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Romance / Re: Please Help, My 4 Years Relationship Seems To Be Crashing Down by blessedbeads(f): 11:24pm On Mar 03, 2016
Lawz20:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders, I have a very serious problem which I so much believe that with your kind and generous advice, I might take the right step. I met this girl around April 2012 at my work place and since then we have been together after I proposed to her last year. The fact is I love her so much and I thought she also loves me.

I went down with her to her village around April 2014 to see her parents formally and they were so happy, her mum, dad, grand parents and even her siblings welcomed me wholeheartedly and I was so happy. I stayed with them for two weeks just to see if I can picture out any bad behavior but seriously, non was found.

The problem am having with her is that she has too much male friends and most of them are always sending her love messages both on 2go and Facebook. I once stumble on her Facebook inbox and I found a chat between her and another guy and he was just thanking her for coming to spend good time with him, bla bla bla and how he enjoyed her. I was so mad because during this period she went to the village alone and promised to return in a week but she didn't until after 3 weeks, this is what she always do, she travels like 4-5 times in a year and never return on time. When she returned, I confronted her and she said she is not the one that did that chat with the guy, I tried asking her who did but she never gave me a good answer.

Later that week, she gave me her phone to help her charge it in a barbing saloon, then a strange number called and I picked, the person hissed and cut the call, he later sent a message saying, "you're picking my wife's call and asking me who it is" I replied him that he should check the number that he might be wrong, he then mentioned her name. I went back home to ask my fiancee who own that number then she said its that guy I saw his chat and I should not worry, she will fix it.

Recently again, she has travelled and up till this moment, she is not back, she promised she won't stay upto 2 weeks but yesterday makes it 5 weeks. That same yesterday, my mum's pastor asked my mum to call me that he has a message for me which I later went, he greeted me and say, while he was praying for me because of my mums request, that he was shown that the lady I am planning of marrying is not mine alone, that if I go ahead to marry her, she will wreck me and leave me, he said she travelled now and I said yes, he said she was seeing someone else in the village, he said if I doubt him, I should go ahead.

It was then my mum now said, my younger sister told her of a dream she had, that I caught my fiancee with another guy and it leads to a fight which the said guy killed me. I myself have had such dreams too. The pastor gave me 3 days fasting and prayer. I am confused, despite all her cunning ways I still love her but what should I do and how do I go about leaving her. I will be 30 by 5th April, am not jgetting any younger. Please advice.
with all the sighs and dreams, u don't know broken relationship is better than broken marriage

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Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 7:44am On Mar 03, 2016
YOU ARE PRESERVED

“...ye shall find a colt tied, whereon never man sat; loose him, and bring him.”
(Mark 11: 2)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

Jesus described the colt that His disciples were to bring for Him as one on which no man ever sat. When the disciples found the colt, it was at a place where two roads met. It was at a place where anyone could easily see it and use it; the colt was accessible and in a vulnerable position, yet, no man ever sat on it. No man took advantage of its vulnerability.

Friend, though you are in a vulnerable position, God will not allow any man to take advantage of your vulnerability. God will not allow any man to take advantage of your disadvantages; God won't allow anyone to use your weakness as a platform to reduce your destiny; God will shield you from those who want to mess you up on account of your weak position.

There may be men who are plotting to use your weaknesses against you, there may be those who know the areas where you aren't good enough or strong enough, and they want to mess up your future, but God won’t let them succeed. The colt was vulnerable, yet not violated. Your disadvantage will not be an entry point for the enemy into your life.

The colt had a purpose to fulfill in Jesus’ life, and God didn't allow any man to sit on it until Jesus sat on it. Because of the divine purpose you are serving or will yet serve, God will not allow you to be at the mercy of those who see your vulnerability. Because of your place in Christ, what happens to others when they are vulnerable won't happen to you.
Your vulnerability won't work against you if you are truly and fully committed to Jesus; if you hold on to God, He will shield you in areas where you are weak.

Prayer : Lord, my vulnerability won’t be an entry point for the enemy, in Jesus’ name!Amen

In The Month Of March, You Shall Have MIRACLES EVERYWHERE!
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 10:18pm On Mar 02, 2016
BEFORE YOU SLEEP:

Never take those who LOVE you for granted...

They may not be perfect but the truth remains that they could take a bullet for you...

Do you want to lose a heart:

Belittle it,

Insult it,

Ignore it,

Betray it,

Judge it...

One day, You will wake up to discover you have lost them and then you will realise the treasures you had in them...

Would you need them again? Maybe YES!

Goodnight({}) .

