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RomanceRe: Love your wife! It is your responsibility to that! by bendazum: 5:30pm On Jun 27, 2012
Pacify: Your wife cannot just wake up one sudden morning and say she wants 2 hang out with a new guy, what was the problem behind the reason?
GBAM!MOREOVER HOW COME IMMATURE PEOPLE ARE ALLOWED INTO MARRIAGEhuhOP HAVE A GOOD CONVERSATION WITH HER.MAKE HER FEEL LIKE QUEEN ELIZABETH.LOVE HER,CHERISH HER.PLAN A GET AWAY TOGETHER.JUST BE CREATIVE,MEHN.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone You Met Online? by bendazum(op): 5:22pm On Jun 27, 2012
nikkyshyne: You obviously must have dated b4 talking about marriage. Aren't people on line humans? undecided
Some are ghosts,serial killers etc It's hmm well let's hear more views.
NYSCRe: Nysc Batch B 2012: B.r.e.a.k.i.n.g. N.e.w.s by bendazum: 2:32pm On Jun 27, 2012
Orientation in ADAMAWA?PPA IN YOBE AND BORNO.WHAT A WAY TO DIE!
RomanceCan You Marry Someone You Met Online? by bendazum(op): 2:24pm On Jun 27, 2012
In this modern age people spend more time online than offline.There are many social and dating sites in the internet.What are your views about meeting and marrying someone you met online?If you have already married an online date let's know how your marriage is.
RomanceWould You Marry Your Late Brother's Wife? by bendazum(op): 1:55pm On Jun 27, 2012
In Nigeria,people find themselves being asked to father Children for their late brother.If you were the one would you accept?
Christianity EtcRe: Testimony Time:share Your Testimony. by bendazum(op): 1:32pm On Jun 27, 2012
Hallelujah!Let's have another testifier.
Christianity EtcRe: Testimony Time:share Your Testimony. by bendazum(op): 3:11am On Jun 27, 2012
Children of God Praise the Lord!My Phone fell into a bus when I was coming out yesterday Morning.As God would have it the driver picked it and gave it to the wife.I kept on calling, finally she picked the call and told me where to collect it.I now have my Phone back! Praise Praise Praise the LORD!!!
FamilyRe: I'm Afraid I'm Too Harsh To Endure The Ups & Downs Of Marriage by bendazum: 7:24pm On Jun 26, 2012
kay9: Bingo. I was wondering how long it'd take before someone pointed this out. In any case, folks with ''its-not-me-its-the-rest-of-the-world'' complexes (like yours truly smiley ) prefer to learn it the hard way, so like relax michelin, u're still young - i kanka, i ga-aghota ije! (when u're older, u'll be wiser!)
lolz. Wouldn't it be late by then? Moreover who wants by marry an old cynical hag. lipsrsealed
Christianity EtcTestimony Time:share Your Testimony. by bendazum(op): 11:53am On Jun 26, 2012
IT'S TESTIMONY TIME AGAIN! LET'S KNOW WHAT GOD DID FOR YOU SO THAT HIS NAME MAY BE GLORIFIED.
PoliticsRe: GEJ Is A Joke & Clueless - Ghanaian Prof. Ayittey by bendazum: 5:46am On Jun 26, 2012
I HOPE I WON'T BE ADJUDGED AN UNPATRIOTIC NIGERIAN BUT THIS PROFESSOR IS MAKING HUGE SENSE! NO WONDER GHANIANS ARE PROSPERING AND WE EVEN REQUIRE VISA TO ENTER GHANA!!! I GUESS THEY THINK WE ARE ALL LIKE, THIS JOKEhuh?!!!!
FamilyRe: Gay Folks Should Never Adopt Kids by bendazum: 2:49pm On Jun 25, 2012
PEOPLE IN HELL!!!!!!!

FamilyRe: Gay Folks Should Never Adopt Kids by bendazum: 2:33pm On Jun 25, 2012
REPENT BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!!!

PoliticsRe: Workable Suggestions To GEJ On How To End The Boko Haram Menace. by bendazum: 1:13pm On Jun 25, 2012
GUY YOU ARE TOO MUCH!!!! TUWALÉ
stagger: Their training camps on the Nigeria-Niger and Nigeria-Chad border are known. There was intelligence as to their existence provided by the US government as far back as 2004. What GEJ needs to do is to bomb those places for 30 days straight. I bet you they will be driven far away from the borders deep into Niger, Chad and Northern Cameroun. Next, Nigeria should seek permission from these countries to organize pre-emptive air strikes at their bases in these countries.

