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dirtydiva:
If not what will push man to knack anything under skirt if not Konji eeh? I believe him eye don clear now beating don bcom hs daily bread

did you read that he has been sleeping with her since she was 13 now she is 15?, did you also read that the man had a wife he sent away just so he could continue sleeping with his sister? ,all this blame shitting for rapist is nauseating .

This time you cant blame it on what the girl is wearing , it has to be konji and not because he is simply an evil pervert.A mindset like yours is very terrible to carry around.

dirtydiva:
Konji oooo...... See how ds dude brain was reset into bleeping his sister eeh... Me wey dey see my sister and cousin Sis nude but never shake body na im ds fool see him Sis as his wife.
Konji you're bastard

wait, you are still blaming it in konji? ,smh

AnanseK:
You can see one of the evil ones responding with insults, this is their heritage.

shhhhhh, the evil ones are the ones blowing people up for senseless reasons, the evil ones are the ones killing our soldiers daily, the evil ones are the ones beheading people all in the name of allah,channel your energy to the right direction ,the evil is within you my friend.

I clicked the oath to prove to your kind and the owner of this forum that some stupid oath doesn't scare me .

AnanseK:
Because Muslims are polite and do not insult Jesus or the Bible but the non Muslims on NL do not share that civility and respect for others.

you mean polite suicide bombers and dagger wielders? Lol

The real reason is because the owner of this forum knows how intolerant you people are, before you manufacture e-beheading missile amd e-dagger for commenters , . Any small comment now una fit start riot for kano just the same way you lots did over a carton drawn in another country.

I am waiting for when we will find the oldest shrine.

If you had said you want to take a course ,training ,or read a book or do a start up or help the poor or assist the down trodden then i will understand, so what value did the ear piercing add to your life to make you a better person?

We need to choose our battles wisely.so at the judgment table ,you will have a solid defense.

pesinfada:
wait let me undstand you.


I thought u said,u can never be angry?
Dat anger is 4fork from disfyntinl family right

go back and read the scenario i replied to . you are misquoting me. I am done with this back and forth .

pesinfada:
u are wrong Mr


Anger is one of d characteristics of living thing.....that u don't get angry is also a form of weakness

so when someone shows you care and affection as a human being, the best response to you is anger? Did you read her comment ? If you did and this is the best comment you can come up with ,i suggest you take time out to do introspection.

Anger and being upset are different and you seem to confuse the two. When the only response you can have to affection is anger ,then you should seek help. That is not healthy living.

pesinfada:
everybody gets angry and we all have different way we respond to anger.



Stop saying wat u saw in abook

book? Lol human behavior is all black and white if you pay attention. Anger is a symptom not a cause, if you dig deep you will find that the root cause if not far from what i said.

Let me ask you this,why will a person be angry when they are being shown care and affection in the first place? does that sound normal to you?

Iziquiel:
You should delete this quote, it betrays everything love stands for.

enough of all the squishing and smothering. I said this is what i will advice my sister who i care about their welfare from a logical point of view. Too many people are too sensitive to want to hear the truth. Couples claim to be inlove all the time, yet when the challenges come, they fail. Preparing for worse case scenarios will arm you for a better reaction .Bf and gf is different from marriage, its cool now that they are not together and see finish has no entered. What happens when marriage storms blows and his seasonal depression shows up and she is too distracted to notice.

Its a nice gesture,but putting the burden on another person to make you feel better without tackling the problem or seeking help is too much of a great burden to assign to your significant other.

niaralandtopuser:
depression is not a permanent ailment

it is not permanent,but when he said "seasonal depression ,that sounds like what will be around for a long time.

sonnie10:
Life is not clear cut as you believe. What happens tomorrow, that perfect man or woman you married become e depressed. You move to another perfect one in line?
Depression is a disease and is curable. When people are sick, they depend on others for help and support, that is being human. Even, most animals do not abandon their sick ones, how much more humans.
People should not be written off just because they are sick. No one is immune to sickness be it mental health. Lost of job, lost if loved one, set backs in life endeavors could lead to unexpected consequences.
Love is what makes us human.

ofcourse which is why we must prepare for worse case scenarios which is what i did. Sometimes reality can be painful and life is not fair ,but that is Just how the world is.

Inteltower:
in your own foolish twisted reasoning (not wisdom) the lady or anyone else shouldn't be in such a relationship because the other has depression.
how about someone else crippled, mentally unstable or blind. no they don't need to be in a relationship abi.

what really is to you the definition of love ?
do you even know what love conquers all mean?
isn't a relationship about two imperfects complimenting each other to be perfect, each to his/her own ability.

stop with your negative skepticism

How you stupidly compared a sickness of the mind with being crippled and blind . So you will marry a mentally unstable person ? Lol love conquers all indeed , i am sure you are not married, too much disney,obviously you are still doing bf and gf.

