₦airaland Forum

Has the pie for presidency always had this much fingers in it at a go? I deeply want the north to retain the presidency in 2023 and beyond Why? The strong and the smart must always rule over the weak and not so smart. North don’t spit out the honey like we Ss did.
Party delegates and a small group of elites will determine who will be each party candidate

Yorubas are sophisticated and accomodating that won’t happen

She’s so beautiful!

Lol... He said it in his speech but he didn’t declare he has lost hope in Nigeria unity

2dice01:
Ooh you do ladies ..
You should have told me that earlier

So do you ladies share the bill

Yes ladies share

2dice01:
Sarah use Pythagoras or Almighty formula

You will get the same answer


How many times have you shared a date Bill with a Dude

Real question should be how many times have I been on a date with a dude

This is the age of liberalism if you can’t stNd it go back to the cave Misogynist!

Asour:
Then we should target those groups who "easily" give in to them. Also, could it be that the North are politically more shrewd and others should learn?

They are strong and wise , and you know what they say about strong and wise people!

Igbochief001:
Patriotism would be the difference
Merit would be the difference

Competition within the old Nigeria would be the difference

Well said, patriotism and merit. That would make a great deal of difference.

Asour:
Politically, No region can win the elections general elections on its own.
Even the North cannot win elections on its own in Nigeria. Partnership is required from one other major group or at least a few "minority" groups to effectively win.

Most Nigerians don't get this and repeatedly yell North! North! When the North can't really win on its own.

North can easily get Ally's compared to the other regions.

Wickedness, I don't understand how people feel when inflicting physical pain on someone else, doesn't seem like something one should enjoy. ..i do enjoy watching wrestling tho

He has done what the police cannot do arresting god's, make him IGP

Hell yeah they sure do, but hey not as politicians.. Ojuju calabar has nothing on you guys!

The idea of sovereignty is good for various parts of Nigeria, the reality is once this happens you'll all get mini Nigeria in each new nation.. That's the fact same problems but in a smaller geographical location...
And to the Tribalists, come on you don't have to spend the few good hours you get for leisure on nairaland being a total piece of shyt .

IamLEGEND1:
you, you and you!
you prepared, you dressed up, you had a boring conversation.
what about him?

He went through the same level of stress as you did, cleaned up, and in the end got disappointed.
Unlike you, however, he had to spend a little money for his troubles in addition to everything else.
I don't agree with or even like the whining by guys after that happens. It's stupid.
However, a little empathy wouldn't kill anyone.

Obviously, when you ask a girl out and decide to pay the bill all by yourself, that doesn't guarantee nor entitle you to a good date. That is just dumb.

Girls, too, shouldn't use the expected dating etiquette as a safety net, where they're almost eager to end the date at the slightest inconvenience because she knows she wouldn't be left holding the bill at the end of the night.

patriarchy ,that's your angle... I'm aware there's no fairness anywhere but still, dates should be what they are post to be getting to know and see someone the meal is simply entertainment.

Whistle blowing? As a primary source of fighting corruption... This is a total fail, start with legislation assigning draconian sentences to corrupt public administrators.Then we know you are ready

Arrewa:
he escaped twice not thrice! The 3rd one is a fake news!

How can someone who is exposing the hypocrisy and the incompetence of buhari and his service chiefs have any agenda of being the president of Nigeria under APC?

This is what some bigots keep saying when Abu Ali was Alive... That he was staging his own attack.

They only believe him after he was killed.

OK... Let's assume he's staging it.

How is terrorist attacking a governor a presidential campaign??

If the north want presidency... We will be very straight forward about it.

Zulum is going for second tenure in Borno state.

2023 it's between Osibanjo, Tinubu,fayemi, Amechi, Atiku or maybe Elrufai that's if the north want to retain power.

But count zulum out of your conspiracy theory.

You are one of the few I do respect in this forum.

Stay away from bigotry... It doesn't fit you

Didn't know it was just twice, an end to insurgency it's all that matters !
Nagode!

TerryMcGinis:
Most Nigerian girls are plain stupid. Op is a glorious fool. I can't help it..I fit chop another round of ban. The stupidity of nairaland girls is like morning dew, new every morning.

Too bad, you're stuck with us aye!

IamLEGEND1:
You said if you wanted to pay for your meal, you'd be alone at home away from the noise. I don't see how else a sentence like that can be interpreted.
Him paying is the only reason you'd subject yourself to the "interrogation" of a date. In other words, he's paying for your time & presence with food.

