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RuthDaniels:
#yawn!


Summary please?

Ruth? Ruth?? Ruth?...??
How many times did I call you?

This piece was written by Romeo3
https://www.nairaland.com/4387789/diary-uber-driver-interactive/3#65701024







To all guys that read this diary, pay close attention.

Avoid relationships if you do not have a steady and consistent source of income. I want to tell you a hard truth. Mind You, i will always talk from experience.

Girls/women were not created to suffer. Naturally, God did not create them to work. It's an innate thing. It's naturally in them. it's in their instinct to date/marry a male who would provide for her and her children. Make no mistake. All they want from you is consistency. Keep love out of your head. Love doesn't cover everything. A girl will stay with you when you are broke because she believes in your ability to turn your situation around eventually. She will walk away if your situation does not improve. pls, do not blame her when it happens. It's natural. Even when they are working and are making their own money, they are instinctively looking out for a guy who makes more than them or, who has the potential to make more money than them. If your situation doesnt doesn't change for the better, they will insult you eventually and leave you. Even when they do not insult you directly, you will be insulted by how they change their attitude or how they respond to you.

Be wise. Focus on improving your life and stop chasing girls. I repeat, stop chasing girls. When you have made it, you will attract the right kind of girl. A woman chooses her man. She will always follow the one she believe will take care of her the most. Do not also forget that they have a biological clock counting against them, and you do not. It's never about love alone. If they say they love You, it's because they have a basis for that love. No love without finance. When hardship comes knocking on the door, love escapes through the window. They will only stay if you can assure them that your situation will change, and if they can truly see signs of your situation changing.

I meet them a lot on uber. They keep you as a boyfriend, but they are sleeping with a guy who meets all their needs. If you were meeting all their needs they wont cheat on you. It's not your fault that they cheat on You, but i will blame you for putting yourself in awkward situations. There is nothing wrong with singleness. Discover who you are and what you stand for. There is a time for everything. life is step by step. If you skip a step, you are in trouble. If you do not know who you are, you will fall for every girl that comes your way when you are eventually ready. Take your time before you go into a relationship. Study women and their behaviour. Read about them, do your research and observe. If you think having money will bring you women, you are very correct. But if you have not discovered your self and made your research you are in trouble. They will use you.
A fisherman's net will attract and capture all kinds of fish. Not all fishes are suitable. A fisherman has to select good fish from bad. Be like a fisherman. You need experience to be like a fisherman. A fisherman wasnt born a fisherman. He learned to be a fisherman. You do not have to wait for a car to hit you before you know you could die. From the experience of others, you will know. Learn from experience. Gather knowledge.

Make no mistake, women are the smartest of all of God's creation. They can do 10 different things at the same time efficiently. it is how God created them. They can date 10 different men at the same time and none of them will ever find out. Go figure. I am not even talking of runs girls here cos those ones are pure business women. Don't even be a fool to fall in love with a runs girl.

Runs girls will make you feel good about yourself. They will take care of you. They will pamper you and will make you believe they have changed and then you will find out they havent changed and tou will be heartbroken because you are a very big fool.
If it's sex you want, they will kill you with sex. You will believe you have found the one because you are just a rotund discombobulated idiot.

I saw one of those idiots the other day. I picked up this girl and a friend of hers one day from park view estate. They were going to Ajah to see her supposed boyfriend. He has money according to the story the girl was narrating. but, he met her as a customer and fell in love with her. Don't be like him. On our way to his house, they girl was expecting a call from another guy who she was supposed to go and sleep with. Her friend asked her what she'll do when the guy calls her and she was with her boyfriend. She replied and said very simple; I will pick a fight with him, and storm out of the house. Will ignore his calls like say i dey form vex, then i go cool down the next day.....
I waited to see the idiot. The fool that has been wrapped around this girl's little finger.

Be wise. Broaden you view about women. They deserve to be studied. In fact, i believe they should be studied as a course in higher institutions. I have learnt a lot. Pains me to see stupid guys every where. Be wise.



cc: MissCokie

Kudos to the baker and also the bride&groom.
This is how wedding cakes should be so that everyone can have huge chunks instead of that tiny bit wey no reach person put for mouth.

PS
Hope half of that cake is not for the couple`s freezer?

sinaj:
The pics looks funi

Attoh's smile sha lol

Attoh`s smile?
You no see 50cent white powder

DreamSonInlaw:
Haba naw try u go see even na to type black couple picture on goggle u go see. If e hard try... good things dey hard. WakandaForever

Haba naw, I didn`t say you would not see. I simply said it is harder plus, if you see, it may not be the exact picture you have in your head. But you`d see enough white couples in the position you imagine in your head

Pat Atah looks like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome.

yemzzy22:
lol looks handsome my grand ma crush those days

Hahaha. As per, na everybody crush

AAH!!Pat Atah.
So you had a thing with Victoriaa Eyama, Genevieve and co?
So heartbroken my crush

cassyrooy:
No worry, him no go query you.

