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Xscape1993:
This is a serious issue ooo. Sir, love grows and develops with time. Exercise some little patience sir.

It's been 2 years and counting yet the love isn't there, I'd have left a long time ago, but each time I intend leaving she always threaten me with suicide, now see where I've landed myself.

StPete:
Kindly go ahead with your plans. I feel your pains. It is better to end your marriage now that it is early than die of high blood pressure. More so, the fact that she’s always trying to kill herself should make you quickly end the marriage so she won’t make u end up in prison for something u didn’t do.

I wish you good luck. Please take your time to search for a better companion and NEVER marry out of pity or get betrayed by just tears or what not. A lot of women are manipulative

Thank you for your awesome words, you truly clearly understood what I'm going through, thank you, I really appreciate. Thank you.

saintopus:
I've been in marriage for more than 20 years, most of what you stated here can all be settled with 2 attitudes.

1. Patience

2. Forgiveness

You see, no marriage on earth is without problems.

Let me ask you, assuming you got married to a chubby lady, do you think none of what you mentioned here would happen?

Or would you because of the lady's chubby nature and stay?

Lets say she was a virgin. Does that mean that she wouldn't have exhibited these attitudes?

Go back again and read those 2 words above. Then think again.

At least I'm 100% guaranteed that I'd be sexually attracted to the chubby lady and this might make the love that isn't there to pop up, but in this case, it's nearly impossible if not impossible for me to love her, I have tried on different several occasions but still the love isn't just there.

securitywatch50:
Hmmm, all this long epistle without substance and you call yourself a man.
What a shame in the name of marriage, why not allow someone's daughter to stay and meet someone that will love her for whom she is and not you that is frustrating her life for nothing with you.

I pray someone will also do same to your sister.

Seems you didn't read what I wrote, she clearly knew that I don't love her but yet used her tears and manipulation attempt to force me to marry her, when I'm not in anyway ready. Just because she got pregnant, so how's it my fault?

stainzvill:
Oga move on with your life but make sure u get involved in raising ur son the right way.

Yes I will always be there for him, I normally talk this words into his ear whenever I carries him. He's my everything.

Xscape1993:
You don't love her at all? What and what do you want from her? She persuaded you and you married her? Well, you have the final say sir.

No sir, the love isn't there... Not even 1% of it, sexual attraction is zero.

Good afternoon Nairalanders,

Please read to the end, It'd be quite an episode.

My marriage of 6 months has almost finally come to an end.

On my previous thread I have posted a lot about trouble we've been having during and after the marriage.

- How she manipulated me with her tears into marrying her despite the fact that I wasn't in anyway ready.

- How she manipulated me with her tears, and refused my pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony, therfore giving way for her pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony. And called me all sorts of names while crying when I refused and insisted that my pastor will be the one to do it.

Plus other's that I cannot even remember.




Now back to the topic, I will be extremely sincere to you all, I won't add anything and will not remove any. Everything started two day's ago, I was lying on the bed and she came to me crying and begging for me to love her that she's tired of begging for my love all the time, that I should give her just 1% of the love that I've for our son. Just 1% is all that she asked for, I didn't answer her, but later told her that I've tried in the past and still trying but the love isn't there naturally that maybe it's because she forced me into marriage when I'm not in anyway ready that in my wildest dream I never believed that I'd be a married man this year. Then she started crying heavily, went to look for rope and started strangling her neck that she will kill herself that there's no life for her to live, I rescued her. Then, I went to bath and before I came back she has locked the room door, I was hearing endless cough outside the door and pleaded with her to open the door but no response. Thank God the door key is somewhat faulty, I managed to open the door and saw that her eyes are already extremely red and spit drooping out of her mouth, the rope was so very extremely tight to her neck. "I'm still wondering until date how she managed to hold on tight and not let go despite the great pain she was in" next she went tho get knife that she'd stab herself. I was late for work and with the anger inside of me, I walked out of the house, she called me on video call immediately and showed me that this is the end that I should take care of out baby, I immediately ended the call, put my two phones on flight mode until I few hours later.

