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 Family › Re: Change Of Name by benedictac(f): 8:53am On Oct 20, 2009 |
change of name is not done at CAC but any national news paper. I did mine with daily independence sometimes ago |
| Family › Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by benedictac(f): 9:26am On Oct 19, 2009 |
By the grace of God I am a teenage teacher in my church, of recent we had a series teaching on "My Body, His Temple" it is a sex education teaching on sex, homosexuality, lesbianism, masturbation etc. In the course of the teaching i got to find out 80% percent of them were novice. Though it helped, but it would had been better if their parent had taught them earlier. |
| Family › Re: Ladies, How Would You React To This? by benedictac(f): 9:16am On Oct 19, 2009 |
Nobody goes into my pot If that happens i will just give him/her a strong warning and if he/she tries it again, they are out of my house |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 4:26pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Dont worry, she will soon overcome this trial in her marriage and she will laugh |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 9:00am On Oct 16, 2009 |
It is well my friend |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 8:39am On Oct 16, 2009 |
i can see that most of u are not cultured and i think these set of people are whites. This is Africa where there is culture and that must be respected. i am not asking her to allow the man to tuture her. there are many ways to kill a rat without shelding blood. the problems most of our girls have today is that they want to stand tall with their husband. Equall right and this has destroyed alot of marriages. If u work on principles with ur marriage it will crumble but if u work with God's principles it will sure stand no matter the storm. |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 1:38pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Dont give up Dear. Let's learn to say the truth no matter how hurt it is. Are we still friends? |
| Family › Re: What's The Greatest Achievement Of A Man? by benedictac(f): 1:35pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
The greatest achievement of man is to Fear God and obey His commandment for this is the whole duty of man |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 1:13pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
I can see where the agony is coming from. Is either there is no man to marry u or u are a divorcee or u are presently passing thru hell in that marrriage |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 12:57pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Aisha dont be fast to quote without completing the verses: the bible also said in Eph. 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. I know ur type, u are the type that wants to control men. |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 12:42pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Marriage is not the most important but necessary. Some rush into believing that they can handle their men when in, but it is not always like that. Pls for the singles think and pray well before enetering. Once there now way out if u are a christian. |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 12:22pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Aisha2, i pity u. pple like u dont stay in marriage and u are advising others to leave. is it by her seperating from her husband that will solve the problem? |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 11:26am On Oct 15, 2009 |
meaning? |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 11:21am On Oct 15, 2009 |
@ poster, u dont know what u want, a trial seperation is not a good idea. You might go only to come back to find another woman there. U can work it out if u really want to. it is only determination and prayers. u've made the mistake of marrying him abi? Do u still want to make the mistake of a trial seperation that could lead to divorce?. Dont be deceived i am also married. Marriage is not bed of roses, even if it is a bed of roses it does have thorns. there are ups and downs in marraige. this is your down now face it well and figure it out now. If u are close to his family let them know what their son or brother is doing to u. this is africa and not yanky or Gand. Pls beware or u make the biggest mistake of your life. DONT SAY SOMEONE DIDNT WARN U!!!. On this matter and u are sure what u posted is true and u really need to hear the truth call me |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 9:34am On Oct 15, 2009 |
Outstrip:That is where u get it all wrong. To make ur marriage work and to have a divorce is just a THIN LINE. In every realtionship one person holds it (put that at the back of ur mind). Doing everything to make ur marriage work is better than doing nothing to lead to seperation. My dear, i dont know if u are married, divorce is not the best option in marriage neither figth back is better. The worst thing that can happen to a pereson is when ur marriage is like hell on earth. Pls @ poster and every other person that might be reading this thread, do everything to keep ur marriage. It is the woman that is @ the receiving end when divorce is involved. She will tagged "sHE NO FIT STAY WITH MAN" but for the man he goes on with his life. PLS MARRIAGE IS SACRED AND WE MUST RESPECT IT IF WE ALL WANT TO ENJOY IT. @ Poster, do ur best and leave the rest for God. God will help u. |
