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RomanceRe: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Breadwinner(m): 9:39am On Nov 13, 2023
Magnoliaa:
And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?
In my opinion, the greatest submission a man can do is to ask for your hand in marriage. That ultimately signifies he is putting his future and that of his offspring in your care. The truth is a woman has huge impact on the direction the future of her husband and children will go, a woman can destroy and also build. It's not easy for a man to destroy especially in a case where the woman brough nothing into the union in the first place. A man is most likely to build a woman up likely in a direction that favours him of course but that matter little since he is the head. What I think is the problem now is, most women have their own plan which might not favor the husband sometimes but they still want him to contribute to achieving of that plan, that's when the fight starts and she stops being submissive.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Breadwinner(m): 7:25am On Jul 19, 2023
As a person who likes to study and understand how various human mind works, I believe sometimes women don't know that the solitude they believe they are experiencing is just absence of male headache, constant anxiety from worrying about not having enough money to get what they desire, random ehsss fine girl (as thugs or touts like to say when they see pretty Nigerian girls on the road especially alone) and much more mind disturbing a things like that. Why I say this is, if a good guy comes that is gentle, understands them, give them time to be themselves and do what they want, they will still feel solitude....#I am very interested in female responses to this my hypothesis.
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by Breadwinner(m): 1:10pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hi oluwajuwonlo,

I don't know much about other schools right now. But I know Uwindsor might have some programs open now for May 2023 session. Try and go through the programs you might be interested in on their site. And you can always send an email to the school if you need more clarification on their admission.

I hope this helps.

oluwjuwonlo:
Thank you for the reply, please jenny, do you know of any school still open for January or can i apply for may or September for Windsor now ?
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Breadwinner(m): 6:23pm On Jul 28, 2022
francisxbee:
There's a whatsapp group for naija windsor students if you're interested.
please I am interested in joining the Windsor group. I am for January 2023 resumption and already submitted my study visa application. Kindly share the group link with me
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Breadwinner(m): 12:11pm On Jun 29, 2022
Jenny255:
Please which payment method did you use?

If it’s the card option, does it accept naira card or just usd?

If it’s form A, which bank did you use and how long before you were debited?

Also did you get any winter schedule doc after paying your fees?

Thanks.
Hi Jenny,
I used my USD debit card to pay. It was pretty direct. I did not receive any winter schedule doc. I believe that will be sent later in the year through your student account. The main thing is first to cement your space by paying for the tuition deposit.
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Breadwinner(m): 6:59pm On Jun 28, 2022
Jenny255:
Hello everyone,

Any university of Windsor January 2023 student that had paid his/her tuition deposit here?

Please I need to clarify something, kindly indicate.
Thanks
Hi Jenny.
I am a University of Windsor January 2023 admission student also. What would you like to be clarified on?
CareerRe: BCS May 2021 Session Results Are Out! by Breadwinner(m): 11:10am On Jan 08, 2022
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I am interested in the materials for level 4 BCS certificate. Kindly respond
CareerRe: Thread For May 2021 BCS Certificate Exam by Breadwinner(m): 11:51pm On May 27, 2021
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I would like to be added to any group involving material and knowledge sharing about the coming September or past BCS exam. Thanks in advance.
RomanceRe: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Breadwinner(m): 1:57am On Mar 29, 2021
#Just tell her Tule Joor and hope she gets it grin
#and now on a more serious note. I think you can take the soft approach. Just tell her to take it easy on laying the emotions on you, that you are still trying to figure out how far you wanna take what’s between both of you. In the mean time, she should try and keep herself in check as much as possible. And follow up with regular reminders
#Always glad to be there for a brother.
EducationRe: Unilag Transcript Help by Breadwinner(m): 5:03pm On Feb 27, 2021
Hi, i am facing similar issues regards my transcript application. Can you please tell me what you did in sorting the problem. Thanks
Jokes EtcRe: When The Person That Convinced Everybody In The Office To Join MMM Comes To Work by Breadwinner(m): 4:15pm On Dec 16, 2016
For the educated ones...they call something Going Concern, its has important in selecting investment has the source of capital. My point is, you come carry your savings 'some call it spare cash'..WTF is spare cash?...and u now come and go and invest it in a business u dnt know when it will shut down..thats the dumbest business move....Because they see awoof money, most Nigerians doing mmm will be living beyond their means and at the end of the day, when it crashes...hehehehe, u now relegate....what a shame
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu Flashes Cleavage At 3 Thrones Concert, Lagos by Breadwinner(m): 3:50pm On Oct 24, 2016
Hau-kkkkkk I ammmm se-see-seeing summm sum su thing..#sta ma mer ma ring...no vex
CelebritiesRe: Tayo Sobola Flaunts Her Pink Iphone 7 [PICS] by Breadwinner(m): 3:58pm On Sep 25, 2016
Please I want to see how it looks like too...can you dash me?
RomanceRe: Girl Says Jesus Fed 5000 People And Didn't Ask Anyone To Off Pant, Guy Replies by Breadwinner(m): 3:44pm On Sep 25, 2016
If Jesus didn't use his divine power but money to buy those 5000 bread..some girls would have went behind the scene to off pant for him...Dem one catch ATM...no be so?
Science/TechnologyRe: Big Grass Cutter Killed By My Neighbour Now by Breadwinner(m): 8:27am On Sep 18, 2016
#praying...WE Have foodddd and we can eattttt

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