Singing** "love no be seresere oo...marriage no be beans ee"

Before you take any decision, think about what you have for him. You want him to be your everlasting companion abi?? U wanna marry him, think of it deeply. Are you ready to face the criticism you might likely to face wen you guys get married?? (I'm not trying to discourage you but I like it when people think beyond the present). I hope his love in your heart won't vanish after you guys are in(married) after about few years. My dear, give yourself enough time to think and make the right decision. Ask yourself questions and think deeply before you answer. May the Lord help you.

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Sometimes, you have another reason for loving him but you hide under the umbrella of "I feel true love for him" whereas, his possession of something made you stay. If you fall under this category, you should ask yourself " what if the thing is no more, will your love remain unchanging and undying for him??"

Lionbite:
then create your own topic and occupy the first space na

Bros, what's ur concern na??

Haaa

makydee:
I saw you viewing and I knew I had to take it

Weeked geh

Lalasticlala

makydee:
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she took my space already....isnur gud oo

OK, I'm so bored right now and I got thinking about funny and weird things some girls do(Not all girls are guilty).

1. When we cry, we would love someone to see it and offer a cuddle.
2. When we go on a 2-day trip, we usually pack over 7 outfits just in case we will hesitate about what to wear.
3. We don't like it when our hands are free, reason we carry our purse, books or something else.
4. After making love, we don't feel like sleeping, rather, we feel like talking and kissing.
5. We prefer it when you read our desires in our eyes. This is why communication between the two genders often get complicated.
6. We throw our phones into our big purse and then spasmodically look for it and can't find it when it rings.
7. We always carry around our big purse full of stuffs that we never use.
8. We arrange stuffs in the right places and forget where the right place was.
9. We always have nothing to wear even if our closet is overloaded with stuffs.

Drop yours guys. My fingers ache already.

lovelygurl:
Op forget the it makes you darker stuff. It doesn't. It's the sun that does. I'm fair and I use sheabutter at night. Oh boy the next day your skin will be super soft
To use it during the day I melt it and mix it with Aloe vera gel. You have to experiment to know how much of shea butter and how much of Aloe vera to use in order not to darken you. Mix it so no 'oily' film or residue will be on the face, in a way it will immediately sink in


See it like this it's not the oil that makes fried meat burn. It's the fire. The fire is the sun, shea butter is the oil and your body is the meat

If the meat your body sinks in you won't get darker. Of it doesn't you get darker cos the fire (sun) roasts you

You've spoken well

Sincere4u:

No offence meant dear cos i know you are Joking but it was quite disparaging to have placed Lilyqueen in that list. To be honest.

I don't understand your concern about who I place on my list

fayded:
u know..I wish most Nigerian girls can be like ds..career-oriented..smart..focused and understand d meaning of personal space..
buh no..most of em care bout taking them out,buy gifts,have sex(they basically do nufn,just scream),marriage,stay at home nd full house wth kids...
I need dt girl dt wld challenge me to be better,someone u can go to d deepest part of conversations wth nd they won't get lost..someone who understands sarcasm(Dts ma 2nd language),someone u can talk bout anyfn wth,versatile,inquisitive;with a keen observant eye...nd also..not so sensitive(I joke a lot)..nd also..pls be in d medical line(dt would be icing on d cake)
sighs..buh sadly,I haven't met one..still hoping sha

Good luck on ur hunt

Billwilson:
For one to b single is nt an easy task since my ex girl friend broke up with me i ve find it difficult to get a girlfriend. I can't stand d loneliness nd boredom of being single. Some time i feel ashamed when people around me tell me they ve never seen me with any girl. I ve been single for abt three years now to make every thing worse i can't stop calling my ex nd her response too won't help things. I m just too tired of being single nd it affecting my every day life.

Lemme dash u fine fine gews hia.....I hereby call on makydee, twaci, lilyqueen, refiner, laveda, estharfabian, lawlahdey

FuckYouToo:
Most Nigerian girls are very boring.

They want you to take them out to fancy places like the movies or a restaurant but they don't have what it takes to make such an outing worthwhile.

I for instance have had several encounters with foreign girls and i know how well our conversation goes.

An average Nigerian girl sees you and picks up interest in you but doesn't even know how to strike up a conversation.

I've had awkward moments where a girl winks at me and ofcourse i'm not even the type who takes such gestures serious because to me, such girls are simply up to no good.

There are areas of interest we all have and most times, it's pretty hard to find a girl who shares such interests.

