₦airaland Forum

Kennedyli:
Is this the best of Tinubu? Unfortunately he's saying gibberish even after all the editing.

How would someone earning 100k afford ro pay back a car loan of 3.5 million?

Even with a credit system. It will take 100% of his salary for over 2 years to pay for the car.

Which lender will agree to such a deal?

BTw Nigeria already has a credit system. Loan apps like Carbon and Branch use it.

The next president should focus on increasing local production to strengthen the naira.
So that car of 3.5 mil can go back to the 1.5 mil it was sold 7 years ago.

TINUBU HAS NOTHING TO OFFER.

APC followers are dull... this is another 1naira to a dollar package

Any sane person should know this already

What of Mane

Basher8583:
Has he been hardworking?
Yes

Has he been Diligent?
Yes

Does he have good human relations?
Yes

Is he a good diplomat?
Yes

Please counter anywhere I placed yes with a superior argument.

Also tell me who else among the contestants that have similar characters

"Emi lokan" is an affirmation of confidence. If you dont understand this, then you need more education

U can decieve the foolish and urself not me

Basher8583:
Then tell the christian candidate to do all the required hardwork. Positions of the presidency is not an inheritance.

It is as a result of hard work, diligence, good Human relations and diplomacy.

But according to Tinubu , its his turn

Thanks to Republicans that are keeping Christianity in place


A Muslim just finished doing 8 yrs ... another Muslim will not be accepted... Muslims will never allow Christians do 16 yrs of government... obi we stand with... a Christian must take over from a muslim

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

We women are our worst enemies... we keep on proving men right .... with what I have seen , I will never allow my son marry a woman thats more financially successful than him

koyyess:
This one dey find husband.

Don't worry...they will DM you so you can feed them.

I hv a husband and a son

Romanoff:
This is not true.

There are other way to make your grievances known. There's dialogue, there's counselling.

Those three reasons are not enough to throw your wife out. If it's not fixable, get a divorce.

So what if reason number one is why Funke threw her husband out,una no go still talk?

Are u serious ... ur wife cheat or wanna kill u and u say its not enough reason to throw her out ...are u serious??

Romanoff:
How can you tell?

Same man that was rumoured to have been unfaithful.

I can't say much for what broke their marriage till I get all the details. JJC's post wasn't detailed.

She is not a serious woman to be honest

Romanoff:
I disagree. Supporting men who throw their wives out over little disagreements didn't stop women from getting married enmasse every weekend. Did it?

U need throw sentiments away and face reality... 3 reason a man throws his wife out if the house

1. She cheats
2. She wants to kill him
3. She is constantly unsubmissive

Getting married is not the problem... staying married is

Connected1:
No man admires his poor self.

If a woman caters for a home for more than a month, forget it, she will throw you out like this, unless it's your house then she will frustrate you with naggings and insults.

I just pity unmarried ladies supporting this nonsense, in this hard economy, if all men wait to be financially stable to their taste then a lot of single women will never get married because by the time a man becomes successful, he will go for younger ladies.

There's no healthy self esteem without money, your decision won't even be respected in family meetings, your wife may even make your children see you as a weakling.

The truth is that the institution of marriage is dying rapidly with all these jargons of events happening and series of useless advices here and there, I don't think many people will be going to the altar even if the economy is balanced.

@ Romanoff... this is exactly my point ... supporting people like funke will only make alot of women unmarried...

Romanoff:
Like I said, a man's value isn't tied to his bank account.

Are you telling me that your wife only submits to you cause you have money?

If I'm to go by your last sentence, i spos to done leave my husband tey tey. That's all I'll say about this.

Your woman's submission shouldn't come to you cause of the money you but on how you treat and value her.

See, I've see quality men. Men that I wish my brother was like. Men that I wish my father was like. Men that are assured of who they are not cause of their bank account but cause of the role they play.

I'm not saying these men were outrightly broke but the wives of these men earned far far above their husbands.

Those are the kinds of women I sort marriage counseling from before I got married to know how they made it work. How they managed financial issue in their home and I can tell you, the oldest of these couples have been married for 15 years.

The husband is catching up to the wife now due to her contribution and support and the wife is still doing very well in her business.

When you open eye to marry, you won't be praying for your wife not to be successful or for her not to be more successful than you because you're insecure about your headship. That's Wickedness and witchcraft.

This man use to ba a lavish spender of his money, his wife helped him curb that by managing his finances, encouraged him to set up his own company and invested in it, that's business is worth a fortune today due to big government contracts.

The woman is the most humble woman I know.

