₦airaland Forum

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

This is part of the reason y I don't support the feminist ideology... it will male some men lazy

NgeneUkwenu:
They should be chained and thrown into jail..

Useless panel!

This is what we fought against in the 90s under Abacha...

They wanna remove junta regime while they themselves are practising it here

jattopeter:
I dont believe you are a lady or you are from this planet.You just spelt everything out the way it is .Virginity is what all ladies should maintain to keep .

My mother and father brought me up teaching me these things .. most people act like sheep that's why the world suffers... check out justpearlythings and Roma Army on youtube ..they teach women these same things ... so don't be surprised this thing is coming from a woman... I'm a critical and independent thinker ... I also criticise the black race , and I'm not white ...I also criticise how Christianity allows alot of crap happen ..but I'm a Christian

OJEEMAH:
MLS clubs can’t compete with Saudi in terms of finances.

Money is the pulling force. The day MLS clubs starts offering mega deals, you will see the difference.

MLS has always been a dead league... there's no difference between MLS and Indian league.... they both don't have interest in football.... a league can only develop through the citizens interest.... Americans are more focused on basketball , NFL , NHL, base ball, nascar , tennis , golf , ufc even wwe , b4 football... reason y Messi ran there ... ghetto blacks are the ones that help American sports , and that's y the NBA or NFL is very big and entertaining... they are not interested in football.. if they were, that's when the league will start to grow...I remember when CNN sports did a documentary on football some years ago , b4 Beckham joined the league ....they went around to try to promote Manchester United, most Americans dint even know what the man u Jersey was.. so e said they like the Jersey cos its red but they had never heard the name man Manchester United... what football is to Americans is what basketball is to the British and vise versa ...

Saudi league is more productive influential competitive and interesting than that dead American league

Saudi that used to be a dead league now have 2 former balon dor winners playing in that league ...
Telles of Manchester United
Koulibaly of Chelsea
Fabinho of Liverpool
Christian Tello
Ever baniga
David ospina
Steven Gerrard as coach

Players like modric, lewandowski , Di Maria and De Gea are also being prepared

Lol...jowi just 4kd her I think 2 times to fulfill his fantasy of lust towards her and parked her...and u say she's his bf ... I laugh at such deception and delusion ...

IconicR:
Are you equating virginity with money/gifts?
Like seriously?

YES...I AM

IconicR:
There are virgins everywhere and even here on nairaland but the problem is the type of guys wanting these virgins.
Imagine guys that patronize hookup ladies also longing to wife a virgin, is that fair? That's my problem with them.

Do women that have received lots of gifts and money from men or ex boyfriends to the extent that most of these men became broke... do women like that deserve to end up with rich men? Or do they deserve to end up with poor men ?

IconicR:
I disagree with your last paragraph or haven't you been on nairaland for long to read where most guys say a woman should work and make money for the family as well. Men care for a woman's wealth these days.
The women you mentioned are their own problems and they'll get married within a month if they so wish because alot of guys are attracted to their wealth and all of that.

Men only request for a woman working these days because of the excessive lifestyle of most women these days ... a man can take care of basics needs in his household ... the problem they have is the wife wanting the latest iPhone, bone straights , foreign vacs , expensive cars , expensive jewelry, and most men can't afford that ... reason u hear women say " your money is our money , my money is my money" ... and this new system is making some men lazy , cos they are beginning to believe that they don't have to provide if the woman can make money .... any very wealthy man that truly loves his wife , will not want her to work , unless she insists, maybe to keep herself busy

IconicR:
Why are you always on the other side even if they are clearly wrong

I stand by the truth and fact ... being a woman don't mean u should support everything women think or want... if we tell women the truth, the world will be a better place , if women are held accountable for their misbehaviour like men , the world will be a better place... u can't tell women that they can sleep with anyone they wanna sleep with just like men ...while we tell men to make money so that they can attract women ... we are not men ... a man will take a virgin over a rich woman... while a woman will take a rich man over a man that hasn't has sex b4... men are not born virgins like women ... virginity is " only" associated with women ... Jesus Christ never had sex on earth, he is not referred to as the " virgin Jesus christ " .. but Mary is referred as that ... go and watch justpearlythings, candace owens, Roma Army ... then u will know that there are women that don't agree with the feminism ideology

IconicR:
Same woman you'll still request she brings something to the table, so where is the justification if both of you provide?
If you think your virginity or body count doesn't matter as a man because you provide then it should apply both ways because she'll work and provide as well
You can only be escused if you intend making her a full time housewife

That's the mistake most women make...what you bring to the table doesn't mean how much money u gonna contribute in the marriage... virginity, loyalty , honesty, feminity, submission, respect , decency , cleaning, cooking , contentment , being agreeable. Trusting his leadership ...these are what a man is expecting u bring to the table ... men don't care about a woman's wealth, if they did like us women... Genevieve and Linda would have been married a long time ago

IconicR:
Hope you are also decent enough to deserve a virgin, at least if you ain't a virgin too your body count should not be more than one.

Men are not judged by their sexual past...they are judged by their bank accounts while women are not judged by their bank account.... we can't eat our cake and have it ... we abide by 2 different set of rules... a woman lying that she is a virgin , is equal to a man lying that he is wealthy

I noticed that the women that committed the crime with their partners were eventually left off the hook while the men were mostly executed

phemmyfour:
You have comprehension issue. I m not surprise, Pendo fans are synonymous with low IQ

U hvnt started crying... better go look for oxycontin to help ease ur pain

phemmyfour:
Simple question, Is Neymar a balon Dior winner?

