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Worris this for God's sake?

This is another reason why a man needs to know when to say NO. If a girl asks you for money and you don't feel obliged to give her, simply tell her No. She will quietly carry her scamming abilities to the next guy who will be d.a.f.t enough to fall for it. Its high time the male folk stopped complaining about greedy girls and man up abeg.

What i have read in this thread is more than shocking. Please can someone here help clarify this.

Is Mary dead or alive? Can the dead pray for someone? Did God give her power to interceed or help us conquer life's challenges? Is she in any way superior to Christ? Someone help me here!

Why people are even arguing about this baffles me. The bible says as many are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. Why would a believer refer to himself as a child of Mary? Whoever does that is simply rubbishing the death and resurrection of Jesus. Mary herself is under the authority of Jesus, yes Jesus came through her physically but the same bible made it clear that at the name of Jesus, every knee shall bow, and that includes Mary's knees. My God will never share his glory with any man

Any sane man will . That is not news

[quote author=babz_ynk@yahoo.com]They are so guilty..girls with more than one earing hole, or eye lashes is a piss off 4 me.[/quote]Everyone has eyelashes, did you mean fake eyelashes?

All i see here is the wailings of a side chick. Madam, wake up and run fast! Don't waste time with a man that can't choose what he wants.

IMO, i think lots of ladies overdo it. Its okay to be happy when a man pops the question, especially if you have been dating for a long time, but most nigerian men don't just propose to ladies they are not sure will say YES. The look of suprise can be justified if the man really pulled a stunt before proposing, but if it was done in a plain and predictable manner, then i'll find it hard to believe suprised look. I 'm talking from the examples i have seen though.

chiommy63: Same wit me. I've been checking my mail box since then. Lets just chill, am sure it wl come.

Check your spam folder. The mail may have dropped there.

mysticgal: seriouly am rethinking

Same here. If she could trust her husband so much and she got paid back like this, then i wonder.

OP, like Efemena said, think this through. Please think of the future you have always desired. Will your in-laws accept the adopted child? What pains me here is the fact that your husband was not sincere enough to fill you in on his predicament. It would have been easier if your husband was honest with you on this from the start. Since you have made it clear you don't want a donor and adoption is a no-no, taking a walk might be the most convenient option.

Grace is what you need.

ogugua88: I don't think I've known your handle for up to 8 months, talkless of a year. I never attacked you. I questioned your opinions. Don't twist the truth.

Honestly, you have his time. DN, why can't you just prove everyone wrong and act like a man! Gosh

texaco1: i am not siding deeper life but calling them a cult is what i am trying to prove to them that is wrong

Brother, what exactly do you stand for? Your posts are confusing

k2039: Op must be a learner for him to assume that all women in Nigeria are after a man with a fat pocket.

May the Lord shower his rain of blessings on you for this statement

The only fear i have for this man is that if he eventually divorces his wife, the life of the new lady he will marry will be at great risk.

Please i'm still looking for the OP's dilemma in the post

I thought Redbenson started this thread to get answers to his question. So why the name calling here and there? You guys can do better than this please.