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chatinent:
It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.


Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.


Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

Stiry from novela

My ex girlfriend
What else can I ask for more

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TechW:
I am not upset but you are not bein truthful, Nobody exist in isolation, an attribute of a good leader is attentiveness. there is a difference between listening to advice and taking instructions, don't get it mixed up.

Advice is seek when you are confused on what to do

Instructions is when your are order to do things you wish or wishnot to do

Opinion is when you about to commit and you ask for people mind so you can decide on yours


Look what ever you say I just don't buy it


In Lagos that I am leadersake decision for the citizens here some are good and other are bad
They in turn ◀️ ok to improve the state so it will be a better place for us all

That's what leaders are

Thanks for your time

TechW:
I don't want to call you a hypocrite as I do not know if you have ever had any opportunity to occupy any leadership position.
A good leader listens else he or she becomes a dictator even as father, you've got to listen to your wife and children.

Why are you so upset with my opinion

I.still.dont like people telling me what to do
I may not no.all.but
If am employed to carry out a service I don't have to wait for my employers to tell me carry out your duty

This will sound some how

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Man of the meny

O lala

Them.time to wast

Nice

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God1000:
Very true, this is the only chance we have to save Nigeria from total collapse.

Vote Peter Obi for president.

Don't vote for Atiku and don't vote for Tinubu.

You Say what again

TechW:
That's what is called feedback, People like you act like you know it all but in the actual sense are under achievers. Just like this your grammar, The bolded part is wrong but that does not make you an uneducated . It could simply be an oversight and you going back to fix it only makes you a better person and not a dullard.

thanks all the same, I dont like people that wait for us to tell him what to do


Leaders lead because they are leaders

Not the other way round

JasonScoolari:
Outrageous!!!

But let's subtract the penalty and tapins....

Messchit is here

Everything most come to them only greedy fiful
With your dawf

TechW:
the guys said that he called him out because of some things that were wrong and he PO fixed them. nobody is perfect, like me, i am supporting him simply because of it, he is such a person that listens and acts and not the one that calls you a bluff. got it?

why wait till some one tell you

Why are you a leader
This the more reason his not fit to be
.I dislike him for been a slow punk who deserves with his charming look and innocent look

JASONjnr:
They have enough time to go and be digging tweets about what was said about Peter Obi many years ago.....


But that can never change...

On my deactivated account on this forum, I remember saying gruesome things against Peter but today he's the right guy....

End Sazs people pack them self support Obi

Don't worry will address all this issues after we win election

Restructuring
State police
Herdsman
And many more will be deal with by Bat
Who want to eat with the devil will need long spone

Sonyboom765:
n Obi should never ever be considered for the job of Nigeria presidency for so many reasons

Can you school me a little am lost

Facts pls

Abdu81:
Nigerians love this man die.

Imaginary man you mean

Skty:
I don't understand a single thing u said. Pls rephrase

if you have travel out side like you said

You will see how how things are done over there
Orderly and decently
But when ever this so call politicians come back how they take us for a ride
Any how

And in Africa must of the country are still alittle bit different from the way Nigeria think and act
We are to much in a hurry to no where inn Nigeria

To self center

Skty:
Do u know I ve lived in other countries? See who is talking of hustle...go outside and see how life should be. Say no to self slavery

If truly you have travel like you say then you should no in Africa must of the country don't look and think the way Nigerians think

Nigeria we are to self center

You go out and see how things need to be done you come back and take us for a ride
And all will just claim.i.will.
But they never do anything beyound some cabal are the one tie my hand

NwaNimo1:
Uzodinma's Urchins.....

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.....thunder suppose enter dat rainfall fire dem back to home/husband/village!

See your mouth like Mugabe eating biscuits that you post

Holybaddo:
Am sure their is something very special about this thing that we don't know

or grand my invoke her spirit join

sanusideunifier:
Emilokan condition don worse

We don't want you NRC to meet him in the air that's why we keep the date to our chest

Skty:
Is this how your goons met Nigeria? Why did they do this to us? Why did they destroy Nigeria..pls don't come talk shit

Well said but
Things don't just happen over night
Don't blame your father for having you
But wake up get your hustle right
Stop complaining of Nigeria
But your self,YOU must not fail your self
All over the world there is famine,war, and alot



Watch blood diamond

And thank your self

successmatters:
Am just here to read comments

We are reading how Imo state women are no longer Ipob cannibals

We are reading how they suddenly started owning PVC today, just because they are attending for Tinubu

We are reading how Imo state is no longer 5% people

Isn't our God wonderful?

They are paid people

Esseite:
Has any state or country deemed your candidate worthy, even congo?...

Honorary citizenship are given to exemplary and admirable persons, not thieves..

Who owns Dallas cow boys and
Who are there kins men
Fulanis
Out of your mouth Fulani na terrorist

Who is Obi frolicking with cowboys which you call fulanis terrorist

Obi is a terrorist

SensetionalGoal:
No matter how they package tinubu he will never win next year election Mark my word

His distance third is well deserved.

preach on preacher our Boy is out with a first class not philosophy

Tochi3:
A church Rat deputy governor.. Tribalism have eaten very deep in their blood...

True yorubas should try to disassociate themselves from such babaric mentality....

This is the one Nigeria people like this stone age savage uses to preside over Lagos state and you wonder why their are agberos all over Lagos...

But you be igbo and the only person you claim for to rule is Igbo
Why then do you say one is bias

atedawas:
Useless country

Find your country now

Skty:
But ur guy scammed us by saying vote for change u will swim in fuel, a dollar will level naira, electricity, medical tourism, security, etc...today they took us a century back...and u still expect me to fall for his scam , hook, line and sinker?

I don't no your area but electric is good in my area that's improve

Fuel is also ok but increase in value but no que,
health zero ,
security is been use to steal money but hold your state governor to that,

On increase or inflation blame we all
Because we are not producing only consuming

And we don't like Nigeria made only foreign

But all this baba solution say I can do it

When they don't give us money from federal
We find solution ,let's think more and do what is right