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Kilode

awon Oniranu ni

Vyolet:
OP, since this woman is giving you issues, why not drive her out of the house and marry another woman? I don’t understand why she can’t manage 40k naira for feeding 6mouths in a whole month, i mean, she must be diverting that money into something else like building a house.
Don’t be a simp, chase her out of your life

See another were here his type would lead op astray walahi

ImaIma1:
Breastfeeding 3 2yr olds? Did the op say his wife is still breastfeeding?

The kids are nothing but still young!!!! Madam!!!! think of how to feed the 3 for a day including the woman! Haba!

Ghengiskhan:
Why are you not praying for the wife to get a job and supplement the household income ?

Those kids are too expensive to go to school for now even if it's day care. Taking care of triplets is not an easy task, ask those who are rich how they are dealing with the stress upon having maids. It's easier said than done that the woman should seek for job. None of them will never wish their sisters at home

Acidosis:
Your cousin had one not three at the same time. Are you even aware that those triplets can send the old woman to her grave due to stress?

OP's wife is going through a lot and only the man and maybe relatives can help in this situation. I can't even imagine how she sleeps at night.

God bless you oooo, his type wouldn't give his wife #20k per month but can blame the woman doing triple works at a time

few irresponsible men wouldn't agree with this, awon alaye onishina oshi

Awon slay mamas I pity only the mother. But many parents know that their kids are wayward, they will still be accepting gifts from them Karma is watching!!!

Prospertochu:
God bless you ma I am trying my best but if my wife carries on with her attitudes she will loose me because my health is getting worse day by day and if I die she will take care of them alone

Kai you will never die please. Say something positive to yourself please

somebody shout halleluyah!!!!!!!! Congratulations sir.


Dear Lord, please remember all those weeping unto you for good children, let them conceive and put to bed this year 2022, I want to be reading celebrations of twins and triplets Lord, thanks for granting their heart desires Amen. Congratulations in advance God answers prayers! We just need to be patience till it come to pass

Prospertochu:
I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

That is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue!!!!!! See the beginning of the wahala the lady should know better by now when you were displaying her legs, it was with fullest enjoyment you should try and continue that way sir please. The triplets need your care now please, it's a matter of time. How I wish I can be sending a token to the kids monthly but God sees my heart.

OlawaleBammie:
Yea i have modified, i actually read ur post where u said she's weaning her babies.

Triplet is not easy, even me, i cant allow my woman to work if she put a single baby to bed not to talk of triplet.

But well, from his writeup i detect that the woman has always bn a leech joo, we know dem, awon alabodo.

Not that, the real love wasn't there from the beginning of you read his other complains. They should just take it easy for the sake of the kids

OlawaleBammie:
Ur wife no get any work??

Is ur wife so idle??

She no dey contribute??

Hin own na just to open leg anytym necessary abi??

Am sorry to say that ooh...

Haba!!!! Do you have anyone close to you who gave birth to triplets? The stress is here! She would be free unless they start going to school or daycare

Prospertochu:
We are 2 in number me and my younger sis she is a house help, the family house Is my father's family house my father is late and his siblings kicked her out. That is all I have for now and I won't go and steal

Haaaaaaaaa I know how frustrated your wife would be while breastfeeding those 3 kids at once sir, it's not easy, she will be feeling hungry at anytime, feeding the triplets alone excluding you, your wife and mother, 50k can't be enough sir. Things are too costly in the market. You and your mother need to be very patience with her please. I pray that God send helpers to you and your family. You might apply for better jobs with better pay if you see. Please don't be too harsh to your wife and kids. It's because of this Buhari regime, it will soon be over. Keep praying and have faith that things will be alright one day.






That is why I hate married people bringing out their dirties outside especially on nairaland, those irresponsible married men who can't give their wives and children #20k per month would come out here to type rubbish leading you astray. Please ignore all those people saying too harsh words at you. Cry unto God your helper for better job to take good care of yourself and your family, don't let their words turn to depression to your life.

thanks, unless the lady was deceiving herself, she would have seen the red flag but she was blind by either fake money or mumu love

what a wonderful testimonies!!! Congratulations, God bless you home.

