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Family / Re: My Step Mum Makes Me Uncomfortable... I Need Advice by boldconfidence: 11:34am On Jul 26, 2019 |
You should truely explore your feelings. You might resent her not because of the reasons you think but because of the role she is playing (Daddies wife). Especially since you guys have been coping and bonding for the past seven years before she came along. I will also say try and be nice and more approachable even if you do not feel that way, so her patience does not wear out as well. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Abused By Daddy by boldconfidence: 9:32am On Jun 30, 2019 |
@tewarh I understand where you are coming from. I salute your resilience and the fact you were wise to resist him which would have been difficult for you considering he his an authority figure in your life. For those wondering why she is sharing it now. Please know that sometimes it is an heavy burden to carry alone when your trust has been betrayed in the worst possible form. She may want to share it but not with people that know her dad because of the havoc it can wreck (protecting the perpetrator because of the relationship) . Fathers and Mothers: Children (male and female) are abused every day in their own homes(a place that should be secure), by people you trust, who have full access to them(your family members, staff, religious leaders etc). Please be on guard! 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by boldconfidence: 8:55am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: There we go.Suspicious much are you . I don't require another moniker because I choose my words carefully. I read a lot but hardly comment. |
Family / Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by boldconfidence: 1:54pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
crackhaus: I do not always agree with your views. But on this one you are making a lot of sense. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Should I Get Married Or Not? by boldconfidence: 10:47am On May 29, 2019 |
@op I cannot advice you on whether to marry a wife or not. I think you know the answer deep in your heart you only seek validation maybe due to external pressure. What I want to talk about is the children. They are at an age that even if their mother was still around they would have started sharing the burden of house chores. You should teach them and supervise for a while till they get it right. You are a super man, I must admit. You must avoid burnout, so you have to sit them down and explain to them that you need their help in running the house. Don't think they are too young to understand. You can set up a time table for them to ease adjustment. The oldest and middle should be able to help, this are some of the chores you can teach them at their age. Loading the washing machine and offloading after you must have sorted it for them, sweeping the house, folding clothes, washing dishes, picking out and hanging next day clothes/uniform, washing water bottles, washing toilet, helping with meal preparation (picking beans, washing rice etc light work to start with). Also teach all of them to clean up after themselves immediately(you spill something you sweep it up or clean up with a rag) Even the last child in primary 3 should be washing dishes. There is so much I could say but let me stop here. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Issues Arising After My Father Death by boldconfidence: 7:23am On Apr 09, 2019 |
You people attacking the Op that he abandoned his father are not being fair to him. How many of you are from polygamous homes and know the way these settings work? Op, there is a strategy that you have employed and has worked for you even when your father was alive. I suggest you stick with that! Choose your battles wisely! 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage thanks MI as he supports her over former label mate Victoria Kimani by boldconfidence: 1:40pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
Some of us don't understand what it means to face attacks. Because some people are against you does not mean you are wrong. You might just be misunderstood. I wonder how tiwa can stop all promoters from calling other female artist that are very talented for a show like they are insinuating. I think she has a lot of jobs because she has always remained in the limelight(good or bad), always dropping albums or doing collabos. Also see how she his handling this situation by ignoring their ranting and leaving other people to defend her. They will look like the bad guys, will they also blame tiwa for that? This people forget that music is business! To me they should focus on her business strategy and working hard on their careers. That way no body "can kill their shine". I am not a fan of any of their music. I see this from a business standpoint. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Side Chick Just Gave Birth by boldconfidence: 9:23am On Mar 30, 2019 |
YoungFr: That does not seem fair. But then only they know what they were thinking and the human heart is deep. I am sorry for your loss. Sit down and take stock! I suggest you let the relationship with the lady end here. Let her find her own husband and you try to rebuild the love and trust of your wife that you have broken. Forge ahead and let the lessons you learnt from this experience be ingrained in your heart It is not easy for anyone to be cheated on. No matter how much you think your wife is accepting of what has happened, you have a broken woman on your hands please focus on that and your daughter. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Side Chick Just Gave Birth by boldconfidence: 8:02am On Mar 30, 2019 |
You said the baby died and they told you after you got there? Hmmm |
Family / Re: PERFUME GIFT SET For Men And Women by boldconfidence: 9:29am On Feb 13, 2019 |
Lovely collection! |
Family / Re: Is It Wrong To Avoid Your Extended Family? by boldconfidence: 9:40am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Please focus on your nuclear family. For your brother to say he will slap you, shows they do not respect you and even though you are an adult now, they will always treat you like a child if you do not change the way you interact with them. You already know what to do but are too scared. They know you can't cut them off. Why don't you prove them wrong. Be strong! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by boldconfidence: 8:36am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Sometimes the breast bounces back after like a year and half. I am speaking from experience. Before you do anything, give it that amount of time. Then she should wear good bras 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Am I So Unemotional? by boldconfidence: 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
ignant: Wow! You have described this so well 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Advice A Sister by boldconfidence: 9:42pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Eketem: Thank you |
Family / Re: Advice A Sister by boldconfidence: 4:04pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Eketem: @eketem, could you please mention the insurance company and the particular policy. I will really appreciate your response |
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