₦airaland Forum

tobianthony:
When it comes to marriage first things first you need to know yourself and you need to be painfully realistic with yourself .

Finances - very very key ... Ask your partner to write down at least five financial principles they believe in and practice . Nobody has enough money to do what they want all the time it's all about managing resources .

Spirituality - if you guys are not on the same level spiritually you need to resolve this .

Sexuality - everybody more than often cheats one way or the other ...do not let this bug you to the point of insanity just take it for what it is and respect boundaries . Make sure your partner is on the same level with you when it comes to sex . If you are a level 9 on the freak meter do not marry a level 5 or below . If you do be prepared to come down to her level or cheat .

Family - the average Nigerian woman expects you to take care of her family from time to time in one way or the other ...draw the line according to your capacity .

Life goals - Be clear about where you are going in life and see if they support you . if your partner is not an entrepreneur or more like a salary inclined person be careful and expose her to your world if it's the other way do the same . be open with your finances . Trust me the day you die you die you do not want her to start running around like a headless chicken looking for money .

Children - don't let anyone steamroll you into having children if you can't afford to ...we men need to stop this attitude of making babies we can't​ afford to feed . Make sure you are clear on how many kids you want and do not ...I repeat do not exceed that number . Three is the maximum .

Conflict resolution - make sure your partner is emotionally experienced and intelligent to say I'm sorry and move on . You must learn to forgive and forget . Your wife go do you many things that will make you want to run her over with your car and vice versa just forgive and do your best .

My dude it's an adventure many have entered and some failed while some people succeeded . Nobody has a perfect marriage .

If you think you are ready take your partner to justice Idowu's court at igbosherie Lagos high court and sit down and watch divorce proceedings and just note the mistakes that people make .

Even if you do all this still might not go according to plan .

Marriage is a Ponzi scheme and the best thing in life at the same time ...those who take advantage of the system will enjoy it .

All the best .

well said...u need to carry champions league back to back like marid.
I can forgive a woman in anything but i c an never forgive a woman who cheats on me...The thought of how the man she is cheating must have hanged her leg will kill me first.
I hate cheating women in my life.

oshe11:
So Kidney get BEANS?

yes ask Huspupi..lol..He sold his naaa

IhateAfonjas:

Buhari is addicted to failure

the worst addiction is Porn and Masturbation!!!..It kills.

Winger has won CL 3 times more than any coach...lol.
Na before the world war.

themonk:
The way people conclude on certain things is disturbing, just because you weren't born gay doesn't mean the next person isn't born gay. maybe your gay activities were influenced by environment but some people were born in such a way they are only attracted to their sex or both sexes. most gays even display characters that suggest this from childhood, some guys that display girl-like characters turn out to be homosexual and same for girls too.

I always tell people if pastors say gays are demon possessed they should go and find gays around the world and cast out those demons or else forever remain silent, it is pathetic that because Nigeria is a over religious country we applaud anti-gay laws. if only you feel the way these people feel, someone denying you the privilege of your sexual orientation and all that. its just like black people centuries ago when whites denied that we are just as human as they are and used this lie to justify slavery and subject us to animal-like conditions. if you feel bad when someone calls you a monkey, you shouldn't relegate gays.

saying nobody is born gay is ridiculous because there are other 1,500 different species that practice homosexuality, can we say they are not born gay too?

PS: i am not gay and i am not anti-gay. i stand for justice for all.

gerout.God and sit down..u are a Pure gay..we kw una.
No body is born gay,its an addiction.

[quote author=jmoore post=57183751][/quote]source in sauce...Lol..Una no serious!!!

Built2last:
Till we get electricity right. Nigeria should forget development. 80% of our development is tide to it. Modern trains are impossible without electricity.

India has it in theor constitution that every newly elected leader must add 5000 megawatts to existing power generation.

yet The Criminal Amechi is beating his chest for achieving a coal train....
Very soon,kenya will be ahead of us.

istoctober:
I don't want to go into details but l have no right to cheat on my spouse no matter what... l guess l was confused and l have learnt my lesson.

nothing can stop u from cheating,believe me..:the issue of Being Promiscious is in your Blood.
Ur daughters will all do the same.

istoctober:
I don't want to go into details but l have no right to cheat on my spouse no matter what... l guess l was confused and l have learnt my lesson.

nothing can stop u from cheating,believe me..:the issue of Being Promiscious is in your Blood.
Ur daughters will all do the same.

istoctober:
l did it once and since then, l have not been myself. l have a feeling of "your sins will surely find you out" and is hunting me now. ls been two years now but l don't have peace.

women and cheating are like 4 and 5..Believe me if its in my village,u must be mad by Now.
When ever a woman cheats from my Village and cooks for the Husband mits either the man fall sick and die,that is if he knows or the woman will die too.
99% of woman that cheat are from a village that has no Law or Nso.
Only the grace of God saves a woman from Cheating!!!!!! Even the married ones cheat most.