Finally, face the states where they have a foothold and organize a three-week mop-up operation. All law-abiding citizens should be given a week to evacuate using roads that will be patrolled. Then a total assault from land and the air should be carried out to finish off every living thing in that area, human, animals, goats, chickens, etc. If I were GEJ, I will make sure that to be associated with the Boko Haram in any way, WILL BE HARAM!

It was done in Ogoniland by Colonels Obi Umahi and Okuntimo in 1993. It was done in Odi in Bayelsa.

WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER!
PoliticsRe: Workable Suggestions To GEJ On How To End The Boko Haram Menace. by bendazum: 1:02pm On Jun 25, 2012
ALTHOUGH I HAVE NOT FINISHED READING BUT AM GLAD THAT NAIRALANDERS HAVE RISEN UP TO THE CHALLENGE! SO FAR TRUTH LIES IN WHAT THEY HAVE SAID. I DARE SAY MY MIND HAS ALREADY BEEN SPOKEN. THE PROBLEM LIES WITH THE PRESIDENCY. WILL MR PRESIDENT LISTEN TO ADVICE. I GUESS YOU CAN'T HELP SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES HE KNOWS IT ALL. THE FIRST STEP FOR JEG TO CURB BH IS FOR HIM TO DIE HIS PRESIDENCIAL AMBITION FOR 2015.THAT WILL MAKE IT EASIER FOR HIM TO DEAL WITH BH WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT STEPPING ON TOES.UNLESS HE WANTS TO TELL US THAT HE'S BEING BLACKMAILED OR MANIPULATED!
FamilyRe: I'm Afraid I'm Too Harsh To Endure The Ups & Downs Of Marriage by bendazum: 12:42am On Jun 25, 2012
obasijoy: @opI guess you were born either on May or June. Just take it easy ok. You haven't seen what you want in a man yet and the main person you are to love hasn't come yet. When the right person comes, I promise you, you must totally fall in love with him and you will be asking yourself if this is truly you.
FUNNY GIRL.IS IT THAT THE POSTER 'MUST' OR 'WILL'.TRUE LOVE IS EITHER THERE OR NOT.I LEARNT THAT A LONG TIME AGO.TRY DOING WONDERFUL THINGS THAT U WANT SOME1 TO DO TO/FOR U AND SEE THE OTHER 1 RESPONDING POSITIVELY.SHALOM.
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram On Yoruba Soil Is A Declaration Of War - OPC by bendazum: 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2012
PeterKbaba: You are funny... all non Yoruba's ( Illegal Aliens ) would be wiped out of the SW, including YOU.
YOU SPEAK LIKE A FOOL.ARE YOU ONE?NOBODY PRAYS FOR WAR BUT IF IT MUST HAPPEN THEN THE YORUBAS MUST TEAM WITH IGBOS AND OTHER ETHNIC GROUPS AGAINST THE HAUSAS BECAUSE THEY AID AND ABATE BOKO HARAM.THINK!!!!!!!!!
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram On Yoruba Soil Is A Declaration Of War - OPC by bendazum: 3:07pm On Jun 24, 2012
warlei: Bokoharam would neva get so foolish to come to the west.
What efforts have you made to avoid, manage or contain it should it happen? Right now anything and everything is possible. STOP BLABBING AND BE VIGILANTE AND WATCHFUL!
NYSCRe: No Northern State Is Safe For Youth Service! by bendazum(op): 5:46am On Jun 24, 2012
NYSC IS A CALL TO SERVE NIGERIA NOT A CALL TO DIE FOR NIGERIA!
FamilyRe: Gay Folks Should Never Adopt Kids by bendazum: 5:39am On Jun 24, 2012
IF YOU OPEN THAT MOUTH AND SAY BIBLICAL TIMES IT MEANS YOU KNOW SODOM AND GOMORRAH AND HOW GOD DESTROYED THEM WITH FIRE!DO YOU WANT THE SAME DESTRUCTION FOR YOUR COUNTRY?! NOW I UNDERSTAND YOU MUST BE WICKED
.CHECK GENESIS CHAPTER 19
MRbrownJAY: and yet you are here busting a vein because g[b]a[/b]ys want to adopt children?! what an irony, get your priorities straight bro.



