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I love the bold step taken for this by the governors. I foresee break away soon

Naija ways

A misplaced answer for the right question,just wished all this broke and dead brain naija girls can do more in a relationship than billings

Wow 😮, that’s great of them

Very funny dogs are ever loyal no dog will fight each other over the catch but humans let the antelope down and watch which dog will carry it and deliver it 💯✅

Like seriously I support this motion the killings is too much I can tell we need total overhaul of this menace

Nice 👍 one

My dear man and brother just close the door of your heart towards having sex with her and enjoy your sex life outside jejely before she kills you some days with quarrel. I lost an uncle last month with this same issue exactly like yours. I knew it will turn out this way from the first day she reported my uncle to my mom about sex. Live your life and love your kids that way you will live long

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Not for work but my worst experience of trekking anyone familiar with Abeokuta ogun state that faithful day my money was useless I tracked from sapon to ilese awo .. bcox of road union transport workers fight. I withdrew money from my bank then intercontinental bank 5k all in mint of 1k no taxi had change to take me to lafenwa or brewery also this who sell egg roll per say hello hat I never wanted I even asked for more than anyone could take,5 just to get smaller denominations for transport my dear brother I trecked all way down to ilese awo that faithful day. Lesson is sometimes tour money can be useless am talking of 2010

doggedfighter:
I swear.


Every Arsenal must be employed to win this second world war.

Legend

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

What is happening these days..this one na groom abi broom...this baby girl don wrap and soak this niggar inside pussy already....it is over

So many emotional and weak men everywhere

Anyway....let me not conclude....lets assume he is crying because he is aware of the deep shit is about to put his hand into...probably crying in advance

Because I see no reason why a man will be crying tears of joy in accepting dramatic, clingy, jealous, possesive, stubborn, billing, entittled, manipulative being into his life
Except maybe he is missing his own mother and he is seeing the wife as a replacement for the mother...even as at that he is not supposed to cry....weak asss men everywhere..

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Maybe he is missing someone dear to his heart from his family whom is supposed to be there .. I did that too cos I missed my Dad on my wedding day ,

Mech. Boy in good shape and brain

Pos

DryMouth:
She has been found dead with her vital parts harvested.

how true is that please shed more light..if true this country is finished

nah error I have modified it

GrammarNazi1:
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May grace find you

May grace find you

And the governor donated security patrol hilux to Niger republic .. .. While his home is been attacked foolish set of politicians

And the governor donated security patrol hulux to Niger republic ..

In three days time 24th

Liverpool Win both halves

Lie .

Where is kyari mugshot

Thunder fire you jibrin..watin you smoke to give us all this lies..what's his share in % and how much ..aswear nah amadioha go strike you fool..

HenryIgwe01:
My name is Henry, 27 yrs old. I am new here, it was my younger sister who introduced me to nairaland. She is a member here.

Brilliant and intellectual minds are here so I believe you people can help me with an advice because I am so depressed and I don't know who to talk talk to about my depression.

I'm a stammerer, a chronic and dreadful one at that. I can repeat an initial word like forever before I could complete my statement. It has made me hate my life and existence. I have a very low-self esteem, I can't express myself, I can't even approach a girl not to talk of being a relationship because I'm afraid of being mocked.

I'm a graduate in accounting education from AAU. I have always dreamt of becoming a lecturer/teacher. I'm smart and intelligent, I love to impact knowledge but I can't express myself. It's a big disability for me.

Back then in University, when i went for my teaching practice, the first day I taught in a classroom, I sense an undesirable atmosphere. I knew the students were trying to laugh but they respected their selves. When I got home, I locked myself and I cried.... But life goes on.

I graduated 2017, I went for nysc 2018. Since then my life has no bearing. I have not achieved anything. I feel inadequate despite I read a lot and I'm intelligent. It pains me I can't communicate to impact knowledge without stammering.

My father is making it worse for me, he compare me with other guys, he has never appreciated any thing I've done for him, he talks down on me. He finds fault in anything I do, he talks as if I created myself.

My mom and siblings are the reason why I haven't committed suicide. They encourage me everyday, especially my mom who is sick now.

I prefer to be completely deaf and dumb than for me to talk and not be able to express myself.

God is not perfect. If God was perfect, he would not have created some people with disability or deformity. Some people were born crippled, deaf, blind etc.. And you wanna tell me God is perfect? He's a partial and sentimental God. I try to understand his vision but all I see is damages.

Please I'm so depressed. I need advice.

please OP.. Take heart and go to God deeply in prayers at odd hour of the day and tell him you are sorry and he should forgive you with the whole of your heart seek him and pray..believe me there is a dead minute miracle to clear all that.God is able ,nothing is difficult for him

Hisbah21:
its norm over there,the biafrans love killing themselves. we Nigerians are just watching

My dear so who is killing who in the north central, northeast and harvesting skull in the west and killings for ritual in the west..let's stop playing blame game the country is bleeped up already ....peace

With no picture of him in cuffs and with the drugs..see sentiment ..Nigeria is finished

ijustdey:
https://punchng.com/ndlea-should-parade-abba-kyari-with-25kg-cocaine-61400-lawyer/

God help you..also work on. Yourself

First attack by the eagle

Fix the system

All lies....why not screen and alert everyone better still grab his dick and make him plead or get a sample of his sermen ..why I love white investigation he has been set free while samples of his saliva collected for proper investigations.if to say nah naija omo kirikiri straight without investigations