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Charmingrascal:
Never marry a Benue (Idoma) lady if you are not from there.


Never marry an Ijebu (Yoruba) woman if you are not from there.


Don't make the mistake of marrying a lady without any source of income.



As a lady don't marry a proud cultist, they don't always live long even after settling down.

I would love to know your reasons about not marrying an idoma lady if you are not one. I am one, I would love to learn

deltateam:
Nollywood ke. Let him just be modest, no need wearing rags as he might also miss the "one."

I love your wisdom

Unless you wabt referrals if not why give yourself a time frame for the search? You might just settle for anything. Pray about it which is the most important thing, go out-could be church or other social places, relax and who knows love might come find you. I agree on being decent and not showing off, but don't over do it such as wearing bathroom slippers like someone suggested. You might just mess it up. Good luck to you in your search

Quite an interesting read. It makes me hopeful and motivates to hustle more and learn about investments. I guess some people have grace working double time for them while some of us have had to endure all manner of insults and humiliation over a meager paying job. Dear God I'm still the child you created in your image and likeness. HAVE MERCY ON ME

What if after giving up hope on getting the rejection letter, you submit to fate and accept the acceptance letter and uplod, only to later find your way around getting a rejection letter from them. Can you still upload the rejection letter with that of your preferred school? Or will it be considered invalid because of the initial acceptance letter you uploaded?

Is she an introvert? Cos a typical introvert will rather bottle up emotions and sulk rather than confront or discuss it.
If ur conscience is truly pure and you have nothing to hide or unresolved differences, then it is possible she just grew cold feet and need assurances (the happenings lately aren't exactly encouraging )
Lastly it might be either two things: the devil trying to ruin a beautiful beginning or God trying to save you from harm. Either way pray harder and try communicating with her. Good luck

Having graduated with a 2.1 and served 2018, I've practically been jobless even after so many applications and interviews and volunteers. Then I acquired a skill (baking) and I'm quite good at it but bacause I have no customer base nor capital to start on a standard level, the baking is not exactly flourishing thanks to the spike of prices of goods

I took up a teaching job July (30,000) in Jos as I was very broke. I've declined baking employments in Abuja due to low pay and lack of accommodation even though that is where my passion lies

I've been invited for an interview for the post of a baker in Abuja, with a possible pay of 50-70k with accommodation which I am excited about but have my fears

Working for a one mans business comes with high risk of being fired at anytime and back to being jobless and broke (i only plan to work just till I can save enough to start up mine)

Please advice me on whether to pursue and take up the Abuja baking offer or hold unto the teaching I currently have cos I don't want to lose both in the process of aiming higher. Thanks

With all this deaths around Davido, I have a feeling this guy might just become born again

I really need advise please. Its 3 years post NYSC, I'm still unable to get a job, no matter how little the pay. Immediately after service, I moved to Abuja (2019) to job hunt, having wasted the little money I had saved up, I went back home heartbroken. My sister registered me for Masters program, till now the admission list isn't out yet, and her business isn't flourishing anymore. 2020, I volunteered at a radio station as a news caster while simultaneously learning programming (sponsored) somehow I quit both, the radio station wasn't giving any kind of compensation(worked even during the lockdown) and for the programming, I think I'm too distracted at the moment. I opted to learn baking, interned for 6 months and rounded up early this year. With no capital to start up a bakery, little patronage, its really depressing I really need a source of income, while I save up to start up proper. Someone suggested I move to Lagos as there are opportunities there, but I'm scared of not being able to cope as I have never been there, and there is also the high standard of living factor to consider. What should I do please. I want to be useful already.

same story. I once attended such years back, only to be tricked into almost attending another in the guise of an interview ( I said almost cos I didn't have the patience to stomach their disgustingly annoying speech) what gets me more mad is the hungry looking so called ' managers' appearing unkept in a washed up rumpled coat and shoes that have been to hell and back, promising you financial freedom ( I will be like ' can't they even fake looking rich) those neo life guys are super annoying. what's worse is using diff company names to lure people to attend such meetings in the name of interviews.

leksdigital:
Nice, I've been a freelancer for over 5 years, I have done different niches , you just have to be so dedicated and disciplined.



Right now I focus on writing. If you are interested in learning about freelancing check out www.lekeadelaja.com or you can join my freelance group here

Visit www.lekeadelaja.com/group for class on freelancing and making money online. I will teach you everything I've done in the last 7 years that has made me at least $1,000 online.

Please this is not by force oo. However if you have questions you can always quote me and I will still respond to you.