Simple answer ...Saudi is the only league presently that has 2 former balon dor winners ...

How can they save the Naira from crashing, when it has crashed finish already... wetin remain to save ??

phemmyfour:
Ignorance
All these penaldo fans and low IQ

Is Neymar balon Dior winner?

Only 4 former balon dor winners are still playing football now... 2 are in Saudi... modric to also join sion making it 3... the other balon dor winner is in MLS... Benzema , Ronaldo..... then mane and Neymar both finished 2nd and 3rd at a time .... salah to also join soon so as lewandowski...

Those that know , know that Ronaldo is the greatest that have ever played the game...they are just scared of saying it cos Fifa and media will just 4k u up...


Modified ... for those saying its about the money... they say this like Saudi just started offering money or they just discovered oil and picked interest in football ... they have been trying to sign European stars for a long time but no one was interested until Ronaldo joined January...the next transfer which is happening now , stars started following him

Ronaldo is the most influential sports man in history of sports

Stop deceiving yourself....men dont ever forgive a cheating partner.... I will advice her to move on cos she will continue to suffer

Typical of the dwarfs fan.... they have been posting about the fraud and MLS like MLS is now EPL... still Ronaldos fans dint even bother themselves about it... they say they don't care about Ronaldo and he is not worth the feet of the drawf ...but once u mention Ronaldo, they still flood his thread due to insecurities....justvlike Agbadorians can't get obi off their heads .. simply shows they know deep down, Ronaldo is better than that dwarf that flopped in farmers league France and ran to were women convert to men , so that he can finally roll back the barca days

See painment ....🤣😂😂...I knew some people will have nightmares at night 😂🤣

emmnprince:
What about in Seria A?

He won everything in Italy

Patriot9:
Why the thing come resemble world cup trophy

Below is AFCON trophy...so shove that chappy tot down ur ass

Almiron:
Let me cook you.

Trophies
Messi 43
Penado 23

Most goals in finals:
Messi 34
Penado 21

I really don’t want to do banter but y’all penadogs won’t rest till una collect better wotowoto.

Celebrating inconsequential Arab what, that’s another low, even the low is lower but make he enjoy his win, when last his hands touch any trophy

I don’t want to cook, you forced my fingers 😂😂

Carry ur mr transgender out of here ... insecure minions ... u don't see Ronaldo fans jumping on the short frauds topics...

King Ronaldo has done it again... portugal really messed up listening to the propaganda against Ronaldo during the world cup ...he would have delivered for them if they all stood behind him

OJEEMAH:
SPL means Saudi Pro League

So u think MLS that can never qualify for FIFA club world cup is better than SPL that played in the final against Real Madrid in the last competition... MLS is not better than Nigerian league.... a league that don't do promotions or relegation...is that one a functional league

Ewedegubbler:
If u don’t like USA, Saudi is an option just like your pendulum boss

The hypocrisy by u guys is unbelievable

flokii:
Yorubas are the most tribalistic yet Akabueze, Igbokwe and other non-Yorubas like them got cabinet portfolios in the economic nerve centre of Yorubaland; Lagos..

Yorubas are tribalistic yet Obi an Igbo got votes in Lagos even more than what PBAT and Atiku got..

Yorubas are tribalistic yet Atiku won in Osun state..

The Igbos that are not tribalistoc gave PBAT and Atiku less than 5 percent votes in all their tiny 5 South Eastern states.. gave Obi over 95 percent votes because he is Igbo..

The Igbos that are not tribalistic can't point to one non - Igbo (not even Yoruba now, just any other tribe) in their 5 South Eastern States cabinet..

When the Igbo can't subdue you or take what is yours to add to his own, he'll see every wrong in what you do. Those are the kind of beings we have been putting up with in Nigeria.. I before others.

I agree with him... yorubas are the most tribalistic in Nigeria... this election showed it... in 99 and 03 ...igbos overwhelmingly voted for a yoruba man , even against their fellow igbo man in 03 ( Okadigbo) ... 2007, they overwhelmingly voted hausa that had an ijaw man as his vice , and dint again vote for their brother ( Ogbaonayya) , in 2011 , igbos overwhelmingly voted for Ijaw for equity and inclusiveness ... in 2015 , igbos also overwhelmingly also voted for ijaw man that had hausa as vice .. .that's when the yorubas showed their wicked act of tribalism... they all shifted to vote buhari cos his vice was yoruba and betrayed their own southern brother... and that Ijaw man lost ... then 2019 we started to make plans for our own to rule for the first time since the 60s ... and in 2023 ... we voted for our own and the wicked tribalists decided to come out again to rule after collecting 8 yrs presidency and 8yrs vice presidency... instead of the yorubas to support an Igbo man just like an Igbo man supported their presidency 2 times... now we voted our own overwhelmingly as expected ,u say we are tribalists for doing that... this shows that u are the most tribalistic as that man said...and he is Edo... The hausas know this , the fulanis know this , the ijaws know this , the ibibios know this , the kanuris know this and the igbos know this ...only u yorubas think otherwise