Immediately I on my phone my mom called me, she has reported a lot to my mom, my mom talked to me and when the heat was too much I walked out of her.

After that day, which is a day before yesterday, she totally changed, she no longer respect me, she talks to me anyhow, she insult me and talk back at me. These are things she does when I newly met her until she totally changed, now she has turned to something else, she bought a school form without even informing me. Two weeks ago she brought one of her friend to stay with us without informing me, when I confronted her she said she forgot.

Today she told me that I'm treating her bad and expect her not to revolt and continue keeping quiet, that this is the end road for me. I guessing that she got this advice from a friend, because she told her friend that she met at antinental everything that has been going on and she gave her some advice.


Today a huge quarrel broke out today which I'm clearly the cause, we were watching a Nigerian movie and I saw a chubby girl and complimented her that she's sweet that this is the kind of body I like that I'm going to search for her on Instagram just to see more of her. I said all this because I've been singing in her ears that I love dark skinned or chocolate women that are extremely chubby or fat. She also don't always fail to tell me that she's on weight reduction therapy "I'm always pained whenever I hear this words from her because she's not in anyway fat, she's fair too and rubbing cream to make her fair more, all these is paining me, she knew what I want but always doing the opposite. I can't resist a chubby girl, but coming home to see her how slim she's always makes me so heartbroken and weak.

The quarrel led to insult, we started insulting each other. She told me to shut up, that I'm an idiot bastard, a fool at 30, mumu, Goat etc.

And I insulted her as well, I'm pained by her insult because as she's supposed to give me some respect.


During the heat of the quarrel while we were still dating, I reminded her how she cheated on me by going to sleep with a stranger In a hotel until dawn, and denied that nothing happened, that the man didn't touch her.

I got to know all this when I she was sleeping and I used her finger print to open her phone and saw her chat between her and her room mate In school, she was still a student then.

"her friend asked her not to go, but she refused and went, on the chat she made mentioned that she didn't shaved that she'd be ashamed if the guy want to have sex with her.

When I saw her chat she blamed me, that I didn't gave her attention on that particular day. This is a woman whom I'm always chatting with all the time, except that particular day that I was extremely busy and told her that I'd be busy but when I'm less busy we'll chat. She said I told her that I was busy but I was online on whatsapp that she sent me messages but I never opened them, that her emotions got the best part of her.

I also reminded her of how she chatted a guy that was always disturbing her. She told the guy that she's ready to date him that he should go and rent house so that she would be coming to sleep there. What made her to write the guy? We had a quarrel, her friend that our last born was far older than, insulted me and instead of her to scold her friend she joined her friend and starter insulting me that I was the one at fault. Note : we were still dating back then when all this happened, today's argument made me to remind her.

I also reminded her of her chat with her friend when she told her friend that I'm a broke guy she's just managing.

But she said she was naive then that things have changed now which I can't deny. I then told her that I will call a family meeting and state all these that sha did during the past, I won't have done it but all her 4 sisters excluding her mom and one of her sister, think I met her a virgin, the remaining 4 of her sisters think I met her a virgin, so I want them to know that I didn't met her a virgin that she has already dis virgined when I met her.


Now back to the deal breaker, she said everything on my body is small including my penis, that whenever she's holding my penis when not erect, God forbid that it looks like a baby's penis. That God forbid our son having such a small penis.

Then I told her that her vagina is very wild that I don't feel anything when having sex with her, that all the prostitutes and my ex that I've slept with are far tighter and sweeter than her that she's has the worst and bitter vagina I've ever tasted in all my life and day to day existence.

Then she kept on hitting about my small penis that my penis is small and that's why I haven't felt anything. Then I told her how many girl's that have cummed during sex, even prostitutes. "Note, I'm not lying, this is 100% true" Then she said I'm lying, that my penis only long but it's small bla bla bla.

Few minutes later, I dressed up and went to church, while going she again called me a Goat, a fool and a Dog.


The decision I intend taking, I intend doing out child's dedication next week Sunday, so in order for anything not to connect us ever again after I've gotten back my bride price.

