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ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.

I have noticed a trend among a lot of men. They have become so lazy that they do not bother chasing the girl they love. The saying "ah... its just a girl, they are many more out there" and "she's playing hard to get, i cant be bothered and she's not the only beautiful girl out there anyway" have become so popular among men especially black men.

What happened to the value of chasing a woman? Why has it become so worthless and looked down upon. Would men of today have survived many years ago. Men in those days didn't complain when they pursued the girl they loved, in many cases suffered in the hands of the girls family and then paid a massive amount to have her as his wife. Today it's a lot easier yet men are not willing or should I say are too lazy to pursue the woman of their dreams. Oh i forgot... there are too many fishes in sea. Why bother right?

Men, we love to be pursued and conquered by you. Why do you all think the stories of Cinderella, Snow white, Rapunzel and the like are so loved by girls? They all had one thing in common. A prince who not only found them but also fought for them. Trust me we love to be chased and caught by you.

If you are not serious with the girl then don't bother. But, if you do love her don't allow you friends to push you to get over her after she has rejected you twice. Try a little harder than twice. I noticed white guys have always chased me fervently. But when it comes to black men, even though they profess to loving me so deeply they don't bother if i don't respond to them after a specific time. If any race of man on earth should know how to pursue a woman fervently until he captures her it should be a black man because thats what you fathers and grand fathers did. It's in your DNA So now, what are you waiting for? Get started!

ayox2003: 1, 2, 3, 6 & 7..... Be Intelligent.

5 & 9..... I.T skills

4 & 8......social-emotional skills. Learn how to Lubricate the process of human interaction. Teamwork.

10...learn how to market ur self. Then you'd be able to sell "things".



Frawzey. That's the summary of the whole thing...I like that

50calibre: Warfare is getting highly technologically advanced. during the second world war, it was the nazis developing wonder weapons that no one has ever seen, now it's the US developing more and more sophisticated weapons. The question is who are they developing it for?

If there is a WW3, I weep for humanity

Kslib: Hmmmmn,technology is getting better.. When will we africans get there.. We are so lost in the tech world that whenever we see technology at dispaly,we just scream "OYINBO NA WINCH"...
We also can do it,but we just need the materials and support/enlightenment..

solomon111: Any graduate Engineer that can't teach further-mathematics is a fraud.

190-the-clown:
somewhere in NIGERIA a mumu is busy struggling to compose a 12-12-12 BC