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Business / Re: We sell Akube Jeans, Joggers Etc by bimsite(f): 12:12pm On Mar 04, 2020
Where in Lagos?
Celebrities / Re: Simi Blasts Pastor Chris Oyakhilome For Saying Woman Wasn't God's Original Idea by bimsite(f): 2:16pm On Jul 12, 2019
Hmmmm. Pastor Chris had very good intention and he probably knew what he was saying but the choice of words is very bad. And I beg to add that as convincing as hi words sound, he beautifully missed the point.

Catholic church has warned us several times against taking some aspects of the bible while rejecting others. The same chapter Pastor Chris read which seems to show that Woman is made for man, continues "this reason man shall live his Father's house and be united to his wife and both shall be one". Gen 2:24. Master and slave cannot be one. So even when God want woman to be help for man, the help is rendered to man not as slave but as partner, friend and companion.

We can learn from Sarah's submission to Abraham and Abraham respect for Sarah. The Bible says she obeyed Abraham so much that she called him my lord. But as much as she respects Abraham, Abraham respects her too in such a way that whatever she tells Abraham to do, even when Abraham is not pleased with it, he always obey. It was Sarah who told Abraham to sleep with Haggai, he did Gen 16:2. When Haggai became proud because of her son Ishmael, it was the same Sarah who told Abraham to send her away with her son. Abraham still did not argue with her. Gen 21:10. We are told in verse 11 of Gen 21 that Abraham felt so bad about this but God, as in God himself in verse 12 told Abraham TO DO WHATEVER SARAH WANTS...

Such is the life expected of husband and wife. As much as Abraham remains lord and master of the house, he recognises the motherhood of Sarah in the same house. So, Dear Pastor and his listeners, as much as woman is made for man, man is also made for woman. If the Husband is the head, woman can be called His neck. No head can stand without neck, just as we cannot talk of a working neck without head. God created us both in his Image, Male and female He created us. Gen 1:27. Saint Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians has said it all. Husband and wife should respect each other in Christ. Eph 5:21 "Wife Obey your Husband as the Church to Christ...," Eph 5:22. Husband love your wife as Christ to Church who (Christ) for the sake of his wife (the church) emptied himself and gave up his life to make her clean and spotless..., Eph 5:25-33.

In summary, I say to you, take good care of your woman, she will natural be submissive. If after all the care and respect and faithfulness, she is still not submissive, then she is eguneleegun, "another person's bone". This is why we always advise you to pray well, so that you will not end up with eguneleegun. Shalom!
Agriculture / Interested In Snail Farming by bimsite(f): 1:51am On Jan 15, 2019
Am interested in snail farming can anyone help with information on how to go about it or get trained
Thanks in anticipation
Food / Re: Place Your Order Today For Extra Virgin Coconut Oil by bimsite(f): 1:51am On Jul 28, 2018
Our cold pressed coconut oil is now available for wholesale and retail. My brothers and sisters what are you waiting for?  Place order today and it will get delivered to you asap
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Food / Re: Place Your Order Today For Extra Virgin Coconut Oil by bimsite(f): 1:48am On Jul 28, 2018
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Food / Re: Place Your Order Today For Extra Virgin Coconut Oil by bimsite(f): 1:42am On Jul 28, 2018
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Not only is it my favourite cooking oil, but coconut oil uses are numerous and can extend to being a form of natural medicine, be used for natural beauty treatments and so on.

Some of the top coconut oil benefits include:

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»Balances blood sugar and improve energy
»Burns fat

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Food / Place Your Order Today For Extra Virgin Coconut Oil by bimsite(f): 1:36am On Jul 28, 2018
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Health / Re: My Sister May Die Soon, I Am Sad by bimsite(f): 9:37am On Jan 12, 2017
Our dear nairalander, just relax urself and stop d spirit of fear smileyNot all lumps are cancerous. I removed lumps few years ago and I'm living very fine, just take her to d hospital for test and remove it....
Fashion / Re: Wholesale & retail Stainless Steel Chain (Ilorin) by bimsite(f): 8:16am On Nov 12, 2016
How much plz
Food / Re: 6 Dangers Of Soft Drinks by bimsite(f): 11:40am On Nov 08, 2016
Drink water
Family / Re: Two Wrongs That Make A Right by bimsite(f): 5:34am On Jul 15, 2016
Nice.

