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ejizzy:
Some things are better left unsaid"

Dubemkelly: There r some truths that r worth disclosing,u don't go about telling ur spouse virtually everything about u esp ur past buh be dt as it may,try keep it real n be truthful as u can

yes o.i fell a victim yesterday wen I had a quarrel wt my baby n he brought up my past.i've learnt my lesson

A lot of men act like they are doing a woman a favor by asking for her hand in marriage but let's think about this: She changes her name, changes her home, leaves her family, moves in with you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, bears children for you, pregnancy destroys her body, she gets fat, almost give up in the labour room due to the unexplainable pains of childbirth, even the kids she delivers bear your name. Till the day she dies, everything she does benefits you. So who is really doing who a favor? Dear Men appreciate your wife today because it is not easy to be a Woman. Being a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad so many women of today don't even know their value..

A Real and Good woman is priceless

[quote author=chefd'oeuvre]Hmmm.. Try tellin ya wyf hu spent gud moni on a particular dress,5hrs at d hairdresser's n 30mins in frnt of d mirror tryin 2 create purfektn dt d dress isn't dt cute,her hair is off n her mk up mks her luk lyk a painting board(evn doh its absolutly true)..u gona spend d nyt apologizin 2 ya bedrum door...[/quote] ;Dthis got me laffin. konji go kill u for outside d room

holyvirgin: Standing ovation....
Tah stay there and keep wasting time on a lazy dude who doesn't want to go out and hustle.

He is hardworking n trying hard to get a job. He'l get someday soon,no condition is permanent

Its possible.Currently my guy has no job,still searching n I dnt av d plan of leaving him despite other advances to me.

Your ex may be jealous of u n wanna break u two up for reasons known to him.If ur bf hasn't given u a reason to doubt his love for u, y doubt him?
ignore ur ex and ignore whatever he says as against ur bf.

[quote author=x-fire]It's better to have a masters than to gather certifications, especially as a petroleum engineer. Certifications are highly overrated.
Yea, internship counts. Package your 6 months experience well. Sometimes, what makes the difference is how well you are able to market yourself.
1st class and 2.1? With any, you will always have chances to prove yourself. Don't bother about differences. Even with a first class, you will still need to prove yourself.
Cheers[/quote]tnx

pls how can a lady calculate wen she s safe or unsafe.

madam cc mentioned signs of abuse.pls can u giv examples so the single ladies can learn from it.tnks.

for those wt big tummy,my sist hd cs few months back.after 4 days she puts hot water inside a rubber kinda bottle and puts it on d tommy n use wrapper to tie it to her tommy but not on d stitch.she does dat after she puts towel inside hot water,squeeze n gently use it to mop/press d tommy but she doesnt mop d stitch area.it worked for her cos after few weeks,d tommy was flat(like 70% improvement). after a month,she started some exercise lik tryin to touch her toes.it may av worked probably cos the tommy was still freshly operated.

lol .mumu #14

i do and it helps getting over it.some see it as weakness but to me, it means u av a heart

[quote author=to+by]I know my sheep and my sheep knows me. Thus said Jesus Himself[/quote]true talk.
funny pic.cnt jst help d lafta

1,2,3,7,8.also,making tithe a do or die affair.i pay mine bt dnt want somone harrasing or cursing me for it

are they not preaching same gospel? imagine how members can focus on d preacher in their church wen d other church is singing and playin instrument.
May God help us all.Amen

@carzola.aren't u d same dude who claimed to b a christian n was posting a story- story of a die hard cultist, on literature section. which one u belong.
anyway.life s a choice.u dnt belong to a religion doesn't mean u should condemn it.

is this not d same story i saw on facebook this evening.
If its true,its a lesson to everyone esp d ladies.people change.whom u think u know or once known may not be wat u think they are.

the meat flew out of her mouth sharply

philmimi1992: Confirming the incident, the neighbour identified as Mrs Mouka Felicia, said the hot piece of meat fell from the thieving housewifes mouth after she was slapped by her brother-in-law and she allegedly confessed. What did u expect after d hot slap?

thats wat the yorubas call igbati oloyi.

RuthBukola: My day is incomplete without coming to NL. Its has reli thought me good things, and i always catch fun in here...Welcome me dis is my 1st comment on NL.

you are highly welcome. We are happy to have you here.

houstonia: ONE THING I HAVE LEARNT FROM NAIRALAND IS HOW TO MAKE LOGICAL ARGUMENTS DESPITE THE ACUMEN FOR WHAT EVER THE TOPIC MAYBE

SECONDLY : ON NAIRALAND TRY NOT TO BE "I KNOW ALL" AS NL IS CHARACTERIZED BY FUkKING EXPERIENCED MEMBERS

misterh: NL has taught me not to jump into arguments aimlessly. And that not everyone will be on the same intellectual level with you.

bankyblue: *that some people just look out for ur error
*that youth like us re still religion fanatics
*that lovely friends re still out there
*above all, it has really improve my typing skills, writing skills

it has also taught me some bad things

phil5: Hmm,nl has shown me different categories of humans in nija

sammiboy007: Nairaland has taught me that even in a tense office environment looking at your PC screen 24/7 you can still crack your ribs reading nairalanders posts

Nevertheless, i love NL

proevan: @poster is is about the topic.

proevan: @poster is is about the topic.

i didn't get wat u are saying

'V been reading this thread and i must say u guys are doing a great job. thanks everyone. I'm an undergraduate(400l) studying petroleum engineering. i need advice on which course to study for my masters(drilling,production,reservoir, project mgt etc). i want to work in the petroleum industry.Also, wat advice can u give to me that will be valuable to me.

good one.Just be careful wen u allow him have his way esp if its 'ur honey pot'. Not all relationship ends in marriage, so dt u wont feel 'used'

This your babe hot oo

mayorall: Op please dont mind them, nairaland is filled with kids. More grease to your elbow.

I guess the way you woo a girl determines her behaviour in the relationship. Many guys woo girls with money, and the girl refused to fall in love with him but with their money, you make them feel you can meet every of their demands, what do you expect from a smart girl who fell in love with your money?.

I told my gf I was from a very poor home even before we started dating, she said how come I'm in uniosun, I said a philanthrophist in my area is paying my school fees. I didn't even know she can ever date me as I reduced everything about myself. She knew all was lies through a cousin who told her everything. Not that money isn't involved as its needed to keep the relationship running, we help each other financially, she borrows me money, she had only borrowed 22k from me before which was last two weeks, she threw 37k back into my account last week which I dont know how to return her 15k back to her since we haven't seeing this week. Nairalanders please stop talking about girls and money on every threads.

good one.there are still ladies who are not money conscious like others, though few bt they exist.

This issue is not applied only to gals. people(male n female) hide their age 4 different reasons.it can be to avoid insults frm pple who respect them before only to discover they are older or agemate or people relating wt dem as if they are 'old' wen they actually dont want it etc.

ther are women who r not lik dat.u haven't met any doesn't they don't exist.

Exactly. good one op. u'l get wat u give out n attract d kinda person u are(90%). if u want a good gal, be a good guy

try improve on ur character, be a good woman and pray against any negative spiritual stigma.

for me it depends on d occassion.if i'v been away for a long tym, he cheats n tells me.i'l forgiv n forgt bt if i'm around n he cheats. well i'l forgive him ( not necessarily forget)if i love him bt i'l b more financially independent than before( if we'r married wt kids) or watch him closely if he has truly repented( if we'r still dating). he will go for tests just to b ensure he s still safe.