Don't let him blackmail you emotionally cos all he is after is that thing between your legs.
Even when you finally get married he will keep doing bobonice until he "savages" you then he will start avoiding you. Not let am "tiwa" you oh cos even you go dey find am go when your husband dey Bleep up at times.
Kevv420: I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.
But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.
I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.
Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.
What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Imagine the audacity,you slapped and ripped her panties in your attempt to rape her and you came here to spew this rubbish.
KingOfAmebo: "You lack compression, judging from the image you highlighted, someone is advicing on how to mitigate response time by "parking" ambulances at strategic location and you are here using that as an excuse that hotels have ambulances stationed in their hotel...
Again, I repeat, name one hotel in the world that have an ambulance parked within their facility or keep shut". - Village People spokesperson.
Arobake: People really talk authoritatively on issues they know little or nothing about, please. Especially when their horizon is limited to Nigeria. Thank you.
The person is a kid or one of those wrecthed souls that needs financial deliverance pour out their frustration on their betters.
poweredcom: But this OP did not tell us how come the glass door got broken
It's either he James the bathroom door hardly and the lower part of the glass door broke away and fell on his soft ajebo leg and cut him ..if fit be say d cut self no be deep cut as a big man he de fear blood...hahaha
Thank God say he get money ...but why would someone choose reddinton hospital ...when there are several cheaper hospital to treat cuts in V.I
Cognitivereason: Well.. This story is one sided.. Take sentiment apart.. No average 5 star hotel have their own ambulances ..that why it called a HOTEL not ikorodu general hospital If there is a health issue..they simply call the attention of a health facility...
Secondly... I get why they tried moving you out through some sort of a back door...it an hospitality building for goodness sake...they cant just carry you through the main door where there would be guest trying to check in or maybe some people eating around and they start seeing blood gushing around uthat is enough to infuriate some guests or cause an irritation..it a 5 star hotel which will be filled with classy people .....haba it common sense to use an alternative if there is...
Lastly my only fault was that they didn't pay ur bills..and I will not blame them..first the hospital demanded money before they can treat you....it not possible that the staff who took you will pay such out of their own money....in short u were Even asking them to take u to such private hospital where they collect 1 million before treatment...
I will even blaim the hospital first.. why demand for deposits before taking an emergency case..if they didn't.. Most likely the hotel would have covered ur bills at the end of the treatment but hey u already paid dem the money...
I don't get why u expect the staff to wait all through the treatment... For what exactly... Is the hospital supposed to take over ur injuries..what are they waiting for other than to report back to their manager... The management at least should have gotten back to you..
Lastly ..even though by standards the hotel is supposed to take responsibility for the damages... Glasses don't just break as u described it.. It probably out of ur carelessness ..ur not the first to use the bathroom...anyways accidents happen and ur only exaggerating because you got injured In the process...other wise it would have been the other way round
wirinet: My problem with the story is why didn't he sue the hotel? Since he had the receipts of the bills he incurred and can prove that the accident was as a result of direct negligence/ incompetence of the hotel, why not contact a lawyer and sue. He is entitled to compensation for money spent, income lost and psychological trauma.
KingOfAmebo: "I actually stopped reading when he said "They also didn't have any emergency services and no stretcher or ambulance". Are you kidneying me?
Abeg name one hotel in the world that has an ambulance, even Burj Al Arab - the World's only 7 Star Hotel in Dubai don't have an ambulance. It's either you are confusing Radisson Blue Hotel for Radisson Blue Hospital or you just want to cashout?
A 5 year old kid can lie better than this nigger.
Then he said: They were trying to sneak me out through the back stairway on the back of a porter to avoid a scene..Now this is absolutely laughable, where you expecting them to take you through the guest lobby so that everyone can have a good view of your injured leg? This is a hotel nigger and not a school or factory". - Village People spokesperson.
This happened several years ago and we thank God he is alive today.
You wrote cash out For your information he was already a billionaire before you could spell your name.
What of the water and pringles they took. Those guys were just criminals and I suspect them to be government sponsored criminals. We only saw one body and another one arrested and we can't ascertain he was actually dead or among the so called criminals tagged BNG.
LiegeMan: hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again. my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.
Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone. I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.
So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.
When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.
when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.
when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.
Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what? please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine? or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.
mattmogan88: So today I was poking around in my family old stuffs when I stumbled on my grandma's wooden box. I opened it I found a lot of interesting stuffs inside. There's this small bag that contains old Nigerian currency, both note and coins. It pained me somehow because thats a cool cash back in the days.
This was Buhari era after the currencies colours and designs were swapped.
I remember that 1naira was the colour of 20naira and 10naira was the colour of 1naira.
Anuoluwa12345: Is this how you run your home??, Wow... If you are a married woman, or about to marry..for instance, and this is coming from you, then I fear for the man.
My comment was directed to the OP.
But since you are unfortunate to mention me then you are a miserable ignoramus. If you are so insane to accept 4k from your husband to feed 4 mouths for a week then i weep for your home.