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Dudeweedlmao:
dispeakable.


What does this word mean, OP?

Maybe I spelt it wrongly but it means something this should not be spoken about. More like an irritating talk.

fairfora:
There's nothing bad about it. While growing up, my sister and 4 other siblings used to bathe together in the stream. We would even be making mockery of her because of the balls in her chest and she would be laughing, same with my cousins. My dad would even be the one to bathe all of us, including her.

Unfortunately, because of stuffs we hear nowadays, father sleeping with their daughters and even getting them pregnant and teens too becoming wayward. I watched a movie online where teens were sleeping with one another in a secondary school and someone was filming them, so sad. Things have gone so bad in our clime but that doesn't mean teens still cant bathe with their dads, provided the father is a responsible one.

This is exactly similar to a point someone gave.

This argument came up recently at a relationship talk show we had and while some people saw nothing wrong in doing that being that she a still a baby child in their eyes and they have been bathing them since 0 years, some other people argued that it wasn't a good thing and was a dispeakable act.

What is your view on this issue? Do you think there is nothing wrong for a father to bath with his 10 years old daughter or do you think it is wrong?

Abeg can this Igbere TV stop clouding our view with their name. Every time Igbere TV gathered or Igbere TV this and that. Cant you just write the news and post your link or something as the source of news.

banio:

Overdose of herbal medicine damages kidney, liver and other internal organs. It kills within two weeks

Overdose of almost all medicine kills and that is why there is always a prescription on how to take them. If people are also educated on herbal medication there will also be able to prescribe it properly for users both old and young.

This will be a very good idea. Most herbal medicine work better than these chemical reactions given to us at the pharmacy.

Kenmatt:
It must have side effect.

Anything that is not the way nature made it, if you eventually reset, reform or reshape it, the ill-effect must show up, if not today, tomorrow.

Wrong bro. Everything about nature can be was made to be reset, reformed and reshaped. The only thing is to do it correctly. Even nature itself resets, reforms and reshapes. Look deep, think deep.

wagazala:
OP this your headline is misleading o....many for don get heart attack.

Some of us still wan born for yankee.

The headline is correct, except it was modified.

Good development. While efcc is tackling yahoo guys and the police start tackling cultism just as efcc is doing, I believe there would be a positive impact. Only if they can tackle issues correctly without killing innocent people or over using their force powers

AwkaetitiBabe:
Woo him as per? Olamide is straight so why fool yourself wooing him?

It will be hard for people to understand what he is doing. He is only trying to divert attention because of the bashing he got for that naked girl promotion for his new jamz

Medicine after death. Its very obvious this guy is learning very well from our political leaders. Just because he was bashed for promoting his new music with a naked girl he has decided to divert attention with this story for the gods

AwkaetitiBabe:
So those in churches are not on nairaland eh? Nairalanders are from Mars naw

The ones on NL are not serious. The ones that talk matured are already married. Mary of them here are not serious so am trying to help a brother

Jayslicky:


Senseless president going for plenary on solving securities challenges in Africa when his own country is in the same boat he has not attended to the issues ever, all the killings of innocent people in benue did he go there to sympathise with the victims or find a solution to it, the increasing kidnapping in the country, the gunmen, the most dangerous terrorist group Boko Haram what has he done to curb their activities.

But this your write up is funny sha. Is the meeting to help other people solve their own problem or he is actually trying to find solution to the country you said is sinking. I no understand

Harrison4adam:
Ipob Igbo terrorists in severe pain...
Bad week for ipob ... 80 of their kinsmen declared wanted by FBI for financial frauds and Nnamdi Kownu brainwashing their damned brain for war they can never and will never win..

You see why them no get sense. They think they are causing pain to Nigerian people but they forgot the world is watching and also know that most of their people are very much in different countries prison for crime issues. They are only making things difficult for themselves and causing pains for their own people as they are gaining international recognition for violence and crimes.

So Buhari is still smoothly enjoying his visit to Japan and not story of Ipob harassment since. I hope say na cownu go pay back flight tickets for all those cow brain supporters wey fly go Japan go do protest wey no get head lol

udoka2013:
What BBN has joined together ...

