Are you financially comfortable?
Does she go to work in the morning, come back to do chores in the evening or is a stay at home mum?
Maybe in her mind she is like "ya mates dey hustle outside you dey here dey find f8ck. na him me and my kids go chop?"
Please get someone to assist her at home
You can kuku dash her 2k per round
She go dey beg you sef, you can go as much as 3 rounds per day. Thats 6k
You are happy, she is happy and no need for any smallie outside again.

MrBottle:
Pipedreams brother.. It is quite obvious that you love your wife so much but pride won't let you ask her back. I wouldn't be surprised if you go back crawling on your broken knees to beg her to come back.

Take time to heal....damn it and stop polluting this thread with your bitterness.

Its pitiable to see someone so scarred by a failed relationship. The bile in him is shocking.
Instead of him to learn here or at least contribute meaningfully, he want so drag the OP down into his hopeless abyss with him
Pipedreams, you have decided not to reconcile with your partner, Bravo! Good and fine! Your choice!
I can see how well that has worked out for you
Please leave those that want to make reconciliation efforts to actually do so.

Ishilove:
'Miscommunication' and boom! Separation. Smh

People of nowadays don't know the meaning of marriage. They just jump in and jump out like they are playing jump rope. It is no longer sacred or till death do part.

They just like the razzmatazz of pre-wedding pictures and the glitz and glamour of weddings, which is why when storm hits the so-called marriage it collapses like a pack of cards because of faulty foundation. 80% of people getting married nowadays are not emotionally ready for the rigours of marriage

I tell you.
Wetin be miscommunication sef?
I no like the way wey you dey talk to me?
Abi You dey talk I no dey hear you?
Abi I dey talk you no dey hear me?
Abi you too talk?
Abi you no dey talk?
Abeg make person clear me biko.
Fickle people entering fickle marriages everywhere.

Op you have given very vague reasons for your split.
For a woman to agree to stay away for (damning society talks on broken marriages) she must have had her limit.
I expected you to give clear reasons for your break up , so that experienced people (there are lots of them on this forum) can advise you on the way forward.
Was there cheating involved? Family interference, what exactly?
If you were really serious about reconciliation talks, you will not be given these lukewarm, neither here-nor there answers.
You need to give us background info to work with, so that you can be advised accordingly.
Even if you two don't reconcile, you can also apply some of the advice garnered here going forward , so that you do not make the same mistakes in your subsequent relationship(s).

Biggie that was cold! What a shocker. Biggie!

Lol, women are sleeping with their side niggas everyday, and coming home to cook for their husbands.
How many the men don chase comot for house?
These things happen everyday. Men and women cheat in marriages.
When caught they cry and beg for forgiveness and swear it will never happen again, then find smarter ways of hiding their affairs.
All these married men sleeping with married women who have four kids in some cases, have their husbands chased them? You think they dont know or suspect?
A lot of women have emotionally left their marriages, some couples are together because of the kids they have together, investments or businesses they built together.
Get over yourselves already Nairaland males, Marriage is not so fickle in reality.

I agree with the OP
Some people do masters that will be worthless to their career progression
Someone studies biochemistry for instance, graduates, serves, and goes back to do M.sc in Chemistry or whatever
Now , normally the person is supposed to work as a medical sales rep, chemist or similarly inclined profession
But no! the person starts applying for jobs at oil companies, banks, etc
What does your M.s bring to the company table?
how does it help realize the company goals and objectives
Its more advisable to start working immediately after school/nysc( as available), then monitor your career progression to see how best to advance.
If you are employed as a secretary as a graduate of microbiology, you know that if you work hard, there is a change that you get promoted to HR, Finance, Procurement, Operations etc. Most internal promotions are as a result of hard work and commitment , not necessarily school papers.
You can switch totally to business/finance by doing a P.G then masters or Ican/PMP in a field that aligns with your career. MBA is even better in my opinion than a visionless masters
People keep bringing masters that are not useful to organizations and still get shocked whn someone with 3rd class B.sc and experience is picked over them.
Before you spend your money on masters that wont reward you, please speak with people that have been in your target organization to determine the best next step for you.

