Romance › Re: Help! What's Going On In Her Head? by blackjack21(op): 12:11pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
chenzen: pls OP check my threads and read " NICE GUYS FINISH LAST" and u ll discover the root of ur confusion. Yeah, I hear that from a lot of people. I know I can be mean and be a player, but that's not the choice I made, I chose to be the nice guy and the gentleman. I'm sure there's someone for everyone. |
Romance › Re: Help! What's Going On In Her Head? by blackjack21(op): 1:38pm On Nov 26, 2018 |
Neafemee: My question is; Is she in a relationship? If yes, maybe she is trying to keep you as an alternative, should her supposed relationship don't work out. In my opinion,you are in the friend-zone, and she is trying to play safe as well. Originalsly: Bro...you want a bf/gf relationship..... she wants a friend relationship. Both you and she needed more time to know each other better before deciding if you should be in a relationship. You took the plunge....she didn't. ... and you pretty much felt rejected and backed away period. She said no again. ...either because she needs more time to know you better or..... more likely... she already is in a stable relationship and is now reuniting with that person in her State. I'm sure you never did find out if she is in a relationship before you dashed her your heart. Actually, we have known each other for months, before I made the approach, I codedly asked her if anybody would get jealous seeing us together. She said, No. she went further and say she's not in any relationship. |
Romance › Re: Help! What's Going On In Her Head? by blackjack21(op): 11:21am On Nov 26, 2018 |
daviesblaze: You fvcked the moment you expressed your feelings for her.
Dude man up and go book an appointment with @HARDDON to help you get your shit together Who's HARDDON? |
Romance › Re: Help! What's Going On In Her Head? by blackjack21(op): 11:19am On Nov 26, 2018 |
MJBOLT:
Oreofepeters: Just like this guy above me, it's aa friend zone stuff. Get yourself another girl afterall there are many fish in the ocean..... I can do that but, I don't go chasing about like some player. Only someone I feel a connection with. |
Romance › Help! What's Going On In Her Head? by blackjack21(op): 9:15am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Hello, guys. I'm a guy who hardly go on romantic quest. I have not proposed interest to any girl since like the last blue moon. So, this damsel came in town and we bonded immediately, went on night out together twice, went to the movies, something I hardly do because I always download my films. Once we even sat outside drinking wine and watching the starry sky. I was falling in love and I thought she felt the same way, and someone has to make the approach. Which is supposed to be the man (based on social norm). Against my better judgement, I went and express my feelings for her but, she flatly contradicts and said 'I'm sorry, I like you but, just as a friend. You're nice and cool, bla blah... ' but she want us to remain friends. I said OK.
I buried her beneath my subconscious mind, and forgot about her. I fell back to my works and became even more meticulous.
Fast forward, some months later she called me and said she wanted to see me. When we met, she told me that she's going back to her state and she wanted to tell me herself. I expressed my gratitude for that and offered to help her in any way I can. She said she doesn't want anything. I said my goodbyes to her and started to leave but she stopped me and began to talk about the other day I went to tell her that I love her. She started to spin yarns about it, saying how I change and don't smile at her 'genuinely' like I used to, or call her. I told her the truth, that was just busy. I told her that I still feel the same way if that's what she wanted to know and there's still a chance for us, she said NO. I said OK. Now, I don't understand at all, why would she brought that up? And later on say No again? |
Christianity Etc › Re: If You.Are To Spend One Day With One Bible Character, Who Would It Be? by blackjack21(m): 11:13am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Solomon of course  Everything I want he had it. |
Politics › Re: "My Father, Festus Oluwayi Is The Soldier Captured By Boko Haram" - Twitter User by blackjack21(m): 8:34pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Elxandre: Won't be be jailed for that? I mean I don't think he can live a normal life after running AWOL They will have to go to Canada and arrested him. |
Politics › Re: "My Father, Festus Oluwayi Is The Soldier Captured By Boko Haram" - Twitter User by blackjack21(m): 6:18pm On Nov 24, 2018*. Modified: 8:34pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
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Properties › Re: How Much Rent Is Too Much For Someone Who Earns 100k A Month by blackjack21(m): 12:04pm On Nov 22, 2018 |
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Family › Re: Woman Flies Her Husband To Abu Dhabi For His 30th Birthday by blackjack21(m): 1:57am On Nov 22, 2018 |
That man doesn't look in as much excitement as my dog when I feed him amala  He's probably thinking 'last last, Na me go pay for the shopping after the race is over. |
Romance › Re: Help! Is It Blessing Or A Curse? by blackjack21(m): 1:13am On Nov 22, 2018*. Modified: 1:45am On Nov 22, 2018 |
Complaining about about someone's gentle quietness is twice as rude as telling someone that they talk too much.