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Business / Re: Where To Buy Original Tee Shirt And Polo Shirt by bimsite(f): 9:48pm On Jul 10, 2016
Alright........Thanks

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Business / Where To Buy Original Tee Shirt And Polo Shirt by bimsite(f): 3:46pm On Jul 10, 2016
Hi nlanders, plz I need to know where I can buy good quality plain tee shirts an Polo Shirts in wholesale price. Anybody with info should plz share asap......Thanks

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Airforce Recruitment: Final Selection Board For Naf 2016 Selection Exercise by bimsite(f): 12:36pm On May 11, 2016
Pls, is d name of those who are shortlisted out yet?
Nairaland / General / Re: Graduate Drowns At Gombe International Hotel (pics) by bimsite(f): 1:46pm On Apr 25, 2016
The rate pple died dis days is so alarming embarassedI pray we will nt die untimely death in jesus name (AMEN)
Jokes Etc / Re: Fuel Is The Gate Fee In This Lagos Party. (PHOTO) by bimsite(f): 6:12am On Apr 08, 2016
smiley cheesy grin
Celebrities / Re: Davido Gave His Used Cloths To Mayorkun, His Newly Signed Artiste- Fans (photos) by bimsite(f): 6:10am On Apr 08, 2016
What's wrong with that grin some pple no dey mind der business sha...smh
Celebrities / Re: ★ Have You Seen Wizkid’s New Girlfriend? - 360jamng(.com) by bimsite(f): 6:05am On Apr 08, 2016
Who e epp? grin
Family / If You Can Answer These 6 Questions,know You Are Ready For Marriage. by bimsite(f): 3:33pm On Apr 06, 2016
Know you are ready for marriage
– Think you’re ready for this? In a culture where more and more people are ditching the official papers in favor of a “non-official” lifetime commitment, the ultimate question still remains: Should couples get married, or live together in a lifetime commitment without the legal tie-ins?
I have friends who’ve been together years and years, have kids together, but never got married. One thing IS true for most people — marriage is a big freaking deal. So before you decide to take the leap (or decide it’s not for you at all), here are a few things that need to be considered:
1. Do you see yourself creating a life with this person? Beyond the love you feel, beyond them being sweet or loving or having amazing attributes — do you really see yourself with this person? Do you have similar visions and values about the future?
2. What’s it like when you fight? Let’s get something clear: you will fight. You will fight about the little things and the big things. You will have moments when you’re cranky because of something totally different and you take it out on your partner. The question is, how do you fight? Do you go all out and make them feel unloved, or do you still show your love no matter how upset you are?
3. Do you both want kids? Some people know for sure that they want kids. Others know they don’t. And others are not quite sure what they want. Regardless of what category you fall into, make sure you’re on the same page. If you really want kids and your partner won’t hear of it, you might have an issue there.
4. Do you believe in marriage as a sacred commitment between two people who love each other? Do you believe it’s something you’re supposed to do? Does your religion tell you that you need to get married? Whatever your reason it; get clear about it.
5. Are you willing to create a family? Whether your idea of family is the two of you or whether it includes kids, you have to realize that choosing someone to marry means that the two of you become a family while the rest of your family takes a secondary place.
6. Are you willing to love this person for your entire lifetime? Marriages do fall apart at times and we have no way of knowing what will happen in the future. But right now, in this moment, as you are considering this person as your life partner, are you willing to commit to them and love them with all your heart? Remember that choosing to marry the one you love is a lifetime commitment, so think long and hard before you take the plunge to make sure that this is the RIGHT decision for YOU.

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Romance / Re: Guy Gets His Iphone Back From Ex-Girlfriend by bimsite(f): 2:37pm On Mar 08, 2016
mmm... Some guys ehn?
Its tym for girls to start asking for change of ownership documents for any gift they get from their Bfs... Lol

Lyk seriously......
Celebrities / Re: Ini Edo Slams Critics Of Her AMVCA Dress,shares Stunning Pics by bimsite(f): 2:42pm On Mar 07, 2016
oodua1stson:
Old cargo eleribu grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
C'mon, that's too harsh...
Events / Rep Your School by bimsite(f): 10:30pm On Mar 06, 2016
#repyourschool
Ekiti State University (History and International Studies)

