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shaybebaby:
Let me give you a bit of context, TV has cast aspersions on my ex because we are divorced, they are BOTH fathers, hence my pics... This is what my child's father is about.

Otherwise we come at it from the angle of us being parents and how effective we are, and then there would relevance.

That picture of my son with his grandad is in MY home. Use your powers of deduction.

I have nothing to prove, I reiterate.. That was a little snap shot and that's all you are getting.
Someone said Pinterest, and the likes.. Doesn't change the reality whatever your interpretation is.

It's like believing that until you say my son is cute, he is not cute... When the reality is that he has always been gorg to me and you saying it or not doesn't change what is.

What you think doesn't matter, if you were my employer now or my doctor or something directly connected to me, it might matter but this is the Internet, how does it detract from or improve my life?

Okay, I will rest the picture issue not because I believe this epistle of yours but because you've proved us right - these people don't reckon with you no more. They no longer see you as family cos if they do, you'd gladly oblige us and post pictures. You're so fast in identifying with their successes but slow in posting ordinary pics with you in it. I don't get o.

And pls I'm confused here, I know these white folks can't satisfy you sexually with their flaccid pen1s, why do you keep chasing after them? Don't our African brothers with real turgid "Johnny" find you desirable?

Did you marry for British Passport or how come you couldn't even keep a man with all the "sainthood" you portray on here?

shaybebaby:
And you don't hate? With all that? Lmao. Imma leave that up there so you can keep referring to it. Enjoy choking on your bile.
Turkey lasan lasan and we will not hear word.

I honestly wanted to sit this out but you just not helping matters. TV posted pictures of himself (real African bushmeat I must say) and his family, the brother is so proud of his family and that's obvious.

What's obvious about you is that your ex family no longer reckon with you, stop doing what my people call "attache". Your son is cute but hey, leave that family alone, they don't recognise you no more. They are your son's family, not yours. Their achievement, not yours. Stop famzing.

Shame me by posting a picture of your ex's family with you included.

And hey, don't African brothers find you desirable?

Mindfulness:
I look like a 90s child but I am not.

I am quite lazy this evening, it has been an extremely hot day but I will take my time to google ALL these women who married and remarried despite being older than 35+.

You're a 90s baby.

I am sure you list will be full of celebs and millionaires.

HaneefahRN:
Yeah, I can.

Good.

Mindfulness:
Tax benefits.

That's the only reason.

And who told you that I married young?

I admire your sense of humour.

Trust me, it's not hard to tell you can't be more than 26years old. You're a 90s baby and that's why I'm not so surprised at your judgement on certain topics.

And hey, it's okay to sometimes "follow crowd" , you don't have to be different always. I know deep down you know ALMOST everything in the OP is TRUE but you being you, you just have to disagree.

HaneefahRN:
But you can have both. I believe in marrying early and that doesn't mean I will drop my career for marriage.

But you can make career sacrifices for your marriage to work? No?

bukatyne:
Truth is 'feminism/radical feminism/modern feminism' is not responsible for a typical Nigerian woman delaying marriage till she gets a 'good job' or builds a 'career';

It is a result of face your books and leave boys till later advice parents hand down continually to their kids.

Infact, one criteria for marriage in my church is that you must be earning; whether they follow it to the letter is something else.

It is uncommon for a typical Nigerian woman to delay marriage because of career; it is also uncommon for her to delay childbirth because of her job.

She rather have her kids juggling work and get a maid/nanny/daycare at the same time.

I agree with Efe that the article is more suited to the white lady.

And the author is a self-styled feminist.

CC: crackhaus.

Hanhan Bukatayne, do you honestly believe what you wrote there is the truth?

Maybe Feminism is not completely responsible but Ma'am, it is partly responsible and you know this for a fact.

Mindfulness:
I put my career first - just the way I was brought up and I would tell my own kids to do the same.

Marriage is overrated.

Sarcasm doesn't suit you.

Marriage is not overrated and if you think it is, what are you doing in one so early in your life Carefree?

DollyParton1:
Did you read the post at all?
The father beats the wife and the kids. And always threaten to stop sponsoring them. He is using the fact that they depend on him financially to hold them down.

So?

You believe the man still beats two grown men in the university?

Madam, did the family ask for his help? No?

You want to interfere in a marriage that's well over two decades? Are you for real? Did any of the abused ask for your help? What gives you the right to poke your nose into another family's matter without being invited?

The woman has two children in the university already, I doubt if they'd sit idly by and watch their father beat their mother. They're old enough to fight this battle and save their own mother. They don't need you.

You should face your front and leave this family alone.

How will the public holiday be observed now? FG was too hasty in declaring public holiday. They should have waited till Monday evening before declaring public holiday. It is well.

Mhizdiva:
Thanks,it cant be infection that am very sure of.I need a comprehensive details from professionals nt from someone trying to sell some products.

It definitely looks like infection.

Chinum:
Okay thanks.

You're welcome

Chinum:
That's nice. Do you guys have trips scheduled for september?

Yes. We will be going every month starting from next month.

Chinum:
Please do not be offended but the questions I asked can be answered on this platform right?

Okay. The name of the company is Genuine Visa Consult. You can check us out on facebook. The first trip we are going next month is just 30k.

Do check us out on facebook for more details and let me know if you need more information. Thanks

Chinum:
That sounds like fun. What's the name of your company, how long will u guys stay and how much does it cost to partake in the tour. Tho we intend going September.

Send me a PM.

Bro, my company will be going on tour to Cotonou, Togo and Ghana next month and it's definitely going to be fun-filled. We will visit tourist attractions, beaches etc

Nice bus, comfy seats, food, assorted wines and snacks, cabin crew to attend to your needs and accommodation.

Holla, if interested and for more details.

I do not have any solution to your problem but 300k on a child's dedication? Bro, that's outrageous.

Bro, the amount of money spent on a child's dedication doesn't determine how far the child will go in life. Children whose parents didn't even kill rabbit have become kings, presidents and chairman of multinational companies. These children even end up employing those whose parents spent millions on their dedication.

Be wise. Be prudent. Be determined. Be prayerful and I know God's light will shine on you to know the path to take.

Peace to you.

Mindfulness:
One can easily see that you know very little to nothing about children.

On the contrary, one can easily see that you know next to nothing about children. I have two girls of my own and I'd withdraw them from a school that exposes them to this kind of book.