When people remark on my quietness, I used to reply then with a very subtle 'go f*uck yourself' that they would be looking so forward to the journey. But now that I have taken a lot of interest in psychology, I realized that people (especially those why acquainted with you) read too much silence differently, for example, you're : angry, anxious, sad, etc. Those who are just meeting you for the first time might cut (you're just shay) some slack.
In the case of your friend's husband, he might just distressed that be keep on asking him if everything is okay in his house, with his marriage, because his wife is quite,she must be sad. And he would be thinking 'people think that I'm treating her bad'.
You see how dangerous that can be? Please tell to sit down and have a quality discussion with her spouse about the issue.
I hope this helps. |
Romance › Re: Slay Queen Gets 20 Men To Buy Her Iphone, Then She Sells Phones And Buys House by blackjack21(m): 12:31am On Nov 22, 2018 |
If my girl try this, Na to pack my load come leave for the house.  |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Baby In Benue State, Says 'God Directed Me To Use Her As Sacrifice by blackjack21(m): 5:50pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
7Alexander: Maybe it's true. Maybe he was really directed to do so.
Some people will come here to call the man all sorts of names, but they are same people that believed that God told Abraham To kill his son. Same people that also believe that God will tell them who to marry. The same God that technically killed his son for sacrifice.  |
Health › Re: Is Medical Marijuana Just A Leverage To Legalize Marijuana In General? by blackjack21(m): 9:56pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Crossbow: Guys is there a way I can take it without smoking it? You could make tea but, don't eat it like goat, That would be too dangerous. |
Business › Re: What Is Your Worst Business Investment And How Much Did You Lose? by blackjack21(m): 10:29pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
hahn: Chai. Absolutely terrible.
Like BIG said "Keep your family and business completely seperated. Money and blood don't mix like two dicks"  Sometimes it does; look at the Rothschild family for example. only you have to recognize the ambitious people in your family. I won't make the same mistake again |
Business › Re: What Is Your Worst Business Investment And How Much Did You Lose? by blackjack21(m): 5:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
hahn: What happened to me this year sef just get as e be.
So I was finally making N25k daily from my website and saved more than N1m and decided to hire a professional SEO company to handle my seo so that I can rank for more keywords and make more money. My target is to make 100k+ daily which is actually what my competition make.
The SEO company charged N150k per month and on the first month we found out that Google had penalized my site because of a Yoast plugin issue. With the Yoast plugin new update they was an option which was usually turned off by default but was on with the new update and thus pages were created automatically using images and no content. Coincidentally Google's new algo or whatever just came out and in it included a rule against pages with only images. And thus I was bleeped.
You can read more about the Yoast issue here https://charlesfloate.co.uk/yoast-mess-up. Many people were affected by this issue. If you go through the comments you will see one guy complaining about how he went from $1,000 per month to $100 because of his drop in traffic.
Also the seo company discovered that for some reason my backlinks created to my website were being removed so now I had to pay for on-site seo and also backlinks. To cut the long story short I spent all my savings trying to resolve this issue and I am still working on building more backlinks.
Daily income has gone down to N5k-N10k daily and yes I am royally bleeped because I have to fuel my gen and run it for 24 hours as we barely have power here. Nepa did not even blink the light throughout the weekend and as I write this the generator is on and making noise. Data, feeding, diapers, baby food etc sef dey there but we are managing.
I don't even know what to call this one. Whether bad investment or simply bad luck but thought to share.
By the way, based on the kind of person I am due to the low traffic I was getting and free time I got I used that spare time to build 3 new websites and now I am working on building them to profitability. Man never back down  'man never backs down', I like that. So this boy, who's my brother, is a talented fashion designer, far beyond his pairs, but, he works for some greedy bloke who paid him peanut change. So I decided to bankroll him, get him a shop, buy a generator and three embroider machine, with one sowing machine. That way he'd sponsor his education in the University and add to the family net worth. Long story short: he dropped out of school, doesn't save a dime. He abandoned The purpose of starting the business while he makes cool cash and spend it on himself alone.
