Romance › Re: How Islam Has Brainwashed Me. by BlackViper: 2:47pm On Jan 11 |
My point is that since allah wants me to sin recklessly, na carry go knacking be dat  No wonder he promised unlimited puna for paradise🤣🤣🤣 BAILMONEY: SO WHAT'S YOUR POINT 🤔
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Romance › Re: How Islam Has Brainwashed Me. by BlackViper: 2:11pm On Jan 11 |
My own is that living a sinful life is very necessary as a muslim. In fact, if you're not sinning 24/7, allah will never be happy with you and he will sweep you out of existence and replace you with sinners!
Sahih Muslim 2749 Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) having said:
By Him in Whose Hand is my life, if you were not to commit sin, Allah would sweep you out of existence and He would replace you with those people who would commit sin and seek forgiveness from Allah, and He would have pardoned them. |
Sports › AFCON: Algeria Fan Accuses Match Officials Of Bias In Favour Of Nigeria (Pics) by BlackViper(op): 7:33pm On Jan 10 |
🇩🇿🇳🇬 I don’t want to hear anyone talk about North African teams cheating .. it might apply for one team but certainly doesn’t apply to Algeria A clear handball and penalty not called by the referee or the VAR. And no it was not outside the box. Source
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Algeria: AFCON Quarter-Finals (2 - 0) On 10th January 2026 by BlackViper: 6:28pm On Jan 10 |
Can you believe it is 66 minutes and Algeria is yet to have a single shot on target? Eric Chelle na mastermind 
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Algeria: AFCON Quarter-Finals (2 - 0) On 10th January 2026 by BlackViper: 6:25pm On Jan 10 |
Wetin no go hear? Which kain "winch" cat dey do nairabet odd with you?🤣 Mirasteel: That Cat already predicted that Nigeria will win and I believe the cat 100% |
Events › Wesley Tafida: Nigerian World War 2 Veteran Celebrates His 106th Birthday by BlackViper(op): 2:36pm On Jan 10 |
Thank you for your service Sir. Happy 106th birthday to World War II veteran, Regimental Sergeant Major Wesley Tafida of Jalingo.
His birthday falls fittingly within the buildup to the Armed Forces Celebration and Remembrance Day, on January 15.
RSM Wesley Tafida is also the father of Major General Henry Tafida Wesley aka Wesley Snipes, recently retired Commander, Headquarters Nigerian Army Ordnance Corps. Source
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Family › Nigerian Lady Explains How She Married A Man She Had Met On IG After 6 Mnths by BlackViper(op): 11:07am On Jan 10 |
Deborah Ocheido writes: I can never recommend the way I got married to someone else
I never saw this man face to face until he was coming to pay my bride price.
We knew each other for 6 months only talked seriously like 2 months out of that time.
And this man used speed to fly down to ask my parents for my hand
I can’t recommend it for anyone. Not even my siblings. Because humanly speaking that Time frame is too short.
Because what are the odds that the man you stumbled on on instagram Is the man you’ve prayed for all your life?
But it worked for us. We both knew and believed so much in our hearts that this was God bringing us together. And we’ve never had cause to regret.
This post is not about marriage per se but I need you to stay with me
I looked at the Bible closely and I saw that if Moses has used David’s stone it wouldn’t have worked
And there was no way Moses’s rod would have helped David kill Goliath
Infact do you remember Brother Samson? He only used the jaw bone of an ass once and threw it away.
If it were you and I today, after the kind of victory that the jawbone gave him, we would have put it inside our bag and protected it with our lives because you’ll think that’s where the victory lies.
But it wasn’t about the stone or the rod or the jawbone.
It was about God present with them
It was about God giving them victory.
And as long as God was there, that victory would continue
I’m sharing all these because as believers we are quick to look at others to copy what they are doing
When someone is experiencing victory we want to copy their prayer point word for word.
If a sister tells you that she found her husband when she was singing in the choir, the next Sunday you want to register in the choir unit when God specifically told you that you should be in the prayer band.