So that means any wife that asks for her husband password and he declines, she is free to boil his phone in pot of soup?
Or soak his phone in soapy water, as she so desires?
It is only men who are big cheats that get insanely jealous, they go about sniffing their wives' panties and cutting their phones in half
Who knows what the poor woman has seen already in that house
Her life is not safe, because she might cough one day and her husband will separate her head from her neck in anger
As for people that take all these nairaland boys' comment to heart , just know that
1. 90% of sensible nairaland males dont comment anymore so scallywags have taken over
2. Most of them are products of romance section. They are conjified losers that are too broke to have a good life, or get classy women, so they hate and pick on any female that comments intelligently.
3. Most of them are still eating mummy thank you, so......they know they cant afford to get married the next 10 years, they are envious of people that have settled down with their families. No wonder they bash wives at any opportunity they get.

Lol, even the broke ass men are forming "deep resonance" with this post
Same men that will tag a woman and her family gold diggers if they happen to ask him for a pin
My sisters money is Gooood
if you are from a rich home, your husband cant try nonsense
See how the poster quickly respected himself because if he makes "pim" he wont see his kids again
he cant even beat his wife in peace cos he knows he will end up in kirikiri maximum
Chai, my daughters must enjoy this kind of prestige in their husbands home abeg
If you do anyhow, you see anyhow
I am sure the poster knows his inlaws didnt even need his bags of rice and oil, so what face exactly is he redeeming here?
Instead of the men to think of how to be better husbands in poverty and riches, knowing that anyone's economy can take a downturn anyday
No! They will rather gather under atree and keep chanting "we go marry poor woman oooo, if we wan kill am, nothing go happen"
This is why I advocate that parents shouldn't sell off their kids in the name of bride price
Shebi if thenman was the only one doling out money to his inlaws, he will beat and her and chase her out of the house, and the inlaws wont even make pim, they will will still come back cap in hand and beg for food.
This thread is lesson to all those that give birth to more kids than they can take care of
Give your daughters a good life so that no man will think he is doing you a favour by marring, feeding and housing your daughter
So naija man fit humble like this
No wonder una do dey do pim for obodo oyibo
Poster thank God you are back on your feet now, its obvious that you are only equipped to make decisions when your wallet is breathing

HRHQueenPhil:
three things 2 do:
1. there is nothing u cant achieve if u put ur mind to it. watch ur weight and ur dressing, remind him why he married u,it can help u focus on something else.

2. pray for him and pls stop arguing and quarrelling. speak to him unless its absolutely necessary. give him space.

3. do not divorce, highest seperate if he becomes voilent

Unbelievable! In this 2018?

chrisja:
Xiaomi mi max 2, is beautiful, the finishing is amazing, the operation is smooth & OMG, the battery is a monster. I have used for just 2 days so far. I'm truly pleased. Still trying to get use to the size though.

Is the size too big or too small?
What is the display like please?

Good Morning guys
I want to buy a xiaomi phone but i am confused. do not know which to get as no one around me uses it
Please can anyone suggest one that has
1. Great battery life
2. Camera quality ( selfie and main cameras. Infact this one is the most important)
3. Wide and long screen. Saw the redmi 5 pics and didnt like it cos of the screen size
4. Fast processor. My techno C9 cant handle multitasking and shuts apps when in use
5. Great music player. My tecno doesnt play half of my songs. Deletes abi hides downloaded songs.
Budget is 80k-150k
Thank You.

Gooci:
mesef book this space.............. till 2018 wey i de eye for marrigae.
i will be back to modify by then.
Yours faithfully.

Reminder!!
Its 2018 o
Are you married now?
Oya come and modify