ESDKING:
I stopped reading this poo when he said the foundation of Biafra struggle is faulty.

Ndi ara.

no be small ndi ara!!!!!
Madness!!!!

jmoore:
Many fathers have failed.

some of them need a guy with Latest Hummer,30 billion for account,House in Vi yet their papa no fit buy Bicycle when him mate dey buy theirs......women are #Hypocrites

okosodo:
You see what the dulness of buhari has caused. A complete nobody is now seen as a hero because he wants to show that he hates a tribe. Mumu president

hahahahah..Mumu Presido indeed..
Get ready to vote him again come 2019.

jmoore:
Sex na food?

It is possible. Some folks are into no sexual relationship for years.

yes we know them
Rcgg
Deper life
Assemblies
Catholic Renewal
ndi ara.
Yet some of them don Bleep pastors finish.

Paperwhite:
Nigeria is chronically sick.No hope for this country.

there is hope..Make sure to vote him again after winning 2019 election..
Vote him again so that fule will be 1K

naijaboy756:
mmmm

u mean MMM nigeria
or MMM westafrica
or MMM Ghana
or MMM india.
Lol....continue ur mmmm
buhari will Rule for 80000000 Years so that una go buy fuel for 1K and still shout sai baba.

akpamuomenka:
The young man has chosen the part that is suitable for him, why are you crying?.

He knows his weakness and hv seen that acting will cost him his marriage and family and he quits. Why are you lamenting?.


His name is Emeka Enyiocha from Ala Igbo, why are you comparing him with Ramson Noah and Desmond Eliot?.


Is it a crime to venture into business, why can't you reason with him?.


why? why? why?.

afonja na their way!!!!

iyke926:
No freedom of speech in Nigeria.

there is Freedom of speech but Idiamin can not Guarantee you Freedom after speech!!!!

Am from SE,Biafra is what we Want.
What will be the need of having a SE Vice President whom Local Goverment councilor Position will be Higher than that of the VP.
Rubbish...Biafra is what we need..
God bless Nnamdi Kanu.
Before u come out to insult me,Know it that Oduduwa is now seeking for self Determination.
Nigeria is not working,Nigeria will never work...Simple.

pauljumbo:
all i know is that Nigeria will be great again

this was what your Great Grand Parents Said.....

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista



When he was first elevated to the status of Acting President on 19 January 2017, Professor Yemi Osinbajo embarked on a tour on Niger Delta region. His entourage included Minister of State for Petroleum, Ibe Ikachukwu; Minister of State for Agriculture, Senator Heineken Lokpobiri, as well as the Minister of Niger Delta Affairs. A move seen as a welcomed development by the good people of Niger Delta who saw it as a new chapter to finding lasting solution to the seemingly unending Niger Delta question. Not one of the rhetorical promises made to the people of Niger Delta by Acting President Osinbajo was ever fulfilled or rather, is yet to be fulfilled.

Some of us, however, suspected that the Osinbajo was neither interested in proffering solution to the Niger Delta question but to start a clandestine move to build his political capital ahead of 2019 Presidential election having read his body language.

As Vice President and sensing that President Buhari is/may be medically unfit to stand for re-election in 2019, Professor Yemi Osinbajo shifted his attention to build network in the north all for 2019.

On Thursday April 13, he went to Adamawa state to acquire the title of "Jagaban of Adamawa Emirate". Only yesterday, he went to Cross river state to collect another traditional title in Efik kingdom, Ada Idaha Ke Efik Eburutu. For what reason if not political?

While I recognize that the Nigeria Constitution gives Yemi Osinbajo the right to contest for any office, including the Presidency, I must also state that his clandestine moves to succeed Muhammadu Buhari in 2019 is counterproductive to the interest of Nigerians and threat to the unity of our country, this is aside his sheer incompetency in public service since he assumed office as Vice President, Chairman of National Planning Commission and Chairman of National Economic Council.

This article is not to talk about his preference for employing only people of his Yoruba ethnic group as Personal Aides, all these are stories for some other time. This article is strictly about the injustice that his Presidency will mean to the rest of the country if we allow it to materialise.

1. HIS PRESIDENCY IS UNJUST TO THE SOUTH
In the history of Nigeria, the Southwest and Yoruba nation have led the country for a combined period of 11 years and 11 months; Chief Olusegun Obasanjo held sway for 11 years and 8 months (8 years as President and 3 years and 8 months as Military ruler) while Ernest Shonekan held sway for 3 months.

Meanwhile, the South-south only led Nigeria for only 5 years and 25 days through Goodluck Jonathan, while the Southeast has NEVER led the country in Executive capacity save the 7 months under the military reign of General Aguiyi Ironsi.

Under this present democratic dispensation, SW and Yoruba nation has led the country for 8 years and has been occupying the Vice President office since 2015.

The Southsouth led the country for only 5 years and 25 days and occupied the office of Vice President for 3 years through Dr. Goodluck Jonathan.

The Southeast has neither produced the President nor the Vice President.

