Politics › Re: Ikpeazu And Wife Share Food To School Children. Shoes, Bags, Balls, Books Shared by bilo1(m): 8:28pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Nice |
Celebrities › Re: RMD And Wife Host Ay's Wife To A Birthday Dinner by bilo1(m): 3:39pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Sweet |
Romance › Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by bilo1(m): 3:30pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Cutesexy1: Lol this is my first time of realising that cooking is slavery,personally i dont see any big deal in cooking,i cook for fun it one of my hobbies. and 2 think that u re extremely beautiful plus ur cooking skills is amazing |
Politics › Re: Dasukigate: I’m Not At War With Buhari, EFCC Over Court Orders —CJN by bilo1(m): 8:19am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Seen |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Horrible Experience At A Job Interview Today by bilo1(m): 11:05pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Brb |
Celebrities › Re: Donjazzy Joins In The Olamide Back To Back Joke - Screen Shots by bilo1(m): 11:04pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Lol |
Politics › Re: Who Is More Powerful...a Minister And A Senator??? by bilo1(m): 2:19pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Of course it a minister |
Jokes Etc › Re: That Moment When You'll Pray That Ground Should Open Up And Swallow You. (photo) by bilo1(m): 11:21am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Lol |
Romance › Re: 5 Most Pretty Girls Ever In The History Of Nairaland ( Photos 18+) by bilo1(m): 10:20pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
@Op u must be seriously joking,have never seen a girl on dis nairaland that is as beautiful as cutesexy1 or even close |
Romance › Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by bilo1(m): 6:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Ignore this post if you are too lazy to read, please!!!
In life, there are two types of people as regards human reasoning; the idealist and the realist. People who hold idealist view of life see events that happen around them as 'how things ought to be but are not' while people who hold realist view of life see events that happen around them as 'real facts or occurences' and should be accepted without pretending as if we didn't know that this is how things truly are!!!
With deep thoughts, I write this post. I am not afraid to face criticism; neither am I afraid to express my thoughts. I am a realist. I believe that events that happen around us as humans are real!!! Often times, things 'ought to be' in a particular way but in reality, they are not; so it becomes necessary to accept bitter and painful facts! Especially, when they are real!!!
We live in a material world and whether you like it or not, material things play a lot of important roles in our everyday life. As a struggling guy, loving only one girl whole-heartedly might end up leaving you with numerous emotional scars! . This is due to the high level of emotional pressure you would put in the relationship and the possible outcome of getting dumped, especially, when you don't have the resources to spice up the relationship. A struggling guy with low funds would find it difficult to spice up his relationship even when he has the intention to do that . In order not to lose the girl, he might start being too protective/desparate and pester the girl with phone calls, texts messages and numerous 'I love you's' in order to be assured that he is still loved! Common!!! That's trash! Are you begging to be loved? After displaying all these, she would dispise you and might even dump you because the truth remains the same...relationships without trips, surprises and outings are as boring as hell!!! Pretend at your own risk!!! . If truth be told, all young ladies want the good things in life, even those that put up what I call 'social media good face'. You cannot obtain total loyalty from a girl when you are lacking! Don't make the mistake of trying to force her to be loyal; you cannot!!!
Women, sometimes need to feel jealous that their man could be taken anytime by another woman. This can put them back on track when they 'backslide' romantically...but this can only be made easy when you have the resources. She knows fully well that ladies will not flock around you if she leaves you today or tomorrow. Don't love just one lady if you are still on 'struggling mode' . The love pressure you would mount on the relationship might make her get fed up quickly with you and eventually get your ass dumped painfully! Again, I am a realist and I am telling you that sooner than later, your ass will be dumped if you don't have the resources to 'oil' the machines of relationships!