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Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 7:56am On Mar 02, 2016
HELPED BY GOD

“And saith unto them, Go your way into the village over against you: and as soon as ye be entered into it, ye shall find a colt tied, whereon never man sat; loose him, and bring him.” (Mark 11: 2)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

When Jesus sent His disciples to get Him a colt from the next village, they loosed the colt and brought it to Jesus, around Bethphage and Bethany. The colt moved from a village to another village. Men helped the colt, it made movements and progress, but it only moved from one village to another.

Jesus eventually rode upon the colt and entered Jerusalem. Jerusalem is the capital city of Israel; Jerusalem is a prominent city. When Jesus got involved, the colt moved from village to city; it moved from obscurity to visibility. Jesus' involvement changed the story of the colt significantly. Where men stopped was where Divinity started.

Friend, God is about to move you from obscurity to undeniable visibility. God will take you from where you are now to that better place that only He can bring you to; God is about to change your location for the better. Men may have helped you without changing your story; get set, God will take you from where men abandoned you to a new level where you will be celebrated and congratulated.

If all the help you ever get comes from men, you will be limited to their abilities; but when God helps you by Himself, your results will amaze you and shock everyone around you. When God helps you, it’s not all about your ability to receive; it is about His ability to give.

Look beyond the help of men and ask God to send you divine help that will change your story for good. When the help of men can no longer move you forward, God will make a way. When you are helped by God, you will move from obscurity to undeniable visibility.

Prayer : Lord, grant me help that will change my story for good, in Jesus’name!Amen
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 6:46am On Mar 01, 2016
Happy new month ,may this month usher us to our testimonies and breakthroughs in Jesus name Amen

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Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 6:43am On Mar 01, 2016
TREASURES FROM OPPOSITION

“And saith unto them, Go your way into the village over against you: and as soon as ye be entered into it, ye shall find a colt tied, whereon never man sat; loose him, and bring him.”
(Mark 11: 2)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

In our Focal Scripture, Jesus sent His disciples to a village that was over and against them; it was in this village that they found a colt on which Jesus would later sit. Jesus needed the colt to ride into Jerusalem, and the colt was located in a village that was against them.

In the village that was against Jesus and His disciples, a colt was found for Jesus’ use. The word 'against' speaks of 'opposition'. Jesus’ disciples entered a village that was in opposition to them, and took out a valuable treasure. They took a treasure out of their opposition.

Friend, you will take treasures out of every opposition you face in destiny. You will take progress out of every setback; you will take increase out of every conspiracy that wants to reduce you; when men gang up against you, God will use their gang up as an occasion to make you smile again; whereas they came to make you cry, you will come out with dances and celebrations.

God says, your battles will give you treasures; the same things and people that are opposing you will give you benefits. The same things that want to cut short your progress will give you treasures; you will take valuable lessons out of every opposition you face. Your haters and challengers have no idea that they are helping you increase your intimacy with God, unwavering faith, resilience, passion, commitment, etc.

Don’t focus on the negativity that your battles represent; focus on the treasures you can take out of them. If God be for you, though they meant it for evil, God will turn it around for your good.

Prayer : Lord, I will take treasures out of every battle and opposition I face this year, in Jesus’ name!Amen
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by blessedbeads(f): 11:38pm On Feb 29, 2016
Dadsonval:
I did blood PT today but was negative, pelvic scan said left cyst measuring 32.5mm*45mm.
NB- my Doctor gave me some drugs for some months then but i was surprised to read that there is still a cyst. Kindly advise me with your prayers
may God grant u all your heart desire very soon
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by blessedbeads(f): 11:37pm On Feb 29, 2016
Dadsonval:
I did blood PT today but was negative, pelvic scan said left cyst measuring 32.5mm*45mm.
NB- my Doctor gave me some drugs for some months then but i was surprised to read that there is still a cyst. Kindly advise me with your prayers
very soon u will get all ur heart desire
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 6:53am On Feb 29, 2016
NOT BY MAJORITY

“2. ...ye shall find a colt tied, whereon never man sat; loose him, and bring him. 3. And if any man say unto you, Why do ye this? say ye that the Lord hath need of him...”
(Mark 11: 2-3)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

In our Focal Scripture, Jesus sent two of His disciples to fetch a colt. Jesus had twelve disciples, and He didn’t send as much as half of them, He sent only two; He sent people who were in a minority; He didn’t need to send everybody. That assignment would later pave the way for His triumphant entry into Jerusalem, and only a minority was sent.

