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blasted12:
One Nigeria is a fact wether you like it or not

One Nigeria does not exist .and that's a fact

post=90260971:
The hijab-wearing Barakat Bello was allegedly murdered while she was struggling to resist rape.


All rapists should be sentenced to DEATH....after adequate and thorough investigation.

There should be no 2 ways about it.

This will deter some dogs from raping our girls....

The girl in Jigawa that experienced rape at the hands of 11 men on different occasions; did not do anything wrong. She did not dress in a revealing manner. In fact, she is just a 12-year-old girl. To those people looking for a reason to blame the victim, sorry, she did nothing wrong.

Furthermore, the gruesome rape and murder of Uwaila Omozuwa in a church shows that no place is indeed safe. No one can blame her for being at the wrong place. No one can blame for going to ‘his’ place at night. She was reading in a church. A place of refuge, a place she felt most secured. However, she underestimated the fact that a beast was lurking around. So sad.

The dastardly rape and brutal murder of Uwa has invalidated all claims and views about rape. How could she have prevented what happened?

If her parent had called that day and she told them she was reading in a church; they would have had no reason to be concerned. However, they got the worst news a parent could ever get. ‘Your daughter is dead, raped and killed in a bloody church.’


A girl/woman is constantly vulnerable to rape. As a toddler, she is at risk of rape from people most trusted by her parents. At the risk of family members or relatives raping her. In school, her teacher could be a beast in human form. Even her friend’s or boyfriend’s place is also a dangerous place?

So where is safe for her?

The truth is that a girl/woman should not be in constant fear. Everywhere and every place should be safe for her. She is not responsible for caging those perverts. That’s the job of society.

Maybe all men are potential rapists that need to undergo some sort of therapy. We owe it to our daughters, wives, and mothers to immediately commence a national awareness on rape. Organize therapy sessions to purge traits of rape in everyman.

Because the animals that perpetrate rape are not products of immaculate conception. Indeed, they are born by women, perhaps have female siblings, and maybe even female children (Lord have mercy).

Rape is indeed a pandemic, a never-ending pandemic.
According to a National Survey carried out in 2014 on Violence Against Children in Nigeria; it was confirmed that one in four females reported experiencing sexual violence in childhood; with approximately 70% reporting more than one incident of sexual violence.
In the same study, it was found that 24.8% of females aged 18 to 24 years experienced sexual abuse; prior to age 18 of which 5.0% sought help, with only 3.5% receiving any services.

These statistics are grim enough. Unfortunately, rape is under-reported. People, due to stigmatization don’t want to report rape. We have a justice system that makes reporting rape seems like adding extra burden on the victim. The same police that victims are supposed to report to allegedly raped sex workers with sachet water nylon in Abuja not too long ago.

Even at that, there is a need to have a system that can guarantee justice; for both the accused and the victim without destroying both in the process.

I understand that there is a national outrage in the wake of the sad incident involving Uwa. People are angry. Personally, I am livid. But the anger should be directed at creating a solution. Changing the existing legislation, awareness on rape and most importantly; everyone needs to create that safe environment for girls/women.

If you hear a troubling sound from your neighbour, knock on that door and ask questions. If you see a man or a boy getting too cozy with a little girl; poke your nose in the matter. In fact, your little “amebo” could help prevent rape or molestation.

Parents, take time to talk to your sons and male wards that a girl’s body is her absolute right with her total discretion on whom and when to give. Consent is hers to give and withdraw at will. In fact, she can give at first round and withdraw it at second. More so, she has the right to withdraw such consent in the middle of the action.

Also, parents, you should be your daughters’ confidant. Let her be able to talk to you. Father, sex talk with your daughter is not gross. Let her be able to talk to you.

There is nothing like settling it within the family. If punishing perpetrators of rape would shatter the family, then let it be. If the animal had thought about the family, he would not have done it.

As tempting as it is to talk about rape and molestation of boys also, I will refrain from it. Today is all about girls and women. The only hope would be that we would not have to wait until tragedy strikes again; before raising a voice.

False rape accusation

Creating a rape-free society as elucidated earlier involves getting everyone behind it. Most importantly men, not just because the main transgressors are of our gender. But because the victims are our siblings, mothers and children.