I have blocked her both numbers on whatsapp and Facebook, and on calls although she doesn't know yet. "note : this is the very first time that I'm blocking her, ever since when we started dating, no matter the quarrel and provocation, I haven't ever done this ever before.

Nothing and absolutely nothing will make this marriage work ever again, I intend calling a family meeting immediately after the dedication to state my mind that the marriage has ended and she should leave.

To me, this marriage ended a long time ago right from the very first day she manipulated me with her suicide attempt and endless tears and calling me wicked, heartless. In which I couldn't bear and I agreed to marry her despite the fact that I wasn't ready, the love wasn't there and above all I wasn't sexually attracted to her. I wasted 4 million plus in getting married to her February this year, and I have accepted my fate. I will do the dedication and call the family meeting to make my stance known.

Thank you all for reading, although I've already made a decision but I'd appreciate your contributions and what you think about all that happened.

Interesting

Bliztzer:
Ask her whether na her pastor pay the hospital bill, whether she is married to pastor and whether the child belong to the pastor?

As me o, na no no. If she can't give a enough reason why her pastor must be the one to name my child. Na no. No dey say yes, yes to everything wey woman demand.

Whenever I throw up the question about the hospital bills and even the things that I bought for the naming ceremony, her answer is always the same "always saying that if the money I spend is greater than the pain she went through to birth our child, that she did a huge sacrifice for me and I'm ungrateful.

GboyegaD:
Don't let social media break your home ooo. There is need to apply wisdom in handling issues as this. You both failed not to reach conclusions while dating and you just need apply wisdom in handling this.

That said, why did you not ask your name be imprinted on the receipt when you made payment? DO NOT blame her for your insufficiencies abeg. On the change of name, what was discussed during courtship? Like they say, yours is a typical example of if love is blind, marriage is an eye opener.

My advice will be bring up the things you feel you want corrected and handle it with care. Gra gra wouldn't solve it and as much as you can, do not bring up the sister changing her name to the baby daddy's name as that is disrespectful and not your business in any way. Deal with your own family in the ways that is best understood by you and your wife.

We didn't discussed anything regarding name change during courtship, If I told her to change her name today, she'd do it. But she's supposed to know that I don't need to remind her and change it already, that's my pain.

GboyegaD:
Either find a neutral pastor for the sake of peace or do it by yourself. This shouldn't create any trouble in the home whatsoever.

Oga, on the authority part, rest ooo. There are ways to own the authority of the home than letting issues such as this get to you. You chose to be manipulated and this is not a case of challenging your authority. One question is what were you guys discussing during courtship?

You both have some growing up to do on the bolded. Why is your family dictating things in your home? This is a good time to settle the church thing otherwise, you should expect so much of unnecessary tantrums. My suggestion would be to move to a neutral church as it is obvious a logical conclusion wasn't reached before marriage.

My family are not dictating things in our home, I have insisted that my pastor must officiate the naming, but when my family heard that she said it's her pastor that must do it, they joined me in insisting that it must be done by our pastor.

Oche211:
You see, the issue is that you didn't properly vet her before marrying her.

If you did, you would have seen so many redflags. If you aren't sexually attracted to her so much, why then did you fall for her tears to marry her.

You see this naming ceremony thing now? It's the perfect opportunity for you to stamp your authority.

Sometimes, you don't have to wait for women to make some decisions, you make it for them. Understand that women are not capable of making sound, logic decisions without proper guidance.

You never lead your wife during courtship, you are not leading her now.

My woman can't even use tears to manipulate me, cos my No will still be my No and my yes will still be my yes. If you like cry an ocean of tears.

So since she know this, crying or manipulation is out of it. I am surprised at this your predicament.

If only you know the daily cry, you would understand why I bowed to the pressure of getting married to her, which I'm still regretting until date everytime I think that I'm married to someone that I don't love, and worst still not sexually attracted to, it hurts me a lot everytime I think about it, our marriage is just 4 months and I have already started regretting everytime I think that I'm married and I don't have 1% love for who I'm married to, it would still be good if I'm sexually attracted to her, but I'm not. I'm so deeply hurt.