Friend, in this year of Exceeding Expansion, God doesn't need the majority to be in your favour before you can rise; God does not need the majority to make your Exceeding Expansion a reality; God doesn't need everyone and everything - bosses, colleagues, clients, economy, etc - to support your progress before it can materialize. God is not dependent on majority.

Jesus told the two disciples whom He sent that if any man queries them, they should say that the Lord has need of the colt. So the minority that went on an assignment were to use the name of the Lord if any opposition arose. It didn’t matter that they were in a minority: their victory formula was ‘The Lord’.

When the majority is not on your side, remember, the Lord is on your side; and if Jehovah is on your side, the majority may oppose you but they can’t stop you. If you tag along with the Lord this year, you will demystify the majority that is not with you.

The name of the Lord is the antidote for every majority that is not in your favour. Your success is not by majority, it is by the name of the Lord.

Psalm 20 vs. 7 says: “Some trust in chariots, and some in horses: but we will remember the name of the LORD our God.”

Prayer ; Lord, my success is not at the mercy of the majority; it is a function of grace, in Jesus’ name!Amen
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 6:14am On Feb 28, 2016
DESTINY HELPERS

“1. ...he sendeth forth two of his disciples, 2. And saith unto them... ye shall find a colt tied, whereon never man sat; loose him, and bring him.”
(Mark 11: 1-2)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

When Jesus got set to release the colt from where it was, He sent two of His disciples to untie the colt. The colt was about to step into a new level, it was about to be celebrated, and Jesus sent two destiny helpers to help the colt. The colt could not untie itself, it didn’t know the way to Jerusalem, and Jesus sent two destiny helpers to help the colt.

Friend, God is aware of the things you can’t do for yourself, He knows the battles you can’t fight for yourself, He knows the limits you can’t break by yourself, He knows the things you can’t achieve by yourself, He knows what your strength and abilities can't accomplish, He knows the people you can't contact directly, He knows the successes you need but can’t make happen by yourself.

Today, God will send you destiny helpers that will do for you what you can't do for yourself. God will send you destiny helpers that will fight for you and open doors for you; He will send you men who will introduce you in high places and make your journey to success easier and faster; He will send you destiny helpers that will take you from where you are to where you should be.

God will send you destiny helpers that will take you to where you can’t go by yourself and give you what you can’t give yourself; He will send you destiny helpers that will help you when you haven’t even asked for help.

Isaiah 60 vs. 10 sums it up: “And the sons of strangers shall build up thy walls, and their kings shall minister unto thee: for in my wrath I smote thee, but in my favour have I had mercy on thee.”

Prayer : Lord, send me divine destiny helpers, in Jesus’ name!Amen

Receive Your Divine Destiny Helpers.
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 10:53pm On Feb 27, 2016
BEFORE YOU SLEEP:

God sees you. He knows where you've been, where you are, where you are going and how to get there.

You've heard this before, but its worth repeating- TRUST HIM!

He will turn things around real soon in your favour. Just watch out!
Religion / Re: How To Conquer Barrenness/ Poverty Spiritually & Physically by blessedbeads(f): 7:23am On Feb 20, 2016
PROFITABLE PARTNERSHIPS

“And they beckoned unto their partners, which were in the other ship, that they should come and help them. And they came, and filled both the ships...”
(Luke 5: 7)

That is the Focal Scripture of Streams of Joy Devotional today.

When Peter got his net breaking miracle, he invited his partners who turned out to be James and John. Though James and John had a ship that Jesus didn’t use, they were connected to the person whose ship was being used by Jesus. They didn’t enjoy same attention as Peter, but they were still partners.

When Peter's net was filled, the first beneficiaries were his partners. What began as a positive partnership brought positive benefits to James and John. They connected to a man who Jesus had blessed, and they became partakers of the blessing. They had a strategic connection that brought them benefits.

Friend, God will give you strategic connections that will bring benefits. God will bring you men whose blessings will flow into your life. God will cause you to enjoy the overflow of people you are connected to; God will open the doors of your life to strategic relationships that will be beneficial and profitable to you. God will bring you partners that will be a huge blessing to your life.

When you see men who are blessed, connect to them and you will enjoy God's blessings through them. The fact that someone around you is blessed should not be an occasion for hate and envy. The fact that someone around you got blessed before you does not mean that your own blessing is not on the way.

James and John were both blessed because of the right partnership they built with Peter. The right partnerships will bless you, but wrong partnerships will take your destiny down the drains.

Hebrews 10 vs. 24 says: “And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:”

Prayer : Lord, bring me strategic connections/partnerships that will bless me, in Jesus’ name!Amen

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