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chiefojiji:
What money can't buy, what can buy it?? Who know the answer??

What money can`t buy the blood of Jesus can buy it e.g peace of mind.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The complain come when she has a tedious job and you expect her to do these chores like WTF!? Come back home after a tedious day and the wife is expected to go straight into the kitchen and cook and the man will b there watching tv...

Yeah, that`s the complain.

MissJoy29:
Please ask him o. If we are helping them do their "responsibility", why can't they fo same for us without whining so much about it?

Sometimes it's even more than 50-50 in favour of the wives

I know dear.
Which goes to prove that teenagers are the culprits of the silly comments.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Oh. A broke dude spotted. Don't quite me back!

Broke dudes always want a woman who works or brings something to the table. He`s too lazy to be a provider.
Any man who is very interested in if a woman has got a wallet is broke.

The real men don`t have that time.
When they do, it is usually the last thing they notice.

But girls are earning money and working.
So I wonder who these broke guys keep talking about.

dinewithoyin:
women should try to update their selves, .

You`re saying this now o, you a man, a provider.
Don`t complain she is not submissive or too career minded later o.
Her earnings to you, is not supposed to be "they should be able to put something on the table" o

XML33:
It's the responsibility of a woman to take care of the kids and tend to most of the house chores because that's what she's created for. Enough of this equality/switching of roles nonsense. Most women naturally want to take care of children. Most women naturally want to tend to the needs of their husbands. I'm not supporting over labouring a woman with duties or not considering how stressful certain home duties can be. But the fact remains that these things are her duties and she should do them without complain. Just the same way a man should provide for the family and offer protection & emotional security to his wife as well as shower her with affection and care without complain.

Men have been going to wars and dying in their millions for thousands of years and no man has complained. Men have been doing the dangerous jobs and losing fingers and limbs for thousands of years and no man has complained. I don't see why women should complain because of ordinary house chores.

@bolded, do they?
Is it not 50-50 we have in terms of providing in the home between men and their wives these days?

Baby girl, when you have your child, you will understand.

DrinkLimca:
She is a mental health practitioner and i think that she is developing mental deficiency that needs serious attention from a real health practitioner...

No kid is a burden and children are not burden..

On the contrary children are blessing to the world because all great men and women that have made the world a better place were ones kids..

I was never a burden to my parents.. and i believe that she too was never a burden to her parents and that was why she was not aborted..

People that think children are burden are irresponsible people that failed to plan for their lives..

They are wayward and selfish so they see children as a burden because they live a wayward life filled with bad decisions, they are lazy in even taking care of themselves so they see kids as a burden when their inresponsibilities brings a child out of wedlock..

Thank you for posting. She almost got me!
This is really really true:

People that think children are burden are irresponsible people that failed to plan for their lives..

They are wayward and selfish so they see children as a burden because they live a wayward life filled with bad decisions, they are lazy in even taking care of themselves so they see kids as a burden when their inresponsibilities brings a child out of wedlock..[/b]

But Elephants are harmless.
They are a rare sight in Nigeria.

Why kill it?
Where are the animal rights organisations in Nigeria?
You aren`t doing your job at all; at the moment you score 1/10!!

samuelchimmy:
Oh God when will I ever make ftc, since how many years do I have to wait

Lol..Na ftc dey make you cry like this?

Mariangeles:
You'll start to take ghosts seriously when you become one...

Pease now. Easy.

chiefojiji:
Ok....


But something crossed my mind now. Will the aunt pay for the transport fare? Or na free based on staff level?

hahahaha...

chiefojiji:

Am not ready to understand sir.....

Lol...

samuelchimmy:
Oh God when will I ever make ftc, since how many years do I have to wait

Lol..Na ftc dey make yo cry like this?

CAPSLOCKED:

IT HAPPENS WHEN THE WIFE DOESN'T THINK SHE SHOULD BE SUBJECTED TO THE HOUSE CHORES ALONE AS SHE'S EQUAL WITH THE HUSBAND, WHO NEVER HELPS HER OUT.


YOU'LL NOT UNDERSTAND UNTIL YOU GET THERE.

When a man says the responsibility of providing must be shared 50-50 to his wife`s face, they tend to act that way; defiance.
A woman naturally supports in the home. As a man, you don`t need to tell her that. It may make her disrespectful.

This matter is broad. God helps.

oruma19:
same tin happened in warri abt 3 weeks ago. House help set one on fire and the other tried to help her brother so she got burnt. The boy died. House help...hhhhhmmmm

O ooooooooooo...........

Evablizin:
Same here,someone even said that i'm stupid and not responsible. Is a pity.

hahaha..."olosho", "gold digger", and "lazy" were used in their responses to me.

I heard of a lady, a high-flyer in the corporate world, that had been praying for the fruit of the womb for so long. She finally, after many years, got one. But lost him at a tender age. He was in the care of someone.
Guess the first thing she did? She resigned.
A resignation that could not be done when the child was alive?

