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This is only logical.

This is what is best for you.

So chill out, observe her body language, analyze how it plays out and keep in mind, you are the prize, not her.

This is the root of the Alpha mindset when it comes to women.

YOU are the prize!

Now that you have the proper mindset, also realize that acting with this unshakable alpha mindset will surely not go unnoticed. She should realize that you are testing her quickly enough; which will encourage her to pass your test and at the same time, this will increase her attraction for you. In this new frame, she will be now seeking your validation.

If it turns out that way, you might not have a definitive answer about how trustworthy she is but you will surely have a good evening with her that day.

If she is completely absorbed by the frame of the other guy, because he is a very good pickup artist, you can give her a little chance to snap out of it. Do something to pull her out of it, like by snapping your finger close to her head in a way that means: Hey, wake up from that trance! Or something …

Also, consider that she could be too shy to tell him to Bleep off. However, this should be visible in her body language, as she would feel uncomfortable. If it goes that way, at one point just grab her, look the guy deep in the eyes and tell him something like:

Sorry, but we have things to do, have a nice day!

Then proceed to drag her to another location.

Anyway, be attentive to subtle clues in her body language.

If you can observe and feel that she displays indicators of interest in her body language like for example; glowing eyes, laughing too much, touching him, holding eye contact, open body language toward him, leaning toward him or even ignoring you, all that in your presence, consider that she has failed the test and proceed to dump her accordingly.

If you have to dump her, please, try to make it epic or funny at least, that way you will have a great story to tell to your friends and it will not feel depressing as you will not look like a sorry loser who was dumped by her.

Keep in mind, though, if you have a good one, there should be no problem, even if the guy is hotter than you, even if he’s a pickup artist. If she is loyal, she will pass the test.

Also, acting that way will also confirm to your girl, that you never saw the guy has a real treat, that you are confident and that you were merely amused by the opportunity you got to test her which in turn will create more attraction.
Keeps this in your mind always .you are the prize and assets not her.

If you have a nice girlfriend, there are probably guys hitting on her couple of times a week and it is just a matter of time before another guy hits on her just right there in front of you.

This motherfucker! You’re thinking…

Yeah, some guys are highly motivated go-getters, and they go after what they want in life. Most of those guys have already realized that the average civilized modern man is a pussy living under the boot of his wife and that the modern feminist women are on a quest to reach new levels of promiscuity.

In fact, they probably have never been that easy to Bleep in all history of mankind and the married/engage ones are best as they make perfect discreet Bleep friend that don’t bug you all the time with their problems or try to move in with you.

That is why some guys won’t give a shit about you, they simply assume that you’re one of those feminized manginas who believes, only men cheat and women are little angels.

So what should I do? I should kick him in the nut sac, right?

Well, getting physical might seem the ‘Alpha’ thing to do at first glance, but it would surely be a ticket to jail and then the court or even worst. Honestly, I do not know about you, but ending my day in jail and spending my savings on a lawyer seems to be a plan that totally sucks.

If you worry that a random guy could steal your girlfriend, it means you have insecurities about your relationship and the core issue here would be TRUST.

Maybe your instinct is trying to tell you something…

The reality is, this guy would not actually ‘still your girlfriend’ but in fact, SHE WOULD CHOOSE to dump you over him or just to discreetly Bleep him for a night and then come back to you later.

Which brings us to the only question that really matters.

Can you trust her?

If you know any shit about women, you should already recognize that in the current state of affairs, 90% of women are not loyal and cannot be trusted. If you think I am exaggerating here, maybe it’s time you pull your head out of your ass…

However, since you are smart and have standards, you are looking for a girlfriend part of this rare 10% you can trust, right!

Turning the problem into an opportunity

This is your chance to find out if she can be trusted. If you worry about what she going to do with this guy while you’re there with her, be very worried about what she going to do while you’re not there.

This is your chance to test her!

The cost of women.

In a long-term relationship, women will cost you a lot!

Time, energy, emotion, money and even your dreams.

Your women will be by far the greatest and the riskiest of all the investments you will make in your life.

How many women, fake to be good wife material until the day following the wedding or until she delivers the first baby, only to reveal her true narcissist gold digging nature?

How many men have been ruined by their ex-wife?

Countless amount!

It always turns out being his fault, because he’s an asshole rapist pig and she is a little angel, victim of his constant oppression.

This is no joke, and do not think that this does not apply to you because you are a good guy! In most cases, being a good/nice guy will only encourage her to abuse even more.

