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Did anyone noticed the Lagos to Lagos to stuff.....why must it be Lagos all through |
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Raising twins is never easy but in Benin, an poor nation on the west coast of Africa, hardship means many die during childhood. Now a stunning new set of photos shows how the families deal with their grief – by creating doll effigies of the lost infants and raising them as if they were still alive. Taken by French photographer Eric Lafforgue, the photos document the life of the Fon tribe, who say the dolls possess the child’s spirit and have the power to bring the family good or bad luck, depending on how well they are treated. Every day, the dolls are cradled, ‘fed’, scrubbed clean and put to bed on immaculate linens – all in an effort to keep them from being unhappy and cursing the family with evil magic. Read more: http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/headline/429725-omg-african-village-where-dead-children-are-made-into-voodoo-dolls-photos.html#ixzz3kTcrxgQO
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A boy from #Mubende built a land Rover and laptop from mere wood. Just post one word to this creativeness. https://www.facebook.com/digidafm?__nodl
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AutosBay:i saw this in the morning on ma way to ASABA |
mhizpeaarl:i am very sorry for not contacting you all this while reason is because i have been busy but will call you |
I need good and afordable data plan for ma businss kindly share if you have a good plan mind you it will be nice if i can tether it.... |
Jenny1010:pls forgive my words ooo but i guess you should also stop acting and looking for rapist.....start living a good life by following good and responsible people/men...... just listen to yourself you have tried out 7guys, girl come on wake up na.....i guess you have better time to pray to God to bring that guy who is not a rapist because when you see that guy who is not a rapist he is surely not an alcoholic like you and there wont be anytime for dramas, i knw you are tryimg to make a point so am i to everyone who have read your story and the one reading my comment right now, stop taking alcoholic drinks and focus on prayers and live a righteous life that way God will open your eyes...... thanks and good luck. |
Because we all need good jobs, we have forgotten the part of being an entreprenuer...... since your dream job is not coming why not learn a new skill and try look for a way of changing or contributing to the economical growth of this grate nation. as for me i am in my finals in sch but already have my own business i run, i believe you to can do the same all u need is idea and plans then impliment your plans and also we nigerians should be creative and by doing this we'll help ourselves and people around us.... even contibute to the economical growth ofthis conuntry..... am jus saying though...... |
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Though i am not suppose to say this but some ladies comments just couldnt make me stay without saying it... It has always channel to what women want.... What about what men want ![]() The ladies wants guys to be this to be that Has the women aslo that about pleasing the men ![]() |
Not saying she isn't wrong, too ... but aren't you leaving someone out? You confess to your BFF that your husband cheated on you. She may console you for the first few minutes, but quickly the both of you redirect all of your focus on the other woman. Who is she? What does she look like? Who does she think she is? You laugh and rage as you call the other woman a homewrecker, LovePeddler, fat cow, a low-life slut and other derogatory names. You obsesses about making sure she gets what she deserves, plotting your revenge. You may fantasize about kicking her ass or shaming her publicly. You feel thrilled when you hear about anything dreadful that happens to her. Anyone who hates her is now a friend of yours in your mind. Meanwhile, you have little to say about the man in question — your husband, the one who was unfaithful. All the blame and shame falls on the other woman. Why is that? Men have cheated since the dawn of time. In the early 1900s, researchers spoke about the "Coolidge effect" which is just a snazzy name indicating men need sexual variety in partners. In 1910, Carl Jung wrote a letter to Sigmund Freud stating, "The prerequisite for a good marriage it seems to me, is the license to be unfaithful." It's almost like we, as a society, expect men to cheat even though a study by the University of California-Irvine, revealed that only 11 percent of adults have actually cheated on their spouse. According to relationship expert Charles J. Orlando, men who cheat often admit knowing perfectly well that they're hurting their wife — the very one they claim to love. They understood the risk of losing their family and sacrificing their own integrity, but their own needs and wants feel unmet, so they lie to their wife anyway (deliberately) about cheating and they sometimes also lie to the other woman about even having a wife. He made the choice to cheat on you, but when the sh*t hits the fan, he manages to convince you that he's just an innocent victim of her advances and your neglect. You feel vindicated in blaming the other woman and, in turn, ignoring the fact that he purchased her lingerie, took her on trips, and sent sensual messages to her. He did those things repeatedly, for an extended period of time, by choice. So, why don't women hold their cheating man more accountable (or at least equally accountable) than the other woman? 1[b]. You see the other woman as a threat. [/b]You've bought into the belief that a man has no self-control when it comes to sex. So there's no way he's capable of practicing free will when a woman clearly seduces him. 2. You see the act of cheating as personal rejection. You begin to compare yourself to her in an effort to make yourself a better catch. After all, you're prettier and smarter than her! It's necessary to see her as a cold-hearted monster that set out to destroy your life if you're looking at her in comparison to yourself. 