Being a multi-ethnic region, it will be highly unfair for one region and ethnic group to seek to occupy the slot of the South in the Presidency in 2019 irrespective of whether it is the office of the President or the Vice President. It will amount to injustice to the ethnic nationalities in the South save the Yoruba for Yemi Osinbajo to succeed Buhari in 2019..

2. HIS PRESIDENCY IS UNJUST TO THE NORTH:
Since the return of this democratic dispensation in 1999, while the South enjoyed power for a total of 13 years (SW 8, SS 5), while the north only did for 5 years and counting through late Umaru Musa Yar’adua (3 years) and Muhammadu Buhari (2 years and counting). If the status quo remains till 2019, the north will haul a meager combined period of 7 years; a far cry when compared with the 13 years that the South held sway.

It is both morally and politically just that the North be allowed to produce the President of Nigeria come 2019 for another 4 years period. We must realize that injustice is injustice anywhere. Allowing Osinbajo, a Yorubaman/Southerner to succeed Buhari in 2019 will only cause disaffection among those in the northern part of the country. There will be feelings of marginalization will crept in. This is a situation the country cannot afford to entertain at this period.

MY SUPPORT FOR NORTH/SOUTHEAST TICKET IN 2019
Nigeria belongs to everybody, it does not belong to a section of the country. While it is fair for power to remain in the north, it is also fair for the Southeast to be part of the equation after years of absence. The only way to allow justice prevail is for a North/Southeast Presidency in 2019.

This arrangement, I strongly believe will calm the nerves of the people of the Southeast, give the Igbo people a sense of ownership in the Nigeria project and a sense of belonging in the affairs of Nigeria.

The Yoruba nation has always stood for justice, I am optimistic that they will stand for what is right come 2019. I have no doubt in my mind that they will not oppose the aspiration of a credible aspirant from the northern extraction and an Igbo man to assume the office of the President and Vice President respectively in 2019.





May God Bless Us All And Bless Nigeria

Am from SE,Biafra is what we Want.
What will be the need of having a SE Vice President whom Local Goverment councilor Position will be Higher than that of the VP.
Rubbish...Biafra is what we need..
God bless Nnamdi Kanu.
Before u come out to insult me,Know it that Oduduwa is now seeking for self Determination.
Nigeria is not working,Nigeria will never work...Simple.

EmeeNaka:
Gani Adams has made it clear that Yoruba prefer Oduduwa Republic but that they are aware that it can't come in peace and that Yorubas don't want war. So, he is suggesting that Yorubas should continue managing.

hahahahahaha..No wonder the Yorubas are called sabotuers....hahahahah...So Kanu has shown them way..Lamo..Cant stop Laughing...Lets see how it goes!!
God bless Nnami Kanu.
Ipobexposed come and see food oooooo...Now it will be Oduduwaexposed.

SHAKABOOM:
See this AFONJA man oo..You think say the movement na for Lilly liverd men wey get one ball..Where you dey since?I know the reason why you just wan join the fight, any ibo man wey get vision suppose know..
AFONJAS are EVIL WICKED souls.

hahahahahaha..No wonder the Yorubas are called sabotuers....hahahahah...So Kanu has shown them way..Lamo..Cant stop Laughing...Lets see how it goes!!
God bless Nnami Kanu.
Ipobexposed come and see food oooooo...Now it will be Oduduwaexposed.

ColonelDrake:
Yeeeeboes are so pained that Yorubas are not supporting buadruuuug..Biafdruf is useless without the SW supporting it. poo on biadrugff

hahahahahhahahaah.....

hahahahahaha..No wonder the Yorubas are called sabotuers....hahahahah...So Kanu has shown them way..Lamo..Cant stop Laughing...Lets see how it goes!!
God bless Nnami Kanu.
Ipobexposed come and see food oooooo...Now it will be Oduduwaexposed.

Nbote:
Hahahahaha... So afta insulting , abusing and teasing ipobs for wanting Biafra , den now also want their own republic?? Some ppl are really really confused.. Odudwa republic ko, ewedu republic ni.. Ur alliance with hausas/fulanis is for beta for worse...

hahahahahaha..No wonder the Yorubas are called sabotuers....hahahahah...So Kanu has shown them way..Lamo..Cant stop Laughing...Lets see how it goes!!
God bless Nnami Kanu.
Ipobexposed come and see food oooooo...Now it will be Oduduwaexposed.

osinbanjoisaliar:
www.dailypost.ng/2017/06/03/yoruba-people-now-want-oduduwa-nation-gani-adams/

hahahahahaha..No wonder the Yorubas are called sabotuers....hahahahah...So Kanu has shown them way..Lamo..Cant stop Laughing...Lets see how it goes!!
God bless Nnami Kanu.
Ipobexposed come and see food oooooo...Now it will be Oduduwaexposed.

God will bless you my guy 1000000000 times.U are a true friend.i will add you on facebook and others.....Men of truth still exist in NIgeria....DAALU NWANNE.

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