I threw over 900k in that investment. I actually went broke after the incidence.it hurt because I was doing it for the family. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by blackjack21(m): 9:00pm On Oct 21, 2018 |
Viking007: The hateful eight: 7.5/10. 8.5 -9 straight Samuel L Jackson -major warren- at his best . Ishilove...? |
Computers › Re: SCREEN+BATTRRIES+CHARGERS+SKIN+ COMPONENTS (laptops Only) by blackjack21(m): 10:03pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
Razak5: Hello. Aother one is in now. Same model? How much? |
Computers › Re: SCREEN+BATTRRIES+CHARGERS+SKIN+ COMPONENTS (laptops Only) by blackjack21(m): 4:07pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
Razak5: Dell Latitude E6420, board available. Acer aspire E1-510 board available. 09082687404
*Cheers* Do you still have that dell motherboard? |
Car Talk › Re: The All New 2019 Bmw M5 Competition Has Emerged From The Woodwork. (photos) by blackjack21(m): 10:58am On Aug 07, 2018 |
michlins: Someone should shout blood of Jesus
So after all these luxury and technological innovation, Jesus go come spoil this world abi?
It's alright make him come we dey wait If you stay loyal, you may have one in heaven.  |
Politics › Re: US Court Dismisses Biafra Suit Against Nigerian Government by blackjack21(m): 10:34pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Date Of Birth, You Might Find A Match by blackjack21(m): 1:12pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
happyjolly: Oct 15 you're just 5days ahead of me. are you into zodiacs? |
Sports › Re: Iran Vs Portugal: World Cup (1 - 1) - Final by blackjack21(m): 10:00pm On Jun 25, 2018 |
rentAcock: You are the only mum I see here. Iran is considered a Muslim country because a majority if her citizens are Muslims even though Christians also live there. Bro, Iran is officially a Muslim country unlike Nigeria, we're secular here. Although, the majority of Nigeria' citizens are Muslims. IR Iran (IR= ISLAMIC REPUBLIC) |
Sports › Re: Putin's Funny Reaction To Russia Goal Against Saudi Arabia (VIDEO) by blackjack21(m): 5:00pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
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Technology Market › Re: Samsung Galaxy A5 Replacement Screen. by blackjack21(m): 9:28pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
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Phones › Re: Carlcare Is Here With You by blackjack21(m): 10:07pm On May 28, 2018 |
CarlcareOpebi: princefemi01 hello. what is the price for tecno camon c9 screen |
Phones › Re: Carlcare Is Here With You by blackjack21(m): 10:34am On May 27, 2018 |
hello. what is the price for tecno W4 screen? |
Career › Re: My Boss' Relationship With A Co-Worker Is Affecting Our Productivity by blackjack21(m): 9:55pm On May 24, 2018 |
Eastboi: Focus on your job as long as u get paid. But that kind of environment can't motivate u to do more for your firm, so to me its a quit focus on your job as long as you get paid> do you realize how redunkulous you sound? he might as well stare at a well forever because he get paid. |
Romance › Re: Apprentice Mechanic Dies During Sex Romp With Food Vendor by blackjack21(m): 7:18pm On May 17, 2018 |
LifeofAirforce: He went back to his creator through the same route he came from. It's a pity
What is he going to tell God now First, Which of the gods is he answerable to? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: AS Roma Vs Liverpool : UCL (4 - 2) On 2nd May 2018 by blackjack21(m): 9:25pm On May 02, 2018 |
Donbabajay12: Can you pls stop saying rubbish ...Why would Barcelona joke with champions league trophy ....linus Where money is involved corruption is imminent - Me |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: AS Roma Vs Liverpool : UCL (4 - 2) On 2nd May 2018 by blackjack21(m): 9:20pm On May 02, 2018 |
DJHANDSOME: Liverpool to win champions league. Shey for 2020? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Bayern Munich : UCL (2 - 2) On 1st May 2018 by blackjack21(m): 9:39pm On May 01, 2018 |
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