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US doesn't clamp down on illegals as such so I'd say give it a try. The state of the economy doesn't look promising atall so it's better you jump now that the offer is still on the table.

Opportunity comes but once, bro. Be wise.

Register with another e-mail and start again. A new invoice will be generated for you.

They should go to Hell.

I am Cait ko, I am Gait ni.

Rubbish.

thorpido:
I have an article I could send to your email.You can PM me or drop an email address.

I will PM you.

thorpido:
Do you know how to tilt the odds in favour of having a male child?It is God who determines what sex the child would be but science has shown that there are a few things you could do to increase the odds of having the sex you desire.
You could let me know if you need the info.

Bro, I honestly don't mind. Thanks

SOLD

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Siena:
[color=Blue]I haven't modified anything. Any changes would have been done by a mod.[/color]

Please do.

Siena:
[color=Blue]I've already kissed and made up, sis, I'm not angry. For some reason, Ahnie seems determined to treat me like a pariah. [/color]

Brother, I take God beg you, just edit the post and remove her name. I want to believe she's going through a lot right now. I used to see her posts in one of the pregnancy thread and I know her to be a sweet, funny woman. Put an end to this thing by editing the post. Thanks bro.

Modified: I'm just seeing that you've already done the needful. Thanks

shaybebaby:
Unhate, lol.
Even a stopped clock is right twice a day. We all have some good in us.
I don't know about having a good heart, I try to be good to people. Often think about how I want to be remembered by my loved ones after I am gone.
Mostly, I want to be the kind of person I hope my son meets on his own journey through life.
Glad we are not "hating" each other now. Love really does conquer all, who knew we'd find a common ground in something as simple as looking out for your fellow man.

Don't even dare try to be modest about it, after seeing what you did for the guy that wanted to commit suicide, I knew right then that you're a good person. You believed in him when he didn't even believe in himself. You gave him hope. You made him realise there's a brighter day ahead. Honestly, I'm in awe of you.

@ the bolded, that's the irony of life. Credit to you, I will stop being judgmental.

shaybebaby:
Oh it wasn't a commentary on its origin, I know nawt about it but it doesn't diminish its validity.
We should do more of this as a nation, I believe theirein lies our prosperity.

Exactly. Good to know we have one thing in common. I admire people with good heart and you sure have one. I have to "unhate" you. You're a nice woman.

Tundeiab:
God bless your good heart. It's non of your business if he is lying or not. God will certainly bless you because you did it out of love.

Long after I'm gone, I want to be remembered for changing the lives of people for good. Amen bro.

shaybebaby:
^ is the attitude or should I say opinion I disagree with. I have no inkling about what it feels like to be gay but I can empathize with being different and the judgement that comes with that to the exclusion of all else hence why I feel acceptance should encompass that group.
The very judgement pronounced on such group is the reason for my acceptance, why would anyone choose such a challenging path knowing the general societal perception?
I wouldn't choose it seeing the abuse they suffer, so to my mind, it must be something as a consequence of nature and not nurture (in majority of cases anyways). Besides, the only person's sexuality that matters to me is my partner's. The others, I have no use for since my needs are being met.

But that is one aspect of your beliefs, I do not believe it makes you a terrible person...just a part of who you are. This humanitarian part, regardless of its origin, I like.

I don't believe gays are born and that's why I won't offer them any support, not like they need it though but I will always speak out against them whenever I have the opportunity.

Anyways, I don't want to talk or argue other people's sexuality with you on this thread.

Thanks for accepting me the way I am and really I'm not a terrible person. The humanistic part, there is absolutely nothing wrong with its origin. I'm proud to identify with its origin.

Happy Sunday to you all. Still available.

shaybebaby:
Detest your attitude on some matters but this I like. Now if only you could extend this to everyone not because of who they are/aren't but based on the fact that you are a kind person irrespective of who you meet.

We can't always give in material things but we can in other ways... through our actions, our words, our time. The driving force should be empathy.