SKhanmi:
Guy man, no be to dey talk online say you go do am. Make sure you do exactly what oche listed. Else na die you dey so. And learn to stamp your feet down abi no be you dey pay the bills. Face your own family and hers if necessary. Else you'll be used and dumped later in the future.

I'm the one paying the bills of course, yesterday I was angry and told her to buy all the maltina and meat pie then she can call her pastor to officiate the naming. She went silent and started calling me wicked, and heartless. I spent almost 400k on her CS spent 73k on the naming but it's time to make a decision and she want to make it.

During our marriage, her mother refused to appear in the church because I said I won't do court marriage, I saw it on my wife chat with her elder sister, she said her mom said she won't come because I'm thinking rubbish by not doing court marriage. And truly she didn't come.

Oche211:
You still want her to have her way this last time. You are not ready for anything.

If it's me, I will simply tell her I have changed my mind. Let her tell her pastor not to come. That you have made arrangements with your own pastor.
No matter how she disagrees, don't back down. Also, call her father and explain to him and tell him to call both his daughter and their pastor to order.

Tell him your wife has become unreasonable and for all she's done, you aren't comfortable with their pastor coming for the naming.

This is a test to know the family you married into.
Just call her father and tell him to talk to his daughter. In all your discussion with him, insist on not seeing the said pastor in your house on that day.

Again, if it's possible, make sure you take your family far from the church. That's if you can't be firm with this decision

Her mom already left their father when they were still young, she was brought up by a single mom.

Last year someone told me that while they were still married her mom was bringing small boys into their matrimonial bed to sex, on the day of our traditional marriage, one mama that lives close to where I lives called me to the corner and said she has a lot to tell me, after the traditional marriage I went to see her and she told me that my wife elder sister is doing runs which I I'm very much aware of, because she came to visit me one day, her and my wife that was when she was still my girlfriend, and she was boosting that no boy will and can ever Bleep her for free. Even her post on whatsapp status is all about sex and Bleep, smoke etc.

She told me also that her mom was once bringing young boys into their house while still married that she lived close to her before.

I didn't noticed any of this trait on my wife, "then girlfriend" and I haven't still noticed despite monitoring and cloning her WhatsApp.

Namaster:
My dude, you STARTED your marriage with a big bang of premium fuuuck up!

This woman has ZERO regard for you. She DOES NOT respect or love you. Probably doesn't even like you. You are just an expense account to this woman.

Any woman who has a MODICUM of respect for her husband would be EAGER to take his name. A couple of weeks ago, we all read about how Diezani Allison-Madueke's ex-husband, Allison Amaechina Madueke, took her to court just to get to STOP using his name after divorce.

That woman served as a Minister under 2 different Presidents before she became the first female President of OPEC. Yet she took NOT one but TWO of her husbands name.

But your wife (probably a stay-at-home wife) REFUSED to take your name and you still went along with the wedding.

You started on the WRONG track.

FIRST thing you need to do now is get a DNA test for that boy to confirm it's yours. Because the series of disrespect and disregard your wife has displayed towards you makes it highly UNLIKELY that she'd let you get her pregnant.

Ypu already spent #400K on the kid so find money for the DNA test. And do it ASAP before you sink in MORE money into raising her pastor's kid.

Meantime, put a STOP to every manipulation. Don't let her dictate ANYTHING or manipulate her way through anything. Even with tears, don't give in!

Worst of it all I have already started hearing storing flying around that she's controlling me, all because I gave in for her to allow her pastor officiate the wedding.

I refused and she told me that my mom is controlling me, even though my mom has absolutely nothing to do for me wanting our pastor to do the naming. I, my mom and all my siblings are attending same church, so that's the manipulating word she used for me and I agreed for her pastor to officiate it, I agreed because if another ear should hear such word, It'd spread out and people might believe it's true.

As for she answering my surname, I have already promised myself not to confront her about it, because I expect her to do that immediately after our marriage. But until this very moment she's still answering her father's name.

