NiRfreak:
For our vagina people, Life without a boyfriend doesn't mean it's life without a bedcock that keep the Vjay serviced. Take note.

MrBrownJay1:


A) No wonder you always fail on these issues when you actually believe that what women desire the most (in life) is money...
B) EVERYONE need money to cater for their basic needs (food/shelter etc) whether man or woman, and some women out there are taking care of their own self without the need of a man. You foolishly try to make it seem that a woman without a BF will automatically be broke and/or suffer financially (as if women can't have their own money/job/finances), lol!
C) money is irrelevant to the whole issue, it's all about women fulfillment... Aka they'd rather be single than settle with a man with the failed/wrong character OR they are not ready to focus on a r/ship. Is that so difficult for you to understand?

Liposure:
No Woman is ever single. Its either she's has clients she's servicing or secret admirers she's getting or sponsors she's benefiting from

ubunja:
but they get the worst sex because without a man's commitment sex is terrible for women.

Liposure:
No Woman is ever single. Its either she's has clients she's servicing or secret admirers she's getting or sponsors she's benefiting from

ibuildstuff:

Good men are not scares, alot of Nigerian guys are just broke n avoiding relationship.

Jorby:
Any girl who is yet to have a boyfried is an under 18. Since i was born and now that i'm getting old, i have never seen a girl above 18 without a ßoyfriend.
ßrothers have you seen?

proclinician:


You have the wrong perception of everything and I wonder if you've had any experience with young women. When a woman makes it known to u she's not after your money, she has another boyfriend or she's a prostitute. She has to be in the competition and if you're not financing it, somebody else is.

MrBrownJay1:


A) No wonder you always fail on these issues when you actually believe that what women desire the most (in life) is money...
B) EVERYONE need money to cater for their basic needs (food/shelter etc) whether man or woman, and some women out there are taking care of their own self without the need of a man. You foolishly try to make it seem that a woman without a BF will automatically be broke and/or suffer financially (as if women can't have their own money/job/finances), lol!
C) money is irrelevant to the whole issue, it's all about women fulfillment... Aka they'd rather be single than settle with a man with the failed/wrong character OR they are not ready to focus on a r/ship. Is that so difficult for you to understand?

Xavie:
how is it that girls don't orgasm outside dating?

marketplacesng:


Or she is probably a lady who earns her own money legitimately or cares less about your current material possessions. You sound like you have been unfortunate with women. Expand your perception.

MrBrownJay1:


A) No wonder you always fail on these issues when you actually believe that what women desire the most (in life) is money...
B) EVERYONE need money to cater for their basic needs (food/shelter etc) whether man or woman, and some women out there are taking care of their own self without the need of a man. You foolishly try to make it seem that a woman without a BF will automatically be broke and/or suffer financially (as if women can't have their own money/job/finances), lol!
C) money is irrelevant to the whole issue, it's all about women fulfillment... Aka they'd rather be single than settle with a man with the failed/wrong character OR they are not ready to focus on a r/ship. Is that so difficult for you to understand?

FiletMignon:
Well, this isn't true for every lady. Some of us haven't dated much and haven't been opportuned opportune to meet/find a good man.

ubunja:
Women have more sex when single than when they have a boyfriend.

As hard to imagine as it may be for guys.

What girls lack when they dont have a boyfriend is money. Not sex.

UDOKABESTLUV:
I need a lady who has good mindset, if you are interested, get In touch with me

Jorby:
Any girl who is yet to have a boyfried is an under 18. Since i was born and now that i'm getting old, i have never seen a girl above 18 without a ßoyfriend.
ßrothers have you seen?

Jorby:
Any girl who is yet to have a boyfried is an under 18. Since i was born and now that i'm getting old, i have never seen a girl above 18 without a ßoyfriend.
ßrothers have you seen?

proclinician:


Ubunja is very much smarter than you and I can't see any trace of intelligence in your thinking. Before a young woman chooses a boyfriend what comes to mind is the competition. Most women below 25 has a group of friends, these are not friends in the traditional sense of the word but they're competitors. They compete on who has the latest bag, shoes, expensive treats, trips, wears the most expensive cologne etc. This factor shows you why there's a lot of jealousy among female cliques because each is constantly trying to outdo the other. In Nigeria where young women are judged to be incapable of doing most of the jobs and where they also have to resort on the ever booming but saturated beauty industry to feedback on the competition, they're not very likely to make a lot of money here so it's guys that finance this competition. When I was in school I dated this particular girl who has about 3 very close friends-cum-enemies. They fight everyday and they're best friends. They lie to each other they say all manner of things out of jealousy that are just unbelievable. One day this girl received a Zara 8.0 designer perfume from her brother in Dubai and she told these friends that I, her boyfriend got it for her. These friends started gisting her how they will change it for their boyfriends until the poor guy buys them perfume worth over 20k. The day we broke up was after the clique was in my room then so I noticed they wanted to discuss something but just going superficially. Before then I have gotten a wind that my girl is cheating with a yahoo guy. I told them I wanted to get something outside so they should stay. I left my phone on voice recording and hid it somewhere in the room. After 30 mins I returned, played the record in front of everyone and all hell was let loose. Just there I called it quit.

