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RomanceRe: If She Popped The Question To U, Wot Wud U Do? by bendazum: 10:42am On Aug 04, 2012
SINCE WE LIVE IN A DEMOCRATIC SOCIETY,LET'S PUT IT TO VOTE!@OP CREATE A POLL WITH HEADING:SHOULD A WOMAN PROPOSE TO A MAN?OPTIONS:1.YES 2.NO SIMPLE AND SHORT.FREE THINKING HAS AFFECTED PEOPLE'S BRAIN FROM KNOWING THE TRUTH.THE BIBLE EVEN SAID THAT MAN IS THE HEAD AND SHOULD TAKE THE LEAD,IF HE DOESN'T DO WHAT HE OUGHT TO DO.HE SHOULD BE LOVINGLY ENCOURAGED TO DO THE RIGHT THING NOT FOR YOU TO TAKE HIS ROLE!DAMN.
RomanceRe: If She Popped The Question To U, Wot Wud U Do? by bendazum: 9:51am On Aug 04, 2012
[quote author=val_dee]After she propose to me, then she will go and meet my parents for introduction and wine carrying.[/quote]GBAM!!INFACT I WILL SEE HER AS BEING DESPERATE AND IT'S A TURN-OFF.
RomanceRe: Guys What Romantic Gestures Would You Appreciate From Women? by bendazum: 9:43am On Aug 04, 2012
kandiikane: I don't know mehn but all this seems overrated.
Overrated?Did you just mention,'Overrated'?We live in a country where DIVORCE is fast becoming a NORM.We are here proffering solutions and you are...Goddamnit!
RomanceRe: Guys What Romantic Gestures Would You Appreciate From Women? by bendazum: 8:46am On Aug 04, 2012
She should be good in bed and active not just lie there like some dead wood.She should initiate it atimes.Infact make my imagination run riot!
RomanceRe: Guys What Romantic Gestures Would You Appreciate From Women? by bendazum: 8:41am On Aug 04, 2012
Bzoe: availabiliy and hearing ears
ARE YOU A GUY?DON'T SPEAK FOR US OTHERWISE YOU GET CARRYOVER FOR THIS COUSE.
RomanceRe: Guys What Romantic Gestures Would You Appreciate From Women? by bendazum: 8:35am On Aug 04, 2012
Call me on phone to express her undying love for me,send sweet inspiring text messages,Put her head on my chest while sleeping,hold on to my arms while we walk.Smell nice,dress nice for me.Get other people jealous on my behalf,be flexible,unpredictable eg. give me a kiss unexpectedly or ask me to kiss her.Buy things for me when she goes out.When I get angry,she should apologize while hugging me.Cook good food for me.Offer to pay our transport fare,pick the bill sometimes.
RomanceRe: How Do I Get This Girl by bendazum: 8:20am On Aug 04, 2012
bigmodo: there was a time i tried buying her books but she refused.
Use jazz on her then.WAIT!Just joking.I truly appreciate these kind of girls-Honesty.My advice let her be.DO YOU WANT TO MARRY HER OR YOU WANT TO SATISFY YOUR EGO?Some girls will even take all those from you and still reject your advances.She knows what she wants-To secure her future not an unwanted pregnancy.MY ADVICE:LET HER BE..You 've been living before you knew her n will keep on living.Find someone else.Infact you may even marry a Hoe playing hard 2 get.Girls know it turns men on and so use it to cage them.Guy move on.It's easier said than done but you have to,okay?
RomanceRe: Ladies Why? by bendazum(op): 8:03am On Aug 04, 2012
tobechi20: I am sure the boy is bendzum and the girl is his vilage gf
lolz.
RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by bendazum: 7:43am On Aug 04, 2012
Queenisha: na wa o
all these cheating people on nairaland and their advisers.
Well my advise will be to confront him about that voice mail from his mistress and gather all evidence needed to prove your point and after he admits it, you release your own bomb shell so you can both start the healing process.
I believe in honesty,without that,the marriage is just a sham.
my opinion
WORST ADVICE EVER!because the hubby will see it as a deliberate act of revenge.Infact its better you get your divorce papers ready if you must follow this advice.A man who gave you hell without proof of infidelity,now you want to give it to him?Forgive yourself,pray to God,seek doctor's help.Tell your hubby how you enjoy it.Open up communication lines.Infact just let him cuddle you in bed,put your head on his chest while sleeping.Let him whisper sweet nothing in your ears,take you out.Infact START COURTSHIP again with him.
RomanceRe: Ladies Why? by bendazum(op): 6:45am On Aug 04, 2012
The sooner ladies learn to play their roles as HELPMATES in relationships the better for us all.
RomanceLadies Why? by bendazum(op): 8:17pm On Aug 03, 2012
Ladies why would you ask a guy you just met to send you recharge card for you to call him.Does it mean ladies these days aren't committed to relationships?A guy and his girlfriend entered a keke with me.When they disembarked the guy gave the keke man like 500naira.Keke man didn't have change so the guy turned to his girl for assistance.The girl blatantly told the guy to use the money to buy her recharge card in order to get change to pay for their fare.
BusinessRe: Betonmarket Alerts: Season 5 by bendazum: 4:57pm On Aug 03, 2012
Thanks to all who have already subscribed to my Alert service.I have sent a message to everyone of you.WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF FINANCIAL FREEDOM!SMILE TO YOUR BANKS!!
BusinessRe: Betonmarket Alerts: Season 5 by bendazum: 10:18am On Aug 03, 2012
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BusinessRe: Betonmarket Alerts: Season 5 by bendazum: 10:20am On Aug 02, 2012
pappy2000: I think we should all stay on the sideline till we get a clearer picture of the markets,we need to get policy decision from Draghi and Ben Benarke. But I can assure everyone i believe that we can make money from both Bearish and Bullish market after the policy decision and the non farm payroll
Nice observation.
BusinessRe: Betonmarket Alerts: Season 5 by bendazum:
I welcome everyone to this new Season and a new week .I wish to inform you that Bendazum's Monthly SMS Alert Service is stronger and better.

