best friend to be making it worse is beyond me. Yes,I found out that my best friend is dating my sister’s husband. Recently,my best friend’s behavior changed.Anytime her phone rang,she would .....


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RomanceRe: I Trusted Her With My Secrets But She Blew It All Up by Beke2020(op): 9:39pm On Feb 01, 2019
grin
kingemzy5:
You are a man of integrity indeed just like Buhari
RomanceRe: She Is Demanding A Blood Covenant To Prove My Faithfulness by Beke2020(op): 9:37pm On Feb 01, 2019
huh Madness!!
QueenSuccubus:
undecided

So, if you get into this "blood covenant", what gonna happen next?
RomanceI Trusted Her With My Secrets But She Blew It All Up by Beke2020(op): 8:44pm On Feb 01, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

Your candid advise and that of the house is needed to help me sort this issue with my girlfriend. I have been with Jess (not real name) for a little over a year.One thing about me is,I am a man of integrity so when I am in any relationship,I am committed to it to the fullest. I also expect full honesty and trust.

In my past,I had done some things which I am not proud of and I am not ready to talk about but I told my girlfriend because I wanted us to know about each other’s past and ensure we have no secret about each other. Life has been rough with me but I thank God for where I am but I will not relieve the past for anything.

You can imagine my disappointment two weeks ago when I went to visit my girl....


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RomanceTo Err Is Human But This Betrayal Is Too Much For Me To Handle by Beke2020(op): 8:01pm On Feb 01, 2019
Dear Jzhane,

I need your advice. So,I am engaged to be married this year. Frank (not real name) and I have been dating for over six years. He is my soul mate and best friend. Our relationship has not always been easy though. There was a time,like two years ago that we broke up for almost eight months. The thing is,at the time,I was in a different space. I had challenges at work and at home,my father was ill and it took a serious toll on me and kind of affected my relationship with Frank.

To me,I felt Frank was not being considerate enough.I guess he did not understand fully what I was going through and I felt he did not offer the kind of support I needed. Mostly,emotional support. I was very irritant and easily annoyed. I eventually broke up with him and it was a very difficult period for me. I lost my job in the process....


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RomanceShe Is Demanding A Blood Covenant To Prove My Faithfulness by Beke2020(op): 1:37pm On Feb 01, 2019
Hello Jzhane,

Please keep me anonymous. I am in a relationship with a lovely lady. We have been together since my NYSC (three years ago). In fact,I served in the same office with her. I like her a lot and I want to marry her. However,I have always had the dream of going abroad to do my masters and I told her,which she always supported me. While,I was applying for admission,she used to even pray for me to get accepted.

While,I was waiting for admission,I finished NYSC and started working in a company. Because she was talking about age and wanting to get married,I proposed to her. My plan was ......



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RomanceRe: What’s Wrong With Me?all My Exes Get Married After Dumping Me by Beke2020: 5:59pm On Jan 25, 2019
Hàaaa shocked
funmisticqueen:
The answer is obvious, op is a pick me chick
RomanceRe: My Husband Is Controlling How I Take Care Of My Body by Beke2020(op): 5:58pm On Jan 25, 2019
cool absolutely!
Tamarapetty:
That's why it is good to talk bout some certain things before going into marriage. DOs and DONTs, likes and dislikes, e.t.c
RomanceRe: Beaten & Disrespected: Can My Marriage Have A Second Chance? by Beke2020(op): 5:58pm On Jan 25, 2019
Hmnn
RomanceSide Chick???….no,it Did Not Start Out To Be This Way! by Beke2020(op): 5:36pm On Jan 25, 2019
I am not having this discussion with you!!!”.

I screamed so loudly that it ended with a cough. He looked at me, drew me close and gave me a warm hug. I melted inside. It would have been a perfect lovey-dovey moment and trust me..my whole body was yearning to tilt my head a little to the right. I knew that would earn me a smashing kiss but somehow…my Brain woke up from its slumber…saw what my heart and body were up to and hit them both with a very HOT Slap.

I grudgingly dragged myself out of his embrace. Looked at his finger again, just to remind me of why I could not let myself go.I could not look into his eyes for fear that he will see the obvious….I was head over heels in love with him and it was so so .....


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InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 1:48pm On Jan 23, 2019
onegentleguy:
Mr FIDELITY is now at a TECHNICALLY great spot.
I think its finally made the long awaited GOLDEN CROSS !!
It's a strong hold for me.
...the N3 boulevard isn't impossible.
Folks will remember the part in bold of my post above.(a revert to @ chibuking81) ...so watch out for the other tier 2 banks(FCMB, WEMA and STERLING), and a few in the 1st tier space.(particularly UBA and ZENITH )
But then again, due diligence should still remain ur 1st priority.
sir, what about First Bank?

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