greenie77:


Yes, still traditionally married to him. Only her family can push for the return of the bride price but from your narration, they are also against the divorce.

Yeah the family don't want the divorce.

can she move to to the lover's house without some evil befalling them since the bride price wasn't returned ?

maynia:


Nothing wrong in raising a bastard? Your wife cheated to get that bastard? And still lied to you to raise a bastard? And nothing is wrong?

I don't think you are married or even have a child that's why it's very easy for you to call an innocent child a bastard which says much about you and your upbringing.

It doesn't change a thing for me I'll still love and care for the child i won't drag aninnocent child into it.

greenie77:
They can't go ahead to marry themselves especially when the woman is still legally married and not yet a divorcee.

They are not in a rush to get married now till after the divorce process. The thing is since the man didn't accept the bride price is she still married traditionally to the man ?

Hello good day y'all

We all know how people frown against sleeping with a married woman So I've been wondering if there's any repercussion in getting married to a divorced woman since she's no longer married.

Picture the scenario below:

A young couple trying to build their career couldn't end up together because one of them was under serious pressure from home to get married ASAP and she obliged . Two years later the other got married and they both kept the communication line open.

Now they both have children with their different spouses and I'll say they are both financially okay.

Right now the lady is willing to divorce her husband and come back to her former lover while the man also wants to divorce his wife but the bone of contention is that the lady's husband is refusing the bride price and the lady's family are not in support of her decision.

If they eventually go ahead and get married are there going to be repercussions.

Justbehave:
SIMPle man by nature.

Boy I don't have time for shenanigans, everything you've written up there is pointing to your upbringing, emancipate yourself from poverty mentality because it's obvious poverty has woven itself into the very fabric of your mental faculty.

So are you trying to say you can't see a hungry child on the street and give him money to feed?

Justbehave:
That's your type of man. Men who don't have a say in their marriages just because their wives is their meal ticket.

I'm not the subject of discussion here so my networth is inconsequential, you've been writing "men like you" I don't know what you plan to achieve by trying to provoke me into saying personal stuffs but I know better.

In your mind you'll think you are doing me you are only disgracing your parents in my mention. Like the saying goes "apples don't fall far from the tree"

Justbehave:
Tega's husband was begging her to come back home after she was bleeped on life TV.

Are you the most stupid person on Nairaland or you are just trying so hard to upset me this morning

Well from the sentence above I can see you are still a child, maybe when you grow up you'll understand life better but I doubt because my godson won't say those rubbish you wrote up there.

Justbehave:
All these boys weh their wife they feed will not see anything wrong with that so I can't fault you.

Madam there's nothing wrong in raising a child you didn't father. Presently I'll do anything for my godson let alone a child under my roof answering my name.

common woman have some sense.

anaton:


So who is the legal father if not the one that fathered the child??

Does depositing your semen in a woman makes you a father ?

Going to Church has really helped me tho in this My village people don't take church serious.
But going to churh has helped stopped being a Bully and I'm gradually working on my pride.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


It more disgraceful and disgusting that this is coming from a man, except you’re a woman hiding under the moniker of a man.

Madam we don't share same beliefs so don't force me to accept nonsense.

This kind tori na for children let me read and move on

Verysmart101:


Abeg joor.Stop supporting unfaithfulness in marriages pls.If it was ur husband who got another woman pregnant u would have poisoned him since

What can I possibly achieve by killing him ?

I can raise another man's child I don't give AF. If tomorrow the child decides to go meet his/her biological father due to one or two reasons then so be it.

the guy dealt with him.

Well that's life you don't always win.

Does it really matter who fathered the child? what matters most is who's raising the child and that's the legal father

alphaNomega:
Brandonx and HRMK, read up and get the answer to all your police questions

Woman I've told you I'm on vacation but you've decided in your heart to infuriate me.

What are the MODS doing ? Can't they see you're deliberately breaking rule 2

Disclaimer! I am not a police PRO neither am I defending the NPF.

