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Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Born2Breed(f): 10:25am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Babes pick race. Avoid him. Tule. Run. Don't let him blackmail you emotionally cos all he is after is that thing between your legs. Even when you finally get married he will keep doing bobonice until he "savages" you then he will start avoiding you. Not let am "tiwa" you oh cos even you go dey find am go when your husband dey Bleep up at times. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Ndidi2: 10:25am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Shalommy:she wanted a married man attention. All these girls doesn't have conscience. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Oddfinder: 10:27am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Bonjovi13:You're wise 2 Likes |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Bellotelli: 10:28am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344:The man want your kpekus, simple... If u want to make him happy give it to him, but remember, like oliver twist he will certainly ask for more even after u are married. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: So you were rolling with a married man, visiting him at his house, shopping together and cooking for him. Shameless girl. Very shameless. 2 Likes |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by aktolly54(m): 10:29am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344:give him your friend if you actually want to help him, with that he will feel relieved. PS: I know most of you gurls find it hard to introduce your friend to male friend because you don't really love each other(woman is woman enemy). You always have impression that what if he treat your friend like a queen and she is happy. THE MAN WILL BE HAPPY IF YOU GIVE HIM UOUR FRIEND, DONT TALK BULSH.T THAT YOU DONT HAVE ANY FEMALE FRIENDS OOO COS THAT WHAT YOU SAY SOMETIMES YOU DONT WANT TO DO NORMAL, SINCE THE MAN CANT CHOP UOUR COOKIE, LET HIM ENJOY YOUR FRIEND COOKIE AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR FRIEND JUST LIKE HE DID TO YOU |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Thereishel: 10:30am On Nov 13, 2021 |
No man ln his right mind would behave you didn't not have intimacy with him. You go to market together you cook for him in his house. Who would believe you? |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by descarado: 10:30am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344:No man ever comes to a lady as a friend. The ultimate aim is to see your pant. You indulged and gave him hope. Very wicked of you. And the wife has been enduring. The fact is, you ladies don't know when to draw the line cos of greed. If that man hasn't be helpful, you would have dumped his ass. Bestie my foot. 5 Likes |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Btruth: 10:31am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Search your heart, if you truly don't love him. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Ndidi2: 10:32am On Nov 13, 2021 |
JoeOdion:softheart? No.. She is not responsible and God fearing Someone's husband is your big bro giving u attention u don't deserve. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by DhanBaba(m): 10:32am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Ndidi2: Abi nah She knew this will happen, but she goes on with it because of the physical things benefitting her She ignore the other side She have rob and hurt the man's family of the love the man have for his wife and rob the children of financial stuffs and father closeness too I pray you don't reap what you sow But it sure you will reap what you sow But it may not be where you sow and the pattern you take sow, another lady go soon disturb your marriage too Go pray well Sha |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Dynamicbliss: 10:33am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Make I think am
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Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Thesaint141(m): 10:35am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Wahala nor too much like dis? |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 10:42am On Nov 13, 2021 |
If you claim you don't date married man why did you allow him come so close. Intimacy is not sex. Intimacy is what you guys shared: the time you spent together, his close relationship with your family, the gifts he gave you, the meals you spent your time to prepare for him in his house, the market you accompanied him to pick wears for his wife and children(only his PA can be excused to play this role). Will you handle it if another woman shares this level of closeness with your husband? You'll have to acknowledge and take responsibility for your role in causing your present situation. And if you love yourself, never visit him alone again, cos since you claim you haven't had sex yet, he could insist on you guys having it as your 'good bye' package. And that could be the beginning of another round of pain and blackmail for you. He is a grown adult. Let him manage his own emotions. And it's not your business how he handles himself after you get married. Only a selfish person will be married but not want you to get married because he wants all your attention... except there is more to this than you wrote 2 Likes |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Ndidi2: 10:46am On Nov 13, 2021 |
DhanBaba:It reduces the closeness and connection to his wife and children bc one shameless girl is getting attention she doesn't deserve from an irresponsible man 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by descarado: 10:49am On Nov 13, 2021 |
cococandy:There is something I have learnt over the cause of my journey on earth. If a married man start coming close to me, helping me, acting like a big brother, I will want to see the picture of his wife or mum. 95% of the time, either I resemble the wife, mum or I have the mum's character. I have asked a friend why this is so and till now, no answer. Its kinda a big weakness. And if you say no sex, they will agree as long as you are close to them. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by wolebest: 10:50am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Stop the arrant nonsense you are talking about. Focus on your marriage and take no prisoners. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Munzy14(m): 10:51am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344:You were enjoying his resources, now you realised you need your own man... Smh some ladies and greedy eeh...You want to have it all... I hope you know that the guy coming to marry you will keep his own personal bestie as well.. Don't come and create another topic when he diverts attention to another lady....Na the man's wife prayers go frustrate you sha.. The bigger karma is doing push ups for your matter..Una don milk the cow finish, now you want a brand new Goat.. Carry your cross jaree...The truth is He is going to frustrate you physically, spiritually and otherwise... Some women sef, una get heart o..that is you asking us how you will help him heal after playing tik tok with it.. Men beware of strange women...They will shatter your Destiny and move smoothly.. Many women, few wife.. Chai to the man coming to marry you, sorry to him..One chance.