Because we don’t see the God behind the strategy. We think the victory is in the strategy.
If it’s not God that commanded you to use that rod, it will just be an ordinary stick.
Please read with understanding.
Selah. Source
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TV/Movies › Re: Alaba Boys Printing Fake “LG” Logo On Televisions (Video) by BlackViper: 8:44am On Jan 10 |
Thank goodness that lackeys like you are now calling for the restoration of regional governance. We're also tired of the forced concept of "unity" that has not done us any good since 1960. madridguy: We sincerely needs leaders that prioritize the well being of their people. We need to send this people back to their region so they can do whatever they like.
Kidney problem is now like malaria courtesy their fake drinks and adulterated food items. |
Fashion › Re: ''Stop Wearing Nigerian Attire For Weddings!'' - Africans Alarmed By New Trend by BlackViper: 12:27am On Jan 10*. Modified: 10:24am On Jan 10 |
The IMF and the World Bank data set also corroborates the economic projections of PWC. Specifically, the World Bank's Oct 2025 report goes futher than PwC. It shows poverty rising for 2 consecutive years: 53.3% at $3/day line or 71% at $4.20/day by 2026, aligning with PwC's worsening trend to 62%. All of these World class economic institutions cannot be wrong and a certificate forging drug sniffer and his hired lackeys would be right. Kemetian: IS PRICEWATERHOUSECOOPERS GOD?
DO YOU KNOW THEY'VE BEEN WRONG MANY TIMES IN THEIR SO-CALLED PREDICTIONS??
And have been called out for their inaccuracies and even fraudulent auditing?
Oyinbo worshipper.
Any rubbish they say it's like God spoke it in your head. |
Fashion › Re: ''Stop Wearing Nigerian Attire For Weddings!'' - Africans Alarmed By New Trend by BlackViper: 11:50pm On Jan 09 |
Eeya Kemetian. So this is how you intend to cope with the Pro Max economic instability plan of APC for 2026? Pèlé my dear😊 Kemetian: If it's not Peter Obi the Brewery Builder, it must be ''bad leaders'', abi?
Nonsense.
Abeg commot for here.... 
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Politics › Re: Trump Makes U-Turn, Admits Muslims Are Also Being Killed In Nigeria by BlackViper: 7:29pm On Jan 09 |
There is a long and well documented history of Muslims killing other Muslims, right from Day 1 of Islam. The day Muhammad died, his companions left his body to rot while they met at a place called Saqifah Bani Sa‘idah to decide who would inherit the empire. Within twenty years: The first caliph after Muhammad is believed to have been poisoned by other muslims The second caliph, Umar ibn al‑Khattab, was killed by other Muslims. The third caliph, Uthman ibn Affan, was killed by other Muslims. The fourth caliph, Ali ibn Abi Talib, was killed by other Muslims. Ali’s two sons, who were supposed to take over, were killed by other Muslims. Muhammad's wife Aisha bint Abu Bakr and his cousin Ali fought each other in the Battle of the Camel. Then Ali fought Mu‘awiya at the Battle of Siffin. In those early years, the number of Muslims killed by other Muslims ran into 250,000. Later: the Umayyad Caliphate attacked Mecca and struck the Kaaba. The Abbasid Caliphate then massacred the Umayyads. From the first “fitna” to the dynastic slaughter, the story of Islam contains internal bloodletting, not only conquest abroad, but strife within. What we are seeing in Northern Nigeria today is simply the natural result of a political ideology that has been ongoing for 1400 years. We can’t possibly call Muhammad’s companions, wife, and cousins “Islamists.” They were not radicals; they were the original Muslims. They memorized the Qur’an, fought beside Muhammad, and built the empire he left behind. And yet, they slaughtered one another. What they did to each other in Medina, Basra, and Siffin is no different in spirit from what Muslims are doing today in Sudan, what they’re doing to Christians in Nigeria, and what they dream of doing to Jews in Israel. Richtaiwo: So, if Muslims are also falling victim to banditry and insurgency, one is compelled to ask, where exactly did this dramatic tale of a “Christian genocide” originate from? Or is it one of those conspiracy theories manufactured somewhere between WhatsApp broadcasts and late-night imagination?