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CelebritiesRe: Happy 36th Birthday To Nwankwo Kanu (Papillo) by bendazum: 6:43pm On Aug 01, 2012
Well my senior brother was in JSS1 when Kanu was in SSS3 and played for their school team. My brother is 34/35.Now you can use your head.

That is not even my headache as the LOVE I have for him is ENOUGH to cover any sin he has committed as regards his age.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAPILLO.DON'T MIND ALL DEM JEALOUS, BAD BELLE NIGERIANS. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!
PhonesRe: Mtn's 125% And 150%Recharge Bonus Is Fake. Try It At Your Own Risk by bendazum: 6:14am On Jul 31, 2012
sexiestharam: But u are also given 300 naira worth of free sms. It still can't be compared to etisalat's offer anyway. Do we really need to send so many messages?
What is Etisalat's offer?
FamilyRe: Minor Acts That Cause Damage In Marriages. by bendazum: 7:24am On Jul 30, 2012
27naira: Leaving doors open
Leaving lights on at day time (especially my UK folks) grin

Wearing hair nets indiscriminately ( i so much hate it when girls wear hair nets in the morning walking around aimlessly angry )
I agree with you on the net issue.
SportsRe: Picture Of A Wrestler Carrying Michelle Obama by bendazum: 9:36pm On Jul 29, 2012
1supremo: I'm sure Patience is weightier than Michelle. She earns more and eats more. That wrestler woulda had a rethink if Michelle was Patience because he would have lost all his strength in the process and would lose in the ring.
THE WRESTLER IS A SHE NOT A HE.
CelebritiesRe: Picture Of Shan George And Mikel Obi by bendazum: 7:18pm On Jul 29, 2012
[quote author=12 inches!]If I'm told they're dating I won't be surprised...mikel looks like some1 who would date an older woman...and shan george looks like a woman will date a younger man...Perfect fit...Remember nick cannon and mariah carey[/quote]WHICH PERFECT FIT?NA WAOH! I WON'T LOOSE NO SLEEP IF ANYTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN THEM BUT TO REDUCE DIVORCE RATE IT'S A NO NO FOR THEM. SHAN SEEMS MORE EXPOSED AND WILD, WONDER IF SHE CAN STAY UNDER ANY MAN WHILE MIKEL IS COOL AND RESERVED!
FamilyRe: Super Eagles Chidi Odiah Abandoned His Wife And Baby? by bendazum: 6:26pm On Jul 26, 2012
WHERE I COME FROM WE DON'T COMMENT ON OTHER PEOPLE'S MARRIAGE.LET THEM SETTLE THEIR DIFFERENCES.I DON'T KNOW WHO TO BLAME.I THINK HIS WIFE IS PRETTY BUT I HAVE LONG LEARNT THAT SUCCESS IN MARRIAGE GOES BEYOND THAT.
RomanceRe: My Girl Proposed To Me - Help by bendazum: 4:55pm On Jul 26, 2012
maclatunji: Madame, you have not said anything that will help OP here.
DULL BRAIN!! CAN'T YOU READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES?
RomanceRe: My Girl Proposed To Me - Help by bendazum: 4:33pm On Jul 26, 2012
