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 Crime › Re: Kaduna: Wife Kills 17-Year-Old Girl For Accepting Her Husband’s Proposal by Berryli: 7:15pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
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| Crime › Re: Kaduna: Wife Kills 17-Year-Old Girl For Accepting Her Husband’s Proposal by Berryli: 7:14pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
Aisha the deceased aged 16, is set to wed after 6 years if courship, meaning she and the groom began fating from when she was 11 years�hmmmmm na wa. R.I.P to the dead ijustdey: |
| Romance › Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Berryli: 8:14pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
lordally:well said and I respect your opinion more so you were able to express it without getting insulting which is what most people would do. I wish you and your lady the best then. just to mention, I ain't a bro!!! I'm a full blown lady� |
| Celebrities › Re: TBoss Celebrates Starr, Her Daughter's Conception Day (Photos) by Berryli: 5:36pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
deepwater:my thoughts exactly. can a mum really tell the actual moment an egg gets fertilized? |
| Romance › Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Berryli: 5:02pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
lordally:True sometimes ladies get impatient especially ladies less than 25, you think in many different directions, you want many things at a time, intentionally or unintentionally, our wants and needs make us narrow minded and we get to make avoidable mistakes, does that make us terrible, is it so unforgivable? What if she is truly sorry and has learnt and matured with time. What makes you think that you are not also in your relationship for one selfish reason or the other, the thing is we all get selfish at some point in our lives, this lady you speak so highly of what is the assurance that you won't dumb her when things get green for you then she suddenly becomes annoying, fat or unattractive or some flimsy excuse arises. Don't always use ones story or act to judge another, as it is not always the case. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Berryli: 4:50pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz:Finding a good woman is not that hard it depends on where you are looking, and also the kind of person you are since compatibility is the crux of the matter here. Are you the type of guy with specifics on how a lady must behave in order to fit into your lifestyle, then there lies your problem which is a mistake common with us all finding our spouse. Find a person who complements you, with same vision as you and not a direct replica of yourself cos that's going to be impossible. Best of luck to us all in our search. May we never make the wrong choice of a life partner. Amen 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Berryli: 5:13pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
NiRfreak:life isn't always about sex, in fact sex is overrated. A girl can truly be without a boyfriend and a sex mate. I don't know the type of girls you've come across but we do exist even if its just a few 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Berryli: 9:27am On Sep 02, 2020 |
I guess its d new norm and people just want to go with the trend. As for me I'm not comfortable painting my face with all sorts cos it feels really uncomfortable. I prefer being natural aha or just a little touch up 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Berryli(op): 8:05am On Sep 02, 2020 |
Thanks so much guys. I really appreciate the advice means alot 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Berryli(op): 8:03am On Sep 02, 2020 |
blackpanthar:exactly 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: I Took Tramadoll For Hard Sex And Dis Happened (pic) by Berryli: 7:42am On Sep 02, 2020 |
since that na achievement, keep up...till u Bleep ur life away 1 Like |
| Romance › How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Berryli(op): 5:05am On Sep 02, 2020 |
Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen. Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship. He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression. He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him. Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing? 43 Likes 6 Shares |
| Romance › Is Too Late Now To Say Sorry? by Berryli(op): 1:24am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Please I need your advice. I broke up with my boyfriend 11 months ago, but I'm still hurting and d thought that I may have lost my Mr right keeps taunting me. After nysc, I got a job offer in Abuja, since my boyfriend resides there, I seized the opportunity to be with him even for just a week, before I move to my sister's house. But after 3days of my stay, he asked me to leave for my sister's place as he was expecting his brothers for a meeting which I suspected was a lie, I felt he saw me as an inconvenience. I was pissed n things ended. I felt he is never or hardly there for me. Doesn't support me with little things like money for hair or even etc even though I'm not one to ask. We hardly go out due to the nature of his job plus I am not the outing type. And hardly keeps up his promise especially one that has to do with money. In the two years we dated, I'm not sure he subscribed for me up to 3 times if at all he did. But in everything I loved him and I feel he does too and tries to express it in the way he can. Until he asked me to leave and I ended things based on the assumption that he was cheating and doesn't care about me. The problem now is what if I misjudged him, what if I wasn't patient enough, what if I just lost a good man. Please help cause im still deeply in love with him and can't seem to move on. What should I do? |
| Crime › Re: Prophet Temidayo Afolabi Accused Of Raping 13-year-Old Church Member by Berryli: 2:59am On Feb 28, 2020 |
[quote author=arinze198 post=86994610]Source: https://pmexpressng.com/prophet-in-police-net-over-alleged-rape-of-13-year-old-church-member/[/quote Flee from all these new generation "pastors" whose calling is not verified, n you will be saving yourself from unnecessary drama. they either want to dig a hole in your savings or drill the hole in between Your legs. 1 Like |
See I grew up in a lovely home where I saw the love between my dad and my mum and I was proud the love was so cool it rubbed on I and my bro then tragedy struck and she died of cancer now after some time, my dad remarried and that was the worst mistake he made in his life the woman he married doesn't give him peace of mind!! So as a guy who has experienced these 2 type of scenario and I've gotten enough Tutoring about marriage from my dad for years...when I spotted her I knew she was the one. The only person holding us from settling down is her...cos she's not ready yet...she wants to serve and set up her own business or starts working before marriage and I respect that...