And now to the handle-mops, having exhausted local theatrics, they appear to be pinning their hopes on Trump, expecting him to swoop in and somehow replace Tinubu with pitobi under the banner of “Christian genocide.” One has to admire the creativity.
When that fantasy collapses, as it surely will, what’s the next move? A heartfelt appeal to Netanyahu? At this rate, the campaign strategy seems less like politics and more like an international prayer chain, desperately searching for a miracle sponsor. |
Politics › Re: Trump Makes U-Turn, Admits Muslims Are Also Being Killed In Nigeria by BlackViper: 4:41pm On Jan 09*. Modified: 7:23pm On Jan 09 |
He also said that Jihadist terrorists are behind the attacks. This is not the win you think it is🤣 |
Sports › Re: AFCON 2025: Referees Changed For Quarter-finals After Moroccan FA Complaint by BlackViper: 3:59pm On Jan 09 |
So even North Africans don't trust each other sef🤣🤣
These are the cultural and religious masters of Northern Nigeria who are treated like living gods in Northern Nigeria |
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Crime › German Robbers Drill Into Bank Vault, Steal $36mn Worth Of Valuables by BlackViper(op): 1:54pm On Jan 08 |
Thieves carried out a massive holiday heist at a German bank, stealing valuables worth at least $36 million after breaking into a concrete vault and forcing open more than 3,000 safe deposit boxes, police said. The robbery occurred over Christmas weekend at the Buer branch of Sparkasse Gelsenkirchen, in western Germany. Investigators said the perpetrators first broke through a door before drilling a large hole through the vault wall, using heavy equipment in what police described as a highly professional operation. More than 95% of the bank’s safe deposit boxes were breached. While the insured value of the stolen items is estimated at €31 million ($36 million), officials warned the true losses could be far higher, as many customers may have stored valuables exceeding insurance limits.Local police spokesman Thomas Nowaczyk called the heist “spectacular,” noting that the scale and execution suggested careful planning rather than a spontaneous crime. Authorities believe the operation took significant time and may have involved inside knowledge of the bank’s security. The break-in was discovered after a fire alarm alerted emergency responders early Monday. In the days following, dozens of customers gathered outside the branch, many fearing the loss of family heirlooms and irreplaceable valuables. Criminology experts said banks often face reduced security during holiday periods, making them more vulnerable to well-organized thefts of this scale. https://www.financian.com/german-bank-vault-drilled-as-thieves-steal-millionsMynd44 Lalasticlala Nlfpmod
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Crime › Nigerian Man, Babatunde Afuwape, Murders 20-Year-Old Student In Canada by BlackViper(op): 9:39am On Jan 08 |
A man has been charged with first-degree murder in the death of a student on University of Toronto's Scarborough campus (UTSC) last month, police say.
Babatunde Afuwape, a 28-year-old Toronto man, is accused of fatally shooting 20-year-old Shivank Avasthi on a popular campus trail on Dec. 23, Det.-Sgt. Stacey McCabe said at a news conference Wednesday.
Around 3:30 p.m. that day, officers were called to the area of Highland Creek Trail and Old Kingston Road for unknown trouble, Toronto police said last month.
Police arrived to find Avasthi with a gunshot wound. He was pronounced dead at the scene.
The shooting was Toronto's 41st homicide of 2025.
Avasthi was a third-year University of Toronto student from India, McCabe said.
"He was young, bright, and had his whole life ahead of him. Our thoughts remain with his family, friends and classmates," she said. "This was a deeply tragic case."
The university's cheerleading and powerlifting clubs both posted tributes to Avasthi on social media in the days following the shooting, both saying he had a way of lifting others up with his positivity.
