₦airaland Forum

Own your life campaign...... Real scam..

Bloody Biafrans


Mind u I am igbo..

Hmmm!!!!
And that should be a white singlet...

TINUBU would be smiling now

BUHARI and TINUBU are the major problems of Nigeria...

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

U seem to be filled with pride... You want your wife to display everything on social media.... I am also like her, I don't display my achievements on social media..... I

Afonjas and BUHARI are the major problems of Nigeria.....

Olajah81:
Continue ur wacko-jacko in foolishness..
U need mental therapy

Olawerey....... Continue typing $hit


Learn to mind your business..

AFONJAS & BUHARI are the problems of Nigeria..

DTaj:
You are a sick, hate-filled, hypocritical, daft fool! Boko Haram started under Obasanjo in 2003, it became stronger under Jonathan, who denied that it existed until it was too late. So, how did Buhari turn Maiduguri to Boko Haram headquarters?

Hate for Buhari will kill you, if it has not already killed 95% of your soul!

Sly nincompoop!

Werey....my post dey pain am

That was When MAIDUGURI used to be a safe place.. Now the dullard president from daura has turned MAIDUGURI to the head quarters of BOKO HARAM TERRORIST..

Messi is one billion times better than C. Ronaldo..
Seeing LionelMessi play football reminds me of the great RONALDO DILEMA..
Just little difference between C. Ronaldo and Ruud van Nisteroy.....

Messi is the greatest of all time G. O. A.T...
Click like for Messi and share for C. Ronaldo...

Olosho girl.
Greedy girl..... I watch the video were she demanded one million naira from precious parents.

Northwave:
Question is : is he not human??

We ain't talking about him being human..The Bible make us to understand that Christians are Christlike beings... And when you are Christlike you are righteous before the sight of God and you have the power to overcome temptation..... If your pastor is mere human and not christlike, well I am sorry to tell you that he is off the devil...
Any disciple,pastors etc,Who are leaders in the christiandom ought to be free from sin...


Please read Galatians 5:19-25....

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

You are not a man..... U don't need any advice.... Get out of here..

You are not a man.... Get out of here...

Stupid post

The people of Adamawa rejected the deadly party called APC..

Hmmm!!
Buhari caused it. Why is she transferring the Aggression of a failed Nigeria to an innocent man..

Parasitic president...... No wonder Nigeria is falling backward..


Even FELA ANIKULAPO KUTI called BUHARI A " CRAZE MAN & ANIMAL in HUMAN SKIN"........

RIP FELA

ignis:
Your mama

Back to sender.

ignis:
I am very guilty of spending lots of money on airtime.


In fact I spend 70% of my salary on airtime.

Slay mama spotted.... I pity that man.

OlawaleSmarter1:
I own a Pure Water factory and I can tell you power is not that a Big Deal when Economy is good.

How do feel running on generator when there is no power supply?.. Do u make more profit?.

OlawaleSmarter1:
You can provide your own power, power is not that really a Big deal. We have better Economy and we can generate our power without government support, and Money Value doesn't really mean much when it come to Economy, Naira Is greater than South Korea won but that doesn't mean Nigeria is better.

To you power supply is not a big deal, but to investors it is more than a big deal...
I once worked for a company that had a two 1000kva generators as a backup for power supply.... Each generator consumed about 60-65 litres of diesel per hour, mind u we also work at night... Imagine days when we run generator for about 15hours, I.e 750 litres per day.....Our monthly PHCN bills as at then was about 2million
naira..

OlawaleSmarter1:
You can provide your own power, power is not that really a Big deal. We have better Economy and we can generate our power without government support, and Money Value doesn't really mean much when it come to Economy, Naira Is greater than South Korea won but that doesn't mean Nigeria is better.

If you have ever established a business you would power is a big deal. .

OlawaleSmarter1:
Lagos Already have Economy that is better than the whole Mazambique which means there is better business Climate and more foreign Investors.

Then why are foreign investors running away from Lagos and other part of Nigeria?.

OlawaleSmarter1:
Are you living In Mozambique?

Nigeria naira have Value more than South Korea Won does that means Nigeria is better?


I am not saying Nigeria is better than Mozambique, but Mozambique is not better than Nigeria too. The Economy of Lagos alone is 3 times more than the Whole Mozambique

Can Lagos boost of 24/7 power supply?..... I understand lagos has a good economy..... But can the business climate of Lagos attract foreign investors?

Let us come to West Africa..... 1ghana cedis =69.29 Nigerian Naira..... Let me break it down for u: With 1 cedis(in Nigeria) I can buy 50 Naira bread and have some change to buy pure water...
Whereas 1naira is insignificant when u take it to Ghana.... Same Ghana can boost of 24/7 power supply...




A country with uninterrupted power supply Vs a country with epileptic power supply which is better?

OlawaleSmarter1:
Keep deceiving yourself with all those lies

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_Mozambique

1mozambique metical=5.67 Nigerian Naira...

24/7 power supply is absolutely constant ... (people don't buy/own power generating set in Mozambique)

Water supply is absolutely constant...

Govt take care of education...

What is really wrong with the so called giant of Africa?