Jjc wasn't insecure...look where it landed him... this us what most men fear , that y they avoid marrying successful women

BloomingDale:
I should not be successful in my own right because I’m waiting on a man to wife me. Does that sound right to you?

Now which man wud wanna be with a successful woman when he knows his Ego and manhood will be trashed ... now this is the reason women suffer in Muslim countries cos they believe if they are given a chance, they will treat men like funked did ... no one is condemning funke, I remember when jjcs son said funked hits jjc and insults him infrint of staff abd treats him like trash and that she cheats on him ... no one condemned funke... now women are now laughing at jjc after being abused and kicked out... now ud expect men to hv sympathy for women ?? Being a successful woman should not hv consequences, but some women are making it come with consequences.. I will train my son not to ever date a woman that is financially more successful than him or even same financially with him... women tend to misbehave when they are more financially successful than her man ... now with this , will u blame men from running away from financially successful women.... the reason y Linda and Geneva Genevieve are still single

[quote author=hatedisplace post=114313290][/quote]I'm not a man... I stand for the truth... man was not directed to be submissive, he was directed to love ... women to submit ... go and read ur bible and stop challenging God just cos u wanna prove a point

Romanoff:
Like I said, the sarcasm didn't get to you.

U dont do sarcasm with God ... alot of wealthy young women can't find a man cos men are afraid of jjc type situation... we sudnt make fun of this cos it will still backfire on we women

BloomingDale:
Very good. If your husband ain’t submissive, throw him out. No time for rubbish.

It might sound funny to u... but I hope u know u are actually making men right , cos they have always said men should never marry a successful woman ... u are actually killing chances of successful women having a home... I dont know y some of u women think u are making sense , thereby proving men right ... what funke and this scatter scatter teeth just did was just to prove men right... this has actually killed the little chance women like Linda ikeji and Genevive had... Linda's baby daddy refused to marry her cos this this type of situation and women like u just proved him right

Romanoff:
Any one who watched the video would see it's sarcasm

I like how this gender equality thing is treating us.

If it was the husband that threw her out of the house, our men will hail him for throwing out an olosho.

But the table has turned now, see cry me the atlantic o.

Men can't really take what hey dish out.

All hail gender equality.

All hail women with money.

Mention me with insult and watch how Thunder from Sango, Amadioha and Thor will fire you and your generation.

Radarada.

Women done suffer, you get money, problem, you no get, you be liability.

Shior.

Don't test God just cos u wanna prove a point... supporting what she said is blasphemy... dont allow God's wrath fall on u ... she herself already looks like someone that is receiving her own punishment... better go ask for forgiveness

Y are some women trying God ?? Just cos u wanna spite men, u end u challenging God ... this is no joke

Messi always rigging....someone that dint even make ligue1 team of the year or champions league teams of the year is number 26...how??

Islandlady:
Hanty men are their own problems, the police the male went to report to at the station, most of them are fellow male like him, who laugh at him and sweep the matter under carpet!

Many times I have come across many posts even here on Nairaland that a guy will try seeking advice for sexual harassment or rape but his fellow guys will be mocking and laughing at him! Calling him a simp. . .Now can you imagine that

Like I said earlier, Men are their own problem

Men are not their own problem...society is ... now u somehow try to blame men for the crime committed by women... the only way women can be liberated is when society start to hold women accountable and we start to take responsibility for our actions . We talk about domestic violence and still blame men , but don't want to also blame women when it goes down.. when a marriage goes down, society immediately blame the men ...these stuff only encourage women with bad character to think theyvare doing the right thing ... we saw the viral video about the baby daddy that got food for his kid thats with his baby mama, only for the baby mama to throw insults at him saying y dint he buy for the other 3 kids that are from other baby daddies and she actually tot she was right ... she kept on insulting the guy , even tho he tried to calm the situation, she kept on insulting him and recording him ... she then collected the food and threw it on the street in front of the guy .... this is what women are now turning into and some women actually supported her just cos she is a woman ... society is actually turning women to entitled monsters and it makes me scared of the future for my son

Islandlady:
I understand you, I can show you comments where I have condemned my fellow ladies involving in sexual harassment or rape! I am not an hypocrite...I condemn all rape irrespective of the gender involved..why it's seems that I put emphasis on men is because of the constant news of rape of minors which leads to their death! It painful and highly condemnable!

Its the media and society... a man or boy can go to the police station and report that he was raped, they will laugh at him and say he must have enjoyed it.. alot of men were exposed to sex at their forming age by older women ... its just that males don't report rape like females do... if u ask ur males friends or even if u have a brother ...its most likely they were raped as kids ... most men don't talk about it cos they usually feel ashamed of it....