To answer your question I'll look at the keynote in the post. A crime was committed and he was obviously around the crime scene so it's not a crime for him to be questioned (but we know the NPF wants money so there's no point shouting just negotiate your bail)
The poster used the word "Beat" you don't beat someone who's not provoking you.
When you know you are innocent you get angry and would want to fight but unfortunately it doesn't work in Nigeria so I believe he tried to get physical with the police and unfortunately he didn't make it.

sewenbigboi:

You’re talking in the rubbish
It’s not your fault it’s because you’ve never jam those police squad that are crazy
Those that will arrest u because u use car or because u use iPhone
Moreover why did police have to stop you and ask for your phone what are u saying?
Are you telling me stoping you and asking for your phone is normal?
I guess you’re a police officer they came into my apartment few days ago to arrest one of my neighbors they checked his apartment but couldn’t find him they came to my apartment and was asking for my neighbor they don’t even know him
My wife and kid isn’t around they searched all my house, without seeing anything they forced my phone from me they took me away I can’t contact anyone or my lawyer they switched my phone off and everything and was demanding for 1.5m from me because I have binance app on my phone
They checked all my phone including my private conversations with my wife and family he listen to
All my voice noise i haven’t withness this before in my life I told them I’m into buying and selling of cars they checked my phone and see proof of it
I can’t forget that day the policeman telling my sister that night that he will kill me and dump me and nobody will know all because of money
Threatening me with death I was shocked �
I weap for this country

From your writeup I can deduce you are arrogant and that's what get you kids in police problem.

When a police man controls you he expects your full cooperation, but when you try to tell him you know your rights and ridicule him, he'll then show you in Nigeria he is the law.

Stories plenty na.But the one I can't forget in a hurry is one man that went ahead to build a shrine at the back of my house.

Gave him a quit notice Oga refused to move out of the house .

EndRape2:
They should use juju on you, not us, you lack sense.




uote author=Brandonx post=106164477]She looks hurt . Why jump at all.

If you are bold enough to take some decisions then be very bold to face whatever comes out of it.

If she had stayed back the woman can't kill her, she'll just jelely pack her load and leave but if the wife wants to fight, beat her up and leave, who knows luck may smile on her and the man might just wife her and divorce the real wife.

Girls if you want to date men (married ones) please use juju on us .

Any man foolish enough to get a side chick should be ready to face anything.
I'm still saying it any girl that wants to date married men should use better juju.

I'm in a nice mood that's why I'm just going to pretend I didn't read the part where you wrote you lack sense.

The first picture looks cute but the second picture That dog looks like a witchcraft animal.

Dog be looking like sughusughu

If he's not dating him then she should show us her rich lover she's been talking about.

Anyways that's not my headache she's still a small boy with time he'll understand how like works.

She looks hurt . Why jump at all.

If you are bold enough to take some decisions then be very bold to face whatever comes out of it.

If she had stayed back the woman can't kill her, she'll just jelely pack her load and leave but if the wife wants to fight, beat her up and leave, who knows luck may smile on her and the man might just wife her and divorce the real wife.

Girls if you want to date men (married ones) please use juju on us .

First OP how old are you?

Why not visit a dermatologist?

PerfectlyPerfect:

I've seen them harassing a young man putting on senator wear. No dey talk this rubbish

Your father might be talking nonsense that's your headache I've said my own.

My spouse has a very high libido. We've never had sex related issues

alphaNomega:
I guess you wanted to write "mad man"

I can't stop you from posting what you want but remember others are seeing your posts too. This forum is not as anonymous as you think so be careful.

Enjoy your vacation

Woman don't you have stuffs to do today?

alphaNomega:
obviously, you're not bright. That's why you keep making senseless comments on important threads.

I only hope you don't learn the hard way. The country is already so bad.

Madam I'm not in the mood this morning.

I'm on vacation allow me post whatever I want in peace.

alphaNomega:
Are you okay at all? When will you learn that police does not care how you look like before they harass you?

That's a question for your parents because they did a terrible job raising you.
Just look at how you turned out

bepositive11:


Very true. So many parents do this. Very sad to see

Parents need to guide their children to some extent but expecting their children to live the dreams they never got to pursue is unfair. Everyone is entitled to living their own dreams

God bless you
Most persons bringing their frustration to my mention don’t know what it means first hand to have a parent control their life.

I don’t know why Nigerians are kicking against taking the vaccine. People have taken it since March, 1st and 2nd doses and waiting for a 3rd sef (tho the government is still contemplating it) and Nigerians are running from the vaccine like a plague.