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Office snacks ready for tomorrow.

Stories of this sort got me thinking 'Where's the love they once shared'. It's so pathetic.

He messed with the wrong person. Do the time Mr.

dman4mdmoon:
One of the few sensible comments I have read so far. I served in Jos some years back, initially I was "forming" strong guy, bathing with ordinary water (even though I was warned) while others were "boiling" water to bath. Nobody forced me when I started "cooking" water to bath. I started having chest pain, fever and difficulty in breathing. Jos weather is damn too cold.

Lol... I can relate to this experience. Even after "Cooking" the water, it turns cold before getting to the bathroom.

The weather condition in Plateau state is too extreme. Corp members who can't cope should apply for relocation, that's exactly what I did.

It's just too difficult to cope with a distant relationship.

I'm currently learning how to drive using a manual transmission car, it's too stressful joor.
#Teamautomatictransmission...

I'm so touched by this piece, kudos OP.

Thumbs up OP, very insightful.

It is just so annoying to see these innocent kids being born to suffer the ignorance of their parents. There's more to child-raising than meets the eye.

wonderfulchild:
Of course, favouritism should not be encouraged amongst siblings by their parents, but some negative attitudes of some children force their parents to unconsciously love some more than others. Take,for eg, between a child that obeys his/her parents, and gives them maximum respect, and one that disrespects the parents,who do you think the parents will love more naturally?

I understand your point of view, but that's not enough reason to segregate. Love conquers all. Thanks for stopping by

chachanga:
Insightful post, OP.

Many parents don't often know they're destroying the future integration and internal goodwill of their hard-built family when they start favoring one kid above another.

Even if you have faves, you're not supposed to do so.

the queer thing is even though some kids show certain affinity and empathy with either parents, often right from early stages, that's no reason to polarize your own family but that's what we do and they create monsters, schemers, callous bastards in the process. And in their old-age, they discover their favoritism has driven wedges between the children who should've being forged into a cohesive and inseparable progressive and high-achieving. Anything short of that, and you've failed as a parent; may God help us all!

Thanks for your contribution.

Favouritism is the unfair favouring of one person or group at the expense of another. This menace is largely responsible for the chaos in many families and is often engineered by parents for different reasons.
This devastates the unfavoured child as he stands to suffer depression and other negative effects thereby leading to strained relationships and resentment. Although the favoured child may bask in its euphoria, he often grows up feeling confident and powerful with an animalistic attitude.
Parents should love and train their children without bias. Abuse is usually not an effective tool. Caution any child who's astray and never give up on him until a change is evident.
Conclusively, parents should procreate the number of kids they can comfortably sustain, as some tend to vent their financial frustration on their kids. It is not how big a house is, but how happy the home is.

There are many other ways to raise funds needed for the exercise. Parading them unclad is certainly not one of them.

So true...The pictures depict the contents of a typical Nigerian kitchen. LOL!

So beautiful, God bless this union.

It is 190 per litre in portharcourt.