As a struggling guy, you should buckle or lace your shoes and tighten your belt very well. You must set your priorities right. There is what economists call 'scale of preference'. What is on top of your scale of preference? Is it your education or career? Or is it trying to please a girl with your meagre earnings all in the name of seeing her pleased with you? Do you want to waste your youthful years trying to please a girl that might end up being married by another dude, who was probably hussling seriously, while you were doing your usual lovey-lovey? Book of Ecclesiastes says 'Money answereth all things'. Take note, 'all things' and not 'some things' . Take the pains now and strive to be comfortable and you will avoid the painful experience of trying to please a girl!!! The love between a man and a woman is not AGAPE LOVE, let us stop deceiving ourselves!!! It is not the type of love described in the Synoptic Gospels and in the Epistles of Apostle Paul...it is called EROS and it costs something!!! Yes, the eros love goes for something; it doesn't come with nothing and that's the bitter truth we all need to accept 
Good morning everyone!  u can never be more truthful than this |
Romance › Re: If You were To Pick A Date On NL Who Would It Be? by bilo1(m): 12:13am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Cutesexy1,that lady is extremely beautiful nd sexy |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Beautifull{female] And Handsome{male] Nairalander As At Now? by bilo1(m): 11:20am On Apr 03, 2015 |
Cutesexy1 is the most beautiful and sexiest girl have ever seen here on nairaland |
Jokes Etc › Re: When An Igbo Girl Finally Finds Her Name On Coca-cola Bottle by bilo1(m): 2:31pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Lol kul |
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Vs Nadia Buari: Who Is Prettier? by bilo1(m): 10:48pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Hmmm well nadia wins with a close margin |
Business › Re: Dangote Lost Half Of His Fortune In The Last 6 Months? by bilo1(m): 4:41pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
. |
Politics › Re: APC Drops Buhari & Picks Tambuwal As Presidential Candidate? by bilo1(m): 10:13pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
spenca: Yet another tale.
*clears throat* Good pm fellow nairalanders am sure you all know what is going on here and in case you are missing the point you can see there is no one above me on here so which means na me be the man of the year , it's no coincidence this is happening on the 31st of December ,this was the year and next year would be another year where we would all make front pages about blissful news without further ado let's move to the next item on the agenda
Shout to spenca for making frontpage to the mod that put this on the front page to Diablo, alaga , jolade,sunborian , sly , reel , engine I see you pappi , shoboy and to all those that will comment below me and will quote me for whatsoever reason and those that have quoted already please quote again so this masterpiece can reflex in your post that you quoted the man that shall not be mentioned , you all are far too kind , before the year runs out,you wenger make sure you get GIROUD a sibling come the new year ,Gunners for life ....2much 2much !!!!!!, the more you quote for positive responses the more blessings coming in for you this new year for
At this point I want to say a Merry new year to yea all ....change of club form now available ,pm SEUN for yours . k |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Plane Crash In Russia, 50 Feared Dead by bilo1(m): 8:20pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
So sad |
Romance › Re: When Can an African Woman Divorce Her Husband? [VIDEO] by bilo1(m): 5:07pm On Sep 27, 2013 |
can u imagine this kind of question |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Is Quality Worth Its Price In Branding? by bilo1(m): 5:05pm On Sep 27, 2013 |
Yup |
Politics › Re: Dont Contest In 2015, Baraje Tells Jonathan by bilo1(m): 10:52pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Ok naa |
Education › Re: Masters In Uniport Or Futo by bilo1(m): 10:43pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
U guys should help this dude and put this on FP naa |
Celebrities › Re: Top 10 Verified Nigerian Celebs With The Highest Number Of Twitter Followers by bilo1(m): 10:37pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
Fp |
Politics › Re: Anambra 2013: Confusion Over Alleged Monetary Gift To Catholic Priests by bilo1(m): 1:06am On Sep 22, 2013 |
anyhow |
Jokes Etc › Re: ASUU Strike Palava by bilo1(m): 1:05am On Sep 22, 2013 |
Hahaha |
Business › Re: Blackberry To Cut Workforce By 40%, After $1 Billion Loss by bilo1(m): 1:04am On Sep 22, 2013 |
Hmmm |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Most Foolish Question You Have Ever Asked Google? by bilo1(m): 1:24am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Lol u really wanna know |
Sports › Re: Africa' Ineligible Players Worry Fifa by bilo1(m): 1:23am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Ok |
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Islam › Re: 'Sex Jihad' Sees Tunisian Women Return From Syria Pregnant By Rebels by bilo1(m): 1:20am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Hmmmm |
Education › Re: ASUU To End Strike Within The Next One Week by bilo1(m): 7:43pm On Sep 20, 2013 |
Time will tell |
Celebrities › Re: Actress,monalisa Chinda Pays Visit †̥o Kirikiri Prisoners by bilo1(m): 7:42pm On Sep 20, 2013 |
Good gesture |