Attack may have been random, police say
Investigators are still working to determine a motive, as police believe Afuwape and Avasthi were not known to each other, McCabe said Wednesday. She said police believe the shooting may have been random.
"He was there to kill somebody, is our belief. I'm not sure how he chose Avasthi," she said.
Afuwape had been on the campus for about an hour before the shooting, McCabe said. She said police don't know his employment status, but they don't believe he was a student.
Afuwape was arrested on Dec. 28 for breach of parole, which was issued for firearm offences, McCabe said. He was scheduled to appear in court earlier this week, police said in a news release Wednesday.
'He would do anything for the people he cared about'
Caitlin Whittier, a friend of Avasthi, said she met him through the University of Toronto cheerleading team. She said he was an active member of the team, and after the cheerleading season ended, the two stayed friends. She said she spent his last birthday with him.
"He was absolutely supportive. He was such a wonderful person. He cared so much about his friends. He was so caring and just a wonderful soul," she said.
"We would study together and he would walk me back to my car at late hours of the night to make sure I got home safe. Any problems that I had, he would give me the most wonderful advice. He would listen to everything, all of my concerns," she added.
"He would do anything for the people he cared about and it was just the love and friendship that I valued most about him."
The night Whittier found out it was Avasthi who was fatally shot, she wrote a letter to him about all the things she would have wanted him to hear in a final conversation. She gave the letter to his parents at his funeral.
"What I think Shivank would say to us if he was here, he would want us to live our lives to the fullest and he will be watching over us, cheering us on and he'll be waiting for us one day when we see him again," she said.
Whittier said in their last conversation she did tell him that he was hard working and driven and that she believed in him.
She said she has two framed photos of him in her room.
"One picture was of us at our February cheerleading competition and the other photo was me and him at the beach on his birthday and he has the most bright and wonderful smile in both of those photos.
"And that's how I want to remember him." https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/man-charged-with-murder-utsc-shooting-9.7036358
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Career › Lawyer Given Basket Of Tomatoes By Grateful Client (Photo) by BlackViper(op): 6:24pm On Jan 07 |
As seen online here: Till date, my law firm is the only that has been thanked with a basket of tomato by a pro bono client; after we did her case.
True widows mite!
Shalom Source
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Politics › Banditry: Kwara Police Free 6 Vigilantes Arrested By Army by BlackViper(op): 11:19am On Jan 07 |
The Kwara State Police Command has confirmed the receipt and subsequent release of six vigilante members who were earlier arrested by personnel of the Nigerian Army in Edo State.
The command, in a statement on Tuesday by its Police Public Relations Officer, SP Adetoun Ejire-Adeyemi, said the vigilantes, who were arrested along the Auchi–Ikpeshi Road in Akoko-Edo Local Government Area of Edo State in early December 2025, were handed over to the command on Wednesday, December 31, 2025.
According to the statement, the suspects were travelling in a vehicle belonging to the Ifelodun Local Government Area of Kwara State when they were intercepted by soldiers.
The police said the six vigilante members were formally handed over to the Kwara State Police Command by the Brigade Commander, 22 Armoured Brigade, Sobi Barracks, Ilorin, Brigadier General N. N. Rume, for investigation and profiling.
“Following a thorough investigation, it was established that the individuals are legitimate members of a vigilante group operating in collaboration with recognised security agencies in the ongoing efforts to combat banditry and other forms of criminality,” the statement said.
It added that the vigilantes were exonerated of any criminal wrongdoing and were subsequently released to their respective leaders.
The Commissioner of Police in the state, Ojo Adekimi, reiterated the command’s commitment to inter-agency collaboration and synergy with community-based security outfits while urging vigilante groups to always operate within the confines of the law.
The police assured residents of the state of their continued resolve to ensure the safety and security of lives and property across Kwara State.