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Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by descarado: 10:52am On Nov 13, 2021 |
cardoctor:Seems you know the babe? I know it's cooked up but it's very relatable. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by kunleiky(m): 10:52am On Nov 13, 2021 |
DICKstractor:You are indeed a DICKstractor lol. Ma'am OP. Pray for him that he finds healing. Let him realise you both deserve happiness in your individual lives. But maintain good distance when doing this though. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Amhappy(f): 10:53am On Nov 13, 2021 |
You would have cut him off the day he asked for a relationship but right now you can't help him without jeopardizing your marriage. He saw you as more than a friend and wanted to keep you for himself without considering your own happiness. A good friend will be happy for you trust me. By virtue of work,i have a lot of male friends. As a last push meet him during the day in a very open place (use your head because feelings are involved) and talk to him to fall in line. Be specific and give him a timeline. If that fails,then ignore him forever. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by dalass(f): 10:56am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: Yes, men like to come in even as a friend and openly/ secretly hope you grow to love them. Some are veery patient enough. This one is playing on your intelligence and emotions. He wants you as probably a second wife or steady sidechick.. He's selfish, plain and simple! He has a wife and kids and still wants you. Cut him off, else after your wedding, he'll still want you. Emotional blackmail should stop working on you abeg 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Munzy14(m): 10:56am On Nov 13, 2021 |
If you believe that their is no sex in this relationship, you will easily believe buhari is Obama.. Infact you are one of Nigeria's problems... Taaa..Every guy man suppose try club ones in a while and see what this type do with married men....All sort of dirty sex is practiced..After all if you dey use another person property, na rough rough..
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Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Braimah1001: 10:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
You can call me for advice |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Ndidi2: 10:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:some women ee Imagine going about with someone's father. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by darichlife: 10:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Which part of the country is he from! |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by amdoyin82(m): 11:00am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Simple remedy... Book a date with him in an hotel. Give him nice Bleep and thank me later. That will solve the whole brohouha. The man is only pained because he has not entered the comfort zone despite all he has spent on you.. Him dey feel like mugun |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by pikechukwu6(m): 11:03am On Nov 13, 2021 |
I smell fishery in this your write up. Are you sure he is not your sugar daddy? If NO, I see no reason why he should be offended. I would have love to hear from him before conclusion. Though if not go ahead and build your own family... But be careful!!! |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by ActuaRise696969: 11:04am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: Fucck him before the marriage and transfer the upcoming pregnancy to your husband. You fucckers keep taking peoples money and emotion even when your conscience tells you that you are robbing. If you despise a married man's dicck you should despise his money or just give him a pussy. MY advise? Do nothing. Let him learn from his pains. As a married man, I consider it a personal insult to expect sex from a lady because I help her financially. I am expected to help beggars. I |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Ofolete: 11:04am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Leave that man alone he is married. Maybe you are the reason he is staying too far from his family. Your total abandonment of him will make him behave like a prodigal son who later repented and looked for his home. Please kill your feelings for him and if possible leave from that environment and go to where he cannot see you again. In the long run you both would see the reason to appreciate this decision. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Bamzyriches451: 11:06am On Nov 13, 2021 |
E concern you |
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