Also, we are vulnerable to false accusations. Creating a better justice system that will guarantee justice for victims in rape cases; will also help people facing false accusations.

This is not just a time for rage. It is a time to work in creating that system which works for all victims. The lack of a reliable system has made people turn to social media for settling or seeking justice on rape-related cases.

However, social media has shown that it is not equipped for the endeavour. As a court of opinion, yes, but a court of justice, no.

It is in everyone’s best interest to create a safe environment for our girls and women. But most importantly, on the rare occasion that some beat the safety net; there should be a place for swift and fair justice. S.O

ALL OF US @ [/b] SAY NO TO RAPE over and over again!!

[b] And as we are SAYING NO TO RAPE, WE ALSO SAY NO TO FALSE ACCUSATIONS OF RAPE.
They are both as DANGEROUS as one another!

Manna don summarize everything

fergie001:
We are both lawyers on NL.....
He studied history

He supports PDP in Cross River his state...so all he does on NL na bobo

No wonder he supports ayade Lol ,

Stay safe Big man

fergie001:
Baba....you know dem finish

Senatorda.ve dey represent LM for Court to remove Diri

Kai senator don try for this people (APC) make abuja people remember am nah . wait senator nah lawyer

I saw a post where he was pleading passionately for APC to return IMO to ihedioha and take back BAYELSA state , na wao

fergie001:
Na observation-mode I dey

Nah so bossman from solmusdesigns ,solmus and him numerous alternate accounts I sabi am wella ....

What of senatordav.e nah Lol

fergie001:
Guy leave me o

Hahaha chairman that guy in particular hates seyi with passion because he is a PDP Governor
.its very pathetic really

Exc2000:
ipoop youth whats your problem with oyo state, or you want to turn us to another abia state?

for billion in loans from cormercial bank yet all he can point at is paying workers

10billion link here http://saharareporters.com/2019/07/26/oyo-n10-billion-loan-apc-blasts-governor-makinde-lawmakers

22 billion link here http://saharareporters.com/2020/05/21/apc-tackles-makinde-oyo-assembly-over-approved-n20bn-loan

7 billion link here https://oyostate.gov.ng/approval-for-n7-6-billion-loan-victory-for-oyo-state-people-makinde/

39 billion in 12 months 32 from cormercial banks with agreement for him to make Oyo State pay all revenue to their banks, and then we still pay

20-30% intrest rate

no wonder IPOB land is the poorest region in southern Nigeria, always celibrating trash

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Same sahara reporters I thought you and your folks said sahara reporters are unreliable



You were surprising silent when bubu was busy borrowing senselessly and mortgaging the future of this country , I guess your issue with makinde is just the party he belongs, either ways fasten your seat belt its three more years of typing audio Governor on every thread nah your finger go tell you

Oya exc2000 come and start smashing your head on the floor in pains . the audio Governor gas done is again......

Benevento:
Tell that to your imbecilic father.

Just a little dose of your own medicine ,you want to collapse

Chai e pain u sha

DenreleDave:
Firstly ur gf saw her at ur doorstep and she later banged the toilet door.


That means before her death, she comes to ur doorstep and calls to u the toilet where you guys bang ursef till u wear out..
She is just giving you signal that you shud Come and meet her at the regular spot u guys meet....

Truly she died but she can't leave ur dick, dts why she has to come back

So you posted this essay just for likes SMH

tatatar:
I don't have answer to that.Is there anything else I can help you with?
-Who is nnamdi kalu?

Who is yanusi yellow

timesup234:
Braimwahsed mugu! Death to western education that has made African donkeys! Mao's era was the most prosperous era in all of human history. Western media narrative kill you there! Why dont you go to Tiananmen square and insult Mao let's see if you will come back alive. Unlike stupid brainwashed Africans, China will never let their enemies choose their hero for them. Chairman Mao Zedong made China great and you are a dunce. Make America lies kill you there!

