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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nutricare Recruits!!! by Bisjosh(f): 10:29pm On Nov 17, 2012
I dnt know much about them undecided
CareerRe: Access Bank Aptitude Test by Bisjosh(f): 6:07pm On Nov 17, 2012
How was the test people? smiley
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Natureplus Is Calling For Interview by Bisjosh(f): 7:00am On Nov 17, 2012
Is it Nature plus or Nutri care? Cos I got a text from Nutri care huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Am Interested In A Very Seroius Relationship From A Respectfull Lady Pls Call by Bisjosh(f): 8:31pm On Nov 16, 2012
Wait Jesus Christ(the perfect one for u) is coming soon cheesy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: INEC Recruitment 2012 by Bisjosh(f): 5:46pm On Nov 16, 2012
For all of you having issues with your submission, DO NOT MAKE USE OF INTERNET EXPLORER. Make use of google chrome or mozilla. The internet explorer wasn't moving to next stage so I used google chrome and have submitted.

Cheers!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: INEC Recruitment 2012 by Bisjosh(f):
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FoodRe: Foods You Absolutely Cannot Stand by Bisjosh(f): 4:27pm On Nov 16, 2012
GOAT MEAT angry angry angry angry angry
IT MAKES ME CHOKE embarassed embarassed
Music/RadioRe: J Martins Vs Flavour: Who Sings Better? by Bisjosh(f): 11:51am On Nov 16, 2012
Am inlove wth Flavour N'abania embarassed embarassed

The way he rolls his waist is out of this world embarassed
CareerRe: Access Bank Aptitude Test by Bisjosh(f): 9:53pm On Nov 15, 2012
I heard its 100 questions for maths, english. 50-50. And one must score at least 25% each to pass for the next stage. May God help!
RomanceRe: Do You Ever Plan On Being In A Permanent Relationship? by Bisjosh(f): 12:11pm On Nov 15, 2012
Yea for as long as it takes undecided
RomanceRe: Picture Of Billboard On Sugar Daddies Destroy Lives by Bisjosh(f): 10:54am On Nov 15, 2012
HILARIOUS grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Pictures Of Annie Idibia's Pink Birthday Cake by Bisjosh(f): 10:02am On Nov 15, 2012
They look so lovely together. What a biuriful couple embarassed
CareerRe: Human Resource Professionals: by Bisjosh(f): 8:12am On Nov 14, 2012
yemmight: I would have gotten it except you are not sending it to o_olayemi@yahoo.co.uk
Thanks for the reply. I sent a mail to the 2 addresses u dropped on here ealier. Though one didn't deliver but the other did. Please kindly send a valid email addy to me

Regards
CareerRe: Human Resource Professionals: by Bisjosh(f): 8:12am On Nov 14, 2012
yemmight: I would have gotten it except you are not sending it to o_olayemi@yahoo.co.uk
Thanks for the reply. I sent a mail to the 2 addresses u dropped on here ealier. Though one didn't deliver but the other did. Please kindly send a valid email addy to me
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Unadvertised Vacancies by Bisjosh(f): 6:19am On Nov 14, 2012
Ifyalways good job jare! Dnt mind some people that are frustrated abi na u cause unemployment for naija ni wey another person go dey vex for your thoughfulness grin grin grin

I bet someone must have gone there smiley
RomanceRe: Choosing Between A Graduate(23) And An Admission Seeker by Bisjosh(f): 6:12am On Nov 14, 2012
Tell your parents they will get to know your fiance at the right time cos I dnt see your future wife in those two angry
CareerRe: Human Resource Professionals: by Bisjosh(f): 12:19pm On Nov 12, 2012
yemmight: I am not sure i got your mail pls.
I have again. Please check.

Thanks
FashionRe: 14-Year-Old Nigerian Fashion Designer Debuts In London & Florida by Bisjosh(f): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2012
We praise God grin grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fact Base Consulting Ltd Calin 4loan Officer by Bisjosh(f): 7:51am On Nov 11, 2012
Good luck
FashionRe: Nigerian Makeup Artists And Their Exorbitant Prices by Bisjosh(f): 7:29am On Nov 10, 2012
I can't pay more than 30-40k for make-up! Not that I dnt have the money but I don't WASTE money! I would rather do my make-up myself(am also good). Afterall am beautiful and I need just a light make-up undecided
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fact Base Consulting Ltd Calin 4loan Officer by Bisjosh(f): 10:55pm On Nov 09, 2012
How can someone get there from mile2? huh
CareerRe: Human Resource Professionals: by Bisjosh(f): 9:59pm On Nov 07, 2012
Yemmight have sent a mail to you but you have not replied!!!! Kindly go through your mail box. Thanks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Recruitment Into The Nigerian Navy 2012/2013 by Bisjosh(f): 5:58am On Nov 06, 2012
What qualification do they require?
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Fall Prey To Heart-Breakers by Bisjosh(f): 2:05pm On Nov 05, 2012
jmoore: Having premarital sex is the beginning of getting used and dumped. Until they learn to say no to premarital sex the cycle continues.
A plate of pounded yam for u grin wink
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Akintola Deloitte Aptitude Test by Bisjosh(f): 5:48am On Nov 05, 2012
Na wa o! Their stages pass oil company own o. undecided just cos a grad needs a job they stress your life and brains out!
RomanceRe: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by Bisjosh(f):
[quote author=member_126910]Hi guys, I need fresh eyes to look at this situation, as it is bugging me constantly.

