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Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by BigSarah(f): 8:07pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TerryMcGinis: Too bad, you're stuck with us aye! |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Sixfeetbelle: 8:09pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
proclinician: In all your attempts to debate her post, you failed to notice a crucial information. It's not by force to go on a date to an eatery. No go dey do pass yourself 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
I Will Create A Thread Relating To Dis If Time Permit, How To Make Men Av Regard 4 U As A Woman. Let Me Be Blunt Here, Until U Ladies Place Values On Urself, Men Won't Av Value 4 U. As A Woman Respect Urself So Dat Men Will Respect U. Dis Why I Said Women Should Be Financially Independent, Pls Stop Acting Like A Baby In D Presense Of Men, Act Like A Woman. How? Be A Supportive Woman, Woman Dat Doesn't Depend On Men 4 Survival, Woman Who Is Productive, Not Just A Girl Dat Would Just Come & Eat & Go. Don't Make Urself Appear As An Hungry Type In D Presense Of Men. When A Man Takes U Out, Don't Appear As If U Are Hungry, Or U Don't Av Parents Or U Are An Orphan 4Godsake, How Would D Man Av Any Regard 4 U? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by proclinician: 8:11pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lol this is not very hard to understand, it's not a first principle something. It's not by force actually but it's a necessity as human are social animals. So well I will go on and make her comfortable, that little treat, it's not a big deal. But to whom much (boobs and butt) is given, much sense is expected. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by lograr(m): 8:18pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
baralatie:Haha so her fellow hungry friends is the best substitute for a security officer abi? What protection will they offer her? If she feel insecure she shouldn't go. Its as simple as that |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by baralatie(m): 8:22pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
lograr:and if she refuse to show up on her date because she is insecure about the other person.the guy will come to nairaland and open another topic about Nigerian girls. you can see the wahala! |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:30pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:There are wines for all classes of people,so that excuse of not being able to afford wine can't fly. It will be bad only if one party doesn't like wine/alcohol. I find eating on dates very obnoxious and irresponsible. Nigerians are still very poor people tbh...Food for God's sake,na wa! Wine,a bottle of water,soda,juice,snack should suffice. Which one be semo,cowleg and ogbono for date na tori olorun? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Nobody: 8:32pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx:Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by lograr(m): 8:32pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
baralatie:Now answer this : If your daughter/sister feel insecure about a date, should she go with her friends because the guy will create a thread about it or she should stay at home? 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by IamLEGEND1: 8:34pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
BigSarah:you, you and you! you prepared, you dressed up, you had a boring conversation. what about him? He went through the same level of stress as you did, cleaned up, and in the end got disappointed. Unlike you, however, he had to spend a little money for his troubles in addition to everything else. I don't agree with or even like the whining by guys after that happens. It's stupid. However, a little empathy wouldn't kill anyone. Obviously, when you ask a girl out and decide to pay the bill all by yourself, that doesn't guarantee nor entitle you to a good date. That is just dumb. Girls, too, shouldn't use the expected dating etiquette as a safety net, where they're almost eager to end the date at the slightest inconvenience because she knows she wouldn't be left holding the bill at the end of the night. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by baralatie(m): 8:38pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx:that is why it is called a date.you don't judge another person's definition about what a date should entail. some guy fancies his house! another fancies chicken republic! some fancy Sheraton ! some fancy quilox! and at the venue your date might hate the thought of ordering drinks and she loves food! the summary is money will be spent and someone must foot the bill.in essence if a guy goes out of his pocket size.he will go home crying 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Sixfeetbelle: 8:42pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx: People that can afford wine wouldn't be complaining about semo and cowleg. (At least according to my understanding of how expensive items can be) I don't mind people eating on a date if the paying party can afford it and when the other party will eat sensibly. Even without that, I'm for at least having snacks on a date. A soda and a burger is nice if you're not too buoyant. I don't know how I feel about just wine on a first date sha. Maybe on subsequent dates. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by baralatie(m): 8:42pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
lograr:the reason we are having this topic is because a dude went on a date and the lady ordered fooood ad since women being social beings would not want to be shamed that she did not attend her date came with extra security |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Sixfeetbelle: 8:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
baralatie: Point is: no do pass yourself 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:45pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
