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I wooed her, and she said nothing - didn't say 'yes' or 'no'. She responded to other things I said that were not about love. Then I ignored her.

Today, she was the first person to wish me happy birthday. What can I deduce from this?

Xinzu:
I would love to advice you but.... I sort of want you to learn the hard way, so.......

What is the hard way? That I should not go and get my fingers burnt?

She is a very pretty girl in my church. You would see everyone looking at her, talking to her. Once a girl is like this, it's my behavior to always avoid talking to such a girl. I have never talked to her despite incessant contact in the church. My thinking is such a girl may be rude since most girls see beauty as a tool for manipulating men.

Now she always looks at me in the church. If our eyes meet, she won't turn her gaze away even after turning mine away. It has come to a level she would get lost staring at me. My look is average and I don't wear expensive clothes. Should I conclude that she wants me? Though I want her any day, but if I'm insulted by such a stunning beauty, I won't forgive myself.

HonNellymike12:
Start drinking your urine, the first urine early morning consistently and watch how you be healed. It's called urine therapy without spending a dime. It's working for me and it will work for you if you believe

But what medical condition is this?

HOLYDICK:
Since wen have you notice all these...? From a tender age?

Yes. I don't hangout with others. If I do, I would leave others and go home as I see sitting down boring.

I can't sit down in a spot for one hour. I would want to move about or lie down. I can do strenuous work for four hours in a row. But to sit down resting for up to one hour is not possible for me. Is this a medical problem?

stblessing:
How did he wind up with such a pretty girl? Why is it that its usually bad people that end up with good things

What is good in a gold-digger?

GraGra247:
So painful. Believe me it spoilt my entire day. I couldn't shake off the feeling.

Most men and ladies think that love means abandon your brains.

She deserves it.. . She fell in love with a good entrepreneur, awon eeyan gold-diggers

safarigirl:
I like to converse with people before dating. I can't date someone I haven't spoken with lengthily for at least one month, that is enough time to gauge if you know where you are going or if you are a drifter.

Anybody I like is usually going my way, that's why I like them to begin with, hardly like anyone who isn't going my way


And as for the input of the love theme? It is only feeding basic human emotions, , people want to believe in love, they need to believe in the concept of love and romance, so you give the people what they need.

Some people, like myself, like metaphysics. In your story plot, can you write something like 'the cargo plane veered off its course, nosedived, and landed safely on the Himalaya, having been held in balance by the windstorm triggered by Poseidon and lightning of Thor' and expect me to say it's a work of art? If it's not possible in real life, it won't make any sense in fictional works.

safarigirl:
I don't even believe in love.....however, I can date a guy with skills. You don't even need a certificate, as long as you have something doing and know where you are going.... And as long as you are not an upcoming musician, because those ones hardly ever know where they are going

That love aspect is something. But hardly will you see writers produce a work of art whose main theme is not love. Or tell me a novel that sells and has not love as its crucial theme. So why do you guys always lie about something that is nonexistent?

How will you know if someone you haven't agreed to date knows where he is going? And if he heading to the stars, like British Airforce motto, and your destination is a different domain in the galaxies, will you still date him?

safarigirl:
stop generalising bro. This is like me saying all Nigerian men only want sex, or that all Nigerian men are insecure.

You cannot use one blanket to cover everybody.

Are you telling me you can love a guy that has just the certificates and skills? We know better na.

DeadRat:
you Like Him Abi. Dont Worry He Is Coming To Pay Your Bride Price

You're a fake prophet. Could you believe she turned blind eye to my pm?

greiboy:
Morning

Yeah it will help on google search. Plus I need to have .com to register for Google adsense.

She likes you and you're talking of domain name. Deadrat, come and reallocate this marine girl for me jare.

xendra:
you no see as you dull? did they add with calling b4 ?

The problem with lunatics is that they don't know they are insane. Same thing applies to fools

makydebbie:
There's a difference. A God fearing man must not necessarily be a pastor. He should just know God and abide by His words. A pastor is very different, a pastor has a calling.

Then when next they list specs, it should be 'godfearing but not with calling.'

xendra:
that's none of your business, don't deviate. let's talk about you lying about how God didn't call you

Didinrin! Every story on nairaland must be what happens to a poster. Have you ever seen the forewall of any higher institution? Daft people should always maintain their lane.

xendra:
thumbs up man, we are getting there. I'm going to show you whom you are

Defender of prostitutes. Restrict your business to Edo state please

xendra:
mtchww pans out for you and yours you mean.. ode

If people aren't telling you the truth to your face then its your loss. YOU DON'T KNOW GOD.

This slut again.. .

xendra:
OK I didn't want to reply but close to God that's funny. hehe death ke' you have no idea.

Then we will see how it pans out for you

xendra:
mtchww you still wonder y ladies won't marry you pretenders who claim you were called by who knows what

I know what you are up to. You think someone close to God won't reply insults. You're on a long thing. Make I no add trouble join for you. You for ask for death to take you away

xendra:
yep, right after yo mama

Slut, Ikeja bleeping gang

The curse following them from the womb won't let them stop living fake life

xendra:
yea...you better stay single because you will keep divorcing and finding women who have "excesses " all the encouragement men give each other for having multiple women leads y'all to getting one who has been overused. and women still date broke men until they realize that these men are worse, still just looking for who to use so what's the point being used with nothing in return?