You see why children like you end up in a dead end,you refuse to face life sqaurely. You want what it is supposed to be and not what it is. Lol. Go and marry first and while you are at it, seek out a mentally unstable person to settle down with .lol

[quote author=Tunagee post=80394471]There is a common thing about humans, when you appear to be needy they become moee difficult to get through to. Stop begging, you have done enough.

Your mother inlaw left you a subtle solution, get something doing, go and look for work,have a source of income .

Secondly she said you should give her time, them give her time,there are some things you just cant fight, right now you are the common equation between her and her mother, remove yourself from the emotion and see how long before friction sets in between them.

If you have kids, call her and tell her you want to speak with the kids, speak with them and tell them to greet mummy and end your call,you only want to hear from the kids not her.
She needs to see those who truly want her progress and those who don't. And for now you trying to convince her that her mom doesn't want her good will meet stiff resistance.Take care of your kids by proxy and leave her alone, letting your kids know you still care should be your main goal.

And lastly work on your mouth, there are more civilized ways to pass a message across without being abusive. Oga forget say we dey curse ourselves for nairaland, don't take that attitude to your significant other o.

missCAPS:
Tried sending inspirational messages to someone I was dating and he was depressed at a time and he ended up insulting me... No be say we no sabi spontaneous sh*t, some men are just mean.

lol. Some people are alien to affection cos they never had one . most of them had dysfunctional families, grew up with aggression around them. So you cant really blame them. Lol

magicminister:
How come i'm never this lucky with the fucccking bitches in my life.
I've been searching for a real woman but all i get are hungry girls every single time. God epp me ooh!!

check yourself, you might be the one that brought ant infested firewood into the house that is now attracting lizards. Also i have heard people say "you are what you attract".

NiRfreak:
Love is sweet until you start staying together as couple. That time, what we call 'see finish' and serial test will set in, and the thread of patience stretched beyond modulus into exhaustion.
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Thén you'll crave and wonder what has happened to the sweet love you once shared in the days of yore. You will look back and just want to start all over again.
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Unfortunately, starting all over will have to involve another person. So and so the cycle goes un-end. The mirage of love.

you have said wise words, i see all this small children comment and i laugh. They seem not to what life is ,they still want Disney fairy tales . lol.

Personally, the lady did well but if i were her brother ,i will not advice her to marry him. What happens in the marriage when the kids come in and she does not have the time to attend to his "seasonal depression "?. How many more seasons does she have to deal with his on and off depression? Too much responsibility to take for another person's life if you ask me.

kennyblack94:
Young man Religion doesn’t win war
The Jews were defeated by Hitler a Christian,The Japanese defeated Chinese who are confucianists.
Muslim defeated Christianity in Turkey..why didn’t this people abandon their religion? Because no great civilization have ever succeeded without spiritual backbone indigenous to them..
Religion doesn’t win rather technology and military tactics...

you are contradicting yourself boy. The Christians in turkey are now Muslims ,which means they abandoned their former religion. And you when say indigenous,are you trying to say Islam or Christianity is indigenous to turkey?.

Also i want to know what makes you think only when a religion is indigenous ,that is it when they will succeed,because before the invasion of white people ,the so called indigenous religion believed in killing twins because they were evil,buried seven humans with their king and other barbaric practices ,so tell me boy, is this how your ancestors were thinking of building civilization?The things we call culture and tradition was born out of the thought process of few individuals and some of those ideas turned out to be skewed and barbaric because of our mindset.


The earlier you realize that the problem with Africans in general is not the religion but the mind set and orientation the better for you.The average mindset of the Nigerian is set in taking ,taking even if it spoils,even if others dont get, but other innovative countries put inventions out there to solve human problems before thinking about the money.

But your own religion could not save you either from the white slave masters after all the goats ,chickens and even human sacrifice (in some tribes) you did before the white slave masters came with their own.

All those otumokpor did not protect your ancestors from gun powder . In the end science and technology is the real winner over all.

adanny01:
Destroying ones own property is completely legal.

Its it illegal to bring a bulldozer to demolish my own property.

Did you read the assault part? Or you ran with the headline like you people always do?

NkemChukwudi:
I rest my case. One abusive idiotic nairalander believes otherwise. BStard child of many unknown men blindjustice13

lol, so different sperm now mix to form one foetus? Lol ,you are such a dimwit ,no common sense in that bigoted brain of yours. Even if you want to insult be smart about it, even science will be shocked at the bolded ,lol

NkemChukwudi:
Wonder what one useless oloriburuku abusive bastard blindjustice13 would say about this.

you and the people here are hateful boys who grew up in dysfunctional homes ,so understand your i perception. My own wife is my pillar ,maybe your own mother or even wife or gf is a leech, so you see the world from the peep hole of your small miserable world. Lol.


