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In as much as I believe she wouldn't have date you talk less of marrying you if you were an atheist when she met you, it doesn't change the fact that we shouldn't try to evolve and learn new things as we grow older. You don't need to rub your atheist view on her face and if she indeed want you based on who you are and not the religion you practice, she would stay and if she's all these fanatics that goes to one Alfa or sheikh for counseling, am sorry my brother you will definitely lose her. If she indeed wants to stay last last she will say she would pray to god to change you and you will know in your mind that she will be wasting her time but don't tell her. I know because have been in that kind of situation ( though not married) but now she's cool with whatever I decided to do. With you guys married though makes it very complicated.
I wish you the best.

Les:
Any kids? Just checking out stuff that could tie you down in case you wanna leave.

Yes you might consider leaving for the sake of your life and sanity.

BTW, have you tried knowing Jesus personally?

Guy used to be a Muslim and now he felt religion is a waste of time, you are there asking if he knows Jesus personally. Do you know Jesus personally or you know him based on stories you read?

After my last paper in Uni, I feel happy not because something awaits me but because the sh*t is finally over.

Nairaland mods must get sense in 2019 and stop pushing nonsense to FP.....guys make una remember to put am for prayer at cross over service

I wish the guy the best of luck....he go need am

Plan gone wrong...the judge collect money con Bleep up later

Trying so hard to be in the news, finally one nairaland mod will move this trash to front-page

Believe women at your own peril....those people are snakes

Fierce11:
A wise man once told me that, "The problem with hoes, is that they always try to act like a garden shovel".. He added that I should "fear hoes, avoid hoes or simply treat hoes like hoes",,,.. RIP sir,, I can finally hear what you have been trying to tell me.

Please allow me copy this to my Whatsapp status....that's the quote of the year for me

peacenaija:
It's crystal clear that there are spiritual and psychological meanings to dream. That's why i laugh at people who says dreams are not real and they are based on what you are thinking before sleeping, Dream is far more than that, it's way to receive message and revelation. Know, Keep and understand your dreams

Dream is a product of your imaginations and sometimes random nonsense. During my 100l second semester, I was diagnosed with tb and I was having two mad exams the next day, with the tb I couldn't read anything for the exam, I remembered till day break all what I dreamt was based on the likely questions for the exams, what's the meaning to that.
Like 5-6 years ago, I dreamt my mum died, if I told her about that she will be scared and will even start thinking of visiting one Alfa or having me fast to revert that. 5years later she's still alive and healthy. What is the meaning of the dream.
Dream means nothing, nothing tangible but to those that believe some spiritual gangs are after them, it might mean something.

Godmother:
The one thing I like about these northern girls is their decency. You will never see them showing breast or thighs anyhow and they are still so beautiful.

But behind the scene...they are badder, a tour to north someday will change your view

My 2019 resolution.... Hurt me and I will hurt you more

We don turn photographer for naija, any small thing we snap and post on social media...no wonder there is too much fake love all over social media

Open the picture you want to use, click on the three dots on the top right, choose set picture as, select wallpaper and you are done.

Twice or more a week

Olamsoh:
Suicides piss me off. I can't explain it but once I hear a person took their own life I get fucking mad. We're out here trying to stay alive and you just took your own life you ungrateful little Bleep. You shouldn't have had that life to begin with, someone else deserved it.
social media has presented suicide as a considerable option. You ask how? You see how much love, care and support is on display when a person commits suicide? That's a major problem. We pamper suicides too much, thus letting it have its way.

That's aside, they think it's a solution to their problems. What nonsense. You guys have been pampered enough, you need someone to talk sense I to you. Your problems don't go away, only you do and most times it's transferred to a person who's unprepared.

They, in turn, get frustrated because they inherited problems they aren't prepared for and when it starts to seem like nothing is working, suicide starts to look good and since someone they know and probably looked up to did it, well, the cycle continues. I've joined campaigns to stop suicide. I've begged, I've pleaded, and people are still taking their own life. I wish life can be transferred, I won't think twice about transferring that life to someone who actually wanted to live but isn't alive right now.

Honestly, if you don't want to annoy me, keep anything relating to suicides away. I don't want to hear or see that a person, no matter the reason, took their own life. Don't give me any speech about depression, I know about depression, I fought the damn thing and I had nobody.

Don't tell me people aren't as strong as I am because that's bullshit. We're strong in our different ways and you have no idea how strong you really are until it's the only option you have left. Suicide is never an option. People have been through far worse and came out on top.

So don't tell me any crap about me being insensitive or I don't understand. I understand perfectly well that they are ungrateful and undeserving
If you have mental/psychological issues, find help. People are willing to help for free. Friends, even strangers want you to stay alive & you still want to die. You're very mad and you deserve to burn in hell for putting the people you leave behind through such emotional torture.

There's always a way out. I mean always, no exceptions whatsoever. Even if you choose to not believe in God your options are still numerous, but, no, you won't think that way instead you think of giving up completely, you idiot.