What's in my attitude to detest? I'm not a terrible person pls.

Oh dear, how on God's green earth do you know this is a one time thing? I am a man that gives back to the society no matter how little irrespective of who and what they are.

I am a born Pyrate and one of our philosophy is for "humanistic ideals". I live by the below

While in body, flesh and spirit, do whatever you can now for the sake of humanity cause in the end, skulls and bones will not be differentiated. It is what we do and who we become that we all will be remembered by till eternity long after the bones and skulls are reduced to dust and ashes.

I completely agree with the bolded.

The present state of the economy is not helping matters atall. Just last week Tuesday, I got a call from my account officer to come and sign some documents so instead of me taking my car, I decided to just fly bike there and back. The bike man took me to the bank, I went in to sign the documents, came back and I saw the bike man crying with tears in his eyes. I was like "what happened"? And then he told me what he was going through. Apparently, his daughter was sick and he needed money for her treatment. He was working that day to come up with 3k but unfortunately business was dull for him that day. I had to give him 5k.

I was moved by his story and tears but a colleague said he probably scammed me. Scam or not, I did mine for God.

If you want to tame your MIL, just buy a dog leash and put around her neck since she's an animal to you. Smh

I hope your guy sees this thread and know the kind of woman he's about to be forever hooked to.

buksaylor001:
I am a victim too -I keep chatting with all my exs!

Ahoy

Nice article. I'm sure following this thread. I know some of these NL ladies will come in and start rubbishing the article. What gladdens my heart is the fact that the researches were conducted by professionals in the "west" so it kind of put a kibosh on their rebuttal. Our African sisters go through life aping these people, now I hope they can see they ain't "superwomen" afterall and come to accept the fact that they need men for their life to be complete and they'd rather date UP no matter their status.

Still available. It could be yours for 1.6million

sweetcocoa:
Says the idiot who doesn't hesitate to quote me any chance he gets. Yes, I will mention you quoting because you shouldn't, if you have a problem with me.

Una stupid1ty is very annoying because it's so glaring it hurts the eyes, yet you don't see it.

Someone isn't worth your time, why da feck do you then insert yourself in that person's business? Just how do does it make sense? The most annoying part is that y'all scream "elders" like your lives depend on it, e dey pain me o because I no like rubbish and how does someone who call himself an elder behave like this? When I was growing up, that word meant something, stop 'disgracing' it.

I don't do rubbish, please.

You this id1ot, I tried my best not to come hard on you but I will right now. You lack manners and yes I blame your parents for this, they did a terrible job raising you.

You can come on NL and start spewing trash because this is a faceless forum but I know your type, you're a spineless, spoilt little brat. You're probably just a bit above 20years, you can't say sh1t to my family's last born's face and not get beaten. That "agbero" in your head, I will organise boys to beat hell out it so you can have some sense. If you choose to be stup1d, i'd reformat your brain settings.

You think we are mate, id1ot?, If you need a job, beg me and I will get you one. I'm ready to do this just to drive my point home that I'm not only your age mate, I'm also not your grace mate. Where I am in life, your parents will fast 60days just to see you and your siblings reach half the height and I'm still aiming for more. And trust me, I'm not gloating.

Go and work on yourself maybe you'd find yourself a real man. You're young but yet bitter, what happened to you? How did you end up so damaged, id1ot?. Pray hard kiddo so your own bro's prophesy that you won't find a real man don't come to pass on you. Don't you tell me not to involve your parents, I will cos they didn't raise you well. It's not my fault they failed to teach u manners and now that it's obvious they failed, they shouldn't mind some mudslinging.

Oh my, you started with throwing ad hominem just for saying "you dey jonze yourself". I'm sure you can't call your brother names for this and you think you can just hide behind the keyboard to type sh1t at people that are way above you, shey? You're mistaken. I was acting all gentleman for a reason, I was trained the pyratical way and it's against my belief to trade words with women not to now talk of a small girl like you.

Again I ask, how did you end up so damaged? Who hurt you? Why are you miserable?