Op, slut gang yaff arrive

xendra:
that makes them confused? no you are the confused or should I say dumb one. Godfearing, does it sound like pastor to you? Ode. if a woman wants a pastor she knows how to pronounce that.

You have been heard, oponu

Hj

Xiadnat:
Thank you! For this expose.

This is all i have being trying to say and have being wanting to pen for long time in this forum.

This has been my experience with most Nigerian men even the ones that live Outside Africa/Nigeria.


Its the reason most of nigerian men will prefer ugly fat usually white foreigners who cater to their fragile and misplaced ego than marry a well educated good looking (Black)woman who is fierecely her own person. .

When you demand or challenge them to be better, they call you “difficult” or something similar.


Collectively, Nigerian men have misplaced ego/pride/stubborness because that same pride cannot be put to good use to better Nigeria as a country. . What it is really is low self esteem or self hatred in disguise.

Its a generational curse and stronghold that needs to be broken.

And yes! This write up extends to what i ahve observed in this forum too.

Very well said.

PS watch out tho, they are coming to burn you at stake.

You're on a long thing. I like female doctors though. it's in this profesion where the most arrogant of women are found. Even if I'm your carpenter husband, there is a limit to the level of advice from you that I will heed. I don't try to change women, and they can't change me either.

Some of you don't know why we are here on earth. What you see as wisdom may be seen as the foolishness of the highest order to me despite that you're richer than I am. I'm not surprised because your role model said you should all be feminists.

makydebbie:
My dear, it's not today. We already know, but thanks for reminding them.

Safia may God bless you and grant your heart desires.

I'm still coming back to modify.

The lazy one by default is also talking. You think men can cope with your ilk in marriage? You're on a long thing.

olisaemeka1:
keep on jonzing .....but pl's do not carry over this jonzing to 2018....

You're truly emeka.. . Brainless lots

PenSniper:
If you want to engage me, put monetary issue aside then i can enlighten you of the truth of Celestial church. Why ? Because there are ravenous wolves in sheep' clothing who are into the doctrine for their pockets and not for the glory of God. No problem requires as much as 4k worth of candles alone to solve. Quote me.

However, you must know that only Jesus, at His first coming, could give deliverance for free. Even some of those He healed were required to make some efforts to get healed.

Well, I will agree that I have not met a true celestial prophet.

analize701:
The gift is not from satan, but your misplaced allegiance is giving satan the room to use it for himself.

lol. God is only letting you know you are in a wrong place doing what you shd be doing somewhere else.

Satan can not give anything, it's all manipulations.

How do you think God reveals secrets to his servants? The Revelational gifts are what satan turns to divinations. You have a Revelational gift.

Let's exmaine someone with your exact gift in the Bible.

In 1Kings 1:14- 17 We see a Prophet by the name of Ahijah who was in the days of Jeroboam, you remember him? God told him, listen, Jeroboam knows he can't come to you for help becos of his sins, but he has sent his wife to come to you disguised thinking you'd know who she is because you are blind, but this is what you shd tell her...

And immediately she walked in, blind Prophet Ahijah called her by name and told her about her disguise and why she was there.

No one walks with and for God without revelations my dear.

You have a rare gift, and satan frustrated you so that you can Willingly submit your Will power(which is your greatest weapon) to him. You must willingly and consciously take it back.

Don't take this the wrong way because it's the truth. It will be a battle for you be totally free from satan because you gave him your will power legally. You must be strong, firm and resolute to take back your Will power.

Your soul is redeemed, but he will fight you in other ways. He will fight your marriage vehemently, if you are yet married. Watch it, he will send you his daughter pretending to be godly. Check with God before you marry. Don't depend on outer looks alone.

He will attack your finance, So Pay your tithe. Satan is attacking tithe because he knows what is in it. It locks him out of your finances.

If God is asking you to confess to someone, it must not be in your church. there is certainly a man or woman you are convicted about. Go to the person, look away from the reproach that may bring. Do it. Humility can not be archived in the absence of humiliation.

You are truly in the spirit. Who God asked me to go and confess to is a pastor I trust but in another pentecostal church.

I created this thread because 4 days ago, it was revealed to me that a girl would throw herself at me. Her name was revealed, what she would say to attract me was revealed, and I was told she has invisible horn on her forehead. We met 3 days ago. Since then, she gets pissed off if I don't chat her up much in a day.

Satan is actually attacking my finance and I have not been faithful with tithing.

PenSniper:
Op, @kallmemrB has given you the best piece of advice you could ever hope for.
That is where you need to go for exhortation, deliverance and transformation for good purpose.
Take it or leave it.

I hitherto didn't want to argue, but I will have to engage you. Celestial Church is another form of initiation. A family member attends that church. I remembered the day I was there to enquire from God. I was told by the prophet that candles worth of 4k, coconut, local hen eggs, white cloth and others were needed for my prayer. So, someone that has no kobo should look for over 9k before he can receive healing and blessing from God. I was mandated to sweep ile-aanu for seven days, three proohets after prayer will smash the eggs on Apata Michael bla bla. Celestial Church is a confirmed deliverance centre but I don't trust that doctrine because I can't see that in the Bible. I'm even well versed in the Bible canons like Tobith.

Ranchhoddas:
You cannot know this and I did not say anything about betting.
I only gave a way to objectively determine whether you are seeing things.

Ok, bro.