PUNCH Metro had earlier reported, on December 14, 2025, a 36-second viral video showing soldiers interrogating a group of suspected bandits allegedly found patrolling with AK-47 rifles in a local security patrol vehicle bearing the inscription of Ifelodun Local Government Area of Kwara State.
In the video, the suspects were seen lying face down with their hands tied as soldiers questioned them about their activities and the source of the weapons recovered.
One of the suspects, speaking in Hausa and Nigerian Pidgin, claimed that the patrol vehicle and rifles were provided by the “Ilorin government,” alleging that they had been operating under the guise of a security patrol.
“We have been here for quite a while. We are using the vehicle for patrol. Wallahi, na the truth I dey tell you. The Ilorin government na him give us this motor and the weapons. They were the ones that gave us the rifles,” the suspect said.
PUNCH Metro also reported that the Kwara State Government dismissed reports that it had armed the suspects.
In a statement issued on Sunday night by the Commissioner for Communications, Mrs Bolanle Olukoju, the state said no security agency, including the Nigerian Army, carried out any arrest of armed bandits in Ifelodun or any part of Kwara State.
“The Nigerian Army did not arrest any armed bandits in any part of Ifelodun. No security agency ever reported such arrests in Kwara,” Olukoju said.
She also debunked insinuations that the state government armed the suspects, stressing that no state government has the power to issue or distribute AK-47 rifles. https://punchng.com/banditry-police-free-six-vigilantes-arrested-by-army/
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia, China, BRICS Tankers Break USA Blockade, Loads Venezuelan Oil by BlackViper: 10:58am On Jan 07 |
Trump has actually lifted the blockade which is why this was possible. It happened with America's permission. Imagine how desperately hungry pro Russian influencers must be to try and slun this as a victory🤣 |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage To Troll: E No Go Better For You by BlackViper: 9:02pm On Jan 06 |
Trolls are a nuisance, but does it really make sense to send someone to jail for a tweet? Our jails should be reserved for more serious grade of criminals like corrupt politicians. LeeSmart: What's this social media bill for self? Trolls like this are supposed to be cooling somewhere in kuje or kirikiri. |
Phones › Re: Nigerians Used 13.2 Million Terabytes Of Data In 2025 - NCC by BlackViper(op): 2:56pm On Jan 06 |
Where did you see this regional breakdown in the article? Richtaiwo: 13.2 million terabytes of data is no small feat, yet the regional breakdown reads like a league table where some zones are clearly chasing promotion while one is stuck at the bottom checking its shoelaces.
The SW sits comfortably at the top with a commanding 42%, followed by the SS at 25%. The NC holds its own with 15%, while the NW and NE trail behind at 7.6% and 6% respectively. |
Phones › Re: Nigerians Used 13.2 Million Terabytes Of Data In 2025 - NCC by BlackViper(op): 2:23pm On Jan 06 |
Are you joking or do you realise how big 1 million terabytes of data will be for one person? With 1 million terabytes you can start your own ISP. Kastonkastroll: It should be more than this because only me have used about 1million terabytes just last year  |
Phones › Nigerians Used 13.2 Million Terabytes Of Data In 2025 - NCC by BlackViper(op): 2:15pm On Jan 06 |
Nigeria’s data traffic in 2025 skyrocketed by 35 per cent to a projected full-year total exceeding 13.2 million terabytes (TB), driven by surging internet usage across mobile and broadband networks, according to the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC).
Data made available to LEADERSHIP show this momentum building steadily since the NCC began tracking monthly usage in January 2023.
National internet traffic from major providers like MTN Nigeria, Airtel Nigeria, Globacom, T2 and others climbed from 7.27 million TB in 2023 to 9.76 million TB in 2024, a 34.3 per cent year-on-year increase.
Between January and November 2025 alone, consumption hit 11.86 million TB, up 34.96 per cent, or 3.07 million TB, from the prior year, putting daily usage at over 41,000 TB and straining networks nationwide.