You're welcome bro.

Amin. I believe.

Maeka:
I AV ANSWER YOU ALREADY

I don`t like this thing that you are doing o

cassyrooy:
Boyjo baba mi, how your day dey go na?

So far so good o.
But my boss just catch me now say I dey browse Nairaland.
In Jesus name, it works together for my good!!!!

Thank you for asking o.

cassyrooy:
Lol! My mind drifted to the physical, my bad.

Cassyrooy rooy rooy

Maeka:
MY FRND, THE HEART OF A WOMAN IS AS DEEP LIKE AN OCEAN YOU CAN DEEP INTO DE SEEING THE END

Answer me first naa, why you dey dodge?
Women don`t like this dodgy attitude o.
Hope you answer questions when she asks?
So it doesn`t push her into more drinking o.

cassyrooy:
For clarity, explain what you meant with 'you're not grabbing' and 'grabbing with style'.

When I asked why are you not grabbing, I actually was referring to grabbing the opportunity of having a good woman like her.
But see where your mind come waka go

Maeka:
WOMEN CAN BE VERY FUNNY AND PRETENDING FORBAS LONG AS DEY CAN HOLD IT....

Are you saying you were not the oone that taught her?
Because you are my very first suspect.

When you guys were dating or at that Corporate party many years ago, didn`t you encourage her to loosen up with just a gulp of drink?

cassyrooy:
Lol! Na every good person wey come our life we go marry?

A lot of us are not there yet, and we just want to maintain what we have going.

Your use and description of women as 'grabby' is rather objectifying, it doesn't need to get to that level bro.

Objectifying how?
See where your mind carry you go.

The idiomatic statement, "grab opportunity with both hands" na sexual talk?

The tailor tried ssmall.
She should re-do the ants

Plus, she ought to have used chiffon material.

Maeka:
when i look at THE WOMAN in de pic wit de way she value her children, i was a kind of God dis is the kind of wife i praid for, unlike my wife, she WILL GET DRUNK AND LEAVE MY DAUGHTER TO WALk THE WHOLE STREE IN MY AREA...

You say wetin?
Who taught her how to drink? Who introduced her to drinking??

UDUJ:
Tautology accepted

*eyes rolling*
See as you give me work.

cassyrooy:
Lol! Good question. Here's the thing, I'm a good guy but I wouldn't restrict such prayers to just myself.

Me o, another guy o, as long as she's happy and gets the required appreciation she deserves, it doesn't matter anymore.

See as I dey look you.'
She is good and you`re not grabbing (or maybe you`re "grabbing" with style)

descartes400:
For those finding it difficult to drink water in the morning should always keep a bottle of groundnuts by the side...just chew a few seeds and you will be drinking lots and lots of water. It works for me!

Please can you suggest another fruit/food?
I break out bad when i eat gnut.

cassyrooy:
MissJoy29 this is the kinda husband God should send your way, in fact, he won't just be saying nicer things but be doing them.

Why aren`t you the "man God would send her way", since you think she`s that good?

baddosky1:
Go and drive a Dangote truck from Obajana to Sokoto and back under 48hrs before we can debate this empty talk.

Men are strong, no doubt.
How many men drive dangote trucks?

Thewesterner:
This is one of the REAL SLAT QUEENS... Not all these I neva chop

The man spent on her o.
Infact, that was one of the reasons she fell in love.
Every woman is similar in that respect.
Woman wey no wan chop your money fit stubborn well well.

UDUJ:
Care to explain yourself

UDUJ:

Hardworking mums deserve all the respect they can get. It's never easy juggling taking care of the home and kids alongside their day jobs.
Modified by boyjo 3:44 15/3/18

Tautology.

thunderbabs:
Who beat una?

Chai! I cry take hand cover eye.
The message was just too emotional my bradaa.
Especially that part when the man talk say she no dey respond to him bullshit
The poor woman just dey bear everything.

Pat081:
bros u re ntin but a man with good brain some useless naira land gals will cum here dey form big boss n lazy at home n only dia husband is doing every work at home ooooooo

This lie just dey smell anyhow

thunderbabs:
Which one be B.S again oo, edakun?. Mk u no giv me abomination chop

hahaha...you well my bradaa.
Oya Ojuororun explain

DreamSonInlaw:
Is for greater good...do you know how many men he has inspired to change their attitudes with that?

Don`t mind that Caustics jor. He feels like being odd today.

DreamSonInlaw:
Make wuna stop they make use of all this white couple or white babies picture. This is cultural imperialism.

You no fit use Gabrielle Union and Dwayne Wade abi Uncle Olu Jacob and Auntie Joke?

It is hard to see black couple pictures in the posiition that best expresses your imagination.
More of such pictures comes with white couples.
You have to search harder or longer to find a black couple`s best fit

oloriooko:
Simple question: who took the photograph

The man naah.