Cars for example, i can't mention the number of times a girl would tell me she doesn't know anything about cars..

Like wtf!

Things you see and use everyday?

You don't even know the difference between a Toyota, Nissan and an Hyundai. You don't know the difference between a sedan, Salon car and an SUV/4WD.

So what exactly do they do with their brains?

Talk about fashion, i bet only a few girls can mention 5 top Italian brands like Gucci, Fendi, Prada, Giuseppe Zanotti e.t.c and these things are supposed to be their turf.

Talk about luxury brands, the Rolex Skydweller, Submariner and President, most of you girls know nada.

So how can i even connect with most of 'em....

It's so frustrating, i swear.

If you think being smart or intelligent revolves around those shii you wrote up there, then you're dumber than I thought and there's no difference between yourself and "those girls". You're narrow minded.

Benita27:
Lol.
I think she wants to be another Mary, impregnated by the holy spirit and still retained her virginity.

Lol

I'm sure Daddy Joseph always topped the pregnancy for Mummy Mary

It's a new year, so, maybe things would turn positive this time around? You're older, more mature and a bit wiser. Why not give your past love another chance?

To be honest, if you were wiser, you wouldn't even entertain the thoughts of getting back with your ex. Things might no longer get as interesting as they use to be. Believe me, one day, this nostalgic fleeting feeling will pass. Going back to an ex is a terrible idea and I believe you'll agree with me after going through the points I'll be listing.

You know that old cliché, "if at first you don't succeed, try try again". Well, relationships are not always fixable. Here we go:

1. You're not in love with your ex, you're just attached :So many times, our desire to take an ex back isn't because we are in love with them. In some cases, it's just lust that reels us back in. Sometimes, we don't realise what we have until we lose it, but that doesn't always mean we deserve to get it back.

Your ex became your ex for a reason. You guys broke up for a reason. Taking time to understand those reasons will make it clearer if you should entertain getting back with them. Stop getting caught up in what you think you want and focus on what you really need.

2. The trust you had has been destroyed: Trust is an important factor in a relationship. It's almost impossible to construct once the trust has been broken. You sure don't want to be in a relationship where you'll start having to worry about if your partner will turn, run or cheat on you again.

3. What you currently feel is not what you did feel or will feel when you're with an ex: Being distanced from someone we care about will cause us to miss the person. The truth is, you're bathing in a feeling of light obsession, a feeling often confused with love. We tend to create fantasies about someone we miss which are more often than not, nowhere close to the reality.
Spend time with your ex and you'll become disillusioned and revert back to not wanting to have anything to do with them. It's actually our minds playing tricks on us.

There are so many people out there: A saying goes thus; "there are thousands of fishes in the sea". The world may be getting smaller but the amount of people and potential lovers is increasing. In other words, there are people for you to fall in love with.

Stop catching unnecessary feelings with your ex and move on with your life. Don't give it any more thought.

It's natural to still love an ex, but just because you love them doesn't mean you were meant to be with them. You have to remember you guys broke up for a reason. Sometimes, letting each other go on with your lives and with someone else is for the best. I believe we have many soulmates but only one true significant twin.
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Probz:


I hope is not the local rice.

Bros.... u asked for a type of rice with quality, I suggested that u go for "special rice" and you're still asking if it's a local rice......it's a multi-international rice

Probz:
Abi na for Nigerians living in obodo oyibo?

I don't know oo....All I know is, it's a very good rice and it's sold here in Nigeria

Sometimes, you can't just stop them from coming to you. In my opinion, all you have to do is to say "no" just like you do to a man you're not interested in.

Probz:
Abeg, someone recommend me the best brands of rice to use for Nigerian rice recipes (esp. jellof rice), bikonu.

Special rice.....it's packed in a brown sac

TakeMeSerious:

Check your mail dear

Seen

'I'm smart and clever".... .....that part got me laffing

Ironically, you are....

TakeMeSerious:


I sent you a PM

I already lost access to my alternative email. Kindly email me via

MOSTEC:
Will you marry me ?

TakeMeSerious:




Like I said, I understand every bit of what you feel and nothing's wrong with you. You are unique.

Is there a way I can control my thoughts

TakeMeSerious:




Like I said, I understand every bit of what you feel and nothing's wrong with you. You are unique.

Now, you're making me feel......

TakeMeSerious:


Yeh yeh, I want to ask you. I don't know maybe you mentioned it in your posts or I missed it. Are you secretive?

Very very. I tend to keep things to myself, probably because I have no one who's there to listen.