Oche211:
What am I just reading?

You really started off on the wrong note. That lady doesn't have any regards for you.

I don't want to be an agent of doom but if you don't do something quickly, this marriage is headed for the rock.

You are not in charge of your home. Tell her to either sit up or go back to her father's house.

One, that pastor must never officiate the child naming ceremony
Two, make sure you do a DNA
Three, discreetly monitor your wife, also have a way of reading her chats. I suspect she will be deleting chats. So make sure you have an app that recover her deleted chats
Four, by all means she must not step her feet in that her own church again.
Five, tell her to either do a change of name now or be ready to go back to her father's house.
Be firm and decisive. She's manipulative. She will destroy you if you don't act fast to put her on the right track.

We had an argument few weeks ago and she was crying as usual, she was still pregnant then. I told her that she's always using her tears to manipulate me and she swore with the life of the fetus on her womb that she isn't, since then I thought maybe she doesn't know when the tears start flowing and might not be manipulating me, but with what I saw yesterday after the argument, that thought is no longer there, I now fully believe that she's manipulating me with tears at every slight arguments or quarrels.

Regarding her changing her name, this is one thing I have swore never and ever to tell her to do, even though it hurts me to my bone marrow most especially seeing her elder sister on Facebook answering her boyfriend name. I swear that it hurts me so much that she is still answering her father's name but I won't ever confront her about this, common sense is supposed to tell her that immediately after marriage she's supposed to change her surname to my own name, even if it's just her Facebook name for the now. But no, she didn't, she registered for antinental with her surname, and that's why the money I paid for her CS has her name and surname on the receipt.

Oche211:
Stamp you feet on the ground and let the worse happen.

If you can successfully have your way now without giving in to her manipulation, she will stop.

Let her call you a wicked man. Also make sure you do everything to stop her from going to that church. Make sure she comes to your own church.

If she doesn't want, let her and the marriage go.

You are playing with a time bomb. If my guess is right, your marriage is still too young.

This is why we always advice against marrying out of pity

This is what I intend doing, thanks for your advise, I will do as you advised as it's the absolutely best thing to do right now. Although I have already given in on letting her pastor officiate the naming because of her CS operation, for her cry not to affect her.

But after everything, she won't go to that church again and I swear to God that if she refused she will pack her load and go, after all the love isn't there and I'm not sexually attracted to her. Same tears she used in manipulating me in getting married to her is same tears she's still using in getting her way after every little misunderstanding. I will stop her from going to that church, I have had enough already.

Namaster:
REFUSE! And NEVER compromise!

Plus when the naming is finished and she's recuperated from the CS, ban your wife from setting foot in that church. Or having ANY contact with that pastor.

It's MADNESS to be weeping over the fact that you want YOUR child to be named in your church and by your pastor.

Also the fact that she's BLOWING UP on you and GUILT-TRIPPING you over it is HIGHLY suspicious.

She either has an AMOROUS relationship with the pastor or he has BRAINWASHED her. Either way, letting her stay in the church is STUPID.

Also, you already bleeped up by letting your wife go to a different church in the first place. Church is a fertile ground for illicit romance, outright fornication and UNBRIDLED adultery.

You bleeped up BIG time. And you're dealing with the aftermath NOW.

Unless you do what I suggest, be ready for MORE variations of the same arguments. Because as time goes on, she'll take the kid to her church because she's nursing. When he becomes a toddler, she'll tell you he stills his mum to look after him.

Finally when he starts being MORE aware, she'll corner you and tell you that you just CAN'T take him to a different chuch since he's gotten used to hers.

If you yield TODAY, you will not only LOSE your wife to a strange man but your son too.

Stop that NONSENSE now!

It seems I have been too easy and quiet on her, I will do as you say and ban her from going to that church and if she refused, she should pack her load and go back to her parents house, I have really condole enough of her rubbish and tears at any slight arguments.