According to data on the NCC’s website, national internet traffic across MTN Nigeria, Airtel Nigeria, Globacom, T2 and other internet service providers has risen consistently since the Commission began tracking monthly usage in January 2023.
“In 2023, Nigeria recorded 7.27 million TB in total data usage. This climbed to 9.76 million TB in 2024, representing a 34.3 per cent year-on-year growth.
The momentum has intensified in 2025, with full-year consumption now projected to exceed 13.2 million TB, implying growth of about 35 per cent over 2024.
“Between January and November 2025 alone, Nigerians consumed 11.86 million TB, up from 8.79 million TB in the same period last year—an increase of 34.96 per cent, or 3.07 million TB in additional volume,” the report read.
At this pace, the country is now consuming just over 41,000 TB of data daily, placing sustained pressure on mobile and broadband networks nationwide.
A closer look at traffic patterns also reveals pronounced seasonality. December has consistently emerged as the peak month for data use.
In 2024, December traffic exceeded November by 94,502 TB, while in 2023 the jump was 67,794 TB. Month-on-month growth for December averaged 10–11 per cent in both years, driven largely by holiday travel, video streaming, social media activity and online shopping.
According to industry players, the growth is being fuelled by cheaper smartphones, wider mobile internet access, rising video content, expanding cloud services, remote-work tools and the steady digitalisation of businesses and public services.
Notably, broadband penetration crossed the 50 per cent threshold in November 2025 for the first time, a historic milestone, though still short of the 70 per cent target set under the National Broadband Plan (NBP), 2020–2025.
Speaking on the report, a telecom analyst, Osita Odafi, said Nigeria’s soaring appetite for internet services has pushed national data consumption to 11.86 million terabytes (TB) as of November 30, 2025, placing the country firmly on course to exceed 13 million TB by year-end.
Odafi noted that the surge reflects how streaming platforms, cloud computing, fintech services and widespread smartphone adoption are rapidly redefining how Nigerians live and work.
Analysts increasingly view data consumption as a reflection of broader economic activity, showing how Nigerians communicate, transact, learn and entertain themselves.
Also speaking, the chief executive officer of Airtel Nigeria, Dinesh Balsingh, said rapid urbanisation was intensifying data demand.
“Cities like Lagos are growing at lightning speed with more people, more businesses, more devices.
“We recognise that data is the new oxygen. That is why we are investing heavily in 5G and fibre to build a smart, scalable network that can carry the weight of Nigeria’s digital future,” Balsingh said.
However, regulators have warned that infrastructure strain remains evident.
Executive Vice Chairman of the Nigeria Communications Commission (NCC), Dr Aminu Maida, said the quality of service still requires improvement despite recent gains.
“Quality of service today is not yet where we want it to be, but it is equally true that we are no longer where we used to be,” Maida said, adding that operators are being compelled to accelerate investment while improving customer experience.
For telecom operators and internet service providers, the figures signal both opportunity and urgency. Sustaining the current growth trajectory will demand aggressive expansion of network capacity, greater resilience and smarter infrastructure design.
From a policy standpoint, analysts insist that progress will depend on faster execution of the 90,000-kilometre national fibre rollout under Project BRIDGE, resolving right-of-way bottlenecks, tackling multiple taxation at sub-national levels and addressing security challenges that inflate operating costs and expose infrastructure to vandalism.
If these constraints are removed, Odafi believes Nigeria’s current data boom may represent not a peak, but merely the opening phase of a much larger digital transformation. https://leadership.ng/data-consumption-soars-35-to-13-2m-terabytes-on-rising-internet-usage-ncc/
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Crime › Nigerian Man Explains What The Police Did To Him For Being A Good Samaritan by BlackViper(op): 12:03pm On Jan 06 |
Sometime this year, I made the grievous mistake of rushing a dying young man who had collapsed on the road to the hospital at the instance of a doctor who I had earlier called for advice, even when everybody chose to walk pass.
Unfortunately, upon reaching the hospital, the young man gave up the ghost. Out of protocol, I requested that the police be informed since I never knew the person involved, i was just trying to be a good citizen.