Islandlady:
That's not cool toh! But miss we are all saying the same thing here, you just misinterpreting me...All rapists either male or female are animals, even worse than that... I don't justify or support female rapists too just like their male counterparts they deserve to be punished! Including false rape accusers!

So don't get me wrong!

But u made it seem like rape is only associated with men ... alot of women actually think that its fine to rape a man... I have seen videos where women say if they wanna have sex with a man and he does agree, they will drug him and force sex with him ...and they were laughing about it like its normal... I saw a video where 2 ladies saw a drunk and intoxicated man that was semi unconscious, they just carried him in their car and were laughing and videoing it saying they will take him to their place 4k the drink out of his head and they were both laughing saying it , while the man was unconscious at the back seat , struggling to even sit upright... imagine if a man did that, the FBI wud have arrested him and his friend... women also do the same thing hey complain about and thats hypocrisy... alot of women that are being abused will end up suffering cos fellow women are destroying their chance of getting justice or believed ... Amber Heard is an example

Islandlady:
Wow just wow,

you can actually create a thread for blaming woman that wrongfully accuse men, or better still go through my threads, I have created a thread for that and it even made frontpage!

You did not just make sense at all, how about kids that are raped without their content are we to blame them too?

You could actually skip this post,than spewing this trash... pathetic

My kid brother was raped my the maid when he was 6 yrs.. by ex was raped by his Elder sisters friend when he was 11 yrs... most boys first sexual experience was when they were still in primary school or early secondary school by maids , Elder sisters friends , moms friends , female neighbours, aunties ... or don't u know that there are more female teachers that rape young male students than their male colleagues....

Islandlady:
Rape cases dominates the news headlines this days, especially India men that are on a raping spree!

It's becoming a menace to our society, where our girl child are endangered species!

But I noticed you guys don't like addressing this issue, instead y'all results to insults and turn to a rape apologist

Continue!

Blame those women that accuse men wrongfully for rape just cos they wanna get bk at them for dumping them...now that is the ripple effect of doing something stupid

Islandlady:
Fixed

U just insulted his mom that by the way is a woman and u still went to call mods to bad him.... u are a hypocrite and that was actually a very stupid question...or don't u watch Animal planet or National Geo ?? That question is quite embarrassing

FERNANDEZISBACK:
On what ground..?
Morally or Religious..who the f**k made it a sin?
It is the saving of an innocent soul the toils and torments of having to be born into a world..unwelcome and unwanted...
1)Children are not aborted...

2)Abortion is not a sin...
Not everyone practice your religion and don’t care what it does or doesn’t allow...

A lady got raped by a man..you still want her to keep the **..all cos a nonsense god say it's a sin?

So what are contraceptives for?? Stop making foolish excuses ... dont blame the kid for the stupidity of an adult

FERNANDEZISBACK:
On what ground..?
Morally or Religious..who the f**k made it a sin?
It is the saving of an innocent soul the toils and torments of having to be born into a world..unwelcome and unwanted...
1)Children are not aborted...

2)Abortion is not a sin...
Not everyone practice your religion and don’t care what it does or doesn’t allow...

A lady got raped by a man..you still want her to keep the **..all cos a nonsense god say it's a sin?

Use a 4kin condom or close ur legs and stop finding a foolish excuse

30k in a bank?? Are u a janitor ??

Pbabi:
was he supposed to say the truth. You better run for your life I don't want to hear "Justice for Chacha Eke.

U are not well..u are part of the problems against real women ... thats how u all supported Amber Heard just cos she's a woman , thereby destroying women that are actually facing real problems ... justice kee u there

Fairmedia:
Stupid flat heads refugees. Scum of the nation. Look everywhere, you people are running from your desolate states running everywhere to survive like rats, do you see yorubas in Igbo land?

if this nation divides, you fools will suffer. Igbos are cannibals, I pity anyone who marries from that dumb tribe. Flaat heads, no brains, just criminality. People that rape their mothers and sisters, a curse is on your land, and Igbo lands will burn to the ground. Get ready to become our slaves.

Afonja that went to invite fulani to help him conquer but only ended up being killed and his people displaced and turn to slaves by force ..
Slave mentality...skull miners ... I am proud to be Igbo and the Fulanis know damn well not to mess with us... they know we are not cowards like u skull miners claiming educationists( educationists without certificate. .. only known for fraud , dirt , touting and licking asses .... ur tribe will forever be slaves in ur land...slaves to ur fulani masters... they will keep on killing u people t their satisfaction cos ur people are cowards and slaves...u inclusive....