Now a day, women have more legal power than men do. Couple that with relentless feminist brainwashing in all mainstream media and add to that their hypergamous narcissistic nature and you have a nice recipe for disaster.

This is a real risk.

My point here is: TRUST IS A FUCKING MUST and its way more important than the size of her tits.

Use this opportunity to test her.

This is the unique opportunity you have been waiting for, sit back, relax, and grab some popcorn. No need to get nervous, anxious, scared or any of those bad emotions, just be cool and let it flow.

This is show time.

I know you do not want to lose her, but if she cannot be trusted, the best thing you can do is to dump her as fast as possible before her tentacles have a grip on all your major asset

Am here to know if I can get an access to loan from any individual or cooperate organizations with interest. Am willing to sign any necessary documents ,even if law terms are involved.
Am a businessman based in Anambra state.
Guys and ladies ,I need some suggestions please.

I met a young girl three months ago at a night club,,. We exchanged number ,from there we started to get along with each other.Although my motive was to have sex and dump her ...
I made it clear to her that am not interested in any relationship..She was shocked.
She wanted my cash,I wanted her pussy ..
It's up to her to decide if she's willing to bend to my will. Or else nothing for her..
Women are snakes...Guys beware

I often visit nairaland especially romance section...There I come across ubunja write-ups ,though am experienced when it comes to women...I can confirm that
All his write-ups all 100% correct... To all young guys here ,not only how to handle women.Inculcate those knowledge to all spheres ofyour life,you see yourself Excell in all your endeavors .
Courage, confidence,boldness and ruthlessness.These four attributes outlined above makes a real man.... Respect to ubunja ..
My nairalander of the year 2019.

How is it possible to get a loan #500k with interest to upgrade my business...I reside in onitsha ....Any nairaland with good information...

Eteka1:
Abandoned? As if na them send am work.

Abaribe,peter obi ,ngige,ifeanyi ubah and chidoka ..most ibo elites spoke infavour of kanu.. At least tinubu and co should say something

I pity sowore,,,,,like awolowo,like abiola,..His end is near...se/ss can never be deceived again ....when kanu was arrested ,igbos were aggrieved .They protested gallantly,,fought the police and military.Nigeria shook..Igbo elites pressured and ensured his safe release from prison... Again yoruba man can never be president again ...

with tinubu as their tool

I give up on Nigeria ,...if Iran decides to fund and arm those guys ,,Nigeria will burn down....

According to wole soyinka ,'nigeria has the highest number of people with low IQ ....Take this as an example
We have many problems such as herdsmen killings,unemployment,poor dilapilated infrastural and political structures ravaging the progress and growth of this country ,yet we waste and drain our energy on worthless issues that doesn't count.
A young senator slapped a sales girl due to her misconduct ,the whole nation started to react on worthless low key issue .. A popular pastor was alleged accused of rape ,people reacted...
We should unite ,react and fight for the right cause of our social ,economic and political problems. And not worthless issues which can never improve our dilapilated economy.
We are lost as a nation.

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pussy nigga,,,real men dont masturbate no matter what happens...

that's lagos for you..an over glorified city...

piracy done by illegal film distributors killed nollywood.... Dont blame nollywood ,but blame those mafias .

women are attracted to fearless,badboys ...if you know ,you know

the message is clear ,the northern mafians has spoken through their mouthpiece 'el rufai' .Tinubu,yorubas will never succeed buhari 2023 .. Northern presidency countinues until southerners get sense.Fact

What led to the death of Chief Obafemi Awolowo: let’s deal! The cause of Papa Awo death raises some questions. Let's look into the history of Obafemi Awolowo and last things he was involved in before his death.
Chief Awolowo activities

Chief Obafemi Awolowo was known as a founder of nationalism in Nigeria. He was a lawyer, publisher, nationalist, and significant political figure. Obafemi Awolowo held the Premier’s chair in the Western region from 1954 until Nigeria got complete independence from the UK in 1960. Chief Awolowo took a leading role in the constitutional conferences conducted in London and Lagos which opened the path for Nigerian independence.
Obafemi Awolowo was a leader of the opposition in the first Parliament after gaining independence and was considered as a Chief of the Yoruba people.

In 1979 and 1983, Papa Awo (as he was often called) was a presidential candidate of the Unity Party. But he lost the elections to Shehu Shagari who represented National Party form the Northern part of Nigeria. When the Government of Shehu Shagari was deposed because of a military coup in the 31st of December, 1983, Chief Obafemi Awolowo moved away from political affairs.
Obafemi Awolowo was a leader of the opposition in the first Parliament after gaining independence and was considered as a Chief of the Yoruba people.

