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Seun:
Cn someone explain what this garden business is about?

More like subletting a relaxation centre. Its a lucrative business in abuja if yo u have good sales rep and a honest manager. People use these places for events, holiday camps for kids etc. So they pay the owner to make use of the gardens for a number of hours or days, depending on the occasion.

@ OP, pls make your findings well. I've seen where a portion of a garden was used as a car wash and suya joint. It all depends on the location and maintenance of the venue. Don't rush any investment decision.

Good luck!

Westendel:
I would have uploaded their watsapp chats here but because I don't want expose his identity, I would rather tell us the content here.

my sister: why don't you wanna send me the 10,000naira?

my husband: I asked you to come over u refused

my sister: I want us to stop this sex of a thing. I feel bad doing dis with you,knowing well that you are my brother in law

my husband: is better I do it with you,than doing it with an asider.what's wrong if you have a child for your sister?


let me stop here don't want to any further. people, what do you make of this conversation?

Omg!!! That your husband even thinks its ideal for your sister to have a child for him is just so

This is raw evidence here

I'm so sorry about what you are going through but if I may ask, what exactly was the content of the chat that aroused suspicion?

22 and 28? Wow!

Caracta:
Co-signed! (to an extent)

Seconded like a mafia warrior!

Why won't you second it when your partner in crime is here? In case you don't know it already, you are a gold digger

Great men! Their good deeds live on

Ceeesaw:
I know all u have said. That's why am trying to point out the original aim of that movement. Over the years a lot people have misunderstood it and adulterated it to suit their wickedness. They are no more seeking for equality they are seeking for superiority.

Thats why someone will now say there are different types of feminism. I believe in feminism if its helping out a woman that is being battered or raped. Or helping to educate parents to send their female child to school.

On the issue of equality. Equal rights,yes, men and women should have that.. but the two sexes are different in their abilities and strenghts. If only both men and women will accept their different roles on earth and stop trying to drag who is superior to the other..

And also the double standards thing annoys me the most about modern day feminism. If a man slaps a woman everybody will condemn him some other men will even rush in her defence. But when a woman slaps a man he is expected to take it like a man. That just shows that we have accepted that women are weaker and need protection. The same woman tomorrow will be chanting equality. For a woman to raise hand and slap a man that means you are equal to him, so dont cry if he slaps you back.

I can go on and on about misconstrued feminism. The worst part of it this days is dat children bear the consequences. They are left in the hands of wicked house help because the mother has gone to pursue her useless dream. Somebody once asked 'who made the rule that women are more responsible for the kids?' My answer was simple.. The fact that the baby grew in your belly and that the breastmilk is on your chest is enough reason.

Yea and am a happily married woman and will not allow idle women to advice me out of my husbands house. your post is enlightening. But dont hate feminism treat ur male and female children equally. Defend a girl if u see her being battered.

My sister, I had to quote your long post just to type this;

YOU GET BRAIN!

What's wrong with farting in the presence of your spouse especially when its "accidental"?


Just pray that you marry your best friend

One of the few sensible threads I've seen on Nairaland in recent times.

How many times will this make front page?

Sorry o OP, but are the so-called "imprisoned" ladies complaining?

doyinbaby:
People should be careful especially when someone starts promising you job overseas which job dey brazil sef a developing country .oga o

I tell you. Even people in Brazil are looking for greener pastures

Do all these "trekking" youths have jobs at all? I want to assume they are self employed

Ben Bruce should get to the National Assembly first. Talk is cheap, though he looks credible and may not be the typical Nigerian politician we are used to

What's the big deal in that? I washed my dad's car in my teenage years

Spot on. Especially that part about associating with the right students.

Nigerian politicians never cease to amuse me

Phema:
Your wife is just scared of the proverbial first night pain.

-Get lignocaine/xylocaine spray or gel.
-Do loads of forep!ay.
-Apply a lubricant around and in the vag!na.
-Also use a lubricant on your JT
-Add 3-5 sprays of the lignocaine into the VJ. This will sting for few seconds.
-Support her butt with a pillow by placing it beneath.
-Thrust slowly
-Go in, come out and go back in, each time deeper than the former.
-Keep at it till you are sure the "milky way" is open.

The disadvantage with this method is that she won't feel anything during the process. No pain, no pleasure. However, she is going to have a peppery sensation/pain afterwards which will last for a few hours. So ensure this is done on a weekend.

Also, do not continue using the anesthetic (lignocaine), as long term use is not advised. Once or twice will do just fine.

Goodluck.

This girl ehn. I tire for you

@ OP, Phema has said it all. Try as much as possible to be gentle with her so she wont feel too much pain. Very soon both of you will get used to it even in the dark. Its always like that at the beginning

I think when you call someone twice and he / she doesn't pick, if the message is important, send a text. The person may be too busy to pick calls at that moment

I need a new phone. Me I no see any sniper o

Our dear Mama Peace.. Even if she is not perfect, this woman is so popular for just about anything

Its not by force to have maids for your wedding. Without proper planning and coordination, most of those girls end up unhappy and punish you by frowning in your pictures. I have a friend that this happened to. You may even wish you never had them in the first place. The wedding will still hold with or without maids. Just set your priorities right and you will be fine. I had bridesmaids at my wedding but that was because I had willing ladies that were eager to be my bridesmaids, otherwise I wouldn't have bothered.

But if you still insist, look for much younger friends, younger cousins, or church members that are fond of you. However, make sure they can pay up for their clothes on time. You don't want to run into debt because of a wedding.

All in all, try not to stress yourself over it, you need to save your energy for other important things after the wedding

pantless:
jim ikechukwu vs Uti
Jim-Hieght 1feet 12inches,Weight 15kg...20 fight, 20win, 0Loss
Uti-28feet,weight 250kg, 99 fight, 99kills, 99disqualifications...
jim watch b4 leaping...There may be No editor for a film trick...dat dude bad gan oo

Nice one


Oya na, let him kill him. See his coconut head

All these prophets of doom. Nigeria will never have a better yesterday no matter what

netsurf:
Okay, for instance, when the baby came, she breast feeded him exclusively for six months and then the stage to introduce some food came..the baby wouldn't accept those frisogold, cerelac etc but accepts Ogi well but she continually force him to take those friso/cerel and each time, the baby cries endlesslly and later vomits everything. Then at about 10 months old, the baby would accept amala, and indomie on his own without been forced...then she brought in golden morn which the baby spits out the moment it touches his mouth...despite this, she started forcing him again...so the husband said don't give it to him any more...give what he is okay with. Rather than explain why she want to continue forcing him, she went and bought a bigger bag of the golden morn...then the husband threw it away...this happenned last Thursday and since then she has stopped greeting her husband and even prepare food when she like since then.

The two of them have issues abeg

Bro Jamil be like, I bought one and got one free

Its trekking season

With what has been described here, I don't think I have the nerve to watch the video. Some people should never be allowed to touch kids

OP, I suggest you take down your picture. Its irrelevant to the issue you are seeking advice on. You'd be surprised at so many things people here have been advised to do by their well-meaning folks and still they didn't have to do those things because it just wasn't right. You aren't a child anymore, tell her politely but firmly that you will appreciate if she doesn't bug you with such a request again. Get busy, focus on your work/education, whatever it is you are doing right now. The less time you spend at home trying to argue with her, the more she will respect your decision and eventually leave you alone.

This can be handled well if you go about it in a matured way. No big deal about it because I'm pretty sure she won't drag you to the man's house. Just say No and stick to it

That some people will have the strength to even turn this thread to a mini tribal war shows the kind of world we live in and the state of their minds.

War does no good at the end.