Don't worry when your Mum sees how serious you are she sure would bend, Afterall the babe in question is a human being, Tribe or no tribe

For reall Ibo guys are naturally handsome and most are built naturally

Well I have heard a lot of people talk about this. Even my Dad insists on seeking the face of God to know if you are compartible. Well I know a couple my Dad fixed and on the outside I don't think they have issues. Just maybe or maybe not, I also know a young man whose Pastor told him not to marry his wife, he went on and married her, she became so ill after their second baby, they kept on going to the hospital spending lots of money, well she later died.

I know of another couple that were fixed according to God's plan, but the woman is stark illiterate and her mentality is so wack, so does not know how to take care of a man and its a problem, the man is just dying in silence.

So it is a two way thing, while it is good to pray it is better for the couple to understand each other no d only way be that. If you like let Holy spirit talk 1million times, if the couples don't work on themselves they are bound to have issues.

Dats my 2 cents

In my own view I think that girl is being real with you. She loved you so much that is why even after breaking up with you and seeing the other guy she could not afford to part ways with you. Afterall she told you she almost got married to that guy, she did not lie to you. I give you guys kudos for still being together even through University, bro the chic is your best female friend if I am not wrong. Maybe you talk your Mum out of her views about getting married to a non yoruba. In the mean time get yourself a job sha

I think it's just natural; maybe an unconscious act,

Its worng to treat the girls like that, But would it had happened if they had crashed in their own house?

A girl that is not demanding, a girl that understands when things are bad,a girl that encourages you when it seems like the world has turned its back on you, a girl that can cook and take care of a man.She she should be my friend, sister and everything,

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I apologise in advance if I am going to be blunt but why most you love two guys? Why didn't you draw lines with one of them? It's a difficult place you have placed yourself in but it's entirely up to you unless you want to marry the two of them which is impossible. Just make up your mind and choose one, it's difficult but you have to.

If he is jobless at the moment and making efforts to work things out maybe business wise amidst hunting for a job then you can marry him that is if yu have a good job but really shame no go gree me marry woman when I no get anything oh. Where the money go come from? The Woman! Hello No

@ Bfine yes exactly you are right on point. Vision is the most important thing in starting up even the smallest business. Financing is another issue to tackle but this has to do with the magnitude of business you intend to delve into. In most cases, just like the story of the lady I cited she did not have to pay to get the goods all she did was to go into an agreement with a wholesaler and she retails it, then remits the cost price.

If you really love the first one for long term why not spend more time with her by inviting her weekends. Do away with the new one if you know you feel guilty else just tell her the truth and let her be instead of giving her hopes.

Only mature women have the courage to do this. Younger girls might not do that or some others might think it makes them look cheap but in the real sense it does not. You will be surprised you can hardly get into the pants of these women.

After 30 minutes just crack your best jokes; you know the one that makes her laugh, remind her of one funny experience and tickle her, if she says leaev me, don't leave her just kiss her on the neck and she will mellow

1. Do not lead her on

2. Don't give her an impression of love when you like her

3. Be careful the kind of text messages you send to her; reply to her messages in a simple manner

4. When she talks about relationship make her understand exactly the way it is on your mind, let her know you like her but not as to love here. Entering a relationship might only make her hate you. I am sure you don't want to lose the friendship

That being said brother the ball is on your court. Go sort it out.

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In my own view, prostitution can never be and will never be justified. This lady in question does she not attend a job? Is there no Youth group in her Church? Even if she were a muslim they still have groups. She can't possibly tell me she won't get help through that avenue. I know of a beautiful girl from a poor home but Uju will never prostitute. Uju collects stuffs from people, take it to school, sell and send back the money and that was how she paid her way through school. Seh sold boxer shorts, she sold T-shirts, she sold body spray, she sold a lot and she is out of school now, her Dad is late and she basically supports her family. I don't really feel pity for any girl who says she is into prostitution because there is no one to help her. Come to think of it, do the prostitutes ever stop? Even the high class Abuja residenct prostitutes with houses in Maitama, Gwarinpa, do they even stop? No they don't. So you see they enjoy it.

That is my simple 2 cents peeps.

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I woke up this morning thinking about a lot of things especially issues concerning the thousands if not millions of graduates hovering the streets in search of a job; most graduates spend half of their day in a cyber cafe blasting CVs and it could be frustrating that you hardly even get an invite. Most of the top jobs have been hijacked and the openings are just for formality's sake. Only the lucky ones are being picked from the 1-10 slots left open for the public. Considering this scenario, do you possibly think we can all be employed? Every quarter of the year thousands of youths leave the NYSC, some get jobs ASAP (Those with longer legs) and the others join the already increasing number of jobless graduates. Youths are frustrated and most of them end up doing yahoo yahoo and for the ladies, they just take a trip to Abuja or Port Harcourt to hustle. Is this what we bargained for? After 4, 5, 6 years of Education, It seems like a waste, does it? Well, no knowledge is lost anyway. Minister of information - Labaran Maku spoke on media sometime last month and said it is high time Youths started thinking of what to do with their hands; the privates sector cannot employ all graduates and same goes for public sector. Bearing all these in mind I think it is high time we youths employed our sixth sense and start thinking outside the box.

Take a look around you there are opportunities but we are just myopic to see this because our brain has been configured to believe that it's just the job we need and we can't do anything else. I once met a graduate of Economics on the street of Abuja, she sells corporate wears and I never knew she is a graduate till she told me. She was so cheerful and lively even though she still wanted a job but at least she had her hands on something. I could not help but marvel at her natural customer service method that drew people to buy from her. Some persons might not be down with this because of pride and the whole “I am graduate feeling," but will you rather stay home asking your folks for N100 everyday to go to the cafe? Is that what you want to do for the rest of your life? Look for things you can do, proffer solutions to people's problems. Read and look for loopholes in the economy and leverage on it.

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Stay Blessed.

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@ Dewaledeyi she finally picked, her Mum gave her a book to read last night and all they want is for me to commit myself. But really if I were not serious with this chic I would not have shown her to my sisters and friends etc. I know am not playing with her but I just cannot get myself to tell the Mum that I wold marry her then when I know I am not yet ready this year.