You have the wrong perception of everything and I wonder if you've had any experience with young women. When a woman makes it known to u she's not after your money, she has another boyfriend or she's a prostitute. She has to be in the competition and if you're not financing it, somebody else is.

Jorby:
ßrothers have you seen?

MrBrownJay1:


A) No wonder you always fail on these issues when you actually believe that what women desire the most (in life) is money...
B) EVERYONE need money to cater for their basic needs (food/shelter etc) whether man or woman, and some women out there are taking care of their own self without the need of a man. You foolishly try to make it seem that a woman without a BF will automatically be broke and/or suffer financially (as if women can't have their own money/job/finances), lol!
C) money is irrelevant to the whole issue, it's all about women fulfillment... Aka they'd rather be single than settle with a man with the failed/wrong character OR they are not ready to focus on a r/ship. Is that so difficult for you to understand?

MrBrownJay1:


From their JOB, unless you foolishly believe that women can't have a good job. I guess you never met women that had their own biz NOR a female doctor/lawyer/engineer/architect etc, Abi?!

But then again, it doesn't surprise me, men like you actually believe that a woman is nothing without a man, thus you can't accept the concept of the OP not needing a man in her life... Simply because, in your deluded mind, a woman without a man MUST be broke, Lol

Blackmann001:




Lol...go check everywhere....90% guyz end up with ladies standing firm with them at the budding stage.......

I didn't say 100% for reasons we both know....

The real good guyz are not flashy and all putting, they hardly try to impress even when they have money...they face you and say they are broke, you know them easily cuz u just feel it..still don't know how it is that gals run away from such guyz and want them back at 28...only age brings ladies to their senses

Example for me...I HV always been a cool headed ,very focus but super struggling guy. My own struggle no get mate...I have everything no going well for me except looks...honestly I would lie...I grew up one of the most handsome guyz you can ever meet.....but na so so struggle...

Met a lot of gals along the way; "all" dumping my sorry ass cuz I no get money..but all attesting to they are sure I will make it cuz of the focus and hard work...now I still never mk am but far better than b4...

Du u know all these gals.7 in number are all not married and wouldn't let my fine rest..coming and doing all kind of house choirs to sell face..cuz they are all in late twenties while am in mid 30..

One says am super sure u will hit it...cuz u no dey rest..so if they are so so abt an extremely handsome ,intelligent,very cool headed guy..do u know av never drank nor smoked all my life..?..av had just 2 gf all my life..?

Am super supportive of people around me, including gals to mk positive impacts..yet they all ran away for biga boiz...

Gals will continue to b stranded and av long stopped pitying them.....

Emmatee1816:
stop the generalisation.....my younger sister is 19 and she has never been in a relationship and most likely still a virgin.lets stop discouraging the younger and innocent ones with the bad mindset we have towards ourselves as a nation.

Amatarasha:
u n other girls shud gang up n send ubunja to Nairaland oblivon

pocohantas:


This is why series of testing and debugging should be done, before rolling out a gender as complex and insatiable as the Nigerian man.

How does someone spend years whining about Nigerian girls being materialistic- meets one who doesn’t want his money and he comes to this conclusion?

How do you even satisfy this kind of human without getting grey hair or attending every crusade and revival?

Women should choose their poisons wisely.

DarkJeddi:
You are talking a lot of UTOPIAN story,girls need money and having a boyfriend has always been one of the many ways to take care of their expenses and this is not a purely Nigerian thing..

Amatarasha:
u n other girls shud gang up n send ubunja to Nairaland oblivon

Blackmann001:




Lol...go check everywhere....90% guyz end up with ladies standing firm with them at the budding stage.......

I didn't say 100% for reasons we both know....

The real good guyz are not flashy and all putting, they hardly try to impress even when they have money...they face you and say they are broke, you know them easily cuz u just feel it..still don't know how it is that gals run away from such guyz and want them back at 28...only age brings ladies to their senses

Example for me...I HV always been a cool headed ,very focus but super struggling guy. My own struggle no get mate...I have everything no going well for me except looks...honestly I would lie...I grew up one of the most handsome guyz you can ever meet.....but na so so struggle...

Met a lot of gals along the way; "all" dumping my sorry ass cuz I no get money..but all attesting to they are sure I will make it cuz of the focus and hard work...now I still never mk am but far better than b4...

Du u know all these gals.7 in number are all not married and wouldn't let my fine rest..coming and doing all kind of house choirs to sell face..cuz they are all in late twenties while am in mid 30..

One says am super sure u will hit it...cuz u no dey rest..so if they are so so abt an extremely handsome ,intelligent,very cool headed guy..do u know av never drank nor smoked all my life..?..av had just 2 gf all my life..?

Am super supportive of people around me, including gals to mk positive impacts..yet they all ran away for biga boiz...

Gals will continue to b stranded and av long stopped pitying them.....

Dalby:


Question these guys that they claim to be having sex with, do they tell the guys that it is just for sex

I am sure NO, they make each of these guys believe that they are the chosen and ONLY one...

So how can they then claim to be lacking money when they do not have a boyfriend and are randomly having sex

David405:


Yeah, that is because democracy has a rule where the majority decides the winner, in a Monarch system of Governance, if everybody likes Mr A, and only the King likes Mr B, who do you think will be chosen?