I was taken to incident the case at GRA Police station in Asaba. To tell you how wicked some officers of the Nigerian Police Force could be, I was instead accused of murder with my statement taken under caution. CSP Christopher Odoh, the DPO, told me he must deal with me for acting like ‘Jesus’. Those were his exact words.
He bluntly told me that when he is through with me, if I see anybody dying again, I would walk pass, even after the deceased victims family had confirmed that their late son had an underlying condition.
I immediately understood why people make videos in such a situation and do not make an attempt to rescue the victim. It took the grace of God through a very very top government functionary for me to have escaped the murder charge that I was tagged with.
Even after the VVIP personally came to attest and ensure I was released, the Nigerian Police Force, through CSP Christopher Odoh of the Asaba GRA Division still emptied my account as bail money, I went home with only Two thousand Naira.
As the year comes to an end, I am using this opportunity to thank God for bringing me out of tha situation. Many people are still in prison for cases lesser than mine. My people, join me to thank God. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17rQ8FwyaN/
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Sports › Re: AFCON: Lookman Reacts To Osimhen's Outburst (Video) by BlackViper: 10:49am On Jan 06 |
No wonder Eric Chelle banned Nigerian journalists from training sessions. They pick up on any tiny issue and create gossip material out of it. Hopelessly incompetent lot. Thank goodness Lookman is intelligent and didn't fall for their BS |
Family › Canadian Based Nigerian Woman Hails Her Husband For Sharing Bank PIN With Her by BlackViper(op): 9:26am On Jan 06 |
Shared by Deborah Ocheido Another thing that made me know I married well happened immediately I landed in Canada
So a few days after I landed, my husband took me to the bank so I could open my own bank account.
When we got there, per usual I was asked to put in the four digit pin I wanted to use for my debit card. My husband was standing beside me and as I was putting it in, he looked away.
I looked at him sharply wandering what that was about. I found it weird.
When we we got home, I asked him why he did that. “Why don’t you want to know my pin”? But I know your own” I asked him.
He said “you’re your own person. You know my pin because I told you” if you want me to know your own, tell me”
I told him but honestly I did not understand fully what he was trying to do till a few months into marriage.
That’s when I understood that my husband did not want me to become consumed. Even God gives mankind free will. And this is what my husband was modeling.
Because many times , Marriage consumes women. And sometimes, some Christian men wield this as a weapon mercilessly. And I know this because I used to be in a relationship where it was all about him.
His vision. His plans. His calling. What God wanted to do with him. And it was now like “What about me? God does not want to use me for anything?”
You become consumed in the man that you lose your sense of self. Your dreams, your thoughts, your ideas out the window.
You hear people saying that your husband’s purpose becomes your purpose when you marry him.
So you won’t stand before the throne of God on your own to give account of the life He gave you? And mind you your husband will not be there to help you explain.
He wanted me to be his wife but still feel like my own person. First he led by example by letting me know all his pins and then allowing me share mine. Which I gladly did
My husband did not insist I change my name on socials because that’s the name people have known. And he said “let’s not confuse anybody. You’re my Wife and you carry my name where it matters most”
It was in all these subtle ways that he helped me be me and that’s why God has helped me to still have a voice and be useful to my generation.
And for that, I bless God for him everyday.
The Bible says that “two shall become one”
But the Bible also says that “each one stood before God to give account”
Not two standing before God o. Each person will stand before God by themselves. And that tells you that even in the two, God still sees each one.
Selah.
PS: I am not attacking men. Resist the urge to drop that contrary comment that is in your mind. I am not attacking men. I am sharing my experience which I think can help the young girls who look up to me.