if you check what you first wrote, A) the fact that they are gay is a problem for you B) the fact that they wanna get married is a problem for you and C) the fact that they may want to adopt seems to ALSO be a problem for you.
pls care to show me where i am derailing this thread?



at last you are showing what your beef is really about......... here is a clue: gays have been here since biblical times, and the issue aint going away, so you might as well accept them for who they are.



i'd rather that orphan children are raised by a LOVING couple of "insane" g[b]a[/b]ys/l[b]e[/b]sbians than to be left to rot in orphanages.
FamilyRe: Gay Folks Should Never Adopt Kids by bendazum: 5:23am On Jun 24, 2012
michelin89: Right. I don't see why a man should be upset that a man like him is nailing another man, unless deep inside of him he wants to nail this other man too. cheesy

People who always see the worst in other people do so because they don't see any good in themselves.
Sorry Ma'am I am under ORDERS to convey you back to the Sanitarium your case is still being handled.

FamilyRe: I'm Afraid I'm Too Harsh To Endure The Ups & Downs Of Marriage by bendazum: 5:08am On Jun 24, 2012
@Poster. Unless you treat or find help regarding your situation /condition consider yourself as a TIMEBOMB just waiting to be triggered.Believe you me it may seem that we are harsh talking to you this way but it is necessary if only to make you see reality. You do need deliverance. You may have a Spiritual Husband who doesn't want you to get married. I have seengbe countless people with your case being healed at Synagogue Church of All Nations. Hurry now to Ikotun Egbe,Lagos. .Don't RUIN a man's life for committing a BLUNDER of FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU. I HAVE SPOKEN.
PoliticsRe: Bomb Blast At Wuse II Abuja (Crystal Lounge) by bendazum: 6:31am On Jun 23, 2012
Francuiz: Really guys. I don't knw why whenever there's a blast we keep on insulting d president. If you were to b in his shoe's wat wil u do
He specifically told us he gat no SHOES!Which shoes are you talking ofhuh
PoliticsRe: Bomb Blast At Wuse II Abuja (Crystal Lounge) by bendazum: 6:27am On Jun 23, 2012
Moderators I feel matters of SECURITY like this should come with a Source. Let people not develop high blood pressure with speculation and rumors. We already have enough of that to last a looooooong time. Moreover we are making money for GSM operators.
NYSCRe: No Northern State Is Safe For Youth Service! by bendazum(op): 6:12am On Jun 23, 2012
I thank the Moderator immensely for seeing this thread to headline.I thank all those who contributed.Truth is that matters of security like this are not subject to debate and argument.Corpers are among the prime targets of these extremists.It wasn't every corper that had the means or believes in bribing in order to get choice places. That doesn't mean that they should go and die if posted to the north. He who has an ear let him hear.
PhonesRe: Check Out The New Blackberry Bold 10 by bendazum: 5:27am On Jun 23, 2012
[quote author=seun_adeolu]not in naija market for now![/quote]Not in any market at all.Read their comments. It's months away from production.If only it had a track pad like bold 2.Am getting tired of touch screen phones!
PhonesHow To Stop Phone Theft In Nigeria! by bendazum(op): 5:15am On Jun 23, 2012
IF ALL PHONE USERS IN NIGERIA WILL ENABLE THEIR PHONE SECURITY FEATURES THIEVES WILL FIND IT DIFFICULT TO ACCESS THE PHONE SO THEFT INVARIABLY STOPS. LET'S TRY THIS AND SEE AN END TO STEALING IN NIGERIA!
FamilyRe: Advice Needed,shud I Go Ahead And Marry Her Or Nor? by bendazum: 5:43pm On Jun 22, 2012
Your thread lacks seriousness,maturity and responsibility.'She got pregnant along the way '.Was it an accident? Were you not intimate with her before it happened? How can you suggest abortion. Is it an option? Should it be an option? Truth is that you are not emotionally and mentally matured for marriage. Age and finance aside.Do you love the lady in question? If so why would you suggest abortion with her life in the balance. Hmm.
FamilyRe: Have You Written Your Will? by bendazum(op): 5:27pm On Jun 22, 2012
Some communities are very harsh to widows.What effort have you made to ensure that your wife and kids are not left in the cold?

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