Go to a hospital and donate your organs, you'll save lives. People need those organs. At the very least, give your death meaning.
If you're reading this and you're still contemplating suicide for whatever reason, I want you to know that you're very cruel and very ungrateful. I made this thread of my own volition, out of the irritation of how we've accommodated the idea of taking one's own life. I will not tolerate or pamper it anymore. You don't own the life, you didn't give it to yourself, God did and you insult Him by taking it so meaninglessly.

To the guy that lost his girlfriend to suicide yesterday being a day after Christmas, I'm sorry you had to go through that. You didn't deserve it and you should've known but don't listen to anyone blaming you for not knowing. It wasn't your fault. She made a choice on her own.
A lot of you disagree, but that's okay. Let me put in another angle. Let's take suicide off the table. Imagine humans are immortal and cannot be killed, what do you think will happen? You think they won't find a way to deal with whatever issues they have? You guys are joking..

Lol

IstandWithGod:
You wanna know how to literally frustrate Nigerian youths? Then do this:

1. Ban watching of football(European and local leagues)
2. Ban every form of football betting (bet9ja & co.)
3. Ban listening to Davido, Olamide, Wizkid, Falz and other popular artiste's songs
4. Ban watching of porn and sex outside wedlock
5. Ban the use of makeup by females
6. Ban visit to nairaland, Linda Ikeji blog, Stella Dimorkorkus blog and allied gossip sites
7. Cancel all forms of political engagements by youths
8. Ban cultism and every form of thuggery
9. Ban seductive dressing by ladies and foolish dressing by gents
10. Cut off their access to the internet

Finally force all of them into Agriculture (back to farm)

And forcing them to farm will them what? Maybe you don't know how much dstv, network operators pay as tax to the government

Nasir123:
You may be right!
But it may interest u to know that I'm also a youth at 37.And I believe I fall into the 5%catigory.
Right now,I'm also rich(broke)..why working on it..i had stopped complaining long ago.
I know the country is hard,but I also believe we own the duty to change that for good. Else these people will ruin this country for us,our children, and grandchildren. That's why we must keep on telling ourselves the truths,keep on participating, and keep on active in the Nigeria system.. especially through discussion/forum like this,else we're DEADD.

A situation where 90 of us will want to be involve in expo during exams,how do we then intend to solve future problems? Things like this should not be encourage.

We should begin to see ourselves as stakeholders in the Nigeria system, not SLAVES.

I agreed with you bro. Hopefully, something good will happen soon

Reason I stop using twitter....everybody won stay relevant, hence the lies

Three people you must fear
1. Fear god( for those that believe he exist)
2. Fear Satan(for those that believe in his existence)
3. Fear women

Badb0y4lyf:
Once you lose hope life seems to have no purpose I sympathize with her family friends and well wisher in the end death happens to us all.

The only card left to play most of us is HOPE, if thats gone my brother nothing to live for anymore. RIP to her

Treasure17:
Really sad. No matter what parents are to guide and protect their sons and daughters in all ramifications irrespective of their mistakes.

Maybe because am a guy sha. Fatherly love no dy for me at all and it just make me stronger. RIP to the young lady.

Nasir123:
When u have Lazy youth with a very lazy Medulla what do u expect?

95% of Nigeria youth have brain malfunction. No apology!
If u'r not with them you won't understand.
Free money
Drugs
Pursuing girls/men up and down
Can't wright ordinary Exam without preparing for EXPO
Can't reason properly (ask them on Nairaland)
The list is endless.

The youth should wake up from their STUPIDITY.

What happen to the remaining 5% that doesn't have brain malfunction? They are either somewhere languishing in poverty or complaining about there 9-5 job. Baba the country is not encouraging anybody, if you are strong enough to stay on the right path congratulations.

Ever since that chioma the cucumber girl issues, anytime I see pageant, cucumber comes to my mind and what would have influence the choice of the eventual winner to be crowned queen....

Last last everybody go die ni

Later, some idiots will come online and be saying girls deserve respect. Getting the respect you deserve depends on how well you present yourself.

Emmabraham:
Please help me am really broke
Drinking Garri on Christmas day

My phone touch pad broke today


Really need money my food stuff Remain just Garri
Thanks God bless you
Polaris Bank 3053908694,
Mbonu Emmanuel Chukwudi

Sell the phone buy foodstuffs na, at least na person wey don chop dy buy data

Building church self na political point, who did we offend in this country?

Houseofglam7:
Can we all just agree this news is of no relevance to us

Nairaland mods want the site to be updated at all time and will be pushing nonsense to FP....

brostheo:
Bro pray for grace,not only criminals go to jail,I spent almost a year in Okere prison in Warri,some persons don't even deserve to be in police station let alone the prison,but this is 9ja ,anything is possible,pray for grace bro

Sorry about your ordeal... You right

I have to do all what I can to avoid visiting or being an inmate in any naija prison....na hell on earth

If they need attach someone else name to your name to be recognized that means you are irrelevant as f*ck....without the wizkid third baby mama tag, nobody go sabi her