In 1979 and 1983, Papa Awo (as he was often called) was a presidential candidate of the Unity Party. But he lost the elections to Shehu Shagari who represented National Party form the Northern part of Nigeria. When the Government of Shehu Shagari was deposed because of a military coup in the 31st of December, 1983, Chief Obafemi Awolowo moved away from political affairs.
A probable cause of death

Some reports alleged that Papa Awo committed self-murder because he wanted to stop the probable growth of military tribunal into an uprising. Chief Awolowo was going to drive it with his political allies. The main reason was the intention of General Ibrahim Babangida, Nigerian Military President, to keep the helm of the country for life at that time. Obafemi Awolowo planned to remove Ibrahim Babangida from power with the help of armed people insurrection.
But, unfortunately, one of the participants in that campaign betrayed them and handed the record of the conspiracy to the military.

When everything was revealed, General Babangida held a meeting to Chief Awolowo and threatened him with prison and exile. Then Papa Awo allegedly decided to commit self-murder instead of spending the rest of his life in prison.
But before that, Obafemi Awolowo gathered his ‘comrades-in-arms’ again. At that meeting, the name of their traitor was revealed. According to Nigerian politician Mr Adebayo Adeyinka, it was Chief Lateef Jakande, the former Executive Governor of Lagos State. Although Jakande denied his guilt, the evidence was against him. To tell the truth, the former Governor still denies that they had any disagreements with Papa Awo.

Later Chief Awolowo took poison, but the public was told that he had died in the bathroom while brushing his teeth.

Late Chief Obafemi Awolowo was a political leader and true father of the nation. He believed that Nigeria should invest its resources into education and develop infrastructure.
Papa Awo organised the free of charge primary education for all pupils in the Western Region. Besides, he founded the first TV broadcast in Africa (1959). Also, Chief Awolowo provided electricity for Nigerian regions using earnings from the highly profitable cocoa export. He also led a children’s free health care program. Papa Awo created the name for Nigeria currency- Naira.

Perhaps, the time will come, and we’ll receive official and true information about Chief Obafemi Awolowo’s cause of death. Indeed, Papa Awo is a great Nigerian politician and founder of the nation. His contribution to the development of Nigeria is undeniable.

how did we end up here...i regret being a Nigerian...

Lets be sincere ,,how i wish ned nwoko would dump Regina and marry my junior sister...my life will never remain the same again....my millions will multiply into 20 folds ..

i never believed that women can date a wealthy monkey until this moment.....

Her former boyfriend right now

hushpuppi right now

senior man

other sane countries are celebrating heroes. Men through there innovations changed the world ,,men like Steve jobs,bill gate ,nelson mandela ,gandhi ,einstein e t.c....Here we are honouring a criminal , political thug.. .

three monumental gargantuan bitter losers laughing at themselves....
ambode own worse pass ,a sitting governor lost to a mentally retarded sanwo olu in an ordinary party primaries not even in main gubernatorial election...first to occur in Nigeria's political history.... Ambode na mumu

for two years you have nothing on ground to show for as a governor,,yet you are condemning others....obaseki deserves this

Poor boy living fake life.....people that are affluent dont show off,they enjoy their money and success on a low key......

If apc wins automatically Nigeria will disintegerate .New nations will emerge...If pdp wins Nigeria will be in deep chaos because agrieved apc cabals will equip boko haram ,isis might enter Nigeria ,,there will be bombings here and there .Across major cities in Nigeria ...Fear apc
They can do and undo ....pray for Nigeria

Dont be deceived. ,many women are into prostitution.
Street girls sleep with many men for money and other fantasies..some do runs ,some stay in brothels..
No difference between street girls ,runs girls and others in brothels selling their body ...
A girl you meet in a brothel is another man's girlfriend,,fiancee ,,wife in some cases...i have met many girls in brothels receiving phone calls from their alleged boyfriends,fiancees.Go to hotels, sit in the reception room,there you see many young girls trooping in to meet their clients in their rooms, selling themselves for money... Guys be wise, play safe ,becareful.
It pains me when i see my fellow kneeling down to propose to a woman that had many sexual intimacy with
Many men.... Marriage is overrated ...
I have many girlfriends,concubines ...i hide my in shame when they prophesy their love to me...Nice guys finishes last ,if you know,you know
Work hard,make money and enjoy yourself.

A great man who forsaw the woes(apc) befalling Nigeria.zombies made mockery of him and now he's laughing last at them...respect to orubebe you saw the future but gullible nigerians cajoled yoú. Respect

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