My wife is my support system,infact my mother is one of the reasons i am where i am today cos she helped my dad build up the finance stability in the house. So you see why me and you are different because we both had different mentors ,your mother was a leech while mine was a financial goal getter. .

NkemChukwudi:
Your mumu papa! Anyofia from the yam legged criminal tribe!

hahahaha lol , you are sure an entertainer. , keep the mentions coming in.

NkemChukwudi:
Go ahead fatherless hopeless goon. I feel sorry for the mumu who you wifed! Anuofia!

lol, i dont have to cos i have better things to do with my time than troll an online inconsequential rat. By the way, for someone who has a father ,you seem to act like a street raised kid. You are too dysfunctional to have been raised in a loving environment. Also you are so dumb that you cant even impersonate on a faceless forum ,lol ode.

You are the one displaying signs of frustration here with your comments and activities on this forum, like which useful and fullfilled person has time to be hiding behind a moniker just to cause and incite hatred between two tribes. If you dont change your ways ,you will die of this frustration and hoplesssness that seems to ravage your life. Lol. Miserable scum.

NkemChukwudi:
Oloriburuku with his abusive smelly mouth everywhere!

wow two mentions ,your idiotic brain must not want to hear that truth. Work on your hate ,wherever it is coming from, Nigeria does have therapist,go see one .Your soul is dark and smells from hate,find peace bro and stop this your trolling, its a symptom of the miserable person you are in the inside.

Lol if i take out time to dig out your past comments, na you go run,lol

NkemChukwudi:
Your mama!

nah, my mother is a virtous woman who is enjoying the fruit of her labor ,i can't say the same for your mother judging by the type of hate filled son she raised. Not only do you hate women who are a reflection of your mother ,you are tribalistic too ,that you will pretend to be ibo just to perpertrate hate . what a miserable soul you must be.smh

safarigirl:
This is the kind of nonsense Nairaland mods like to push to front page.

Sensational and unverified news

It has been established hours ago, that he did not snub Rohr, even Pinnick said it, that the video was misinterpreted. He went to hug him and even discuss later on, there is no bad blood between them.

When Nairaland sends such trash news to Front Page, filled with half truths, it makes this site look like a dump site. You would think such a website will be bothered about their image

the worse part is they never remove it after. I don't know if this forum doesn't have a "remove from front page" botton or seun and his mods don't care.

NkemChukwudi:
It must have happened to your mother, sister or someone close to you. You are worse than an idiot. Surely a raw nerve has been touched. No Nigerian man will eject a woman who contributed to his advancement even when they move on to the next woman.

You have an abusive personality because you have no respect for yourself.

on the contrary, i have respect for women in my life and myself.But you and your minions take every single opportunity to throw jabs at Nigerian women transferring the hatred you have for your mothers to every other women out there.

That you are still sticking the same delusional statement shows how idiotic you are ,go out ,leave the corner of your face me i face room ,maybe then you will see more realistic cases ,not this your nollywood tale you keep reciting like a brainwashed imbec1le

adanny01:
They may not be his. Even if they are his and decided they will not have their mother move out, i believe the father can throw all of them out with her if they made their choice to not stay with him.

The possibility is endless so lets drop it.

mr possibility ,has it crossed your mind that there is a more legal way to go about it than this madness?

NkemChukwudi:
Haba! This is too much na. Is the woman your sister? What exactly did I say to you to warrant this vernom?

Let me emphasis something called natural justice. When a woman truly and very clearly contribute to the advancement of her husband, that husband will NEVER, I repeat NEVER ask the woman to leave his house in this manner. And if out of madness, or pussy whipping by another woman, he asked such a wife to leave his house, he will sooner or later realise the big mistake and will go begging that woman to return to the same house.

To find a woman to CONTRIBUTE to a man's life in Nigeria of today is a very difficult prospect.

With all due respect, you are an idiot.

And you an ignorant fool. Go and ask how the west operates when it comes to marriage ode. Just the same way your mother and sisters are leeches. That the women in your family are free loaders doesn't mean you should generalise. My wife and mother ,even my sister are the most supportive women i have seen . That you grew up with bad female mentors doesnt mean you come here and bad mouth every female out there.

And yes, this has been happening for years ,every Nigerian culture accepts women being thrown out by their husband.

The bolded shows you watch too much nollywood. Lol. Natural justice ke, lol stop being delusional ,most times they move on to the next woman instead of begging her to come back ,lol ,i am tempted to ask how old you are ,you sound like a millennial who has not seen much of life,that is probably why you have enough time on your hands to open an ibo moniker and troll with it. Issa ode