That said, I feel there is a valid point buried somewhere deep in some of your oddly phrased words. But it's a point that hasn't been made here before. You should know that by now. you're trying to feed hay to jackals. It's pointless.

Eating alone doesn't mean at home, ladies can have their meals alone in public food spots... Going on a date in my experience involves preparing to dress up, logistics, and the worst part conversation (some people are blokes) ...Him paying would probably seem like the bright side of the whole ordeal if there's no connection... I know misogyny is here to stay and I definitely can't end it.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I disagree.

Why so?

Arrewa:
you are just a normal hypocrite always claiming to be neutral when it comes to national politics.

If we need power back to the north we will agitate for power chest up!

Atiku is a northerner and a fulani man who will contest come 2023. If we are desperately in need of power we will make our position clear and support him!

You people are just too desperate for power... That why you now see every performing northern governor as a potential threat

First it was Elrufai....

It was Ganduje.

And now it is zulum... You people are already accusing him for a conspiracy to rule Nigeria.

I'm not surprise...

If we want to support a northerner.... We will support him chest up!

This una insecurity about 2023 is turning to something else

Zulum was attacked twice and the only thing that comes out from your brain is that he want to be president come 2023

Honestly I don't care who becomes president in 2023, neither am I a conspiracy nut or closet Tribalist...
Dont you think it's a bit suspicious for Zulum to escape assassination thrice, and not a single Boko Haram assassin captured and quizzed.. I'm have no hope in this politics game my compatriot I'm just a spectator! One love!

proclinician:
It's simple. Before you come out to run your filthy mouth, tell your brothers to practice what you've preached and see how far it gets them. For Nigerian ladies, a date is an opportunity to eat those things she ordinarily can't afford because a guy is taking the whole bill. Use your brothers to run a simple social experiment then you can share your results on nairaland. Telling any of these gluttons that the bill will be split is interpreted as red flag. "He is poor or stingy and can't run a home".

I belong to the new generation (99) .so probably what your said is true about the older girls not my people.

2dice01:
>@ Bolded

Pick 15 girls and tell them you guys are sharing the Bill before the date

You will hardly see 1 girl agreeing to this

This is unfair statistics, mathematically unprovable

Zzor:
if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

Lol, Sharing the bills or at least paying for your own consumables... This is something I feel should be agreed upon before meeting at the dating venue.

IamLEGEND1:
This is true. But splitting the bill should be the norm, not an outlier. This way no one feels hard done by if things don't work out.
Thhis type of statements are part of the reasonthe guys here are the way they are. If, like you're suggesting, I am paying for your time, then obviously I should expect you to make it worth my while.

Lmao see the way you angled my talk... Paying for ones time isn't that what you do to a hookah... Taking a girl out isnt paying for her time the very moment you've that impression you've played yourself!... In my opinion

i926:
Tell a Nigerian girl, let's split the bill before the date, just won't work. She would flee, hate you, even call you not man enough


This is exactly what I was talking about

Then look elsewhere obv

baralatie:
you have people who literarily find themselves financially not capable to sustain their ego and pseudo status( impression at first sight) and their approach on get laid mentality

People get laid without even going on dates, just straight up sheet rocking...

cooooooks:
While some NLers do dabble in overt misogyny, I fail to see the problem in someone sharing and wailing about their experience.

Personally, the women and girls I've gone on dates with in Nigeria have never used me as a meal ticket. I think that is because we were both interested in each other.

There was no pestering or begging involved.

Let us not however act as though it is not on this same NL that some women are advising others to avoid 'broke' men. And some of these NL 'FINO' (Feminists In Name Only) define broke as not able to spend 10k on a date.


We are 200 MILLION people in Nigeria, there is no need to dwell on someone that is not pushing your buttons or whose demands are unreasonable to you.

Well said, look elsewhere if you feel extorted

Talking about food in dates, who declared that dates must happen at fast-food or grillers? No one!, if as a man you're not spontaneous enough to pick a non-food related venue for the date that's on you!

If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.
Sure some girls might take a date as a possible meal ticket, but if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out.. I never get critical or judgmental about dates etiquette but this section of nairaland never hides it's gross misogyny.

solmus:
Not so... Humans need a good support system as we grow old

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Contract marriages

Loco...Freedom to gather partially granted, freedom after gathering GOOD LUCK ...Buhari install yourself for third term

SlayerForever:
One or two decades from now you'll feel very sorry for yourself.

We'll see