See this one pouring saliva all over the place in the name of having a conversation

The influence the USA has over nations the Chinese will never even dream of having

timesup234:
noise. With potential of 1.4billion people buying a toothbrush American economy is dead on arrival. In America 85% of her citizens are one paycheck away from the street, a further 87% are unable to come up with a mere $400 in a emergency. Calling an ambulance is enough to bankrupt you for the rest of your life in America, people use uber to transport the sick. Every single person in America is depressed and an hour to suicide. Everything in America is on loan, if you have just 50k naira in your pocket you are richer than 90% of Americans. China will fvck the hell outta that nasty biitch. Lame LovePeddler America

Ask yourself why major USA companies are located in China ,of course its cheap labour the Chinese are poor, the communist regime doesn't give a damn about your blackass...

timesup234:
You are brainwashed. Bring in the data let me educate you. America the most overrated shithole ever. Somalia and Sudan are trillion times better than America

Somalia and Sudan better than America

Gander:
Any Nigerian supporting Donald Trump is indeed a slave.

Any Nigerian supporting China over the USA is insane

GBOKASINCHA:
trust me bro davido is that foolish and might do worse

Oga this is what celebrities do all over the world ,but you realising a davido you're probably older than is doing better than you in all spheres of life...you just have to hate no just reason how sad


The davido you love to hate is doing what he has to do to remain relevant ....and has gone global ;

opebiboy:
Shut up your mouth noisemaker. No Nigerian artist is worth a million dollars

Opebiboy you know nothing ,even davido [color=#000099][/color]

olaolulazio:
Seun wey get money pass you no dey show himself.

Seun get money pass who

Exc2000:




Corrona Virus Fears Military Generals like Buhari and Vladimir Putin, without face mask they still havent contracted it, even as they welcome visitors daily, and have their aides and associates infected and dying of the virus


Your ignorance is outta this world ,who told you Putin is a General and he doesn't use face mask


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Your ignorance is outta this world ,who told you Putin is a General and he doesn't use face mask

senatordave1:
You got me there.I miscalculated but as usual retraced my steps

At least you retraced your step...

Okay why do you hate sen gershom bassey this much

senatordave1:
Gershom bassey is a failure,the worst senator in Nigeria after t.a orji.I will be happy if he is recalled

Your opinion does not count ,after all you once said onnoghen was /is incorruptible

EmmyDJourno:
I once called for a probe into this guy, people called it bad belle

It shock you say it happen abi

Nothing is coming out of this probe, I remembered how they made noise with mompha now dude is chilling in dubia....NIGERIA is a Sithole tueh

Ahmed0336:
Hmmmmmm

You know you are fasting abi

GenBuhari:
What proof do u have that shop window notice is from China? Very unlikely Chinese usually write in Chinese and when they attempt English it would usually be full of grammatical and spelling mistakes.

In your quest to continue sucking xi jinpings ball see how you're disgracing yourself

Weedsmoker:
The great Iran.
The nightmare of the Americans.
A country with great history and culture.
A country that is still standing tall despite years of sanctions from the world.
I doff my hat for this great Nation.

Nightmare

MiztaFabuloz:
Stupidity is always in the Igbo blood. If you think am lying go are check how many people are loyal to a foolish ipob leader and you will realize the level of stupidity in the Igbo blood.

And if you believe the person you quoted is Igbo , The jokes on you

OgaRico:
25years in EPL and how many leagues did Fergie won?
Give Pep 25 years in England and let's see what that wizard will do considering the fact that he humbled Fergie led team on a big stage twice.

What wizard

A wizard that spent 200milliom pounds on only fullbacks,

I can as well say give SAF the amount spent by guadiola and watch football turn to basketball

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
EPL! One overrated dumb fuckkk league

Any manager can go there and conquer
Even mourinho the bus Parker conquered

Watch out soon
It is going to be Jürgen klopp's league

Mourinho spent millions of pounds to conquer ,even your guadiola spent more than 200million pounds on defenders alone on his first few season so

piggyyeaster:
And some idiots from that side want us to atikulate in 2019
They will be viewing this thread like this without any comment

Hahaha just name one business buhari has successfully manage

Mbataku96:
This is called a scientific lie, now the Earth is about Six too Seven thousand years old, not even up a million.
Oyibo the greatest lie lie

Lmao ,so dinausours fossils discovered are 6000-7000 years old

seunmsg:
Kudos to him and his team. I pray the drug turns out very effective in dealing with the virus. Those working on developing a vaccine should also double up their efforts. All hands must be on deck to defeat the virus as soon as possible.

And this is how seunmsg posts used to be 5-6 years ago.....

And that is how it should be .mature