Stallion77: Minus ur friends opinion....Wetin u want? Must u always double check wit ur friends? Guys sef...
SHUTUP GIRLS DO FAR WORSE!
NYSCRe: Corper's Kids In NYSC Uniform by bendazum: 7:02pm On Jul 24, 2012
I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THE PICTURE ONLY CHILDISHNESS EMBEDDED IN YOUR POST.THEY AIN'T WEARING NO CRESTED VEST.IF YOU'RE JEALOUS BUY FOR YOUR KIDS. MTCHEW.KIDS DON'T MIND UNCLE HE'S A NAUGHTY PUNK!
EducationRe: All Girls Schools Make Nigerian Girls Promiscuous by bendazum: 4:29pm On Jul 24, 2012
Odunnu: Sharrap on stuff you know nothing about?
Do I sound like a s[b]l[/b]ut to you?
YES YOU SOUND LIKE A HOE.
PhonesRe: How Many Phones Have You Used So Far ? by bendazum: 12:08pm On Jul 16, 2012
ABOUT 7 - 10 PHONES.
RomanceRe: How To Find MY Soul Mate. by bendazum(op): 1:43pm On Jul 15, 2012
IT'S GLARING CLEAR THAT WE HAVE ADULTS DRINKING FEEDING BOTTLE IN NAIRALAND!

RomanceRe: How To Find MY Soul Mate. by bendazum(op): 7:17am On Jul 15, 2012
SO FAR I HAVEN'T GOTTEN ANY REASONABLE COMMENT.NO DISRESPECT INTENDED.FOR THOSE WHO ADVOCATE FOR ENTRY EXAMINATION BEFORE ADMISSION INTO NAIRALAND THEY HAVE SURPRISES COMING THEIR PATH BECAUSE THEY WILL END UP OUTSIDE.MATURE PEOPLE DON'T COMMENT ANYHOW SO FAR THEY AIN'T MUCH IN NAIRALAND.I HAVEN'T SEEN ANYTHING WRONG IN WHAT I SEEK IT'S NORMAL FOR US TO WANT THE BEST FOR OURSELVES. YES,AM FOR REAL. NOW IT'S TIME FOR REASONABLE AND MATURE PEOPLE TO COMMENT.
RomanceRe: How To Find MY Soul Mate. by bendazum(op): 5:22pm On Jul 14, 2012
[quote author=Wiz_khalifa]@OP, IS BEYONCE God fearing?? Mtcheew...
Nd as 4 ur SOUL-MATE, goto a supermart/chemist shop its jux #120, but i suggest u try DAMATOL!!.. #HEDIAAAT[/quote]I thought kids ain't allowed in nairaland. I said physically look like Beyonce.Which Primary School do you attend? No time for kids who feel they must comment.NEXT!
RomanceRe: How To Find MY Soul Mate. by bendazum(op): 3:50pm On Jul 14, 2012
PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG COS PHYSICALLY I KNOW WHAT I WANT A TALL DARK AVERAGE SIZE PRETTY QUEEN LIKE BEYONCE.GOD FEARING, MATURE,HARDWORKING, WORKING CLASS,GRADUATE, VIRTUOUS LADY DESCRIBED IN PROVERB. SHE SHOULD BE NATURAL. FAITHFUL, TRUTHFUL ETC.
RomanceRe: 10 Things Men Should Never Ask Women by bendazum: 3:36pm On Jul 14, 2012
A MAN SHOULD. NEVER ASK A LADY IF SHE HAS ANOTHER GUY OR WORST OF ALL IF SHE HAS HAD INTIMACY BEFORE.
RomanceHow To Find MY Soul Mate. by bendazum(op): 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2012
HOW CAN ONE FIND THAT PERSON THAT IS PERFECT FOR HIM?I AM WORRIED AND BOTHERED.I DON'T WISH TO OVER DATE. NEED I TELL YOU AM THE SHY TYPE.NIGERIAN LADIES CAN BE FUNNY ATIMES.ADVICE O!

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