baralatie:If you noticed,I never complained of money. How much does food cost anyway?See why I say Nigerians are still very poor? If your guest loves food,let her eat at home,that's if she can afford it anyway. Food(heavy,carb laden food) on first dates is very clumsy and screams poverty and famine ravaged people. No sane person goes on a first date at clubs,that's for misfits and riff raffs. Sane people go to parks,beaches,winery,ice cream parlours and snack areas where they can talk without fufu or rice particles flying from their mouths across tables,landing on each others faces. Just imagine being on a date and you're painting one interesting scenario and your date is figiting with a tooth pick trying to chook out kpomo from her gum Do you see how off that looks? Na wa! 6 Likes |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:53pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Do you want me to start mentioning names of wines that cost less than food for 2 people on dates? You must not buy champagne,there are very nice cheap red and whites littered all over wineries across Nigeria. Mouton Cadet,Robertson,etc... I wasn't talking about money,food is too cheap for me to complain,I was looking at how inconvenient it will be to eat heavily on a first date and what it depicts. Look,argue all you want,only starving girls subscribe for food on first dates 90% of the time. They don't want wine because you can't take those on an empty stomach,lest you digest your stomach walls If you doubt it,take your friends out,buy them food and buy wine afterwards and see if they deny the wine. That will tell you they liked the wine but were too hungry to have it first or as an only refreshment. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by BigSarah(f): 8:57pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
IamLEGEND1: patriarchy ,that's your angle... I'm aware there's no fairness anywhere but still, dates should be what they are post to be getting to know and see someone the meal is simply entertainment. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by baralatie(m): 9:07pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx:you are prejudicing what people define as a date.you can't impose how a date will be interpreted by the other person. for example .a person might consider a date as going to the beach and spent 2 hours talking (for some) for whizkid and David type of crews.you mention a date it will be at quilox , Lordsgate with correct ride and all the works for church people ,a date will be a church service where they both pray till heaven opens. for some that there is no food on a date.it is the end of the end.it is considered rude. for some that you are drinking or smoking haaaa.you have hit road block for some that the look and can't find an escort with you is somehow. dates comes with all kind of scenarios.as a guy should just watch your budget.if your date likes food and you don't (maybe threats should be reaccesed) but shaking someone because she/he likes food is something else |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Nobody: 9:12pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx: Hahahaha... this man 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by IamLEGEND1: 9:20pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
BigSarah:couldn't agree more. This is why I buy minimi chin-chin and pure water on dates. 3 Likes |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Nobody: 9:57pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx:True! |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by luminouz(m): 10:04pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx: Your last question had me guffawing like mad!!! Cowleg on a date |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by 2dice01: 11:40pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
lograr:she brings her friends for 4some or what I will just bounce 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by 2dice01: 11:49pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
BigSarah:Sarah use Pythagoras or Almighty formula You will get the same answer How many times have you shared a date Bill with a Dude |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by BigSarah(f): 11:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
2dice01: Real question should be how many times have I been on a date with a dude |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by 2dice01: 8:10am On Sep 30, 2020 |
BigSarah:Ooh you do ladies .. You should have told me that earlier So do you ladies share the bill |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Bennysam: 8:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
BigSarah:Not some girls, all of you |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by BigSarah(f): 8:16am On Sep 30, 2020 |
2dice01: Yes ladies share |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by 2dice01: 9:09am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by StrikeBack(m): 9:23am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Amarabae:too much Hollywood. |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by jaxxy(m): 7:54am On Dec 28, 2020 |
2dice01: Dates are now hookups everybody wants it fast , relationships have been commercialized. These new scenarios has one way or another affected the mindsets a gals and guys alike which had led to a battle of the fittest or smtmes smartest. People are not genuine with their intentions to larger degrees and won’t make this known so everyone is on same page atleast. All these leads to an unspoken and even spoken confrontational/non confrontational battle btwn sm males and females who have gotten confused by these new trends, sets of rules and ideologies in the dating and relationships arena. It’s like a mini war/battle with both sides wrong and right at thesame time. A land of confusion. 1 Like |
Re: Dates: Stop Insulting Women by Youngpo413: 5:43pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Men should learn to stay on their own na,it's not a big deal.... |
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