We will all win


1. How long you have been doing remote work
Over 7 years

2. Time Zone of Work/Nigerian Time
From 10am to 2am Nigerian time (I always sleep late)

3. Current Pay
Hmmm wont say but it depends, some months thousands of dollars other months a couple of dollars.

4. Type ie permanent or temp worker
I love temp work

5. Duration of Work if temp work
I work when I wake and sleep pm work lol

6. Your Area of Specialization(Your line of work):
Writing, research i love easy jobs

7. Remote Work sites you got your job:
Upwork all the way

8. Your Nigerian Internet Experience
I have all the Internet networks swift, smile , spectranet, airtel, MTN. Etisalat. Yes i use depending on the one that's messing up

9. Recommendations for those looking for Remote Jobs
First of all go and build your online skill on coursera and udemy.

I can mentor a couple of people. Please reach out to me

would love for you to put me through please

someone should kindly spare him a brain. the one he is currently making use of is fried

confident and killing it by Tiwalola ogunlesi, unlocking us by bene brown, girls night by Stephanie May wilson, where do I start by Roland banks

Mabizeka:
I hope women listens to this legend. women should never leave their husbands no matter what. remember that whatever he does outside his pric must still return home to your waiting arms so allow us to do as we want

women should remain with their husbands no matter what, can you even hear yourself? I hope you stay with a violent cheating partner and love them extremely as well, in the name of marriage. don't just dish out advice. take them

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

when they said get someone that complements you, it isn't just in bed. you've known her to be the way she is, you went ahead to wife her and expect a miracle for her to change, especially now that its going to be legal, that you will shoulder her responsibilities. Oga, you are on a high way, bear your cross.

it's simple, simply ask her. you are in a relationship for goodness sake you should be able to communicate. hear her reasons, good or bad. then you decide you next line of action

I think he was more concerned about mounting his sign post than the quality of bridge he reconstructed. chai

definitely my husband. isn't he the head after all

in summary, change is indeed constant. people who celebrate you today, can turn against you tomorrow, vice versa. just thinking out loud sha

more than covid 19 vaccine, Nigerians urgently need vaccine against unemployment, insecurity, hunger amongst other things bedeviling the country

why am I even more concerned about the mans overly bleached skin, looking very disgusting than the actual matter on ground. anyway na them sabi. say no to bleaching. black is beautiful

what a country. just one question though where is Chikwe Iheakwazu and his team, shouldn't they come and carryout covid 19 test on the students, since there wasn't social distancing during the abduction if these students

if Nigeria was a country, this man would have long been arrested, but no. Again anyone who manages to understand and speak English would think others are without brains by always using the words "distorted, doctored or misconstrued" as escape. is he not aware that even repentant boko haram reintegrated back to the society end up spying on the communities and returning back to their old ways? the easiest solution to this menace is "shoot at sight" full stop

who asked this one now to interpret the presidents order, or is Amotekun made up of illiterates to not be able to comprehend an order? He should face front and stop taking panadol for someone else's problems

how do you expect them not to rejoin, after all when they get arrested, they get a pat on the back in the name of de-radicalization. she the government gets ready to fight insurgency, they will wake up and do the needful

wow. congratulations. this is actually my dream as well, having worked for a year, but just cakes and pastries though. I don't know anything about bread. congrats once more, this is quite inspiring

nwekeugochukwu:
https://igberetvnews.com/1383863/ransom-paid-rescue-kagara-students-niger-state-governor/

this one wants to form "hard working governor" the lies and shamelessness of these people is utterly disgusting

you should be appreciative that we have an incompetent president that allowed you to stay longer than necessary and being paid for being clueless and useless

Broken2020:
Toothless dog, he can only bark he can’t bite. Terrorist apologist

it can even be manageable, if he barks, but then he doesn't even have the balls to do so

IamPlato:
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This Ada is fvcking ugly abeg...

Her brain too is ugly...


Does ka3na owe anybody anything?

If you tattoo my name on your body should I pay you for it or what, abi all of una don dey mad for this planet

understand where Ada Ameh is coming from rather than rain insults on her. she didn't say ka3na must reward the fan, but at least not humiliate her the way she did, since the fan was only trying to fulfill ka3na's wish in the first instance.
PS: I don't support this tatoo trend anyway

He can use the money he embezzled over the years to buy a prosthetic leg, if and when his leg gets amputated. hopefully he loses the two. I hate it when people are not juts wicked but utterly shameless

Dillusional idiot