I've been engaged to this guy for about 20 months, and we got engaged after 2-3 months of dating. Even though I was a virgin at 25 when we met, I have had previous boyfriends. He grilled me several times in the beginning, wanting to know what specifically I had "done" in the past with them, even going as far as to asking if I was gay.

We live apart, and he has always been obsessed with the idea of me "cheating". When we started, if he phoned me and I was unavailable for any reason, it meant that I was being suspicious even though I called him back asap. It doesn't help also that he is very cunning. On one occasion, I invited him to church with me, he pretended he wasn't coming, dropped me off at the station, and immediately followed me on the train back to church to see if I indeed was going where I said I was. When confronted, he said it was because I gave him a reason to believe that I was cheating by not always answering my phone immediately - he thought I was meeting up with friends after service. (Even if I do, I still don't see why this should be a problem!). One public holiday, I had lots of work to do at home so I told him I was going to work when I wasn't (I didn't want to be disturbed). He called my work, and as I wasn't there, he concluded I was cheating. He confronted me about it, and I admitted that I lied about going to work, but only because I needed to get some work done at home. He was terribly upset about this, even shouting at me down the phone. It was only later that I realised that he got so emotional because he had assumed that I was cheating, not because he was betrayed by me lying about where I was. He admits that he has had several partners before me, and also that he had never been 100% faithful to any one of them. Yet, I do not try to grill him in the same way. I do not assume that he is cheating when anything happens, if he doesn't answer his phone immediately. The funny thing about this is that the day he told me that he had never been faithful to anyone before (even in a 5 year relationship that he was in - he said the lady cheated, so he cheated for revenge), [b]he immediately followed up saying that things might get bloody if I ever cheated on him.[/b]His first reaction if anything happens between us is "Who have you told?". He says that he doesn't want us bringing 'outsiders' into our marriage issues, which is a valid approach, but I am beginning to doubt the intention behind this.

Recently, I found out that he has (without my knowledge), not just hacked into my Twitter account but also set up his phone to receive an alert whenever anyone mentions me or sends me a message on Twitter. This is not just a hack which lets you log into my Twitter. This is an alert like a text message. This means that wherever he is, whatever he is doing, he wants to know what who contacts me on Twitter. He does have a Twitter account but isn't interested in anything I have to say and so he isn't following me. Rather he is interested in the private messages I get, and what messages people send me. By the way, I have absolutely nothing whatsoever to hide there. I do have male "followers", but these are people who I learn from. I'm quite interested in business and technology and I think it's a great learning resource for other people's experiences. So I don't mind that he can see all my conversations. What I mind about is that 2 months to our wedding, this man is convinced enough that I might be flirting with other men, that he is still trying to catch me out through various methods. This worries me, because why would anyone go through wedding planning and preparations with someone they don't trust? I'm not a flirt, I don't have many friends yet I'm being treated like a criminal. I almost regret saving up myself all these years only to end up being monitored and investigated for infidelity for no just cause. This breaks my heart because I don't treat him the same way, and I don't know what I have done to deserve this kind of treatment.

The ironic thing is that early this year, I met a guy on the plane, who can be desribed as a ladies man. This man stared at me for the entire duration of the 6-hour flight, at the end of which he stopped me to chat me up. I initially thought he recognised me from somewhere, but when it seemed he just wanted to chat a girl up, I told him I was married and walked away. I narrated this to my fiance, and by pure coincidence 3 months later, it turned out the same guy in question was dating my fiance's cousin, and had narrated the incident to her as well, confirming my story in public! If anyone ever needed reassurance, then I would have thought that would be it - but my fiance says that his problem is that I shouldn't even have had a conversation with a stranger in the first place! So basically he's not convinced that I wouldn't sleep with any odd guy that catches my fancy if he had the right qualities. When you love someone, have given them yourself in a way that you'll never give anyone, and want to spend the rest of your life with them, this is very hard to hear. I understand that he has been cheated on before, and it was difficult for him, being a very very caring guy, but it still doesn't justify punishing me for other peoples sins.

What do you make of this, guys? Are his fears justified? Is this how Nigerian relationships usually are, or is my case a special case? I'm really really pissed off about this Twitter issue, especially as there is no need for it.[/quote]This worries me
RomanceRe: A Face -off With A Rival In A Serious Relationship by Bisjosh(f): 7:44pm On Oct 28, 2012
None undecided
PhonesRe: What Happened To Airtel Customer Care? by Bisjosh(f): 6:55pm On Oct 28, 2012
Mustay: Have you called 131 or 111?
The numbers ain't going through at all!!!!!! cry cry cry
Christianity EtcRe: What Is That Temptation You Regularly Fall For? by Bisjosh(f): 1:58pm On Oct 28, 2012
Cold PEPSI embarassed embarassed
Christianity EtcRe: Today Sermon In Your Church And The Lessons You Learnt From It by Bisjosh(f): 1:28pm On Oct 28, 2012
Female bashing cry angry

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