Candidlady: As a lady I still find it hard not to do kwaya (drugs). Bad influence I guess or maybe because I saw my dad and his cliques doing it so it rub off on me
Been to rehab couple of times, currently taking a counseling class although I haven't attended for like a week...
I find myself doing it although deep down I don't wanna, but it is something I can't help
Please if anyone is going through this phase or has passed and overcome kindly share your experience to help conquer this war against drugs and alcohol
Thanks
Addiction is real and deadly
check my signature and contact me.sure in a month you will get over it..with God I promise.
Righteousness2: It is Over! His Cup is Filled to the Brim and overflowing.. He that killeth with the sword will die with the same sword.. Hope others learn from him.
This could be the one of the reasons they didn't release those Jets/Weapons.
Baba follow your heart oo,just on Monday a friends brother discovered his only son of 5years his not his son while the yeye wife has been sucking him and her relatives collecting pocket money only to discover this by the paternity test carried out at the embassy for the wife and child to join him in the USA since he was born and raised there and also schooled ...women matter tire me oo tomorrow nah family meeting for zoom
igwebest23: This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus. I work with ministry of health.
My wife has been insisting that I disclose my salary to her from day 1 but I never, I just told her that am earning 100+. Before I met my wife, she already learn Fashion designing. Then while was rushing around, preparing for wedding, she was pestering me to open shop for her. I specifically told her that d money I have now is Solly for wedding and traditional rite, which cost me fortune.
Then after much pressure, her people contributed money and paid for d shop (Remember I have paid her bride price then). I have swallowed red pill. How can I open shop for a girl I have not finished marrying. Then when she opened d shop, I equally supporting her with other things like buying protector and chairs. Every day she is going to shop, I drop pocket of 1k. Some times she asks me money to buy tailor materials which I give.
Now within a space of 7 months my wife now has 14 apprentices. She collected like 30k from them. Then all the money she made in her shop, she put all in her account, she doesn't contribute anything at home. Infact decided not to apply for ATM card. Some time, I may go to. ATM to get money and d tell me no network, if I come to my wife to ask her for ordinary 1k, she will say she doesn't have it. I never asked her to help in our home finances before, and I don't really care about her money.
But now found out through her Facebook chat that she sent her male school friends 7k. She hid it from me, she said d guy needed d money to treat her father in d hospital. I was shock. Cos my wife always complained she does not have money. Now she is complaining that I don't support her in her shop. That she can do whatever she wants with her money.
This morning, she was raising her voice to the hearing our flat neighbors, that am a useless husband, I feel insulted. Am embarrased. That I don't support her. She said her shop rent has expired that I should give her d money but she have enough money in her account to pay it. While is asking me. Am d one that pays for house rent, I buy food stuff, I give her transport every day.
I have had enough. I will call her mum to come over and carry her daughter. I can never beat her. The last night I shouted at her she fainted not to talk of beating.
okk4sure: I witnessed something like dat wen we went fr road contruction at 1 village in Osun State near Ikirun.The head of dat village died overnite and dey wia moving d corpse from dat village to mortuary in Osogbo second day in d morning bt b new 'hummer bumber' dey wia using to conveying d corpse refused to moved despite d fact dat d bus was new and it was in good condition.Dats what really caught everybody's attention.It was like dat for some minutes until 1 of the chiefs entered the bus and talked to d corpse dat dey wia not moving him out of his village bt to preserved him until all his children and elders of the villages wia around for d befitting funerals dat he deserves and dat dey wia going to returned him back to his village fr final burial.Immediately d man came down,he ordered d driver to start d bus and d bus started working.
Things like this is common and true. My dad upon entering our compound for burial the ambulance conveying his corpse stopped moving and some stuffs were made and prayers before the ambulance moved his corpse in for burial ..miss him everyday of my life always full of life and loving