I paid 396k for her cs operation, and no where my name or surname appeared on the receipt that was given to me, it's her name and her father's name that was on it. This is because after marriage she has not changed her surname to my name, this hurt me a lot because her elder sister that is just a baby mama to her boyfriend has already changed her Facebook sur name to her boyfriend surname. Whereas my wife is still answering her father's name, I have told myself that if she can't think and do this willingly, I will never and ever confront her concerning this.

I have been allowing her to do whatever she want but this, she has over stepped her boundaries, seems I have been too easy on her.

Namaster:
First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony?

Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times.

Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage.

A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that?

NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault.

Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is.

STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child.

Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe, she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself.

Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his.

Thanks for your input, what I actually meant is that she insist on her pastor officiating the naming ceremony. Which she's always crying endlessly whenever we start arguing about It.

FreeStuffsNG:
Naming is one part, another part is the name that will eventually be on its birth certificate. You will be the one to decide that one so chill for now. Collect names from everyone but if I were you, in this situation, I will settle for the name any of the two grandfathers submit for the naming ceremony

We both have agreed on the name, she suggested it and i agreed, though it pains me that I wasn't the one that came up with the name fully, but we've already agreed and changing my mind right now will lead to an heavy quarrel and lot's of endless crying from her. That I'm wicked and heartless that after we've both agreed, I changed things.

vanvickie:
Continue giving room for manipulations...

Someday the pastor will also be the one to determine something more than just the name of your child... BTW.. Ain't both of u supposed to be attending the same Church? Smh.

That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.

Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.


This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,

she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.

But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.

I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.

I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.

Finale is today

Why so early??

sureteeboy:
Seems the battery is getting weaker at an exponential rate, and I'm suspecting the fan may be responsible for this.
What is the make and model of your fan?

The battery that came with my fan is trash, it no longer lasts more than 2 to 3 hours after fully charged..... Where as the battery I bought is still so strong like the day I bought it.

The name of my fan is Qasa, it's an 18 inch fan

sureteeboy:
I bought the mercury battery as you suggested, but I haven't really tested it much because our light has been a bit stable these days.
I'll surely drop a feedback one of these days

OK that would be great, I would greatly loved to hear ur review about the mercury battery.

sureteeboy:
Thanks. That means you'll have to keep changing the terminal connections from the small battery to the big battery every now and then.

Yes that's it, but it only applies only when there is no light for up to 24 hours, by then the small battery must have run down. So I'm left with no choice than to use the big battery.

Folahanmi19:
Wow, that's impressive, can i have your whatsapp number pls, i got some questions boss

Okay, i will send u.

mosak:
Pls, what the name of the battery?

That's the battery, I don't even know if that's the name but all the same

I have ordered for the mercury battery, it's been 9 day's now and jumia is yet to deliver it to me. I would advise u to get that one, seems it's a very powerful battery. I would have dropped reviews if jumia has delivered to me at the expected delivery date, at least I would have tested it.

sureteeboy:
Thanks.
2½ hours isn't bad to charge the battery.
I'll get the 6A charger because of price.
When charging, do you always disconnect the wire you connected to the battery terminal wires coming from the fan first or you leave it like that.

I use the fan charging to charge my small battery that came with the fan, while I use the charger I bought to charge the big battery I bought, but sometimes I uses the charger I bought to charge the small battery for faster charging

Pic 2 is the fan and it's small battery, while pic 1 is the big battery and the 6A charger

sureteeboy:
Good Evening
How long does it take to charge the battery with the battery charger?

It takes 2 hours 33 minutes to charge the battery from 0 - 100%

These charges has different Amps, starting from 1Amps, the higher the Amps the more faster it will charge ur battery. My charger is 6Amps

My friend charger is 10A and he normally charges his battery to full in under one hour.

Folahanmi19:
Sir how was it... Give us testimony o

I didn't actually bought the original mercury battery, I bought another product. After changing it to full charge and leaving it for some reason hours, It lasted me 23 hours 16 minutes slightly medium speed. I haven't tested the highest speed yet. The battery is really good.

oluwaseyi0:
95% percent of those names don't look like typical northerners name, they look English-like or Christian names

Don't you know that 99.9% of Southern kaduna are Christians?