Social media can put assunder...

godwinkessi:
Bro they didn’t

But the man is in Abuja, so how can they proof he actually sent them which is the issue on ground because he can actually claim he has no idea about it so why would he be arrested.

These are modern day masquerades

If not stupidity what proof do they have that it was Okorocha himself that sent them. What if the youth just acted on their own.

jaymee0:
Loll...

She must have looked rich. Lol

Am telling you. Better packaging with two wraps of fufu and soup for bag lol.

Time for Mr Sir to meet your family, he’s actually the one who suggested it, all with the aim of starting dowry negotiations later on. Perfect, he’s coming to meet your mum and dad, all will be amazing! You may be excited but your mans insides feel like they are liquifying. Here’s how to help him:

1. Calm him down

Meeting the parents is no easy feat, it’s a make or break process. First impressions are everything. If the two of you walk in and your parents look at the poor chap like he has lost way to loser-ville, it’s going to be a long meeting shrouded by an insane amount of awkwardness. Try to calm Mr Sir down. Many people tend to utter stupidity when they are nervous, so in an effort to have your parents like him, calm his nerves.

2. Dress him

Its no secret that parents judge individuals first and foremost by how they are dressed. Something about ripped jeans and dreadlocks screams drug dealer and criminal in their minds. So, if Mr Sir is of this jambazi behaviour, it would be best if you picked out what he’d wear to avoid your parents being scared of who you brought home.

3. Background

Days before meeting the parents it is advisable to give Mr Sir a brief background on everyone. Tell him how your mum loves to cook Italian dishes but she isn’t that great at it, or how your dad is a die-hard Arsenal fan and will actually murder anyone that dares insult Arsene Wenger. These pointers will help him start up a conversation and have your parents open up a bit more.

4. Dont throw him into the deep end

The poor chap is already drowning in nerves and allowing your parents to submerge him further is unfair. Every time you see your father slowly attempting to sink Mr Sir, come in and save him. Redirect the attack to yourself. Fathers tend to pose as the big bad bear in an attempt to figure out if a man is worthy of their little princess. Put up a force field to protect Mr Sir. You are a team and need to stand together. Don’t forget that.

5. Encourage him

Hold his hand, nod when he talks, look into his eyes, etc. These simple acts will act as an encouragement as he converses with your parents. Remember the fact that you even brought him home means you love him enough to want to share a life together and that love will be evident when your parents talk to him.

To all those meeting the parents soon, good luck. Remember to pray!

internationalman:
Mumu read our previous comments..

And yes a grenade is different than a bomb

Point of correction, a grenade is different from a bomb... Not a grenade is different than a bomb.

Before you call someone mumu always ensure you are better off.

Tajbol4splend:
Apparently I'm a Muslim and I hear people say it often but I used to think it was mere mockery of girls or some joke

I thought as much.

Tajbol4splend:
Whoa! You have really done the survey

Its seems you are not from naija or you don't reside in naija because I don't understand why this sounds new to you. Or probably you don't even go to church lol

internationalman:
Is it the same thing as a bomb

Nooo how grenade go be the same as bomb? Grenade dey only make noise while bomb dey kill people.

Tajbol4splend:
But how do you judge someone's motive for going to church.

Its very simple, just watch out carefully when pastors are declaring prophesies for those who are seeking marriage and you will hear the load Amens. Aside that, take note of the matured ones that don't have rings on their fingers and if the attend all church services, church programs, all night just know those are potential targets. Find the one you like and approach her then you will see what I mean. But don't expect her to jump into your arms like she is desperate oo.

Tajbol4splend:
Been hearing things like this, could it be true

Ahhh you didnt know, its à normal thing na

Bro no offense ooo but it's like you don't go to church. Because of you go to church these days that's were you will see alot of ladies also searching for husband. This NL will not help at all.

Na to chop the snake and the goat na... Enough meat in the house

Hunger no know fine or handsome ooo.

Wethin she gain if she no pack free food when hunger dey the country lol

Chaiii but now social media don cast her sha, all the guys she dey do shakara for go don see her.

Asnafsaeed:
Most be an ibo lady

Hahahahahahaha