3. It's too hard to accept that he betrayed you. Hating and shaming the other woman is much easier than admitting that your man is treating you like dirt. And that he chose to hurt you that way. He's OK with getting his needs met at your expense. 4. You believe if it wasn't for her, your husband would not have strayed. It's hard for you to see that your man would have found another woman to cheat with, if it wasn't her. If it wasn't specifically an incident about her, than you're left worrying about every other female your cheating spouse is near. 5[b]. You're certain you'd NEVER fall for a married man.[/b] Confident in your own personal values and integrity, you're certain she has none of her own. You think any woman who falls for a married man (whether she knew he was married or not) is an evil being, out to destroy lives. 6. You don't want to face your own flaws. It's hard to admit that you made the wrong decision to trust your spouse. After all, you love him and want him in your life, so it's hard to see him as the villain. 7. You believe that once she's gone, you'll return to living happily ever after. [/b]This is a common form of denial. You're not emotionally ready to let go of your cheating husband or the notion that your marriage is safe and happy. 8. [b]If feels safer to hurl your anger and blame at her. [/b]This is especially true if your husband is controlling or violent. You're afraid to confront him and believe that confronting her is a less volatile option. [b]While the other woman is responsible for her actions, she is not responsible for your husbands. In order for you heal, it is important for you to hold him accountable for his actions. He is the one that made vows to you. He made a choice to break those vows. If a man is going to cheat, he can always find someone willing to play with him. He had his reasons for cheating. The other woman did not force him to do anything he didn't want to. You will probably never be friends with the other woman. But, you'll never know the whole truth about what happened and why. She has her story, you have yours, and the cheater has his. She is not responsible for your feelings — you are. Deal with your emotions, and decide how you want to proceed in your life. Source: http://www.yourtango.com/experts/cindy-holbrook/8-reasons-you-hate-other-woman-more-than-your-cheating-husband |
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Besides the meaning of life and the ingredients of hot dogs, many a man has questioned "what exactly do women want?" We're not playing coy here; we know we're complex creatures. And, true, we operate on a different wavelength than men—especially when it comes to relationships. The best example of our gender difference comes from an article we read last year about why men cheat. The most compelling testimony was from a transgender man who'd undergone hormone therapy during his transition. Thanks to testosterone, the man noticed less of an emotional attachment to sex and more of a physical urge to engage, regardless of consequences. Fascinating. So, we're different. But, woman aren't exactly the great mystery that men often make us out to be. The proof? We polled the YourTango staff and compiled a list of 10 simple things women want. Note: you won't find diamond rings or other fancy things anywhere on this list. While many women really do want luxury goods from men, when you break it down they are just physical representations of some of the points on this list. We promise. 1. Respect. Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate. 2. Sex. Yes, we love sex. But, remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one. Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run—believe us, we'll thank you for it! Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. And scratching our heads is pretty great, too. 3. Romance. It's another night on the couch with take-out and TiVo? Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. Date nights, making out in the car, kissing like when we first started dating—all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids that need to get bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason. We're not talking $100 bouquets of roses here. Even the $10 bouquets from the supermarket are enough to make us smile. 4. Time. We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not take vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back. 5. Dinner. Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrastle up) makes us swoon, because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day. 6. Communication. Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Plus, when we feel sexy we're more likely to act sexy. Words of appreciation aren't half-bad either. Tell us you love the lasagna we made. Thank us for driving the kids to school. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub. It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful. 7. Consistency. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will (usually, no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are goes a long way to making us feel secure. 8. Engagement. Of the mental kind, not the "I'm getting married in the morning" kind. You don't have to like everything we like (we might be a little concerned if you do), but showing interest in our passions, be it career-related, a sport or a hobby, goes a long way. Listen when we talk to you. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things. Whether it's the name of your best friend's husband or the fact that you hate Nicolas Cage movies, it's the little things you remember about us that's so endearing. 9.Humor and Humility. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain us, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down. 10. Challenge. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be or achieve what we desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals—in other words, don't support lazy or bad habits—are ultimately happier than those who don't hold each other accountable. What have we left off the list? Let us know in the comments below! source http://www.yourtango.com/200925879/10-simple-things-women-want cc lalasticalala ishilove |
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LAX89:what do u want me to judge on so i dont have any option. |
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