₦airaland Forum

Go to any good local hausa that knows how to make the bone straight.

After #180 million What of those who can't afford #2000?

It depends on their choice, most doctors recommend it for those who are not romantic or who doesn't enjoy sex

God bless you for this wonderful sermon

Forbesdeal:
[b][/b]Am base in Ibadan also,drop ur WhatsApp digit dear

My email is here

Wahala

I dedicate this first time comment to all of us who are still struggling to meet up with this bad Buhari economy ( most businesses are down, some are in debt) Most people think we are lazy , just don't give up please! Nigeria will be good and alright on day. It's well

Dreadlocks, tattoos, sagging, bad English, blonde hair, pride, .....

BRATISLAVA:
If it's to condemn women you are very quick, now you have no harsh words.

I didn't comment because it's baseless replying a mumu single lady trying to get attracted to a married man.

AfonjaConehead:
Haba!!!

I laughed because she be mumu side chick ni She want nairaland to advise her on how to attract a married man

Kikikikikikikiki

It's well everything is costly now.

Kids should please give matured people space to seek advise on nairaland. Enough of these childish posts

slimman007:
Sister,I have watch you closely ever since I joined nairaland and I am so amaze with the way you respond to issues whenever they are raised here.I must confess that your husband if you are married is a lucky man to have such an amazing wife like you.Even though I don't know you mere reading your response must times shows you are a woman with good heart a replica of that woman described in proverb 31.I don't mind to be your friend if you are single.I just love you keep doing good and God bless you abundantly.

Amen thanks

chatinent:
Read again.

He didn't give her money to start the business.

.

She picked her bride price over the shop. The op is so weak and unable to think straight, he doesn't even know what he wants

Talk to any reliable teacher or realiable OAP in Nigeria to do findings on any pupils that are brilliant but their parents are dead. He can be paying to the school directly till admitted to university

Just don't start what you can't continue Tell him to do his findings wella

chatinent:
Dear oga,

You are your own problem.

1. It isn't a must to do a wedding with ₦1m if you aren't worth it. People should learn to avoid pleasing onlookers by feeding 6000 people. The wedding is supposed to be a day of joy for you both, not for people's stomachs.


2. I noticed you have a thingy with gender roles. You are a man. Your wife is still your responsibility. You refused declaring your salary to her but is quite inquisitive on what she earns. How na baba?

Coming to the part of she sending money to a male friend, I understand you are hurt because it's a male attached.

But have you tried to understand her?

Are you always seeing yourself as right?


What's the big deal if you pay the shop rent, then, you guys build your communication thingy well?


The communication flow is broken.

Marriage is not a football match you play for halftime and retire, or you get a small injury and decide to walk out because you feel you are the chief captain.


It's a forever course...and the moment you realize this, the better for you.


I see a good wife you have there trying to stand on her feet without your support!


Treat your wife well so she'll be more opened to you.


When you start keeping secrets, trust don yapa. Some men who don't want to disclose their actual salary still tell their wives sth.

If I have a fiancee I had already paid for her dowry, I wouldn't have minded setting up the shop for her.

Afterall, she is going to be my wife.

You let her family support her when she needed you.

You mah no know say any money you spend for wedding don go? You for small invest for her business na. People wey don chop plenti plenti food that day don shit your money finish.


To think your marriage isn't up to a year is quite disheartening too.

Build your beautiful marriage, bro.

Ignore these frustrated sets tagged as redpillers here trying to project their failed lives to you.


Marriage is a gift from God.

Do you understand English reading at all or I don't understand

I see a good wife you have there trying to stand on her feet without your support! Who gave her money to start the business? If I were the wife, I'll pay my rent since my husband is still responsible with the home finances! I'll be willing to support him from my shop earnings so that God will not be lifting his own hands up, I'll also tap from the prayers. May women whom their husbands established businesses for are buying cars and houses to their husbands, why must she be so selfish and greedy? What if the man got sacked, she will just run away

igwebest23:
My pastor warned me during counseling to be careful when ever I have issue with my wife, that if I go to her mum(I.e my Wife mum to warn her daughter, most parents will always side their daughter, d may not see any thing wrong with what their daughter is doing. Then if I go back to my parents, d will support me and conclude I married a Jezebel and for me to send her home. I need to go and report her to my pastors if she doesn't change, then I will have no option than to do d needful

No please, let her parents know, pastors will tell you to keep praying till one spouse is affected, either emotionally drained or killed. Most pastors don't believe in divorce, they will be doing holy holy while they can't take any shits from their wives, yes! But they will tell you to continue enduring You can tell her pastor too, just know the answers in your mind already unless you are just ranting in vain here! Stand on your words! Act like a man and the head of the family! This is when you need to re construct your mumu foundation on spending and other corrections from your mistakes if she doesn't yield, let her go and learn more lessons from her parents house

igwebest23:
The issue now is that she have enough money in her account to pay for d rent. I have seen her account balance. Why is asking me d money. I have told her am not a Yahoo guy. Am a salary earner. She was busy telling me that is d husband that supposed to pay for d wife shop rent that other people are doing it for their wife. I equally told her wife too I helping their husband. Like my sister bought Jeep for her hubby and d contributed money to build house

Your wife is too selfish and ingrate! I know she can't buy common birthday gifts for you nor the kids. What if you are financially handicap, would she not help you out Na her type no dey buy common #20 buscuit unless the father pay You know what next to do to avoid embarrassment in future. It's better to curb it now!!!! Please

This is so deep, you saw the red lines but you ignored it. If you have told her to choose either to use money for the wedding or shop Why spent that much on a day or two days wedding when you still have many things to use money for You need to tell her siblings or parents how everything thsat happened, if she doesn't want to be submissive or abide with your earning, then let her go and learn more lessons from her parents house she should be able to afford the rent na!!!! Must wives put heavy loads on their husbands She shouldn't have shouted, she can do daily or weekly contributions to pay for the rent Please don't ever argue nor fight with her, just pick one of your dresses and find a place to cool your head. It's too early to have hypertension jare

Exactly... Good one

My mother gave me some, while I solicit funds from who are willing to help because it wasn't easy to stay at home after NYSC for 4 years

Lori iro...

eniteden:
May what that woman did to that child be done to your children, may u be there when the person pour kerosine and light match stick on your children's head and may u not be able to have single strength or voice to reach. If u can say amen to this prayer I will respect your opinion, period.

Back to you and your family, Amen

nnamdico82:
May the same calamity that happened to the 6 years old girl happen to u, amen

Bad to you and your family, AMEN

Where is lakerice in Lagos?