If you want to receive calls, always pack, don't be on the motion! Even if your village people are after you, prevent yourself by avoiding some mistakes. If your instincts are saying something, note them down and work towards it. It's not by force to pick strange calls while you are traveling home again then. Not all relations must know all your life movements please

Let me wait for the pastors or workers.

No, some people drink water while fasting because of the weather

Evangelism and giving

Nationsdaddy:
You be sule..

You are Mumini

Ibadan Ile Oluyole, Ibadan kini show Ibadan ti ko jale oju lo.......

Culture or not culture, divert all your reasonings from bad thoughts, learn to say good things to yourself, when other people are saying casting down, we will always say lifting up!!!!! it's a matter of time, be prayerful, be hopeful for good things that are coming, be faithful, keep working and always make her happy. Don't say bad things or reacts negatively at home. It's well.

Genotype

setobaba:
Don’t worry, you will be caught up with one some day

Caught with what? I don't do more than myself. I hate lavish spending, I love my low key life

Please notify Amotekun or local hunters, she will be back to her family safely by God's grace Amen

Animegirl:
I checked most of your posted thread, you talk more on what ladies do to men.

I know, this is another thread to make poverty stricken redpillers to say shii about women again.

I tell you, no woman would want to sit down at home doing nothing unless her husband told her. Don't you know taking care of home is another job on its own? You men go to work just to bring money and still forget huge responsibilities you place on your wife. How can your wife go to work and come back to cater for the family? You want to give your wife 350k? When things are expensive, including transportation and I'm sure your friend would expect million as returns. You men don't have conscience.

Jesus!!!!!! Madam, Mrs Alakija, Mrs Cecilia Ibru, and other uncountable successful women were not jobless sitting at home when they got married, they are successful in their careers and marriages. Marriage is a team work, the husband and his wife need to know how to help each other balance their works, no wonder some windows are now suffering while side chicks are now enjoying their wahala Any lady that is jobless should not get married!!!! Unless her husband is ready to set her up with a good business.

my friends know me, I hardly travel to a party, I would rather send money to her. If your aso ebi is more than 4k Ankara for 6 yards or 2k for lace per yard, just count me out That is why I don't have female friends. Any nearby party, I would eat enough before going , if I see that there is no good arrangements, I wouldn't spend 2 hours there. I love my stomach is not by force to do wedding when you can't feed those you invited, why not do it low key and save your money and stress

when the foundation is faulty i discussed with two ladies here last year who are just 25 and 32 both married, they are hustlers, I always love their passions. Their husbands are okay but they will never be idle. One of them said her mom told her since she was a child that if she is getting married and jobless, she wouldn't bless her marriage, she started her hustling asap after her service, she was okay financially before she got married. I don't know why a lady even single will be jobless talkless of a married woman, even if your husband is Dangote or Adeleke, lay your hands on something. Learn handiworks, a lots are bakers, make-up artists, event planners, etc.



She is your cross, you would have told her even if it's online business or trading, she should do something before any marriage. There is nothing to teach her a bitter lessons unless she is really hungry, which might lead her into infidelity

Na dem hypocrites

jagged44:
My sis has been complaining that her GLO is showing emergency call since morning.

Well me self no kukuma dey use GLO, only HairTel and Empty Hen I dey use.

Haaaaaaaaa .. Hair Tel and Empty Hen

Now she is telling the guy that she wants him back. She wishes they come back together. Does she really know she is married? She has spoken so bad of me before the man. My heart left me when I saw what chat and talk about.


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Sir, please endure with her, she is still a young lady let her enjoy herself then, you will be alright last last.

Please inform your parents and relatives what is going on before it's too late your village people are just too wicked ooo a married man writting this Pele o, it's well