This is the last you will hear from me. You've dragged me down enough. I'm going to let you floss and display the madness in your head. Show the world that you're indeed stup1d, damaged and above all, mannerless.

crackhaus:
Yea she was..

Oya make una no fight again, I feel weirdly responsible for it.

I didn't even put up a fight. She's not worth my time.

Call for this beauty

sweetcocoa:
Why na? Stay na and continue showing how much of a f00l you are.

Elder that doesn't know to leave people's family, (especially parents) out of his petty insults, yet have the nerves to talk about how someone was raised, what does that say about you? just how stup1d can one person be? na Internet cause am sha, that's why you can come here and chat sh1t to me, no be your fault my dear imbc1le.

Lol see my life. Okay o

sweetcocoa:
You should leave my brother out of whatever you have going on, only an 1diot would do what you are doing with that.

I know you are an assh0le but just try.

That's what your brother is. If he had done his job well, you would have learnt to respect elders even on a faceless forum. Obviously, your parents did a very lousy job raising an agbero like you. You turned out terribly.

This is the last you will get from me. Bye

sweetcocoa:
Enyi move along abeg, we never see people wey stand, na the ones wey squat we go come see, Oboy shift abeg.

You're a bitter young girl. Agbero oshi *in your own brother's voice*

bukatyne:
Answer my question above and stop dancing about

A man who used to provide and later find himself not capable is not to be blamed for anything. It will most certainly be as a result of factors far beyond him and I am sure a real man would do anything and everything to change the situation. He's just unlucky but a woman who can't perform her primary role is nothing but LAZY.

bukatyne:
Forget about my world and what I believe

A wife who wants her primary role shared is laazy...

A man who can't perform his primary role is?

You created a pseudo-scenerio in your head and we still beat you around it. Just resign yourself to fate and accept your primary role. Complain not and enjoy "it".

sweetcocoa:


E pain am.

Na una be the real men? E no better say person be nun than marry one of you?

You don't matter little one.

Let me tell you this, everyone's prayer for you is that you meet a man like us. Alpha-males like us that will do everything to provide for the family. Men who bring in the cash. If you cop yourself real men like us, then you're a winner.

When you grow up a bit, you'd understand.

bukatyne:
And a man who can't provide?..... What does the Bible say? 1 Tim 5 : 8

And women do all the chores in the morning before going to work..... and come back by 4pm?

Stop assuming everyone lives in your world. Just because you don't have that luxury doesn't mean others don't. Is everybody living in Lagos? Don't we have people in even that Lagos that work within trekkable distance? Aren't there organisations where they close as early as 2pm?

Yes, some people do get home before 4pm. If you find that hard to believe, then sorry, I can't help you.

sweetcocoa:
Na sense wey you no get dey worry you like this.

You're stupîd and that's why your own blood brother said he doubts you'd find yourself a real man. Ar1ndin.

bukatyne:
1. That the wife does domestics doesn't mean she doesn't work; she gets the job done however because it's her role.

2. I agree with you the working hours of the wife doesn't change.... however, what would be the husband's contribution to the relationship at that time he can't provide finance (which is his roles)? In every healthy relationship, we invest time, money, help, services etc. make the relationship go smoothly. If you can't invest A you normally invest, it is expected you look for something else to invest.

3. Let's adopt your 4:00pm... (though I don't know the job people get home by 4:00pm ). What does the husband at that point in time invest in the home since he can't invest his money?...

4. The husband has to invest his time/services more as that is what he has at his disposal. The longer she does, the more he has to invest.

5. Obviously

P.S.: This is why there is usually friction in model 2 when the man is unfortunately out of job and is un-willing to invest his time into the marriage.

Doing domestics is the only way for a man to invest his time in a marriage?

If a woman does all she needs to do before leaving the house for work, the man won't have any chores to do while the woman is away at work.

Any woman that leaves certain daily chores undone before going to work is a lazy woman. Infact, any woman that wants her primary role shared/divided is a lazy woman.