In a home a woman can pursue her dreams but it doesn`t have to be an 8am to 10pm thingy!

A woman was physically designed to nurture her young.
That is why she can multitask while a man cannot or can hardly multitask!
It`s simple nature.
But it seems the devil`s hypnosis has held some minds very strong against wisdom.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Men should also take care of the kids because the children are answering the mans name and I can never support a woman being a housewife.Times have changed the children should also realized that the woman has a life to live.

Shut up there.
How does a woman running a business translate to being a housewife??

If the man does his job of providing, then the women should live up to her responsibility and take care of the kids.
But if the woman is the provider, then the man should live up to the responsiblity of caring for the kids.
But a case where both the man and woman are pursuing money, then, pray that the reason why you visited this thread in the first place does not reoccur.

Evablizin:



Why can't some mothers take up their responsibility and take good care of their kids by themselves.

This house boy/girl shìt gotta stop.

RIP EKENE AND MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON EBUKA.

My Sistaaa...I once mentioned this but was almost eaten alive.
Women should learn to take care of their homes while men provide.
Dear women for the sake of your young kids, you can operate a supermarket or any other less demanding business till thy leave home.

Afonjanightmare:
Thanks bro, really insightful
This period has been the most challenging for me since I was born, it's not been easy for both of us, but we shall overcome

So sorry, don`t worry, it would pass.
Hope is a powerful spirit. It rewards those who entertain it.

There is ALWAYS light at the end of a tunnel.
After the night, there IS always daybreak.
Wait for it

neoapocalypse:
How is it interracial they are both black

People know book o

discman2k2:
U r most definitely myy guy!!! I love ur attacks, infct iwe na ewe gi o (U deyu vex wella!)

Thumbs up, nwanne!

haha the guy just dey make noise up and down for this thread

Adefemiaderoju1:
Yes he just joined recently

haha because those nokia phones don`t look like they can post on instagram

TrumporIdie:
The guy 's dick game must be on point cos I don't see what elseJuliet sees in him.

The guy is handsome abeg.
It`s just that his hair that seems to be disfiguring him and i think Juliet can see that.

iknopro:
Wow bro, na only your advise i go dey take for nairaland from today, wow, you are really a genius if you know what i mean....Thank you bro for sharing

I don read the guy comment reach 5 times.
Abeg why you dey thank am?

Phut:
And the annoying thing is that they copy all of the negatives first. But they won’t see the technological innovation to copy

cc: centboy123456

acevic:
The way people are castigating the op sickens me to the stomach.

Someone offers to do introduction which is the first step and go ahead with the trad marriage after she must have put to bed. How do that show unseriousness ?

Then you do not know how men are dealing with women.
Check most of the female comments here, they think OP is another baby mama maker.


*Please please say NO to abortion girls and boys.

engrchykae:
another overgrown baby.
How can he call his girlfriend his woman as if he paid her dowry?
Should use dss to arrest the girl's family because of his failed attempt to cut corners.
As for you the Don of I.diots,i don't have time for devil's advocates like you

Donjazzy12 thinks you support the killings (whereas you don`t) as against being angry that he even thinks he can still arrest the Mum.

It`s just a misunderstanding between you two.

Afonjanightmare:
I'm in your shoes right now bro, I don't have money for wedding or traditional marriage but want the baby, the girl's family has insisted on trad, what do I do?

Confirm the pregnancy even if you have to trick her to the hospital.
Don`t do any ceremony. just take the bride rice to them.
That should save you some cost.

Make sure you pay the dowry.
It`s usually cheap in itself.

Please o, do all that you can to save your baby`s life because i can`t understand the reasoning of some humans these days!

say NO to abortion!

Sezua:
If this happened then you are a self centered son of a bitch. To even think of arresting the mum shows how stupid you are. What sort of men are we breeding in this part of the world? Why don't you make marrying her one of your projects? Anuofia...

Anthony Joshua says he`d raise his young female relation with strict hands and leave young his male relation to do what ever he like cos he`s gon be a man
Parents should handle their sons and daughters with discpline and not just daughters alone

AndyCole16:
For people to like your comments shows there are fundamental with humans these days. Do you think the solution to his "running from responsibility"is the killing of those innocent babies?
Granted their is more to the story, but mind you ANYONE with a conscience to murder a soul is worst.

Nah, you don`t get it.
JideAmuGiaka is not supporting the killing.
She/he is simply blaming he OP for the occurence.

No sane human being dropping comments here supports it.
They are just blaming the OP for it.

I hope you get the differrence now?

KingsleyCEO:
Mr project sir, are you related to Governor Wike?

You can't even tell yourself the truth.
Well your actions shows you were not serious and that you would want her to terminate it, only that you didn't have the courage to tell her. They just helped you out. Go and look for someone else and when you do, be serious.
That's how people lost precious things simply because they can't set priorities.


Who agree with me on this?
This is how the girl and her family sees you now.

Hahahahahahahaha