Romance / Are You Having An Emotional Affair? by bimsite(f): 10:50pm On Mar 03, 2016
If anybody asks you this question, you may go angry or livid because it sounds so insulting. Why? You are never the type of person that would have an affair outside your relationship/marriage. Well, that is because you do not know what an emotional affair is.
Emotional affair does not involve sex. It happens to people who are in courtship or engaged or married but very fond of somebody else who is not their spouse but if care is not taken and brake applied, it can lead to full blown sexual affair.
Emotional affair does not only happen to people in bad, unhappy marriages. It can happen to happy couples, morally sound people and deeply spiritual individuals who love God with all their hearts and hate sin. It can even happen to great men and women of God. How then do they fall into emotional affair?
Emotional affair is not easy to detect at the beginning. It all starts as plain, platonic friendship with the opposite sex whom you exchange ideas with and find admirable -that's all. The friend can be a colleague at work, a fellow worker at church, a course mate, the secretary to the boss at the office or the next door neighbour. They are someone you find attractive and enjoy talking to. If you treat them like you treat any normal friends with no strings attatched, there is no problem but if you are SECRETLY fond of them, there is a BIG problem.
Emotional affair starts rearing its ugly head if you are always eager to see them, anxious to hear from them and you feel sad if a day passes without getting in touch with them.
It escalates when you begin sharing deep personal issues, especially relational or marital problems and you find their words very soothing -it's like Valium, you can't sleep without it.
It progresses when there is subtle flirty compliments (e.g. "Each time I see you, I always feel like hugging you and staying there forever" or "Can I give you a peck please?"wink, sweet names calling and you never do anything to stop them infact, you love it and always look forward to hearing more from them.
You idolize them while comparing them with your spouse who always falls short. You see them as your comforter, healer and the only one who UNDERSTANDS you.
You begin to keep your conversations with them a secret from your spouse and deny every accusation of having any affair with them (since you are not having sex).
You have chemistry for them and always sexually charged when thinking about them or talking to them. Now, PULL A BREAK!!!
You are threading on a very dangerous path while consoling yourself that you are not having sex. Most people, especially good people, do not plan cheating or adultery, it "just" happened when all red flags are ignored.
Face the fact that your relationship or marriage is sick that is why you are attracted to someone else and fix the problem. If you do not deal with your relationship or marital issues, you will keep pursuing them and end up sleeping with them and that is the beginning of the end of your relationship or marriage.
Pull back from that person and avoid discussing anything personal with them henceforth.
Come clean to your spouse and let them know you are getting attracted to someone else and you need their help. (You don't need to give them the full detail of your attraction).
Stop all chats, be very polite with their calls or ignore their calls altogether if you get tempted to go back.
Understand why you fell into emotional affair and take precautions lest you fall into another one.
Know that you are human and it is very possible to feel attracted towards the opposite sex, just don't pursue your object of attraction.
Set boundaries. Do not entertain ungodly relationships.
Have a full understanding of emotional affair and protect your heart from being tempted.
Remember the bible says: "Let he that thinketh he standeth, take heed, lest he fall." Take charge of your life, do not leave your relationships to chance.

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Health / The Truth About Sleeping In Your Bra by bimsite(f): 9:53pm On Feb 06, 2016
There is a lot of contention around the notion of sleeping in a bra while some women go with the idea, some will tell you it’s uncomfortable. Others claim the extra support will prevent sagging and keep things looking, well, up! There is also a lot of confusion about the topic, the benefits and possible health risks.

Some research has suggested that wearing a bra at night could cause breast cancer. Which of these claims is true, or are neither? Does sleeping with a bra do more harm than good?

Dr. Amber Guth, the associate professor of surgery and director of the Breast Cancer Surgery Multidisciplinary Fellowship at NYU Langone Medical Center, New York City, says, “Certainly there is no evidence that sleeping in bra is either helpful or harmful. Either your breasts are being supported for eight hours, or they are not being supported for eight hours. What do you think is better? It is just common sense. If your breasts are being held up, they are going to stay up a lot longer.”

“When you take your bra off at the end of the day, they are a lot higher than when you put it on in the morning. It really depends on the size of your breast, some people’s breasts hurt them when they sleep, so they need to wear a bra compulsorily because they need it for support.” According to him, bra-wearing at any time of the day does not increase the risk of breast cancer.

I know that some styles would not be ideal for night-time wear. Common sense suggests a complex, underwired bra with push-up padding might not be the ideal style to sleep in, and that a properly fitting ‘soft’ bra without any padding or wire would be more comfortable.

It is this discomfort that has alarmed many into thinking that there are potential health risks attributed to wearing a bra at night. however wearing a bra at night could offer more support or comfort to those who can do it without stress.

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Romance / Re: Lady Posts Pic On FB About To Have Sex With Man, Man's Other GF Comes For Her. by bimsite(f): 5:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
Nonsense and ingredient [color=#990000][/color]
Crime / Re: Man Catches A Guy Who Duped Him 2years Ago Outside A Bank In Surulere &grabs Him by bimsite(f): 11:26am On Jan 09, 2016
Everyday 4 d thief, one day 4 d owner....
Jokes Etc / Re: How I Lost A Job Opportunity Because Of Romanceland. by bimsite(f): 11:39am On Jan 07, 2016
grin Next?
Sports / Re: Photos From The Traditional Wedding Of John Ogu by bimsite(f): 6:38am On Dec 30, 2015
HML bro john....God bless ur union
Phones / Re: In terms Of Data Plan, Which Network Is Your Best In 2015? by bimsite(f): 8:58pm On Dec 28, 2015
GLO.......3gb for 1K
Education / Re: How Did You Feel When You Had Your First "F" As An Undergraduate? by bimsite(f): 8:03pm On Dec 28, 2015
I neva had 'F' all thru my stay as an undergraduate....
Jokes Etc / Re: Hilarious Warning A Zoo Management Issued To Their Visitors by bimsite(f): 7:43pm On Dec 28, 2015
grin grin....omg

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