Blessings. Source
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Romance › Re: Why Do Religious People Always Look Stupid And Slow? by BlackViper: 4:01pm On Jan 05 |
I believe you have failed to distinguish between religion and superstition. True religion is really a form of high ethical standards where morality is adhered to no matter what the consequences are. A good example of true religion is the type exhibited by Corrie Ten Boom and her sister Betsie Ten Boom. You should read about their story. Superstition on the other hand is simply mindlessly following a set of empty, meaningless rituals and believing you're a better person for doing so. For religion to be authentic, you must be willing to be faithful to it even if it costs you everything, including your life. Jerkbaba: And they'll be calling themselves men of God. Why do they always reck of low ig and look stupid. They really get on my nerves. Ignorance just shows all over their faces. Very irritating if you ask me. |
Sports › A Fan Pays Mike Tyson $3,300 To Follow Him On IG by BlackViper(op): 3:49pm On Jan 05 |
A die-hard fan recently spent more than $3,000 for something unusual: a social media follow from Mike Tyson.
According to Darren Rovell, founder of Cllct Media, Goldin Auctions included the one-of-a-kind prize in its final auction of 2025.
At the height of his career, Tyson earned millions per fight, but financial troubles later pushed him into bankruptcy. Through exhibition bouts and smarter business moves, he rebuilt his fortune and now earns income from multiple ventures, including autographs, memorabilia, and collectibles. Still, being paid for an Instagram follow is a new chapter.
Six bids were placed, with one fan ultimately paying $3,304 to secure Tyson’s follow on Instagram. The auction also featured an original fight contract from Tyson’s September 1996 bout against Bruce Seldon at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas—a first-round knockout win. The document carried signatures from Tyson, Don King, Rory Holloway, and John Horne, and the fight is historically notable for taking place the same night Tupac Shakur was fatally shot after leaving the venue.
The winner has not been publicly identified, but they would become the 300th account Tyson follows, joining names like Joe Rogan, Dana White, and Tyson Fury. Whether an Instagram follow is worth over $3,000 is up for debate, and it’s unclear how much of the proceeds Tyson personally receives.
The 59-year-old boxing legend is also preparing for an exhibition bout with Floyd Mayweather, potentially set for Africa in March 2026. Beyond that, Tyson has expressed interest in a rematch with Jake Paul, who recently suffered his first knockout loss when Anthony Joshua broke his jaw.
Reflecting on his previous loss to Paul in 2024, Tyson admitted he trained too hard and peaked too early. Now, he believes experience has made him better prepared for another run. https://www.financian.com/fan-pays-dollar3304-for-mike-tyson-instagram-follow
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden, Harris Declared Maduro Wanted "Dead Or Alive" & Placed $25M Bounty On Him by BlackViper(op): 9:06am On Jan 05*. Modified: 9:22am On Jan 05 |
Trump defeated Kamala on November 5th 2024 and he was sworn into office on January 20th 2025.
So on the 10th of January 2025, just 10 days before Trump was sworn into office, one of the last official acts of the Biden-Harris administration was to declare Nicolas Maduro wanted dead or alive for a reward of $25 million.
Now they want heaven to fall down because Trump did for free what they were willing to pay bounty hunters $25mn to do
Political hypocrisy and double standards don't just exist in Nigeria. It can be found everywhere. |
Foreign Affairs › Biden, Harris Declared Maduro Wanted "Dead Or Alive" & Placed $25M Bounty On Him by BlackViper(op): 9:03am On Jan 05 |
Former Democrat Mayor of New York Eric Adams posted on X: On January 10, 2025, the Biden-Harris administration put a $25 million bounty on Nicolás Maduro for information leading to his arrest or conviction.
Public safety is not a political game.
You do not label someone a narco-dictator one year and then pretend he is no longer a threat the next simply because a different president is in office. That is cynical and irresponsible.
Maduro’s drugs have killed thousands of Americans and continue to endanger our children. Imagine being the parents of 2-year-old Nicholas Feliz Dominici, who died from fentanyl poisoning in a Bronx daycare, and watching this political theater.
America is safer today because Maduro is no longer in power.
Welcome to New York, Nicolás. Source
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