| Family › Re: Marrige Counselling Service by benedictac(f): 9:20am On Oct 15, 2009 |
Fhemmmy no be quarrel now |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 12:05pm On Oct 14, 2009 |
@ posakosa, u are not perfect if u dont have any advice pls log out. Haba!!! are MASTER PERFECT? |
| Family › Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by benedictac(f): 10:43am On Oct 14, 2009 |
personally for me i will introduce sex education from the age of 8 |
| Family › Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by benedictac(f): 10:06am On Oct 14, 2009 |
@ Poster, I feel for u but dont pity u. Dont pity urself or allow anyone to pity u in this case or in any other. Pls dont allow divorce or take any advice for it, it is never the best option. I will advice to bring Jesus into your life and home. I've learnt one thing in life and that is, You must make Jesus the head of ur home and not a guest. My dear, concentrate on your job, pray more often and leave the rest for God to solve. Then check on your characters and see if u are that virtuous woman the bible spoke about in Prov. 31. Be very patient at the end u will laugh and smile. i know some of these advice will be difficult, but pls try and do them and u will see the results 1. when he comes back late dont ask him about his outing, just wellcome and give him food, 2. Avoid getting into agurment with him 3. tell him he is the best thing that has ever happened to you always. 3. learn to say you are sorry even if you are not at fault. 4. Swallow ur anger to let peace reign. I know many others will post to confuse pls dont be confused. Do what ever is right in the sight of God to keep ur marriage. If u could stand b4 ur families, his families, friends and even enemies to say "I DO" then keep to ur word. the bible says "The wise woman builds her home, but the foolish one pulls it down with her own hands". |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Joke Section Offtopic Chat Thread by benedictac(f): 4:15pm On Oct 12, 2009 |
old age don dey worry u |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Joke Section Offtopic Chat Thread by benedictac(f): 3:35pm On Oct 12, 2009 |
u dey talk like say u dey go school b4. No worry strike will soon be over then fowl yash go open |
| Family › Re: Help My Child Is Addicted To Cartoonnetwork by benedictac(f): 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2009 |
If u cant discipline ur child at 7 when will u do that? Maybe u've been too soft on him, be a little hard now that wont kill the child. The bible says train up a child in the way he should go and when he grows up, he will not depart from it. At the way u are letting this boy loose u might just regrete it later. Set the rules and dont bend it. I dont know if it is a christian home, but if it is, pray and study the bible together at the family alter this will help alot. creat more time for your child(ren) dont leave everything in the hand of the house help. You just called the house help STUPID here then i wonder what u call him at home and in ur child's presence. see my dear, pls check ur attitude first. before u can transform a child or a family u need to be transformed as a wife first. |
| Family › Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage by benedictac(f): 3:07pm On Oct 12, 2009 |
I met my husband in a commercial bus on my way to work. few days after he asked for my hand in marriage, i asked to come and see my pastor if if was searious and he did. Within 6months of our courtship we did our marriage counselling and the wedding was done. My marriage has been sweet, but that does not mean that there were no time(s) we quarelled oh. There are thing in my marriage that ordinarily i dont think any other man can do it. Just imagine the woman being in total control of the money. I mean both his and mine are in one account and i am the sole signatory to the account. But i will never abuse that. And so many others 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner? by benedictac(f): 2:57pm On Oct 12, 2009 |
NOTHING |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Who Is D New Moderator? by benedictac(f): 4:55pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
na Tompolo u for talk |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Jokes Section Amusement Park 1 by benedictac(f): 4:53pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
Abbey City if u let me enter u eh, i reserve my comment |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Who Is D New Moderator? by benedictac(f): 4:50pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
romsky:Captain abeg modify ur pigin |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Nepa bleeped Up My Friend by benedictac(f): 4:46pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
pls can some1 explain this joke to me coz i dont understand |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Jokes Section Amusement Park 1 by benedictac(f): 4:40pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
only liars recognise liars |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Joke Section Offtopic Chat Thread by benedictac(f): 4:35pm On Oct 09, 2009 |
and e go come settle for im doormot |
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